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>>18452669
>clinically depressed
>wants a gf

No

>>18452672

So i'm a lost cause in that department?

>>18452669

everyone likes attention. just say "hey it was great bumping into, lets catch up some time"

nothing you do on facebook really matters. you can just block her if shes a bitch

>>18452646

you have it backwards. if you dont like any of the girls you know, you dont want a girlfriend.

women are people, not accessories. get to actually know them before you decide that you dont like them

dont think about bf/gf as being a big deal. it just means youre getting to know them. talk to a girl you dont think you like just to know her better. you can always dump her.

>>18452682

I wouldn't be interested in someone I don't find cute.

> get to actually know them before you decide that you dont like them

I don't know how to get to know them, really.

As cliche as it is, if you want a girlfriend, you need to get out more. Meet people at or through a job, join clubs, do activities out and about that you like doing, literally anything that gets you introduced to new people. The best relationships are the ones you didn't expect to fall into your lap, so as long as you create opportunities for yourself and you take them, sooner or later you'll find someone who'll say yes.

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how did you go about finding a girl

asking for a f-friend

>>18452629
The Erotic Review, filter by city, look for providers with lots of reviews. Do your research on each one, of course.

Also, be clean, kind, and respectful and they'll be very nice to you.

>>18452632
Do you feel the "unclean" or "the shame"?

Earplugs? Or invest in some noise cancelling headphones? Noisy people generally are used to their own level of noise and often won't be quieter than that for sustained periods of time.

>>18452596
I have these but I get in trouble for using them since my parents want me to respond to them within 2 seconds of them saying my name. That's why I have to try and deal with the source if the issue rather than just live around it.

>>18452600
....why are all religious parents like this?

Anyways, it's more than just your sister that's the problem. Put all your focus into moving out. Seriously. Keep your religion close to your heart and don't let your crazy family run you over.

You only have one life. Don't be guilted into not living.

>>18452563
this is the fucking man, OP
be happy the fp is bp

>>18452550
> Is it moral to go travelling when I currently live at my mum's?
If mum's okay with it, what's the problem?

Maybe she even likes it if you send her a few pictures as a nod to her efforts. It's not like interactions at home are more interesting.

Travelling also is a form of education, too. Basically, just do it.

Talk to women online and offline. Just chat. They're just people, we all work exactly the same. Watch vanilla porn with couples.

What exactly have you stumbled on? All that stuff is just fantasy, it's not real life anon.

>>18452537
I'm going to guess that you like porn femdom but not real life femdom then?

Well, just don't do real life femdom in that case. Problem solved.

If you've developed a ridiculous neurotic dislike of women over the femdom you saw, it's maybe time to meet a few real people again, rather than just watching porn in a basement.

Not that you're alone, we got enough crazy women who dodge men walking around on the streets at night, out of fear of getting raped or some stupid crazy thing like that.
And some are afraid for their daughters or sons going to concerts 'cause ISIS might bomb them. Some people take the unlikely events they saw in media or even fiction way too personal. If you REALLY can't get over it, it's actually probably time to get professional help.

Where you did go for your date?

>>18452524
I went to her town and met at a local ice cream place. She had a shake, I had a cone. I paid fer both of us despite her protesting.

>>18452526
so youre a cuck

Should I even keep trying or just stop talking to her? She keeps looking at my snaps on sc but as you can see she just stopped texting me..lol

she probably saw your enthusiastic texting as overly attached

nothing you can do now, live and learn

honestly it's the best to keep your replies short and not inquisitive at all

i.e. "im watching a movie tonight at 10 you should come over"

and that's it, don't ask for any explanations. It's fucked, but she probably has low self esteem and you asking her what you did wrong just made you look silly in her eyes. think "Why would he care what a low-value person such as me thinks of his approach? He must be really insecure."

it sounds retarded but it's what my experience has been

>>18452575
>"Why would he care what a low-value person such as me thinks of his approach? He must be really insecure."

This is exactly how people with low self-esteem think

>>18452454
Here's a really wild, off-the-wall idea

Does the Canadian consulate have a website? Might it have the info you want?

Am in Canada. Why exactly do you want to come here for school vs. the UK?

>>18453441

And also what school are you thinking of?

>>18452429
walk around in tall grass and wait for them to approach you

It helps when you have reason to

>>18452608
penis in vagina is the reason

I'd say for know just hang back and wait
and pray god she doesn't go back with him

play it cool, just show some interest but not too much since she's the one who said she wanted a one night stand

d'après le titre de ton image t'es FR ?

>>18452545
oui ?

>>18452543
Yea but i know her so much i know she kinda wants more too (signs she mades, glances on me) thats why i wanna tryhard

>>18452399
most oxford students have to transfer from nyu or columbia because of their low acceptance rate.

St Hilda's grad here. Tbh if you are coming here from state education college selection is more about staff fellowships and college fees than associations.

>>18452399
Go to the fucking Unis instead of asking to the internet like a fucking faggot.

>>18452391
> Is the flirtatious banter and eye-fucking all just for attention then?
Can't tell. There are all sorts of possible reasons why she wouldn't be clear, yet flirt.

Many women are hedging multiple bets. Many women are taking flirting to be normal social interaction without thinking it's even in the dating context. Many women have reservations right now about being actually in an official relationship for various reasons even while their instincts tell them it'd be nice to be in one.
And so on. People aren't all the same.

All you can do is be even clearer in stating your feelings and seeing if she actually shows her cards.

Maybe she likes you but doesn't want to date someone from work. Maybe she's just very friendly. Or she isn't sure if she likes you. There's plenty of explanations that don't jump to her doing it only for attention.

>>18452406
Good point, she is attractive so it's likely there's definitely other dudes.

I guess I could be more clear, but frankly, I'm not really too concerned about it - there's other girls and at least she's fun to talk to.
>>18452408
Honestly, I pin her as someone who's a little more headstrong regarding who she is and is not attracted to. I think most likely she is just very friendly. But I do also think it's for attention.

Chances are she would have cheated on you at some point, don't worry about it.

>>18452386
Maybe stop ghosting people wtf

>>18452412
I wasn't able meet her for a long time and I figured it'd be better not to let it devolve into dullness by texting too much w/o physical contact.

it just seems that every move is wrong. The relationship needed physical escalation and it just wasn't possible for me at that time.

>>18452381
Treat her the same way if there's an occasion to get her a present that she expects. On a side note, gifts are something you should always be happy to get(assuming the gift isn't something that makes your life more difficult), and you might want to ask her why she thinks you'd be upset with a gift.

>>18452381
If you don't really care about presents, then why this fucking post? Shut the fuck up and move on you fucking whining ladyboy.

>>18452381
You need to talk to her. Simple as that; a little communication goes a long way.