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>>18433840
Why would you change being nice to others?
Seems like a good feature

this is probably just a distortion you're having due to the fact you're upset, maybe depressed and frustrated

>>18433840
Being nice to people doesn't carry any negative consequences, being mean to people can carry very negative social consequences. Especially if you're mean for no reason besides to be mean, then people will just think you're an asshole and not like you.

Nothing wrong with telling your 'other' off in that way at all. You asked nicely, he didn't take the hint. So you won't feel like the 'nagging wife', get him his own toothbrush holder deep enough that it doesn't spill over and NEVER clean it. You already stated it's not your job to constantly clean up after him. Enjoy your filthy toothbrush honey!

>>18433786
>into the glass
get a toothbrush holder, they're made for wet toothbrushes. like I don't understand.

>>18433834
what about other stuff that i can't just let him "rott in his own filth" if it bugs me? like him letting his dirty clothes lay around everywhere? i just feel like it makes me look like a fucking witch to ALWAYS remind him to please pick up his dirty socks in the living room, but i also don't think it's my job to pick them up for him and i really don't like it when they just keep laying there.

Tell her to seek therapy? So many people don't go to psychologists or therapists because they think it means they are crazy. Mental health is so fucking important.

>>18433569
I don't know how she'll take that in but also I don't think she is in the financial situation to seek therapy. She's the only child and her mom is a nurse in a small clinic. She don't have a dad either.

>>18433586
Next time you are talking about her problems tell her you had similar issues with depression and sought therapy.

It may be a sweet little lie but they will help her.

get fan
get shallow thing of water and place in front of fan
get thin cotton towel/cloth thing and clip it up such that it's dangling directly in front of fan and bottom edge is in water
turn fan on

Blackout drapes for blocking sunlight. Rotating fan with ice and water filled cooler in front of said fan. Cooking only rooms you care about. Increased airflow with multiple windows open for maximum windage. Not being a bitch.

Some cheap ass cooling methods.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y2XU2uAxYYM

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ITtlxjvLQis

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lDlL-b6kVx4

>>18433533
If he's ignoring you and the situation, it's time to bring out the big guns. It'll make him look bad too. Win Win

>>18433533
>Instructing a lawyer is also costly
It's a minuscule amount compared to how much a house is worth.

>>18433562

Of course. But due to the bad break up, I wanted to try and keep things as reasonable as possible. I'm not after money, I don't want to be an ass, I just want to remove my name from the mortgage.

He's almost definitely ignoring me. I've tried his number, WhatsApp, personal email, work email, absolutely everything and I've been extremely reasonable.

Surely you can think of another name for your child and avoid this situation altogether.

Doesn't sound like a great idea OP. Besides, what if you have triplets?

>>18433518
The only way to know is to talk to them. They could have a really adverse reaction though. Maybe you can explain that you'd planned to call your child this for a long time, before their child was born.
The thing about confronting them though is that if they're not ok with it and you do it anyway you're gonna look like a massive asshole.
What is the name, if I may ask?

That's pretty normal thing. Why don't u try smth that you should do it outside ?

i do go out with my friends when they have the time like go to the bar going out for walks etc its just i feel like ive wasted all that time and money on playing games when now i rlly have no interest anymore lol kinda a dumb issue but kinda gets to me sometimes

>>18433514
Your brain is growing up. It's realizing that these games you are playing does nothing to further your status. Thus, they are boring. Start working out and learning languages.

You are nothing new OP, another self-loathing asian, join the queue of many who complain whilst doing nothing to change themselves for the better.

>>18433512
>being Asian is soooooooo harsh!
Why?

>>18433516
Yeah there's many thing i can do to make better of me. But race is smth that I cannot change whatever shit I do

>>18433487
By not having sex at all

the Jackhammer

>>18433491
this

all penis-in-vagina sex is literal sexual violence inflicted by the penetrator on the recipient, regardless of consent

What's your age? You're probably too young to understand and feel you won't be alone.

Where are you from? Van you do shit outdoors/meet people easily in that area?

The key is just to not care and move on, stick your thoughts to more productive things than the past.

>>18433239
Im 21. I live in a small town where I've lived all my life so I've pretty much gone everywhere already. I'm just really introvert and don't talk much if at all.

So then; is it your first love you're having a hard time about or have you been bored to death for the past couple of years? Filling up an emotional hole with 'love' is just what you're brain does because you're only human.

You can't make them stop completely. You can only become strong enough so that their words do not bother you. Once they see this trait in you they will tone it down.

>>18433213
Does that make me seem doormatish though? I feel like I'm a doormat whenever I agree with them to make them stop.

>>18433219

>agreement

what

He just said not to let what they say bother you.

What, are they asking you to agree with what they're saying? WOWWWW LOL

bro you need to just laugh at them like they're retarded and move on because they are

>Any help is appreciated

Leave her. You don't deserve her. She doesn't need you in her life if instead of manning up you just want someone else to fuck her. Please just leave her and don't put her through the torment of basically being pimped out.

>>18433203
For once, this answer is justified

>>18433201

Better be honest with her about your cuck life. Not even trying to be an asshole, but if you really want her to fuck other guys, just say so. I'm sure she'll jump on the opportunity and their dicks.

I just went through what you're going through about a month ago

this shit was completely inconceivable right? Get used to it bud. Things are never as they seem on the surface. People are good at presenting the best sides of things, like fast food restaurants and their marketing. Ever get a mcdonalds burger that looked as good as the ads? Maybe one or two times where it was just over HALF as good? Yeah, me too and thats real life.

Just greet them both as the friends they are to you and try not to be awkward OP. It's understandably an adjustment and they should probably be understanding, if not, well, you tried.

They're not gonna remain friends, and you can't make it better. Pick your side

It won't be awkward if you don't make it awkward. It'll be awkward if you make it awkward.

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hate to say it dude, but you got what you deserved. those are literal gag-gift shelf dust denizen tier and only a retard would actually use one

>>18433152
>he thinks it's gag shit
Did you just now get broadband?

>>18433152

I know. I looked me into it after the face, I just happened to be a retard that picked one of the bigger toys. Some of them aren't that bad size wise. And they have so many and so many ways to customize, I just wanted some high quality toys since my previous dildos have been smelly/bad tasting cheapos.

Also I normally wouldn't be "hurr durr btw I'm a girl but don't hit on me you silly boys XDDDDD" but I figure vaginas are pretty difference from assholes.