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Join the fuckin Marines

>>18724755
Doesn't make any sense.

Join the fuckin Marines and be a chad. Get paid to workout, shoot guns, and extra if you get married to a stripper (seriously)

>>18724736
I should note that due to my family's financial situation I get a fuck ton of maintenance loan to help me financially because I can't rely on my parents, it comes up to around £8500 (around $11500 for burgers) to spend on living cost and equipment for whatever I think is necessary and this is spilt into 3 payments over the course of a year. It's enough to live happily on however sometimes it can become a tight squeeze financially especially after rent and all the financial help I have to give to my parents.
Okay back to my shitfest.

>in my first year of University
>it started off normally where I'd give them money just to get by, but they started asking for more increasingly
>it got to the point where they asked me for £300 so they could get the car fixed, so mum could get to her job and take the kids to school
>I wanted to say no but I couldn't because they needed it or else they were gonna be screwed and just make things worse
>they said they would pay me back every time and sometimes they do, but most the time they don't in this case they didn't
>things become hard for me financially and because of this my gf has to support me, this makes me feel like absolute shit because it's not her job to buy me meals
>I told her about this situation and she understood it but at the same time she was right to think they shouldn't be doing this to me
> it's now affecting my relationship with her
>she knows I've lent some money to them but she doesn't know the full amount going to them
> I get £2500 on average my rent is £1500 per term and it's around £500 each term going to my parents leaving me £500 to buy food equipment and other necessities for a total of four months

Cont.

>>18724740
>she thinks that it's just me being bad with money when in truth a lot of my money is going to them
> I stop her from giving me anything because it's not her job to pay for my meals
>I started to live worse than my parents, I would have a bowel of pasta and some butter two times a day because that's all I could afford
>my girlfriend starts buying me things to eat without my consent and I have to say no to her, we got in an non shouting argument
>she won out in the end because hunger always wins out and it just went back to her paying for my meals
>we're good relationship wise but there is a feeling of I owe her big time constantly

I mean they raised you senpai, you're supposed to help your family out. Same time, university you are kind of on a reprieve from that, as graduating is your #1 priority. Do you first, and if you can help em out but they should understand you're a student and you studying now is an investment in the future

>>18724716
You sound kind of creepy and possessive, dude. Chill.

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For atmosphere.

>>18724721
I'm trying m8. I don't act this way around her -- just had to vent. It's been a long time since I've thought about her, and finding her on Tinder was sad and unexpected.

>>18724683
Seek help!

JUST DO IT

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>''we can arrange that!''

>>18724663
Wow asshole your wife is going through a tough time and all you can think about is sex.
You're in for the long run buddy. Things will go back to the way they used to but as soon as you asked her what's wrong with her sex drive you added some more months to her healing process.

>>18724663
She needs time, she's been through trauma. All you can do is keep trying, keep putting up effort but don't be overbearing.

It sucks but if you love her, her well-being should come first. She sounds like she's had a rough time.

Maybe go to couples therapy, suggest it as a way to help communication, don't make it sound like you're going because of her or sex. She might get defensive. But couples therapy is really good for a relationship.

>>18724663
jack off more

Most conservatives aren't white supremacists, most liberals aren't sjw cucks. The vocal minority dominates the scene. It's the same for hookup culture. It definitely exists it just tends to be the people that are involved with it are the "popular" people who draw a lot of attention

>>18724646
College parties and college settings in general.
Lots of people need to find a release of sorts between all the studying. Some just like to fuck. Sex is great, people get a little sensitive about admitting to it but come on. It's amazing. Mix in a little alcohol and people will soon just use that as an excuse to say "I wasn't in the right state of mind."
Find yourself someone who isn't afraid to admit to liking sex and you got yourself a fuck buddy. Don't get attached though.

>>18724646
I don't get it either. I have only had one sexual partner and I'm nearly 30. I just don't really have the desire to sleep with people I don't know well or trust.

What/how big of a city? That's gonna have a big impact on your options.

>>18724650
A tad on the small side. Theres stuff here, like the comics shop i just mentioned plus a book store and some restaurants and a movie theater, plus the campus. Stuff like a gym, ect. But yeah, I'd say small size.

Just googled population, almost 20,000 apparently

I made a majority of my friends with the people who were in the same dorm as me or were in the same major as me (we all took the same classes). I made a few good friends with clubs. I didn't make good friends at parties, just got connections to people so that I could go to more parties.

For your case, just hit up clubs or if you're fit, go to the gym and ask another guy that's alone for a spot. It's a good way to become gym buddies.

Take pictures of her looking out the train.
Make her a model for a cool while and get into talking about her looks and stuff. If she responds well dick her down when you fall asleep together.

>>18724603
My main issue is when I don't know if she's just acting nice and like a friend, or if she's into me.
I can justly say I theoretically failed many chances for simply being a friend, responding as a friend should. Everything a girl does is basically me thinking I'm in the friend zone and I don't want to seem like a desperate freak, that's why I don't act on a whim.
We're also going to be just the 2 of us, I want to feel good this trip not awkward if she isn't into me yet I try to dick her.

>>18724612
Pack some alcohol.
You'll know then.
Get a 12 pack, drink 6, give her 3 and let the night roll my friend.
You will most likely get laid and figure things out the next morning.

>I have done this thing before many times
>but I don't know if it's possible help me

>>18724567
Bruh it was 2 grills in highschool a long time ago and both lasted for a couple months.

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Just go for it?
It depends on the chick as well. Some girls will automatically shut you down because of it. Some, but not all.
For the ones that honestly don't care about your height it's about confidence and how you portray yourself. You have to come off as confident but not cocksure. It's hard, but you have to make them reassured that when people talk about you guys, that neither of you will care because you make each other happy. Social standing might play in this. You have to make her believe that by dating you she's gaining more than a possible ridicule.
Mind that likely no one will truly give a fuck, but there are people out there that will try to railroad you for it.

Confidence my man.
>tfw 5'5"
>gf is 5'8"
>doesn't give a shit because I make her happy
A good dicking helps as well.

>>18724461

Those money are lost

Let it go and get her out of your head

You will not win in any way if you try to get those money back, it will probably backfire into restrainibg orders and fake rape charges

Find a better woman next time

>>18724461
>It was all an oral agreement.

you fucked up.

Without something in writing, signed and witnessed by a notary you aren't getting shit.

Sorry man, let this be a lesson to you about loaning money.

>>18724475
But this has to happen all the time in court. A rational person would believe that paying bills aren't gifts, they're loans. I'm hoping if I have witnesses and can convince the judge that she's not truthful I have a chance. Small claims would only cost my $80 in court fees, so it wouldn't hurt too much to try hopefully.
I do wish I could just forget about her. Fuck.

>>18724430
buy one from Russia or Korea?

>>18724430
Just get any average girl. The good looking ones are just plastic anyways... I've learned. Look it up if you don't believe it.

>>18724430

Same way a poor guy does. Going out, meeting girls, having fun.

Rich guy just has more options about where to go.

Pretty important if you have a shit personality

>>18724429
For me looks are only about 30-40% of attraction, but, idk. All I'd say face and height are equally important (and my height requirements are honestly like, 5'5+), I don't know how to describe what a good face looks like though. Slender, not quite boxy but also not feminine (like, brad pitt looks like shit to me because his face is too wide, no idea why everyone gets their panties in a bunch for him).

Frame in all honesty only really holds a requirement for me in "not large". Whether that largeness comes from fat or muscle, I only want a slim guy.

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>>18724438
>Slender, not quite boxy but also not feminine
You sure?

just stop being so uptight and you'll stop caring, listen to pop music

>>18724442
I can't, I've tried. I can only listen to Pixies, Danzig, Replacements etc. But tell me more about loosening up, any tips?

>>18724421
OP just learn to reserve your opinion.
When they ask you talk about everything but don't give answers.
Commies are rotten to the core, they won't change even after history has proven again and again how wrong they are but they will always believe that shit, because it's more of a religion than a political view, that attracts artists especi-lly for some reason.

>not advice on the advice board
Holy shit.

Google around.
"Prosthetics (my town)(my state)"
"Leading prosthetics companies (mycountry)"

Add mechanical to the searches.

What books of the /sci/ wiki would be good to read for someone into Prosthetics?

just remember it's all about energy

>>18724388
Interesting pic there, fag.

>up into the wee hours of the morning doing HW you should have done earlier

Checks out.

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>>18724390
it's all about dat E N T R O P Y maaannn