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Get a fucking hobby maybe? Stop being online so often and learn to value what you already have? Or buy her presents now so you can't spend that money on any other dumb shit for yourself. Like, do you even use all the makeup you buy?

I have a friend who has lots of "disposable" income from his dead mother and he likes to buy useless shit and shower his friends in gifts, but it isn't healthy, you need to do something with your life for yourself, something that's actually productive... you could afford to take some classes in a community college, or probably anything else that could possibly catch your fancy.

>>18446135
My friend does this because it covers her depression up. She spends so much on clothes she never wears and products she uses like once. You get an emotional high when you buy something and another one when it comes in the mail. Shopping addiction is a real thing.

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>>18446135
>i'm a female in my early 20s that does not work
>I kind of have a completely disposable income atm

maybe you should stop being a fat fuck and go outside, you sound like you are on disability or welfare or something, fucking go get a job

>>18446132
Save up for a holiday, then you might like it.

>>18446151
>enjoying holidays

I just enjoy being in front of a PC shitposting / watchin porn for at least 10 hours a day.

>>18446132
>G*rmans actually enjoy working

are you black? if so go to europe and claim asylum as a refugee, get a free house and a ton of money and use it for smokes, alcohol and travelling.

What disease?

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>>18446099
They said the same thing to this guy.

There are still things in life worth doing.

>>18446095
I take my other hand while one is still holding him towards me and I take his dick out of his pants, he pushes himself back but freezes when I put him inside my mouth. Anyway after a little bit of time he starts to thrust into my mouth, as soon as he thrust maybe 3x I heard him gasp and he grabbed my head and forced himself out of my mouth which caused him to fall over. I asked if he was ok while he put himself back into his pants, then he got up and looked down at the ground - would not look at me, told me he had school in the morning.
At this point I just don't know what the fuck to think I mean, he was thrusting into my mouth ten fucking seconds ago, so I stand up and ask if I did something? He won't look at me and tells me "No." I try to step closer to him but he steps back each time I do, I reach for him and he moves away. It hits me what just happened and I feel my stomach lurch into my fucking groin and I say "i'm so sorry I don't know what came over me, you even told me to stop." He puts his hands up and tells me its ok, still not raising his face, again he says he has school.
I am a little shaken so I just walk to the door and mumble a bye.

This happened two days ago, neither of us have said a single thing to each other.
I just don't know what to think, I feel like I'm the lowest piece of shit in the world but I still can't help but think he was enjoying it before he freaked out? I'm seeing him tomorrow for coffee so we can talk. I feel like I can't even go let alone know what to say.What should I bring up? Should I just end it? I don't know how to salvage this at this point. I mean is this rape?
>tldr boyfriend of two months doesn't want me to give him head
>try to and sort of succeed once
>he forces me to stop and kicks me out
>feel like I should an hero
>don't know what to do seeing him tomorrow to talk

Legally yes you did rape him since he never consented. Apologize to him and respect his boundaries.

>>18446124
i say let it work itself out, i think he's gonna get over it, just don't do it again, maybe it makes him feel uncomfortable but it's over now.i don't think you should end it if you like him, there's no reason to. idk, try not to overthink it, i don't think it's something he'll use to get mad at you or something, maybe he's insecure.

i know i sound autistic but i'm trying to make sense and help, don't feel so bad, i'm kinda like him and i wouldn't want to end it with a girl if it happened to me, it'd just kinda make me feel a bit weird altho just being with him is gonna fix it

>>18446087
here you can without prescription, dunno about burgerland though

>>18446144
Some places I believe

>>18446144
donde esta burgerland?

>>18446064
m8, you won't ever get a gf.

>>18446064
Gotta love yourself before you can hope to catch a mate.

>>18446064
Don't look at others. Fight for yourself. Build yourself. By doing this others will notice. "Oh did u see anon lately? He looks jacked!" or "Hey never knew you were so chill anon! Wanna come to my party this weekend?" Don't look for others approval. Build your own home before comparing it to others.

>>18446038
The death of the west in a nutshell.

>>18446038
The cring I feel emanating from this post is powerful.

WW3 when?

>>18446048
>>18446059
...soooo am I fucked or what?
Orrrrr am I overreacting?

Bump?

Work on yourself, your appearance and making yourself look more mature, and building your passions. Eventually you'll attract someone cool and age won't really matter.

Better yourself, maybe get fit to help those younger looks. Achieving things, in general, will increase confidence and therefore you will be more attractive when your right match appears. The chances of finding her will also increase if you do shit you enjoy in a social environment. But it's mostly a thing of exposure, it's crazy how you meet some people, I would know about it, but that's love for you, my friend... it can come from anywhere.

I hope, for both of your sakes, that you weren't chatting in english

>>18445999
>German

I dunno man, courting a woman from another county is a totally different ballgame. Social norms and romancing are much different.

>>18446006
fpbp

Not a girl btw

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>>18445914

>>18445942
"faggot nerd pays slut to take his virginity"
Bro you're gonna love it

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>>18445850

>>18445853
you wish

>>18445850

You need to break up with her. It will hurt her, and you will also feel terrible. That's how it goes, son. Learn from it. Don't invest in someone you aren't attracted to in the future, it'll just make and her suffer down the line.

>>18445781

realize what a stupid question this is.

>>18445783
I know unblocking her would be stupid, but you can do some stupid shit when heartbroken. My question is how do I stop myself from doing said stupid shit.

>>18445795

no, i wasn't saying unblocking her would be stupid. your question is stupid. think about this logically anon, why would there be something you can do to stop your self from unblocking her?

think about it. if you don't have enough control to /not/ unblock her, what possible extra steps would you have the self control for to make sure you don't unblock her? you are trying to add an extra step which only makes it more difficult.

don't unblock her. that is literally the only thing you can do.

I'll say that's definitely atypical for men, so you're not going to comfort him by saying it's normal. But just because it's not normal doesn't mean it's bad. One negative outcome for this would be overworking you. You seem to be game for the amount of sex, so that's not a problem.
It seems like a lot of time is taken towards his orgasms. Does it get in the way of his career and housework and hobbies?

I'll note that popping a boner doesn't necessarily mean a guy is horny. It's a physiological response. Not that it means he isn't horny, but I just would like to unpair the boner and the desire for you.

I don't know anything about this for his health. I don't know if orgasming that many times is hard on his system. I don't know if it's a tell-tale sign for something else. I wouldn't really worry about it, since I feel like that would be something people would talk about if it was the case.

>>18445858
it's definitely too much for me and he takes rejection personal, so it is an issue and the reason we take it serious.

he cums very quickly, so even if we end up having sex 5x/day it's not guge amounts of time. but yes, it happens often that he takes a lot longer for showering because he has to rub one out or misses breakfast because he stays in bed to masturbate. it's also fairly common that he soends entire mornings jacking off if i'm not home instead of doing sething productive. it does bother him, he said himself that he would like to take up reading and exercising again, but then he just stays in bed because it's comfy and he's horny and he has all the porn he could wish for readily available.

i asked him and he said that whenever he has a boner he's also horny and could fuck on the spot.

he's in good health and shape, he's just almost always tired and absent minded. he forgets a lot or makes unnecessary errors (hia own observation, and i see it too). i don't know if that's a symptom or a cause.

Well, there are such a things as hypersexual disorders (like "sex addiction"), so maybe try talking to a therapist or expert in the field?

Jerk it before going on a date

>>18445739

don't drink.

yes excitement usually makes you cum quickly, big breaths and go again.

>>18445749
>>18445760
aight thanks /adv/isors, tips noted. Sometimes I think there's a deeper issue of having sex with women that I have zero connection with but I sincerely struggle to form bonds of trust and serenity with women. On the other hand I do have a porn addled brain, and I think my bad jerk off habits are definitely a factor.

Also no drinking at all?

that's depression

>>18445648
I know what I've described sounds really like depression but I'm not depressed, I'm just worn out with things.

>>18445651

depression actually doesn't mean some deep sadness. people don't realize that the actual definition of depression is just being 'burnt out' long term basically.