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>no friends, no gf, no job, fat
>no interest to change
>why.jpg
>>18457710
Dunno. No job will probably be a problem over time. Fat too. Mitigate these.
>>18457710
It's because of you
>>18457710
>no interest to change
Then why did you make this thread...?
Slightly pierced the edge of my right foot (left hand side where the bone is, just below my big toe) on a wooden skewer. The skewer was clean, the wound is absolutely tiny and I've been cleaning it with alcohol wipes. Since yesterday, it has already pretty much healed. It's a bit sore but I think this is because of where it is (bone).
Do I need a tetanus jab? I'm flying tomorrow and will struggle to get to a doctor before then (although I will if I need to). Any advice would be grateful appreciated.
Nigger tetanus was eradicated some time ago.
>>18457703
I live in the UK, we still have the black plague.
This is what I was hoping for, but I didn't want to leave it to chance and end up with lock jaw 15000 feet in the air.
If you grew up in the developed world you've already been vaccinated. It's a fucking scratch, just don't rub pig shit in it and you'll be fine.
>>18457703
It has not been eradicated you absolute ingrate. People in developed countries rarely get it anymore because of vaccines but the bacterium that causes it, clostridium tetani, still lives in dirt everywhere.
I honestly think they're not interested in me, because I might be awkward while talking to them and I guess I'm not attractive.
Should I just forget about them/don't talk to them and do things to improve myself ?
For example:
>Get better at playing guitar.
>Lift weights more frequently.
>Improve my spanish.
>Maybe talk to random people more often just to loosen up more (even though I don't want to).
Becoming a self enforced eunuch is never a good thing to turn to. Fix up your appearance best you can and fo all the things you mentioned but stay the fuck away from MGTOW faggotry or any mindset where you're making a point of not thinking about women.
>>18457696
Having confidence in yourself and working on talking to more people would go the furthest from what you have described. While looks can contribute confidence is what you need most of all.
how old are you
what are your hobbies
what is your job/job prospects
do you take care of yourself
can you cook
can you wash your underwear
can you drive
women want a man, like their dad, ppl who fix shit, ppl who they can ask about things
im under the impression you are a boy, and not a handsome one and that makes it very hard to obtain pooning
>began my "locs" like 5 6 months ago with crochet hook ( was 1 month in twists before )
> Use crochet like every few weeks and just 30minutes ( very light )
> wash my hair once a week with aleppo soap
Washed my hair 5 days ago and did no maintenance .
Pls I no longer know what to do. Say something about it, are they even locking ? Thanks.
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>>18457638
>>18457631
Good god, I wouldn't touch that with garden gloves. My condolences. If your hair would be a carpet I would burn that house down.
I know I won't get far with this but I might as well try.
My grandma passed away about 5 years ago and my grandpa remarried about 2 years ago to this woman he met through a care-taker site. She was originally just suppose to take care of him but in fear of dying alone, he married her to feel less "alone".
However, even before the marriage, she treated him like shit and we've seen it with our own eyes but plays the victim and tells us to leave "their" house. Recently a family member of ours went visit him and showed us pictures of how poorly his health deteriorated since he married her. He can barely walk, sit up to eat, or even lift a spoon and it's only been 2 years. We weren't able to take him in or tend to him before the care-taker because my mom was working, I was in school and working. He lives in the OC as of now, as we live in SF/Bay Area.
So my question is, how do we prove if she's been abusing him, acting on elder abuse, or have them divorce? She's technically a legal citizen because she had a prior marriage with another man. She's originally from China (forgot to mention we're Chinese, too) and due to the marriage, she's now a legal citizen so there isn't much we can do there.
I really need help on this situation because my mother and her siblings are at a loss and in tears after seeing him in this state. Any help or advice would be greatly appreciate. Thank you all.
That picture is incredibly fucking offensive.
>>18457609
Agreed, let's contact the mods to ban this photo in retaliation to hate photography.
Use the pictures that your family member showed you. Also I agree with anon, the image you used was offensive faggot
Can you make money by being good at Tetris? No faggy YouTube channel shit meme suggestions please.
>>18457590
No.
>>18457590
You spent about 0 minutes doing a google search on this, right?
So the answer for you is probably going to be no. For people who aren't such lazy pieces of shit, it's probably "not enough to be able to make a living unless you have a serious amount of hustle."
Stream it on Twitch.
>pic unrelated
>sitting in the park with my dog alone
>older couple walks by
>lady asked my dogs name
>I say "why?"
>husband gets pissey and they walks away
Was I rude for asking them their intentions of asking what my dogs name was?If I answered them the start probing with more questions and I wasn't in a talkative mood. Would have rude not to answer at all to me.
>>18457583
Pretty much the equivalent of saying "none of your business!"
But hey, at least there's no obligation to be nice to people you'll never meet again
You were not rude at all
Just say "bark bark bark?" next time, they'll laugh and probably go away. Better than being unnecessarily defensive and autismo by replying with "why?"
I'm not like my high-class friends. They travel the world and spend money on brand name items, events, once in a life time experiences and I find myself not being interested in those things. I cant bring myself to justify spending money on things that won't necessarily bring me fulfillment. Am I unhealthy for not craving these types of things especially in my 20s? I just enjoy chilling at home, playing video games, cooking, reading and laughing with family/friends. Once when I told them in the future I'd want to be a housewife if I ever found the right man... they were disgusted that I'd want children and be dependent on a man. I can't help but feel inferior to these people in the way they react to me. Am I actually mentally unhealthy and I'm supposed to be acting similar to my strong, independent women friends?
You have this thing called different interests so no, you are NOT mentally unhealthy
Your friends have different interests and goals from you, neither is mental.
>>18457580
We live in a dark world if people get disgusted by the idea of a woman having beautiful kids and being a happy housewife.
So my girlfriend of 18 months used to be a camwhore on reddit. She admitted to it about 2 months into the relationship and while it was somewhat jarring I wasn't going to freak out about it. I get how it's an easy form of validation for someone with low self esteem and I'm not the sort of guy who likes to get hung up on a girl's past. Plus said she hadn't done it in a year.
Fast forward to last month when I finally got curious enough to start snooping around to find her old threads and sure enough I find a thread from Jan '16, the month we started our relationship. I felt like absolute shit and confronted her about, we argued it out and I eventually forgave her.
It was a long ass time ago and I'm 100% certain she hasn't done it since and I'm sure she doesn't intend to do it again. It's just hard to not feel somewhat cheated on and I want to tear my fucking hair out every time I think of all the guys that jerked it to her while we were together, I still love her to bits but I feel like this is just something that's gonna keep eating away at me from the back of my mind
Pls help
I believe it'll pass with time, if you truly love her. There's nothing you can do about it anymore.
Some guy, somewhere, jerked off to a digital image of your GF in front of a monitor, he might as well have been some random guy who saw her on the street and thought about her while whacking off later that night.
These guys never touched her, they didn't even really see her.
I wouldn't worry about it.
>>18457547
She interacted with them and took requests still though, it feels a lot different from that
I'm a guy in a relationship but I want girls to give me attention like a lot of girls have beta orbiters
What's a good way to get these?
>>18457474
Be a cute girl.
>>18457477
What about being a very femmy guy?
>>18457481
Girls don't like femmy guys. And girls don't really orbit.
I'm 21, i've done nothing with my life. For one reason or another, anxiety or laziness, I've coasted along without doing anything learning anything. An emotional breakdown in high school put a wall between me and university, i'd need to get my old grades uup to even think about going, not to mention the money that'd have to be raise. After high school i spent my time working odd jobs and drinking heavily for a year or so. I've stopped the drinking beyond the odd treat on special occasions but i feel like it's had an effect on me.
I see all these brilliant things science is doing, pushing towards. I've seen them my whole life. I was told all throughout my childhood that i was a brilliant kid, that'd i'd go far, do much. And I suppose to an extent it's true, i was a pretty smart kid.
But these days i just feel stupid, beyond stupid. Braindead. When I try and buckle down and learn something, it's like it all becomes noise, like my mind is filtering it out. It used to be so easy for me to understand things, so easy i was, for the most part able to coast through school without any difficulty.
I feel like i've wasted a crucial period of life on my never ending anxieties and therefore will never be able to learn to be a person helping to move the world further. I feel like a failure to myself, and to mankind. I feel like i've royally fucked up.
Is it really too late for me?
If it's not, how the hell do i pull myself together in time to make something of myself?
I'm sure this sounds pathetic, i've just felt so lost for years.
There are like 100 threads about this on /adv/ a day. What gives you passion? What drives you?
Personally I was stuck in a dark place my whole life until I turned 24. College dropout, no friends, no girlfriend, no job, living with my parents. Then I had a REALLY powerful psychedelic experience. Not really good or bad, just... infinite. I can't recommend it for everyone (in b4 LOL DRUGS) but it sure opened my eyes to the fact anything is possible. I've since gotten a decent job, and I'm going back to school, have my own place, and have had a girlfriend. This is 2 years later.
I have revisited psychdelics about once every 3 or 4 months since and it always gives me that same kind of "bliss" or "awareness" of life that I cannot understand why everyone cannot see normally. I dunno. It's a longshot. Drugs sure don't work for everyone. I've always been a heavy drinker and remain a less heavy but still way too much then is good for me drinker to this day. That is the demon I can't break, myself.
But the people I have met since then. I have "turned" them on too so to speak. But yeah it doesn't work for everyone. Take my advice as you will.
>>18457393
I had mushrooms once when I was younger though. I wouldn't even know where too get psychedelics, but i've always been interested in trying them, especially in trying DMT.
The passion thing; i know you're right, i just can't seem to muster any intense passion for anything. I have a million things i'm interested in, but there's always some kind've niggling doubt in my mind somewhere that stops me from pursuing something specific.
>There are like 100 threads about this on /adv/ a day.
Yeah... I know this kind've thing is a commonly whined about issue. I just, i dunno, my anxieties about it have been a little extra strong lately, figured i might be another whisper in a sea of voices but that i might get heard.
Thanks for responding with sincere advice, much appreciated.
>>18457378
You're in the same boat with a lot of people. Instead of thinking everyone's happy and reaching their goals, think of them as they're having troubles as much as you but they don't show or care. Which is actually a fact, rather than a mental gymnastic.
tl:dr. change your view, read a book
I have low self-esteem. How do I improve my self?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2dbR2JZmlWo
This will help you out OP
You can stay by putting some more effort into your OP you lazy faggot. You could have low self esteem for a million respirations and you haven't posted even a hint at what they might be.
>>18457410
*reasons
Looks like I'm the lazy faggot who can't proofread
I have been depressed for years and have consistent periods of suicidal thoughts. I had a very controlling and emotionally abusive father and a mother who neglected me. I used to strangle and beat my family's two kittens as a teenager and gained pleasure from it. I vividly remember having strong erections when I was hurting the cats. After a while my mother gave them away and I'm pretty sure she had found out what I was doing.
In my late teens my family adopted another two cats and I resumed my old habits. I moved out soon after that. I'm 26 now and last year when I lived at my parents for a while I hurt those cats again. Now I'm living with them for the summer and the urge to hurt the cats is almost irresistible.
My adulthood has been very unfulfilling sexually. I lost my virginity at the age of 19. I have had 9 partners, 5 of which happened in the span of the last year. I always have trouble maintaining erection and I manage to climax maybe 10% of the time. I have settled with a girl from my class and I'd really like to have a healthy sexual life with her, but when we are in bed I feel like I have zero libido. Even with sildenafil my boner turns into a semi when I enter her. Then I get insecure thoughts that turn dark.
Stuff that keeps me from acting out my fantasies:
>the fear of getting caught
>my loved ones finding out and getting sad over it
What the fuck should I do? I don't want to get on record, i.e. talk to a psychiatrist.
Leave the cats alone for fucks sake.
>>18457350
You need help
>>18457350
I think you're a psychopath. Leave the poor cats alone. Also go get help
i'm confused. if i say no and they don't stop, try to keep my legs closed and they overpower me and push my legs apart, i keep saying don't but they say they want to get me off and i don't resist and they slowly relax me to orgasm, it's not rape? it is? i feel bad, like i've just been "had." it doesn't make sense to me. i didn't want them near my junk. i still don't want them near my junk. but i came. and they didn't rush or do anything "wrong" except keep going after i said No and did try to keep them off me at first. i wanted them to stop on their own but they didn't. this isn't a troll post, i know most of /adv/ is misogynistic assholes who will say "it wasn't rape because you gave in" but what is the definition of rape then? i didn't change my mind about not wanting it. i guess i just realized they were going to keep forcing themselves on me no matter if i resisted or not so i let it happen. this isn't rape?
>>18457315
It wasn't rape because you exist to please men. You're just a rib that should be submissive to your man's command.
It's 100% rape, you came to the wrong site though since most anons here are misogynists
We can't possibly know, we weren't there. If you made yourself really clear when you said no and stop, then it was rape, yeah.
However, how did you end up naked in a bed with some guy though? You must've sensed what was about to happen.
>Be me.
>Have a mom who started graphically describing her sex life to me at age 12 or so
>She was always talking about what a shitty lover my dad was and giving me tips on how to be a better lover "so you won't dissapoint women like your father does."
>Hear her say stuff like "you can always talk to me about sex, it's not embarrassing anon, its just a natural and healthy part of life. Are you getting nocturnal emissions yet? What are your dreams like when it happens? Don't be shy, openness and honesty makes for a healthy mind."
>Be like: mumble mumble "I uh, dreamed about this chick in my math class with big tits, Okaythanksbai mom, time for me to go."
>Be too weirded out to mention any of this to my father or anyone else.
>One day in early teens, come home. There is a slightly-older-than-me QT3.14 sitting in the kitchen with my mother. They seem relaxed and laughing, etc.
>Mother says: "This is [insert slut's name here]. Do you like her? Do you like her body, anon? I met her at the mall and brought her here to meet you. If you want, she will walk you through your first sexual experience, anon. I want you to be relaxed and have a positive time with a nice girl who understands. You can always have sex here in this house without feeling you need to sneak around or hide anything from me."
>Be weirded out as usual but MUH TEEN HORMONES and MUH TEEN DIQ be like, "uh, yeah, I'd hit that, thanks mom."
>Have sex. Be happy.
>QT3.14 leaves. Mom says, "Tell me all about it, anon. Don't be shy. Tell me in detail. I can give you advice."
> Be weirded out but usual but like, "uh, OK mom I guess."
(continued)
>Come home once every few weeks to find a new teen slut hanging out with mother. "Hi anon I brought you another girlfriend. Her name is Tiffany."
>"Uh, cool mom, thanks."
>"No problem, anon. Just remember what we talked about last time– how to delay ejaculation and move properly so you will give her pleasure, and not be a 30-second chump like your dad. I know you won't disappoint her, anon."
>"I'll try my best mom."
>Wash, rinse, repeat.
>Be a senior in high school. Finally get a real GF and not some slut brought home by mom.
>Mom flips out, starts smashing plates in the kitchen, threatens to call police on GF, threatens to throw acid in her face. "I can't believe you betrayed me like this anon. What kind of a son are you?"
>"I'm sorry mom, I didn't realize it would upset you so much."
>"You have two choices anon. Dump her this very afternoon or get out of this house and never come back."
>Gulp. "Yes mom."
>"That's a good boy. Remember family always comes first."
>Dump GF. Feel like an asshole as she cries and I can't explain why to her because it is too weird to tell her my mom made highly detailed threats of torture and death against her."
>Come home later, two sluts in the kitchen. "I want you to have your first threesome, anon. It's a present for being the greatest son ever."
>Leave home a few months later, strike out on my own.
>Live for a few more years before realizing how fucked up and abnormal my mom was.
>Wonder to this day if anyone else has had a similar experience. Never heard of anything like it from anyone else.
Nice b8, we all know you're a virgin Anon.
>>18457284
My advice
Is to do something productive like turn this greentext into a thriller novel or something instead of trying to fool us