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>>18440102
He's either depressed, cheating on you, or you got fat, or some combination of those three

>>18440116
No I've been at my same weight since we started dating. But maybe he is depressed he's very negative about life sometimes

Masturbate in front of him, moan

a tranny? lol, are you a literal chaser now? The Philippines is a really fucked up country full of desperate people, I was born there and never want to go back there again. Being a white foreigner there not knowing anyone or anything about the place will get you robbed or killed.

>>18440105

Don't give him that, you're too paranoid.

>>18440082
Just stay in the urban areas and you're going to be fine, avoid scams.

>>18440082
don't bring any drugs and don't attempt to buy any drugs or talk about drugs, even weed.

There is actual science behind it

Stop it...gradually or slowly somehow but stop and regain spirit

Try limiting go a day or two and then if you must feel free to release, discipline I guess

>>18440121
Yeah, there's actual science behind it for people who fap mutiple times per day on a daily basis, because those people have masturbation addictions that are fundamentally the same as any other addiction. But to a guy like me who already only faps a couple times a week, is there a measurable benefit?
The last time I fapped was 5 days ago, and I went 4 days before that without a problem. I don't feel any particular urges and it takes no great deal of mental effort to simply not watch porn.

>>18440073
Look. There is no biological benefit at all
You will cum in your sleep on a regular basis if you don't let yourself release the excess sperm
Your testes never stop making sperm. Gotta release it

There is no magical "Super strong super smart" moment that happens if you stop jacking off.

The only difference is in your head. Do you stop being motivated to find a gf if you jerk off? Is sexual satisfaction all you're after?
Then maybe jerking it will stunt you
But biologically, you're good

Succ

Blame it on the alcohol and being in a vile mood to friend.
Go make sweet love to your gf and realize how fucking lonely you'd be without her.

If you do it, know that there is a 90% chance your girlfriend will find out (probably from slutty friend) and not only will she most likely leave you, prepare for her to tell all of her friends and possibly yours about being pegged.

It's going to be like fucking bags of twigs

>>18440027
dunno whats that. i have the impression its going to be tight as fuck.

>>18440032
No it won't
Does her mouth get smaller if she's skinny as fuck?
Holes stay the same shape
And since she has zero muscle strength, it's gonna be like fucking a warm corpse
A corpse that is all elbows and knees and jutting hip bones

>>18439995
sounds pretty nosy desu

Ya, it's really weird - why would something like that bother you?

>>18439998
This

I don't know where you live anon but in the US under 25 boys raised by single moms are probably more likely to be living at home than not at this point.

>>18439968
>falling for the kid meme

Wew lad.

>>18439968
Thats not normal. They could be using you as a babysitter

>>18439975
I was thinking that too.

>>18439958
Start up a youtube channel. Just fuck around with ideas in your head. I'd reccomend making fan made music videos for trippy music to REALLY push your skills. I'd start with a song from here.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JlFzV83f_l8

>>18439958
I'd also reccomend learning GFX
>>>/3DCG/

>>18439967
Thanks for the replies by the way. I have actually started doing this, I guess I'm more worried about what I do when my skills are actually better. My parents constantly ask me about making money and a backup plan and it makes me nervous.
>>18439973
The only thing I know related to this is I have the element 3d plugin for after effects, but I will learn

>>18439927
Just fucking gun it dude. Hang out with her as much as fucking possible. Also side note, how would you rate her outta 10?

>>18439927
I'm the same way honestly. It's important to be with someone who you feel comfortable saying no to sometimes about hanging out.

That being said, stepping out of your comfort zone now and then isn't always a bad thing.

>>18439936
>>18439942
Eh ld probably say light 7/10. I see what both of you are saying. I think part of it is I get so nervous before the date (but i manage to keep it together during) so I like to plan days in advance so I dont have to randomly start feeling anxious and nervous if that makes sense? Also I think some of it may be I like the chase more than actually getting the girl, so when I progress through the initial phase I get kinda spooked. Any of you guys know what I mean?

18 year old, feel the same way, you aren't alone anon

Used to be like you too and really suicidal, I only found my self-esteem when I found out I was really good at being a mechanic at the age of 29. A huge chunk of my self-esteem is based on how I'm really good at my job and people respect me for it. It took me a long time to get this far though, good luck.

Don't compare yourself to others around you. Set your own personal goals, whether that be making it out of bed and to that interview or buying a house. If you don't go do that job interview you aren't even trying at all. How could you ever expect to do something good if you don't try? If you want to stop feeling like shit you have to do something self-rewarding and rise above the depression and self-loathing. It might be a little insensitive, but so is the world. Give yourself a slap in the face and never stop trying.

>>18439879
girls can get emotional when they PMS. that's one reason

other than that idk how to help ya

Send her something funny or cute via text. Or take her out to dinner or to the movies. Or bring over a pizza and watch movies on the couch that night. Just do something to cheer her up rather than forcing an answer out of her.

>>18439879
Srsly? When she sends shit without emojis it means she is pissed? ;-D Nigga fa reel?

>>18439816
>How can you talk to a girl one on one if you really only see her in your friend group?
If you don't already have her number or a way of contacting her privately, use the group to do that. One way to do that is next time the group is planning something, or plan something yourself, say you want everyone's numbers to help coordinate or something.
Once you have that, just use that to set up something one on one, or at least a smaller group if you're too nervous.
>What if there's a guy that's always there who probably will try to cockblock you?
Fuck him, he's after the same girl, you either roll over and let him have her/wait and see if she rejects him, or put up the good fight. Your goal will to be to get her one on one though, which if you get and form of contact what so ever from her is not hard. You're over thinking.
>How close do you have to be to someone to message them over text/facebook?
Not very. If you've had a single in person conversation that's more meaningful than "How's it going?" "Oh good" "thats good" *end conversation* then you can contact them via social media/phone. Hell, if you've gotten the phone number from them directly, that's fair game. It only gets murky when you have to ask someone else for their number.
> Is it ok to hookup in your friend's guest room?
Depends on them bro. Ask before you do it, and if they say it's cool, don't be a dick and remember to clean up after yourself. Don't make your friend wash your spoogy sheets when you're finished with them.
>What is a good place to bring someone on a first date if you already sort of know them?
Same as anything else really, you'll get more points if it's something relevant to them. Do they like ice skating, outdoorsy shit, movies, music? whatever it is they like to do that sounds fun. Ask them what they like to do, or if there's any movies out they think is good.

>>18439853
>>18439816
>How similar should your interests be with someone you are dating?
You're still individuals, you're not gonna be clones of one another. You should have enough in common that you can keep conversation lively. But believe me, a healthy relationship will have down time. You will have time that's you time, and she will have time that's her time. You will have hobbies you want to do without her around, and she will too. But then you'll come together on other things.

>>18439816
>What is a good place to bring someone on a first date if you already sort of know them

Outside to the park. Do not listen to anyone who says the movies because you would just be staring at a screen and wasting your money and not getting to know the person.

>>18439757

It doesn't matter, no one cares.

These stupid questions are refreshing. Got a laugh out of me thanks to how out of place this thread is compared to the other serious ones.

>>18439761
So what do you do? and please dont say Huuurrrr i dont do anything im just super cool naturally

>>18439735
I haven't cried in like 6 years i think. Also haven't got laid in like 6 years i think. That's all i had to say.

>>18439735
Some people just don't cry, people respond to sadness in different ways doesn't mean they cared any more or any less it just means they deal with it without crying like a bitch

Femanon here. Depends on the situation. In some cases people are so emotionally detached from the person they're with, that when they finally break up with them they feel nothing.

>>18439720
I would dude. Unless you like getting your asshole fingered by a female Brock Lesnar security bitch at the airport.
Because you look muslim as hell.

>>18439727
Yeah, that's what's bothering me...
Dont want to be fingerbanged by some huge shemale just because i look like a muslim...
Fucking Italian genes...

>>18439720
You should, not because of looking Muslim, but because you don't pull it off.