How do you deal with hating everyone?
I fucking hate how common it is for sheltered private school girls who grew up in nice neighbourhoods with college educated parents to ralk about "white privlege" as if every white person is privleged like they are.
Fuck out of here.. You don't know shit able ut privlege.
I find it hard not to rage when I hear these types thinking every white person is automatically privleged because of their skin colour.
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Let me get this straight: you're mad that someone who is more privileged than you is acknowledging that they are privileged?
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>>18433373
reread the post
OP is basically saying these rich white people have no idea that poor white people exist. These people basically think that if you're white, you should be well off and something is wrong with you for not taking advantage of your "privilege".
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>>18433373
No I am mad that some is assuming I am privileged just because I'm white.
I am mad that people say white privlege even though a white person can be from a 3rd world country.
I am mad that I get labelled privleged when I had a shitty childhood in government housing when there are Asian kids who know two languages due to their up bringing and went to private schools.
I am mad that no matter how much I explain this shit nobody will listen.
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Yo,
Need some help on this.
So my friend, lets call him J, is super fucking clingy. I've known him for 5 years now and until recently he was alright. Recently though he's just been so damn annoying and no matter how many times we hang out he's literally begging me to hang with him again the next day. and it's so awkward too because he begs me to buy him drinks and stuff. He's cool and means well but ugh, it's so annoying waking up with messages from 10pm to 7am begging to hang out (although I work at 5-9).
Fair enough he misses me and all but fuck, it's stressing me the hell out and I don't know what do it. Should I just keep ignoring him for hours at a time? I'm wayyyy to fucking busy to hang out 24/7. Or should I say something to him? What should I say so I don't sound like a dick...
>wants to hang monday
>ughhhhh, fineeeee
>wants to hang thursday too
>nah, busy
>pleaseeeeeeeeeee
>fuckkkkk, fineeeeeeeeeeeeee
>dropping him back home on thursday night
>he turns to my mum
> (without even mentioning it to me) "heeyyy, uhm what do you think about me sleeping over on satruday and sunday night?
>mum (without even asking me) sure, we'd love to have you!
>stressful and awkward as fuck saturday night is over
>monday night comes over fir dinner
>mum (without asking me again) "hey J would you like to come on a trip with us next weekend? we'll be gone for two nights and you can sleep with anon"
>smiles awkwardly "yeah..."
Fuckin save me 4chan. I can't take this much longer, like legit. it's actually depressing. I can't go 10 minutes without 5 messages asking me what I'm doing or if I wanna hang or whatever. fml
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first you need to talk to your mom about it
say that you still want to see him every now and then but you REALLY need some space
if you're not an adult yet, you really need to make it clear to her. If you're a full grown man just fucking tell him to fuck off and give you some space or else you guys really wont be friends.
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First off, get your mom on your side by simply telling her how it is - Mom, J is OK but asks to hang out way more than I want to hang out with him. If he skirts around me and asks you direct, can you help me by running interference?
If she's on-side then that's that bit cleared up at least. Note: You don't have to rip on J to your mom for this to work, you're just being straight about it and asking her to put the ball back in your court.
Second, stop fobbing your friend off when he's being pushy. Hanging a couple of times a week is cool but again be straight - Next time he asks one too many times in a week 'Dude, I like hanging with you but not every night, couple of times a week is cool'.
tl;dr just be straight with everyone, dodging around shit isn't helping you.
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>>18433357
Man up and bring it up with him, ask him why he's being so clingy
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I'm 22, and I have an 18 year old sister. My sister has a good friend of the same age that I've known ever since they were both about 13.
I consider her friend to be a close friend of mine as well, we have always got along, been on good terms, I chat with her on text from time to time, etc
We've hung out without my sister a couple times, in a lot of ways she's like another little sis.
Over the last couple years or so, ever since they were about 16, my sisters friend (let's call her "meme"), started looking at me different, and talking to me differently. I see a glimmer in her eyes that I only see around people I've dated.
She giggle or laughs sometimes even if what I said wasn't funny, and she touches my arm and things like that. She hugs me more often and for longer.
I thought I was being paranoid and weird, so I brushed this off until a couple months ago when meme was going through a breakup. We were hanging, and She kissed me out of nowhere, on the lips, and when I asked why she said she "needed it"
meme kept doing affectionate things towards me until I noticed that I was getting very sexually attracted to her based on all the stuff she was torturing me with.
Everytime I see her now I'm hard as a rock the entire time, and it takes all my willpower not to make a move and take her to bed and make love to her when my sister isn't here.
She knows it too, she grins and winks and smirks when she sees how uncomfortable I am.
I'm seriously considering doing it, but I love her like a sister and I don't want to ruin our so far platonic relationship.
What do I do? Does anyone have any experience dealing with complicated relationships like this?
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>>18433279
To be man and go out with her.
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>>18433279
Sex your sister
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>>18433353
Incest is wincest
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So the other day I renewed my drivers license. I sat down for the picture and the female dmv clerk took my picture. She asks "is this one fine?". I glance at the display and say "looks good!". She does a quick chuckle. I took time to do my hair and wear a nice shirt, I knew this picture will be on my license for awhile. She hands me my temporary paper license and I drive back to my apartment. I feel pretty bad right now. I have lost 40 pounds the last year and have been trying to improve my life. This interaction set me back a bit friends. It is almost like she thought I was being confidently sarcastic with being an ugly person. I honestly think I lam looking better, but she laughed openly to my face, in a professional setting.
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or maybe she was flirting?
low confidence makes you see everything from a negative perspective. fucking stop it already
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>went to the dmv
>the girl was nice
>now i feel terrible
you are overthinking way too much
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>>18433266
What?
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>friend basically od'd on adderall 4 days ago
>got severe debilitating side effects (anxiety, constant panic attacks, paranoia, etc)
>it's been 3-4 days and she still has constant panic attacks and persecetury delusions
>she's worried she's going to be like this forever
>is seeing a psychologist or something tomorrow
is she going to be like this forever? I can't seem to find anything about a particular situation like this, like the severe anxiety, paranoia and persecetury delusions lasting more than 1 day after having a too high dose of an amphetamine
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>>18433257
Did she take the extended release? Might want to go to the ED. I can't say she'll be like this forever, but it's not healthy and she's overstimulated. An Ed physician would know what to do. Diazepam and maybe beta blockers may be the right counter to her overstimulation BUT DONT GIVE IT TO HER IF YOU HAVE SOME!
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Drugs can fuck with a persons head.
It is very possible that she will start having panic attacks often now.
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>>18433257
All females are delusional.
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Why do people lie about the importance of money and resources when it comes to women ? 2017-06-19 05:28:16 Post No.18433222
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Why do people lie about the importance of money and resources when it comes to women ?
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Why does everybody say that personality and confidence are the most important things when it comes having a relationship ?
Nowadays, in order for a relationship to work/last men have to or at least appear to be "financially" successful.
These are just a few examples of what I've just said (I'm sure you've heard these before) :
Between 2:37 and 2:50 minutes
https://youtu.be/8j7H6WruSmY?t=157
https://youtube.com/watch?v=8ORQJtxicrA
https://youtu.be/ZS6--6jL5r8?t=2m43s
>I lost a whole bunch of money, chasing bitches, but I never lost no bitches chasing money.
>How real is that ?
>Only time, a woman made a man a millionaire, was when that man was a former billionaire
>How trill is that ?
What I'm trying to say is that vast majority of women simply want men who have their whole lives/shit in order.
Women don't want a man who's a "work in progress".
Lastly, have you ever had a 50/50 relationship with a woman (girlfriend, wife) ?
Did you two actually feel the same about each other ?
Did you two make an effort to help one another ?
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>>18433222
>True
>True
>No, but some have deluded themselves into believing it was.
>Sure, that's a vague question though.
>Of course.
Many women essentially want extensions of a fatherly paternal figure to take care of them, even if they have their shit together. Others don't, move on. You seem to already know what the majority of women are like, so who cares? Move on and do your best.
Most dudes are real shitloads of fuck too. Real piles of shit. A lot of women that can't get wealthy men are attracted to these guys because power is power, whether is physical strength, social power, or drugs.
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Im gonna bump this because more guys could learn from this
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nobody ever "lied" about that. you just heard whatever you wanted to feel better about being a dead end loser.
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I think I am a psychopatH 2017-06-19 05:21:42 Post No.18433210
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I think I am a psychopatH
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I am impulsive, a compulsive liar. I hate myself want to rid the world of my existence, but an online helper told me not to. I dont want that to be another elaborate excuse though.
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Why not? You should be looking for any excuse not to kill yourself, dude. Not to be cliche, but I'm sure there's plenty of reasons to stay alive.
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>>18433210
A psychopath wouldn't feel hate or the emotions necessary to consider suicide unless it was out of curiosity.
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>>18433210
I used to think I was a psychopath.
Then I went to psychologist and found out I'm borderline aspergers.
Aspergers and psychopaths share a lot of the same traits like detachment from emotions, lack of empathy, difficulty understand what others feel, impulse control etc
Only way to know is to get tested
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Hello. I'm 21. College drop out & i was considering joining the U.S military. I was planning on enlisting into the U.S Navy. I wanted to know if it's actually worth joining just to gain the benefits & having the military pay for my college. I want to go to film school but it's too expensive. I currently work but i feel like a change of environment would help me take my life seriously & teach me responsibility. You don't have to be a current sailor or veteran to answer although it would be perfered.
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Army vet. Went through school on the GI Bill. I do not have, and never had, any college debt.
Why did you drop out of college? This is important because if you cannot handle college, there is a very large change you cannot handle the military.
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I didnt take college seriously & now i regret it. Wasted 3 years pretty much doing nothing. I wanna do better & i think the military will help & teach me.
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>I want to do X school but its too expensive
welcome to reality, where if you were born without money you literally cannot do jack fucking shit
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Tfw sexually repulsive, and all I want is someone to cuddle and hold hands with, but i can't even have that
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Become un-sexually repulsive.
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>>18433099
I'm a black autist, l can't
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>>18433108
I'm black and was autistic acting until I hit 25. If I can, so can you.
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I'm a 20 year old atheist-man, and I've decided to become a carpenter and start a family.
I'll probably raise my children as Christians.
Acceptance and perception are powerful tools to lead a good-life in this world.
I've come to use them to permanently divert from a course of suffering in my life-time.
I'm glad I spent 5 months doing nothing but playing video games.
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>>18433080
don't reproduce please.
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>>18433083
You're too late.
Far too late for now, anyway.
I've decided to do what is best for me.
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You can be accepted and be an atheist, just lie about it like the rest of us.
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In love with my sister 2017-06-19 03:37:28 Post No.18433017
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Hey anons. So, here goes. So, I'm in my late teens and my sister is 16. I've had a rough time understanding my own feelings, and what love is, for a very long time. I've tried other relationships, which always fail miserably because deep down I don't really love the other person. But recently I've been truthful and introspective with myself, and feeling I now know what love really is, I've realized I've been in love with my sister for a long time now.
It's the reason I've broken of other relationships. I didn't even realize it at the time, but I always thought "If I date this person, then it takes time and effort away that I could use taking care of my sister". I don't know how I didn't realize it sooner (Or didn't accept it, rather), but she's been the reason why my other relationships have failed, because I've really been in love with her the whole time.
When I think about it, there's no one in the world I've ever felt truly comfortable with, or felt like I've been able to express myself as who I am, except with her. She's the only person I'd ever want to be with, the only person I could ever feel intimate with enough to have sex with, the only person I'd want to marry, to have kids, to grow old with.
Over the years there have been times I've felt like this, but always deemed it as a sick fetish of mine. To many, how I feel about her may sound like infatuation. But because I've felt like this about her for so long, and been at terms with it for many months now, I can assure you it's not.
She feels like a part of me. We come from a rocky family situation, and over the years, since we were very little, it's felt like we've only really had each other.
But the obvious problem, we're siblings. I've dreaded the day when we grow up and move apart for ages now, and the older we get the sooner that day will come. (We still both live with our parents) I really want to confess to her, but I really don't know if she feels the same way. And- (Continued in next comment)
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Not because I think you should be eradicated, but because you'll never be happy in life.
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>>18433017
It's 2017 and love is love. All social "norms" are over. Do what you want, and have zero regrets and if anything bad happens just look to the state to take care of you.
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>>18433028
don't do #4, #9 unless it's against a tree or brick wall, or #13 please. those ones are very inconsiderate.
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My wife is 16 years older than me. Today some old cunt at an event at her church asked us if I was her son.
Now she's crying her eyes out saying how old she feels compared to me.
How do I make my wife not feel old?
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Why would you ever marry someone 16 years older than you? Especially a woman. Unless you're 20 then she's way past prime fertility.
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>>18432930
I'm not here to be criticized for my decision about who I married.
I'm just here to ask how to make her feel better.
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Idk just tell her how beautiful she is and that you love her and her being young is not why you married her?
Also you can tell the old cunt 'oh dear, are you having trouble with your eyesight? They say it gets worse when you get old. This is obviously my wife. Poor dear. Would you like my optometrist's number? But given how old you are, i'm not sure they could help much...'
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I just don't get liberals 2017-06-19 02:37:58 Post No.18432844
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I just don't get liberals
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Grew up kinda left, but when they started getting weirder I swayed right. Now they've gotten to the point, with adding black and brown to the LGBT flag that it just seems like a bunch of nonsense to me forming coalitions against anything wasp.
being white, obviously i don't feel welcome anymore as its gotten to be a movement far different from when i was in college a decade ago.
now its infiltrating my work environment and while i've always sought common ground with people in the past i just find i can't do it anymore. My friends at work are getting more polarized and while I'm not political, they are, and they ostracizing me for not being 'on their side.'
is there something i'm not getting? To me they seem insane but its so prevalent i feel like i must be crazy for taking it personally, or maybe they are, i just don't know anymore. Am i supposed to find common ground with them? How?
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You're being over-dramatic, you interact with liberals every day and you don't even know it.
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>and they ostracizing me for not being 'on their side.'
They're giving you an ultimatum.
"you're either with us, or against us".
I generally don't like being controlled by people, so my policy is "In the event of an ultimatum, I am always against whoever issued it".
Shit, you could try to tell me "Hey, you, hate pedophiles or else", and while I do think they are a threat and danger to others around them, I'd stick up a few posters "Pedos aren't all molestors" out of nothing more than spite.
If more people adopted this idea, there would be less shaming and alienating, and more persuading instead.
If you want me to join you, use your words and convince me, attempt to use emotional blackmail and I'll fuck you, even if I'm limp dicked and another sip of whiskey from being blacked out, and you're an uggo.
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>>18432852
which is why its never bothered me. Most people use politics as a social proxy, in my opinion. They could know fuck-all about their party but it doesn't stop them from being a fanatic to get the sense of self-righteousness that comes with hating the 'other'
I've always been cool with them until they cast the first stone so to speak
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>I generally don't like being controlled by people, so my policy is "In the event of an ultimatum, I am always against whoever issued it".
I like this. articulates why i have a visceral rejection of them. Even if I can see sense in the occasional justification they have, it doesn't come from bridge building. I don't like groupthought and I never see it happening more than with this new breed of democrat ive seen lately.
>out of nothing more than spite.
i do this too. maybe its counter productive though.
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Nagging/Condescending GF 2017-06-19 02:27:30 Post No.18432825
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Well its finally happened, /adv/
I thought I was special somehow, that I wouldn't have to deal with this like other men had, but its the thing most men hate - nagging.
At first I was more 'alpha,' and she was sweeter before she was more comfortable. When she got condescending and self-righteous I had a way of putting it down earlier in the relationship, but somewhere along the way I got comfortable, picked my battles, and had life happen in various ways that I didn't always combat her when I needed to. Now I think I've lost her respect and don't know how to get back 'hand' so to speak. Thing is, I don't know if I should just end the relationship; we're kind of running our course and I don't know if my lack of rebutting her is a symptom of this. I'm starting to resent her for it but short of lashing out I've not figured out a calm way of coming back at her.
How do you curb nagging and get respect back in a relationship after long? Is it inevitable? How do I fix this?
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do you want to move on or do you want to diffuse it?
gun to your head, do you want to fix this?
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let her know she's doing it, let her know it bothers you, ask her to knock it off
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>>18432825
This is kinda happening with me right now, but gender roles reversed. My bf is actually really naggy. Seriously, naggy like the stereotypical female would be. He's always been the more alpha, but not like this. I'm nagged on the daily about driving, my house, my money, my mannerisms etc. It's typically really passive-aggressive. And usually a "You ALWAYS do this and you ALWAYS do that."
I, too, have gotten resentful. I personally feel attacked and kind of unloved or like it's slipping away.
It's been ongoing for about 6 months and we have been together for several years. Sometimes I wonder if this is the mark of the end.
I've been putting reflection into it. And I've been thinking to try somethings I've come up with:
1. Don't show frustration back
2. Reason the nag. If it's the most insignificant thing like a dish in the sink, say calmly, "hey it'll be done as soon as I'm done doing x" and give an affectionate gesture like a kiss on the cheek. This way you are establishing independence, reassurance, and closeness. Obviously follow through is important though.
I kinda just feel like I have to respond to all the nagging with kindness and openess. Idk, I'm just gonna try it. I've been pretty jokey back to him, maybe a little sarcastic, and it's not helping.
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Im gonna make this really short.
A long friendship I had with a girl ended because I am a richfag and she wanted shit but I didnt give her shit and now people said I said shit about her that I didnt and her bf wants to fight me. However I dont want to fight because I have liek 50 pounds and half a foot on him. I am also a second degree black belt so it will be a one sided fight. I just dont want this to end in a conflict so could someone tell me some other options I have. I take the same bus as her and her boyfriend so I will see them tomorrow morning.
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>>18432797
nothing you can reasonably do other then not engage. and if you're a second degree blackbelt you should know enough to put him in his place without seriously injuring him, and if you slip or whatever he deserves it
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>>18432797
If said boyfriend wants to throw hands and your a qualified martial artist, it should not be difficult to subdue him or some shit and let him cool off without hurting him or you, after he cools off explain your side of the story
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so if she has boyfriend, what kind of a cuck would you be to be buying her shit instead>?
gtfo, gimp.