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I applied for a job at a grocery store.
I've been hired and I have training today.
The hiring manager said "tomorrow with David from 7pm-10pm." I don't think David knows I am coming and he will be training me.
Does that mean I should show up at 7 and try to find David? Or should I try to find the hiring manager first?
I am very uncomfortable with unfamiliar situations because of my anxiety. Does anyone know what I will be doing in training?
The hiring manager hasn't given me a uniform so I'm not sure what to wear either.
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Just show up 15 minutes before the agreed upon time. If the situation doesn't work itself out it's not a place you want to be working at, anyway. It's a sign of lackluster communication and lackluster communication makes for a terrible work environment.
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>>18437719
Show up at 7, find the hiring manager., then ask him for David If you don't see him off the bat, just ask a normal manager for David or the hiring manager. You don't need to be walking around looking for someone if you can just speak directly to someone else.
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>>18437719
show up at 6 30, find the manager, blow him, ask for David, find him and blow him, too. All before 7. Everybody wins.
Do you ever act weird in public just because people and everything is so boring and ordinary?
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not really, I like boring and ordinary. it's safe
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Ye i do. Myself, my friends, and my girlfriend all speak in this gibberish language that we've come up with.
We usually start yelling at each other and once people decide that we're insane we laugh and leave.
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>>18437708
I act weird in public because I'm socially retarded.
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I'm 20 and have recently noticed I don't get morning wood. Ever. But I don't really have any problems getting hard. Should I be worried?
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>>18437680
No.
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>>18437680
Go to the doc, measure your Testosterone level
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Morning wood is just your pee pee getting hard so you don't piss in bed
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>been with bf 18 months, friends for several years
>he loses interest in sex for seemingly genuine reason
>continues for months
>he seems less romantic, there's less kisses, less cuddles, less conversation
>more phone and internet usage by both of us, less time communicating
>losing spark quickly, I'm also losing interest in sex because it never happens
>I start noticing things wrong with the relationship
>scared of losing our amazing connection
>relationship becomes a cycle of me trying to say what is wrong but badly, then him feeling attacked
>no way of bringing this up without him naturally becoming defensive
I don't want this to fail. What do I do?
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He left the honeymoon stage of the relationship before you did so you're questioning things.
I went through something similar. I talked to him about it all, and we both made efforts to spend real quality time with each other. It helped spark up the relationship. We picked up hobbies together which caused us to grow closer. All relationships go through ups and downs, and when the downs happen both of you need to work together by communicating your needs, and be willing to do what is needed to tough it out during the rough patches.
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>>18437529
Thank you for your reply, it was really helpful. As silly as it sounds, I don't really want to be in something where I'm still totally in the love and infatuation stage and he is not. You've given me a lot to think about though.
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>>18437529
The honey moon phase is bullshit.
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Hey /adv/,
Itd be great if i could get some advice. I've been seeing a guy for 2 months, 2 weeks into seeing him he seemed very smitten with me and asked to be exclusive to which i agreed. More recently, the last 2-3 or so, he pretty much lost interest. His text replied got shorter, he took longer to reply etc.
Yesterday i confronted him and asked if he's happy with the way things were, he said he was. Then i went onto say how he seemed to have lost interest and he said that "no matter how pretty you are, we dont have any insterests in common". Feels like a bullshit of a reason as not once have I based my past relationships on mutual interests such as netflix series that im watching. The netflix thing he brought up, like i didnt realise that series im watching affects how we get on as people?
I said he's an enigma and as he works in a sensitive job where he cant disclose much information I always tiptoed around prying too much into his life. Nonetheless, i tried to bring up other things to get to know him better but it felt like he was pushing me away.
I guess what im asking is, do i keep seeing him and try to prove him wrong or just give up? Seeing as he has kinda given up on actually getting to know me, but shit... i really like him.
Side note i asked him some questions about myself and he didnt even know what i was currently studying.
Thanks for any responses guys
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Relationships take work. Mind you, him being a cunt isn't a good sign, especially that early on.
Talk about it with him again. Ask what you can do better and how you can both improve to make this work.
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he sounds like a b/s artist, like the car sales man in True Lies who pretends to be a spy.
you're pretty, you can do better, ditch this wanker and leave him to be Secret King in his little world.
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>>18437569
Yeah i kinda feel lime hes made up his mind to give up. He thinks that mutual interests are the base of a relationship and that we have nothing in common so i cant change the way he feels about that.
I think he wants to keep seeing me, as essentially exclusive friends with benefits(??), but if im gonna do fwb then i want to date and find a guy that will want to spend time with me and commit. Meh, i have a pair of his boxers i have to return, i guess ill see if he wants to see me or not. Thank you anon
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Hey /adv/ first time poster here. I need some help regarding my ex and her actions.
We broke up two weeks ago after having somewhat of a break from each other for a few weeks. At this point it was already dysfunctional but I had hopes of patching it together.
Anyway, before our hiatus she kept going on about how things were really stressful, which they actually were with her graduation coming up and related activities. She kept saying "after 3 weeks it'll all be fine".
So I waited for those 3 weeks and got hit with a breakup text. Fine, at least she offered to meet up to explain herself. At this point I was still clueless as to why she would do such a thing but...
I tried to arrange the meetup without luck on three occasions so eventually I gave up, tried to call her and she wouldn't answer. Her response via text was "you called, why?"
So I basically said fuck it all at this point and decided to move on. My only problem is I still have no idea why we broke up, and I still dream of her. I want nothing more than to forget her, move on and improve myself, but I can't without knowing what I did wrong.
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You sound like a needy bitch. Don't be a pussy, you probably won't get closure. Just go no-contact and move on with your life.
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>>18437465
>wanting closure makes you a needy bitch
What the fuck?
That aside, that anon has the right idea. She clearly doesn't respect you enough at this point so just move on man.
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>>18437468
So basically get busy with something else?
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Anybody know how to make casual sex better emotionally?
Been hooking up with this girl recently. Strictly friends with benefits with no intentions of anything else yet (who knows I might catch feelings). We're close enough friends but it's still empty as hell
Yes I do feel great physically when we're having sex but recently something like halfway between doggy I get existential or some shit and I feel like it's pointless.
I pretty much force myself to act a bit passionate and finish.
I feel like a bitch not telling her that our sex feels empty because right now I'm just using her as masturbation. Maybe she see me the same way? She seems way more into it though.
Anything that can change my perspective? I don't want to end this arrangement for selfish reasons.
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>I'm just using her as masturbation.
It's pretty much the only logical way to use western women these days. You are in an amazing position OP, quit your bitching and appreciate it.
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it's better than using your hand. fwb situations are literally for using each others bodies for masturbation. if you want to fuck it up by getting weird and telling her the sdx that is supposed to feel empty feels empty then go ahead. fwb things might not be your cup of tea.
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>>18437456
>She seems way more into it though
she always does for all the guys lmao
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I'm a Spanish student who recently finished an English studies degree. Now I've been denied my masters for translation and I'm facing another year of unemployment. I want to focus my career on audiovisual translation and esports, but these careers are rare in the country, and much more in the area I live in.
Since I was rejected for the masters, I've been looking for other oportunities. After a year looking for a job with no luck whatsoever I'm completely disillusioned about it. And I wanted to pursue this career for starters because it seemed a good path for good and safe money (before the crisis).
Now I don't know what to do. Employment here is scarce and exploitive, but it seems to be the only way to stop being a NEET and get out of my parents' house. What do I do now, what can I study or work as to find happiness in money and independence?
I cannot even study another degree because I would not get a scholarship, and I really doubt I will see the time for universal basic income. It gets depressing.
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Bumping this up because help
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Well, since many people know English I wouldn't say you are really marketable for a job (neither am I, even less than you probably). What about looking actively for a translator job in prison or wherever it's needed and if you don't get any settle for a bit less.
Also you could have a job around the world if you know English. Just don't expect it to be some CEO job from the start. Good luck
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>>18437552
Translation jobs here are few and far between, and I'm requiered to complete my education for most of them with a master's on translation, so they are sadly almost out of the equation.
Also, having completed a degree means I'm less desirable for a job since employers are forced to pay me more. So much for workers' rights.
Working abroad is a good option, but I do not want to be a burden for my family until I find a job and, let's be honest, my current degree has almost no use outside my country since I do not dominate any other language but Spanish and English.
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How do you get over daddy issues as an adult?
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Are you a femanon? Just release your pent-up sexual frustration by fucking your father's brains out. I'm sure he won't mind.
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>>18437445
I'm not and he's dead.
Congratulations on channeling all your personal insecurities of having failed as a man into blanket hatred of the entire female sex, though. 10/10 coping mechanism, I admire you as a person.
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>>18437448
If you are a male with "daddy issues" you should spend more time in gay bars.
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I'm 19 years old from Croatia and about to attend a dutch university starting september.
The only problem is I have a girlfriend of two years. She is the best and even though I have been an asshole more then enough times for her to break up with me, she stuck with me through thick and thin, and almost never did anything bad to me. When talking about me leaving, we usually agree on a LDR. I love this girl more then life, and I believe that we can make it work, what is bothering me is everyone else saying it is unfair bouth for me and her. Should I break it off or try to make it work
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>>18437418
How long does university go for?
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all you have to know is that it won't work. imagine you had a great job but wanted to move across the country and do something else. the only way you could keep your job would be if it was already something you didn't need to show up for. why would you expect it to be different for a relationship?
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>>18437418
Ostavi ju, nije dobro ni za tebe ni za nju, uštedi sebi patnje a i njoj kad je toliko dobra prema tebi.
Back in first year I had a weird crush on one of my profs (she had just received her PhD and was about the same age as my ex) because it was right when my relationship was breaking down. I'd go to her office hours under weak pretences just to spend time with her, shit like that.
Now (eighteen months later) it still feels awkward seeing her around campus and she obviously tries to avoid me, for instance on the subway platform.
Should I apologize and explain why I had been acting weird back then or just avoid her forever? I don't have any more requirements in her department so I'll never have any more classes with her.
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>>18437354
>she obviously tries to avoid me
Take the hint, anon
Also, >>>>>>>/adv/
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Rape her?
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>>18437355
Obviously I've taken the hint, it's just that we seem to be running into each other more often in the last couple weeks and it's weird again.
Former NEET here, I'm working towards getting back into college and juggling a part time job during the first semester, life is getting better but I have one major concern.
My sister and I have been living off our inheritance for the past three years and our aunt is our legal guardian, so things are almost normal except for the fact that my sister never leaves the house and just draws chinese cartoons the whole day.
She hates everyone outside the family, including our next door neighbor and some of my friends.
What do I do? I don't want to leave her to her own devices, since there's clearly something wrong with her mental health, but I really need to re integrate myself into society one way or another.
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Date your sister, it will make both of you happier. Merging unconditional familial love with passionate romantic love is the most beautiful thing you can do OP.
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She's not your responsibility.
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>>18437381
Yeah, no. She's good looking and all, but I really have to get my priorities straight and contrary to popular belief, incest is not wincest.
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I'm a fat girl. I've always assumed that I don't have much sexual market value and should just get a cat at some point. I'm 28 now and have never had a relationship, I'm also 5'6 and 180lbs
But now I'm seeing girls who are bigger than me with boyfriends. How did they manage that? Maybe I could get a boyfriend?
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Maybe you could lose weight?
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ofc you can get a bf...
just find a guy who's into big girls. try an app like feabie or such.
or, yknow, lose weight?
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>>18437311
>Maybe I could get a boyfriend?
Lose weight first or become more interesting and appealing as a person.
>I'm 28
Wait, at that point you are already a spinster. No even desperate khv will gf you because you are not only old but also fat
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Is it possible to marry into money when you only look 7/10?
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Don't marry into money because you will because so twisted from within. You will feel an inferiority complex later on and will become the trash of humanity simply because you will lose the sight of what is good/wrong.
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Dear /adv/,
I'm a 23yo girl. I'm very outgoing and I try my best to be nice to everyone around me. I never get into conflicts.
A friend of mine tells me people would normally be annoyed by my lack of tact and the fact that I talk too much, but he says that I get away with it because I look "hot" and people would really dislike me for these reasons if, for instance, I happened to gain lots of weight in a few years. This sounds pretty worrying to me.
Is this really true? I never get into conflicts with anyone, male or female, gay or straight. So if people just "let me get away" with being tactless and talking too much because I "look hot", wouldn't I be getting into conflict with other (straight) women and gay men constantly right now? Since they don't find me "hot"..
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Try to work on yourself by using your friend's or try to cover your lack of tact with humor (like I do).
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>>18437243
it's funny that a friend who tells you people only deal with you for your looks would say you lack tact
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>>18437243
why would you even care about what other people think of you ?
Why do you try your best to be nice to everyone around you ? Are you nice to yourself firstly ?
You are a human being, not an emotional surrogate for people.
You don't need a reason to be nice to people or to think about being nice. It's only natural to encounter people from time to time that you just can't stand. And that's fine.