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Um.. I really like this girl at work. I want to say we've been semi hitting it off. Anyway, I was talking to a friend in a small group setting, and said something really dumb mainly because I think it would be a funny/intriguing question to ask: how can blind people be attractive? He went wow and now Im afraid he took that seriously..
Now that my friend is joining, should I say anything to him about it? Or just accept there's nothing I can do to make it better?
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>>18724368
What advice do you seek
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>>18724909
I said something stupid that I didn't nessecarily mean.. if that makes sense. I'm afraid he is going to tell her about it
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>>18724909
Do you think that would be a major turn off
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What do i do?
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same here but its after eating ass
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stop being a pussy and ask her to fuck
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>>18724320
Sounds like a cunt desu. Just be honest.
Otherwise this person aint gonna take you seriously
how to cook macaroni and cheese
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>>18724311
This isn't google.
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Read the instructions faggot.
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>>18724311
Go to /ck/
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Do women care more about looks or personality when they are looking for a boyfriend?
What do women in mid to late teens think more specifically.
People tell me I look like pic related and I am doing more to look like that.
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>>18724290
They care more about looks. Like just about every human being. Read 50 shades or any other romance novel targeting women.
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>>18724295
Read the book "A billion wicked thoughts"
Read that, then read romance novels targeting women. You'll have a better understanding of what women look for and you'll be able to pick up on common attributes that women share.
Good luck OP
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>>18724290
It goes looks(height mainly), status(money), confidence(alphaness) and humor in that order.
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When I look at young people (16-22), they all have these fabulous lives and go on exotic trips.
If you look at their instagram accounts, they all seem to live these carefree lifes.
It makes me depressed that when I was their age, my life was no where near what they have.
I never had fun or free time. If I was not a summer school, I was working a full time job during the holidays.
I feel so much jealousy, envy and reget that I never enjoyed my youth.
Before you ask, I'm 24 yet I feel like 40.
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same
you don't choose what circumstances you get born into
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>>18724284
>look at instagram
Found your problem sempai. Stop stalking people online and do whatever you want from your life.
IF YOU WANT TO TRAVEL, THEN FUCKING GO AND TRAVEL. If you choose 3rd shitholes or youropoor countries, it will be even cheap. Pic related.
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You know that people only post the good stuff in their lives on social media, right? You're not seeing their credit card debts and their lack of education.
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Finally got a gf..... 2017-09-15 10:39:15 Post No.18724270
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but everytime we try having sex I get soft
honestly she's a 8/10, not even in a 'in my eyes' type of way.
idk how I got her but i did and now i feel like shit because I can't help her lose her virginity and i can't lose mine either because i keep going soft.
pls help
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First time nerves. Take a viagra or cialis before.
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>>18724271
like I asked in the other threads >>745218646
where the hell do I get that shit?
my doctor won't give me any prescriptions
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>>18724272
What the fuck? What kind of doctor won't give you prescriptions? Time to change doctors after reporting him.
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Extreme social anxiety 2017-09-15 10:23:05 Post No.18724252
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Warning : Personal blog post. Felt like venting.
I'm a 20 year old male. For the last 6 years of my life I've lived in virtual isolation. I have exactly 0 friends. The only person I talk to on a regular basis is my mom. I'm genetically predisposed to social anxiety, my mom never talked when she was a kid as well. On top of that I had many traumatic social experiences growing up that made me terrified of socializing.
I work at a restaurant where I make pizzas, salads, and wash dishes. The only time I leave my house is to go to this job. I can't make friends there because I'm the most anxious and cowardly person alive. I'm too afraid to make conversation and when people talk to me, the best I can do is fake laugh at their jokes or say thanks/sorry when appropriate. People will try to get to know me sometimes but once they realize how retarded I am they ignore me. This is why I'm a loner and probably always will be.
When I'm not at work I'll go home to sit on my computer and play video games, read manga, or type to strangers on the internet. If I'm immersed in a game or story I'm usually not bothered by the loneliness, but sometimes I think about my life and wonder what it would be like if I wasn't such a social failure. I have average intelligence and average looks, the only thing preventing me from living a normal life is my inability to socialize. I want a girlfriend and a group of guys to play video games with but this is impossible because I can't express my thoughts or feelings to anyone. It seems like everyone is able to socialize at least on a basic level, everyone except me. Even morbidly obese people and cripples seem to have more confidence than me.
I tried getting medication from my doctor and it didn't work, I still was too afraid to have a meaningful conversation with anyone.
I probably won't care in the morning but at the moment I really wouldn't mind dying, my life has been pretty pathetic up to this point.
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This is my saying:
If you are able to play video games, then you are able to improve your life.
It is no more complex than a video game. Don't know where to start? Imagine the build you want. Look up strategy guides. Learn the formulas and mechanics; grind to gain skills. Find the secret xp bonuses and most efficient tricks to increase stats. Watch instructional videos, learn the meta playstyles. Take baby steps and practice on your own. You're going to fail. Get up and keep trying. Eventually you'll get better. You'll level up your skills; get the gold for better gear; Go to new areas; complete quests. You'll eventually be playing with skill and the game gets a lot more rewarding.
Treat it like a video game. You can do it.
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>>18724280
I appreciate your well written post, but the thing is, in video games I know exactly what I need to do to improve. If I'm playing counter strike and I had bad aim one match, I'll play a couple games of deathmatch. Getting rid of social anxiety isn't as simple as that though. Social anxiety is partly genetic, so it's impossible to completely get rid of it.
I've tried medication and that didn't work. I'm very skeptical about therapy and I can't afford it anyways because I'm only making 12.50 an hour. I really don't know of any way to fix myself, it feels so ingrained in my personality that it's impossible for me to change. Socializing never helped me improve, it just made me more afraid. There were times in my life where I tried to break out of my shell and fake confidence, but when you have anxiety and force yourself to speak, usually you just sound very awkward and you embarrass yourself, which ends up making me even more afraid of talking.
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>>18724252
>confidence
It's more like implicitness/matter of course. You're not anxious, nervous or stuttering or shaking when playing games or making sandwiches because that's just what you do.
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Should I become homeless if there's nothing I want to do with my life?
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No you'll regret it when you're miserable and homeless.
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Being homeless is not very comfortable.
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>>18724193
I dunno, not having any responsibilities sounds pretty comfy. There's no job or career that I'm even remotely interested, and the idea of forcing myself to get one and spend most of my hours each week miserable and stressed doesn't sound appealing.
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So I am taking this girl out on a date to hang out after class. She's in my class, basically it's set but I don't know if I should sit next to her and talk to her or sit in my own seat accounts of rows down. What is the best way to have her know i like her without being creepy. I like her
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>>18724150
Sit where you normally sat before hand.
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>>18724154
Idk if I should I mean I told her I would help her learn because I am good at the material. She said we could help each other out. I asked if I could sit there and she said it was fine.
But still I don't want to come off badly since we will still hang out after
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>>18724150
If you see her, just wave and ask if you can sit by her. She already likes you enough to go out with you so it's not like it'll hurt anything.
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Thinking about killing myself soon. 36 years old... lived a mediocre life, some decent experiences etc. Any reasons not to? Will I go to hell?
Don't really expect anyone to give a shit, but I'm at an all-time low.
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Well do you have any family?
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>>18724148
Yeah, my folks who are supportive. Only problem is I feel extreme guilt for leaning on them. I'm 36 fucking years old and should not be in this position by society's standards.
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I served in the military from 99-06.. went to afghan/iraq. Was a cop for a short time, but quit because it wasn't for me. Off and on jobs since then. Now unemployed, but trying to start my own business but failing pretty much. Life is a goddamn challenge.
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Jobs for an anti-social fuk 2017-09-15 08:43:39 Post No.18724125
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Jobs for an anti-social fuk
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Tryna find a job that has minimal interaction with people & will hire a 19yr old HS Grad.
Any tips for such a job would help greatly.
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Bumping for mutual interest.
Jobs where you are alone for long periods of time? If you're good at something don't do it for free right.
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the iron foundry i work at hire's kid's right out of highschool. long as you show up for work and try to do a good job your pretty much left alone. look for something similar?
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>>18724125
Underwater welder for oil rigs
cons
sharks and other unfriendly sea creatures, drowning, electrocution, explosion, decompression sickness, underwater pressure can kill you
pros
no social skills required on the job
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break this shit down for me as i'm autistic
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>>18724084
its a joke in a sitcom designed to point out how stupid it is to try and develop a 'system' for getting 50% of the human race in bed.
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>>18724084
It's a tv show, it's not reality.
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>>18724084
Show about horrible people who should not be emulated unless you want to be laughed at.
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Recently left a job because I was overworked and underpaid. The whole situation was just unfair, like working for my boss who is less qualified in comparison, while having over $50K salary more than me. I asked for a raise, nothing. I asked for increased hours or overtime, nothing. They promoted me within six months, so I knew they really saw potential in me. I have a degree, going back to school for a diploma, I brought the department into pretty good direction in terms of the budget, project plan (literally planned each day for the next year and followed it quite well). I was really organized and planned. My supervisors were impressed, but still I was stuck at $36K salary with little benefits. I was basically doing all the planning, grunt work, project deliverables - the whole fucking project - while my supervisors just took credit. I quit, didn't even give two weeks notice. I've had multiple job offers a couple hours away. Thing is, I don't have any money and I'm around $5K in immediate debt and $10K in student loans.
I don't know what my next step is and I've been unemployed for over a month because I can't afford to move. My hometown has no office jobs, it's all minimum wage, labor or trades. What do /adv/?
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>>18724078
Did none of the offers you got offer relocation?
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>>18724183
None so far. I've asked a few to be certain. How would I go about negotiating that anyway? I haven't had to negotiate relocation packages or compensation in an interview or e-mail correspondence yet.
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>>18724192
Usually if you're looking at a big company it'll say on the application page.
What kind of work do you do? As in what major did you do in college?
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So I'm going to court for possessing weed
Anywhere I can go online to learn to defend myself?
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>>18724077
Just get free legal counsel for your first appearance. You can phone up lawyers and ask for consultations, most are free. If you're in the US I'd hire a decent lawyer. It's probably your first criminal charge right? Most sensible judges will let you off with a slap on the wrist, that is, if you have a decent lawyer to show that you have direction in your life, not a complete fuck up, and this was a one time thing that doesn't warrant a criminal record or any severe repercussions. Don't try defend yourself, it's not easy and will most likely end up in a guilty plea.
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>>18724077
You shoulda threw the weed on the ground and said thats not mine you put prolly put that there.
Once you dont do that, theres no way you're gonna get a good deal.
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>>18724086
>dumb shit getting caught
>asking for 4chin for legal advice
>has his life togather
its probably some retarded dude lmao blaze it retard, hope he gets thrown into jail
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I don't know how I'm going to keep my first boyfriend 2017-09-15 07:58:06 Post No.18724065
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I don't know how I'm going to keep my first boyfriend
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I'm in my first relationship at 22 with a guy I recently lost my virginity to. We've been dating 4 months. He was really enthusiastic about making me his girlfriend the last 4 months and I was a bit standoffish due to being rather afraid of relationships and men in general..anyway I eventually caved to making it "official" and I finally let him have sex with me last week..but now he just seems mostly indifferent about it like it was no big deal.. do men sometimes lose interest in a girl once they've had sex? Why did letting him have me seem to make him bored ?
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>>18724065
yes they do.
don't put value on something that has no value. thats all i can say
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>>18724065
He just wanted sex and you gave it to him.
Better luck next time.
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>>18724067
I don't think it's inherently valuable but it was rather emotionally tramatic to lose it. And while he wasn't unkind about it he really didn't seem to understand why I was upset at all. I've been taken for a ride haven't I? He's still "with me" but i sense he's lost the need to..woo me at all...