> le me
> smoker since high-school
> quit for a year
> became fat as fuck
> got tons of stretch marks
> started enjoying my marlboros again
> lost the weight
> stretch marks still fucking there
> dont quit smoking guys
I'm planning on quitting again.
How can I do it without turning into Orson Welles and Marlon Brando combined?
I just quit about two weeks ago.
Help. I don't want to become like OP.
how fat are talking here
>>18725433
It's inevitable.
Im torn between choosing between two waifus. They both are equally cute, both have different pros and cons. Im really torn please help and please dont call them shit.
Its Satania and Neptune btw.
You need to sort yourself out, mate.
>>18725397
Its fine
Having a waifu helps with my anxiety. I just cant cheat obviously.
There isn't even a get nearby
What's with so many shitpostings?
>match few girls on tinder after moving to new location
> after week of talking go on date with this one girl
>travel 50 mins to meet her
>we get on really well and make out at end of date
This girl is constantly on my mind now, I dont even care about matching or talking to other girls? wtf is happening, I normally don't fall this hard.
How can I not get feelings for this chick so quick wtf?
>>18725332
>I normally don't fall this hard.
You're fucking dramatic. Stop being such a fucking queen.
>>18725332
You have jus moved to a new place. You crave a connection, some stability. The girl itself doesn't really matter. The thing is what she represents.
>>18725362
This anon gets it. I just had the same thing happen a while back. I was starved of physical affection due to a LDR. I became attached to the first girl that I found attractive who gave me her number so fast I creeped us both out,
Why are so many people here worried about their face and I like my face but have 1001 other problems and insecurities instead?
>average anon: "hey you are right the face isn't important it's all about being yourself"
>ask guy/girl out
>rejects you because they are turned off by your face
>their faces when
>>18725069
>Why are so many people here worried about their face and I like my face but have 1001 other problems and insecurities instead?
Its a coping technique. The kids here cope with their fear and/or inability to properly address the issues in their life that they have the power to change by focusing all of their energy on the issues they can't really change; like their faces or how other people behave. They blame normies and feminists and chads and all sorts of external factors for all of the problems in their lives because the reality that they are responsible for their failures is too painful; its too real.
Our minds are expertly designed to protect itself from physical and emotional harm and sometimes that comes in the form of lying to ourselves to avoid immediate pain. Our habit of seeking immediate relief from suffering is a knee-jerk reaction in comparison to the challenge that often comes with accepting truths and making decisions that hurt us in the short term but greatly benefit us in the long term. Long story short, its a much much easier and less painful thing to blame your terrible love life on your face then it is to look in the mirror and accept that you aren't the person you thought you were.
>>18725069
It's all about height.
Hello it's me again!
Dutch 30-something who struggles with wanting to go out.
By going out I mean: going into town at night, enjoying the nightlife, going to a bar or club.
Last time I posted, I told you that I discussed my issues with a psychiatrist.
He agreed with me that going out at my age was wrong and strange.
You 4chan-ers seemed to disagree.
Therefore I made an appointment with another psychiatrist, this time a female.
She also agrees with me that going out at my age is strange. She even callled me a creep for wanting to got out.
She explained to me that going out in our country is something you do between the age of 16-24.
Once you are over 24 or out of University, society expects you to have a 5-9 and settle down into boring life waiting for retirement and eventual death.
We have:
> 1. My own moral compas telling me it's wrong to got out
> 2. A male psychiatrist telling me it's wrong to got out
> 3. A female psychiatrist telling me it's wrong to got out
I've accepted that I'm supposed to stay inside. This makes me sad for having missed my teen / early 20-something years where you are supposed to hve fun and party.
Kill me please.
[spoiler]>>18725050
How is it hard to go out..
I mean like you're saying it it sounds like you're trying to go solo.
Don't you have friends? Just go for drinks together..
>>18725067
I do not have friends. I'm a loner. Have been all my life.
>>18725067
But if 2 psychiatrists tell me it's wrong to be going, then that must be true.
Should I lose my virginity to a woman I don't find all that attractive just so i can get it over with?
There's an older woman who me and my friend group have befriended who works at a bar we frequent. She's fat, and pretty middle of the road looks wise, but she's sweet and she's into me. A few months ago we got drunk and i walked her home. We smoked some weed and we fooled around. She gave me my first bj, we didnt have sex.
After that she started texting me a lot and made it clear she was really into me. I was thrown off as for me it was a casual hook up. She got the idea and we haven't spoken much since and havent been drinking in a while so I dont see her all that much.
This week though I've been hornier than a mfer and am tired of masturbating, so I haven't in about a week. I'm pent up. I know if I hit her up this weekend to grab some drinks she'd be down and it wouldnt be too difficult to head back to her place after. The question is should I? I'm in my mid 20s, desperate to lose my virginity because it's a big source of anxiety and depression that I'm still a virgin at such an old age. However, I don't know if I'll regret losing it to her simply because I dont feel any way about her, she's just there to get me off really. I figure I'm not gonna be good at it my first time and since im not invested in her it wouldnt be a big deal if i sucked at it, compared to if i found a girl I really liked and was bad at it. At the same time, I'm not evil and I dont want to lead her on if she thinks a hook up like this will lead to something long term. How do i reconcile these things?
>>18724944
It's just sex and its only as special as you make it.
>>18724944
No. If you aren't attracted to her, what the fuck is the point familia? You're just going to be stuck with a memory of losing it to some bitch you didn't even like, and you'll probably feel the same or worse than before
>>18724953
I hear this a lot but I can't help how I feel. Whatever the reason, society, personal beliefs, religion, etc, that level of intimacy, especially for someone like me who has only come into their own as a sexual being in my 20s instead of a teenager and people find it fucking weird if you're a virgin by my age. The longer I wait the worse and more anxiety ridden I feel.
>>18724955
Maybe, maybe I will regret it, but I can't help but feel this fucking cloud will be gone from over my head. I've strived hard to become normal, more social, more willing to be part of society instead of an outsider looking in. I drink, I go to parties, I have a good friend group and am meeting new people. I've lost 100+ pounds so I'm not some disgusting unhygenic loser that doesn't take care of himself anymore. This has all happened post college, in my mid 20s within the past two years, I'm finally out of shell. But this is the one thing left, intimacy. I'm tired of not having it, i just want to be able to say I'm not a virgin and actually mean it instead of lying to people about it. I get so nervous about sex when I meet a girl I like, how can I ever date someone my age as a virgin, without knowing how to date, how to engage sexually? It's not instinct for me..I've come close, once even with a girl I really liked, but was so nervous about doing it that I pushed her away for good. I hate myself for it and I want it to be done, even if it's not as "special" as it should be.
I'm an 18-year-old male and I have a crush on a 16-year-old guy who lives im my town. A few weeks ago I asked him if we wants me to drive him to School (It's on my way to my workplace), and he agreed. So now we see each other every day and talk for about 10 minutes, but unfortunately that's it.
We found out that we have many things in common (eg. we both have a dog, we play vidya, but he has a ps4 while I play on PC, and we both smoke weed occasionally etc.).
But now I don't know how to act further. Should I ask him if he wants to hang out? I'm afraid that he doesn't want to have more contact because of the age difference. And how do I find out whether he's gay or at least bi?
>>18723984
You should find out if he's gay first but Idk if that's going to well haha.
I gues the best way is to just ask him maybe? wait for some gay bros on here.
>>18723992
Isn't it a bit weird to ask him something like "Oh, btw, are you gay?"?
Especially if he asks why I asked.
>>18723999
You're just going to get hurt. You need to know if a guy is gay first before you start pursuing them. Odds are he is straight. I mean it isn't guaranteed, but odds are he is. You don't get any sense or vibe from him at all ?
so my boyfriend of 3 years and i have been on a "break" for the past month now. hardly any contact. today i told that i'm going out to coffee with a male coworker tomorrow and my boyfriend got EXTREMELY upset, crying, etc. he says that being on a break doesn't mean we can see other people, even just casually.
what is the general rule about this? we never specified before the break if we could see others or not. is it normal to go out with other people during a break from a long term relationship?
A break is just code for 'im not ready to be completely alone yet so let me drag it out longer' you guys have only been going for 3 years and already need a break?
You should do what you want to do because it doesnt sound like you really care about your bf like you aren't even upset that he's upset about this so break up with him
>>18723708
i am really upset that he's upset. i just wish he could've stayed calm so he can tell me what he wants me to do/not do. i even offered that i cancel tomorrow but he just said he can't handle this and doesn't want to talk.
>>18723715
You sounded like you want togo for coffee woth another guy, and you are here asking us if its normal to want togo out with another man when your 'bf' hasnt talked to you in a month.
Your bf sounds exhausting and like he's jut looking for an excuse to break up with you. Because i bet you treated him really well
I'm seeking advice and understanding on the behavior of coprophagia and scatology. I recently discovered an anonymous and hidden scat fetish blog operated by my fiancé. This discovery is akin to infidelity for the soul reason we have no personal or sexual secrets. We have had 3somes, only FFM thus far, open enjoyment of clean anal play, Daddy/Princess dynamic that thrives very well in the honesty commitment to knowing ones place. It seems like we were open minded and sexually addept but then there is this and with what seems like no reasonable explanation.
The closest paraphilia that I could even come close to is trans/homo sexuality because I can admit I'd fuck a trap or a shaved twink, but my Sub/homoerotic fetishizes the top 0.01% of gays. Her blog by admission is about 2+ish years old, has about 50 reblogged pictures (none personal) and it showcasses coprophagia fecal eating and scatology facial/genital feces smearing.
One thing that gets me is there are/were no idicators. She has the traditional social abversion to poop and farts. She is an incredibly picky eater, I can barely make her eat veggies lest I believe she would eat shit. She doesnt engage in other "gross" activities, she wipes, showers, brushes teeth, hair, shaves and grooms.
1/2
>>18720235
2/2
The day I found it we discussed it. After an immediate short breakdown I made it clear I wasn't going to just leave her over this and I didn't think badly about her, But I did want to discuss it and undestandably in the moment she didn't have much to say. We finished our drinks and continued the evening.
I've know her about 5 years and we have had a sexual relationship for about 4 and together the last 2 years. In our end high school years when we had sex regularly and even engaged in anal she always had the typical female worry of "what if poop dick!?!?!?" And again had no cleanliness issues.
She doesn't have any other paraphillias that I know of and she isnt even keen to getting pissed on, not that I'm interested but my search for understanding is to love her because she is my 5'10" Aryan goddess and I'm not going to leave her. I have no immediate interest in shitting on her but I would like to understand and control this paraphillia before it evolves deception, infidelity or becomes a legitimate danger to our relationship or other potential health risks.
Is their anyone with experience into coprophagia/scat fetishism? Whats the attraction? What is it that turns your gears? Is it the degredation of it? Is it erotic opposition to social norms? Is it "Je ne sais quoi", a feeling you can't quite describe? I want to know whats the fascination.
>inb4 leave her
>inb4 shes too far gone
>inb4 not taken seriously
>inb4 and nigger dick comments
>inb4 everything, Not going to reddit.
>>18720238
>>18720235
I saged this because I don't care. Love your girl or dont because of some fetish she has But im pretty sure this is a made up story.
>>18720243
Does this smell like a copy pasta? Nice to see people /adv/ are cunts just like in /b/bant/k/&/pol/ still in 4chan huh.
Hey guys, log story short, this company I applied for an internship at is terrible. Their service towards me has been horrible, standing me up, countless reschedules, late email replies and countless email mistakes as well as wasting my time.
I've reached the last straw, I want to know how I can tell them I am no longer interested in their job and that I want to withdraw. How should I put it? I feel like it would be best to mention the things they've done that have inconvenienced me several times and wasted my time, any idea how to do so?
Quit being a little bitch. That is how companies treat interns.
>>18725746
Nope, don't tell them they fucked up. They'll think you're an asshole and possibly spread the word to other companies not to hire you. Just tell them you ended up going with another position that more closely matched what you were looking for. Be professional
>>18725754
>t. spineless brainlet minimum wagie
>>18725746
Did they offer you the job OP? Use this formula
>if you have a better job offer, reject;
>else accept the position;
If it's paid, a shity paid internship is way better than an unpaid
I basically have a year off school thanks to sum bullshit and i kinda got interested in archery. So basically how do i get into it? Can i rent a bow or what?
>>18725624
Just look for an archery club, or a kyudo club if you want to drink tea while doing archery.
Check in with your local rod and gun club or whatever similar thing you have nearby. Sport rental places may also have archery equipment but I am not entirely sure.
>>18725624
Auscunt here - 1 of my kids did it for a while.
>Search for local archery clubs
>Ring to enquire - cost etc.
We did $20 for the 1st lesson and $10 each one after for 12 weeks of training probation, then we could apply to join club (couple of hundred dollaryoos for life from memory)
>go, they lend you for each lesson a simple compound bow usually with an easy draw, string, wrist guad and half a doz arrows.
>shoot according to rules - grounds master blows whistle, you step to line, shoot at leisure then once everyones done whistle blows and you retrieve arrows
>rinse repeat till they call time - as you get more adv. the members have separate times to shoot
>help put everything away - including targets etc., this help is expected and you'll get a bad name (probably no invitation to join either) if you don't help.
Gud sport for relaxing - if that makes sense. Not very physical comparatively but you'll need strength in you chest and arms.
I would buy my own wristguard to begin with - the ones we were offered had been used, extensively. And leather so not washed...
If you had to choose between dating and eventually marrying one of the following three which would it be...
>A man or woman with CHRONIC BODY ODOR
>A man or woman with SCHIZOPHRENIA
>A man or woman with EXTRA TOES
Make your choice.
>>18725471
All three pls.
Extra toes, easily dealt with.
>>18725471
The options are really unbalanced, everyone will always choose the last because the girl can just wear socks
If I have no references I can use at 24, am I just doomed to never be able to get a minimum wage job?
Bump.
I'm really worried, I've applied to every shitty job in the area
Ever tried lying anon?
Use edx to get certtificates skills that are appealing, then lie saying you spent your more recent years developing your skills and are applying now so you can hone them.
I have heard about homeopathy recently and how it >supposedly< does wonders for people who have bad health.
For example, you have problems with digestive system, immunity, neurological problems, allergies, mental problems all at the same time.
You see one type of doctor for one thing, he gives you one drug. But this drug fucks up another thing.
So then you visit another doctor, and he gives you another drug and this drug messes up something else.
So the circle closes, and you are left with more ilnesses than you had to begin with.
Now, supposedly homeopathy works like that: you visit a homeopathy doctor, you give him all your problems and he alone cures all of them.
But on the other hand I have read that the drugs given by homeopaths are basically not doing anything and it's just a placebo effect.
Have anyone here ever tried homeopathy? Who should I believe? Is homeopathy just a meme?
It does help. Mainly because the placebo effect is extremely real.
>>18725423
But if I know something is a placebo effect, it never works.
Hell, things that are supposed to be placebo effect that I know that about them don't work on me.
I think I have a bs barrier.
>>18725427
Yeah, that's the joke. You fucked up by not being a moron who believes everything without research.
Can someone pls help me get my shit together?
Today i got prescribed insulin for my pregnancy diabetes and now i have to inject it for the first time.
I can't bring myself to insert the needle into my leg. I've been sitting here since 10 mins, trying to get over myself and just get it done.
Just someone telling me to not be such a pussy.
Thanks...
>>18725385
What is your fasting blood glucose level? and 60 or 90 minutes post-prandial?
>>18725385
And how high did your blood glucose go during your OGTT (when you drank the drink to get diagnosed with neonatal diabetes)?
>>18725385
Just do it. Count down from 3 and do it before you even finish saying 1. The first stick is the hardest. YOU CAN DO IT. It barely hurts. I'm a nurse. I stick people all the time.