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>>18461397
Post hair on here

24 here, hairline is going quickly now but it started when I was 16 so I know how you feel. If it really is that bad, like approaching combover levels of bad, I'd consider just shaving it off. I work with a guy around 22 who's bald, but he wears it well and confidently so it makes him look young despite the lack of hair.
I had hair reaching halfway down my back about 6 months ago, but cut it short because I was only trying to delay going bald so I'd feel better. Besides, bald men are attractive to a lot of girls so you'll be raking in the mires.

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I'm 22 and I've been balding and thinking since I was about 20 and I can sympathise with how you feel right now, when it first started happening to me i was freaking out and constantly self conscious about how my hair looked. I tried growing it out, styling it different, changing shampoos, amongst other things but none of it really helped and just made me even more self conscious the more i thought about it. I know it sucks but coming from someone who is comfortable with my hair at this point, the best thing you can do is just accept it and own it. Sure you're young and it sucks that you're losing your hair but hair isn't everything, and you're showing and great deal of maturity and self acceptance by owning your shortcomings and moving on with your life. Also, I guarantee you nobody else notices/cares expect for you, I've vented to my friends about going bald and they said they didn't really notice until I brought it up. What worked for me was just cutting my hair super short with a 1 guard on some clippers, a buzz cut actually alleviates the impact of balding hair because it makes it less noticeable and makes you look more confident/alpha. I still rock the buzz cut but I'm planning on shaving my head clean once my beard comes in a little more. My point is that if you accept what life has thrown at you and life your life despite something as arbitrary as losing your hair, people will notice and admire your confidence much more than they would have ever done if you just had a full head of hair. Pic related is what I'm talking about with real short buzzcuts, Jesse pinkman is starting to recede and thin but fuck tons of women and gay dudes think he's hot as fuck because he owns it and doesn't seem self conscious about it at all.

Good luck though anon, I feel for you man.

>>18461397
buzzcut

>>18461371
Most soaps dry the skin. You dont want your dick to be dry. Your dick hurted because you are retard, not because you have caught aids from soap. You just gripped too much with wrong lube.

>foreskin
Why do you even need lube? Either buy real thing or just go up and down with skin like normal boys do.

If you really want lube but not actual lube, try
>various cooking oils like sunflower, lard, buttet
>baby oil

Not soap. And really, fap gentle, dont hurt yourself with death grip. You will be ok.

>>18461371
It's probably too dry because soap dries shit out.

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>be dumb circumcised cuck who doesn't understand the function of the foreskin
>need lube to fap
>use HAND SOAP because you're an absolute retard
When will Jews and Protestants learn?

>>18461360
/Lit/

>>18461370
anything else?

>>18461383
Social media.

You want to be a new person. Why not be that new person im your marriage?

Also you sound like a child. Get your shit together

Learn to drive take driving tests get confidence slowly. And nothing will happen in public transport during the day cmon op

>>18461331
oh what's this a woman who married a cunt Chad is having second thoughts. Don't worry I hate you

>>18461321
Only if You may post about it

What's your street address, man? I really wouldn't know desu senpai

>>18461321
Security

>>18461314
How do You know You could live with the other Girl?

>>18461314
>Realise you act like a children that someone takes his toy away
>Remember that you actually haven't played with that toy in hours .
Solved?

>>18461314
I was forced out of a relationship with a girl I was absolutely crazy about, planned on spending the rest of my life with, and she legitimately made me happier than I have ever been in my life. But she left me for another guy out of the blue, and I was forced to figure out how to move on with my life. It took me about a year before I really truly had 100% moved on, but I did, and I am so fucking glad she left me. I see now for the first time all the bullshit that I dealt with being with her, all the ways in which we were wrong for each other, all the incompatibilities we had, and I know we would have just kept being more and more miserable had we stayed together. Our relationship was wonderful until the very end though, it's not like it was all shit, but once it goes downhill there's not really any way to go back, you just have to move forward.
Now I don't give a shit who she fucks, I can look back on our happy memories and instead of feeling sad and shitty and missing them, I feel happy and thankful that they happened, but realize that that's the past and we're both different people now, they people in those memories no longer exist.
You need to move on, and you are very lucky that you have another girl to move on to. I have yet to find somebody else after my gf dumped me, I had to get through all the bullshit while also dealing with general loneliness and affection withdrawal.
You'll be fine, OP. In fact you'll be great. You just need to realize that you and your life are constantly changing, and trying to keep things the same for too long is like trying to make a river stand still.

>>18461306
Through your nose, not mouth.

Also when you breath in, you can either expand chest/belly or raise shoulders.
>jews claim the right way is the belly/chest

Try focusing on taking very fast, shallow breaths

>>18461306
Try to keep the number of inhales and exhales roughly even

Just ask her to remain friends then?

>>18461301
I did, but we haven't talked since I told her we should just be friends.

>>18461305
have a decent chat with her, tell her about this stuff like you did with us.

good friends are rare.

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>>18461235
You are a good Man

>>18461235
Meh. I guess responsible anons make the world a better place.

>be me
>be 3rd world country mate
>no one gets agri courses
>because agri is for plebs
>hopefully money and soy protein tastes good in a few decades

>>18461235
Well why not do what they did? If you are as skilled as you say then the interview is only a formality anyway. Except they'll be hiring someone who actually knows what they're doing.

yes
because his art was trash and if you didnt know it was his you wouldnt care about it

wow
a building

so unique and interesting

fucking dumbass.

>fails at even basic perspective
>keeps drawing buildings

His art is shit. Check the fucking lean on that facade, for instance.

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>>18461207
You Animal

>>18461216
How is OP an animal. All he did was help his grandfather get sexually active again and reduce stress

>>18461216
How am I the animal

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>>18461178
Just be bold about it. Drive up and say, "Hey i really enjoy talking to you i want to get your number" or some variant. It sounds like you setup a good warm situation with her.

>>18461178
>Was thinking I could pull up next time and give her a enveloped card asking if she'd want to catch a movie sometime and my phone number and see if she reaches out.

Do you have a dentist appointment coming up that will render you unable to speak for the next few weeks? Because that's the only justification you can have for handing someone you regularly speak to an enveloped card asking them out.

>>18461219
its true. You want to make your intent as clear as possible. She will respect you as a man if you come out and act bold about it. She'll think that you must have a lot of choice because that takes a strong man.

>>18461167
A pushover in what?

>>18461167

>how do i stop being a pushover

before you agree to do anythign, think about it. does this person deserve your help in any shape way or form? is it going to hinder your life? weigh the pros and cons of if doing this makes you a pushover. if it does, demand something in return. even if you have to make something up that you need help with, do it to prove the point.

but if you don't mean in that sense you'll have to be more specific.

>will people finally respect me

maybe some. definitely not most. respect means more than just not doing something someone asks you to do.

>>18461185
Whenever someone confronts me, I get a deep pit in my stomach and get scared. It leads to me letting people walk over me, sometimes.

Like, if someone says something snide to me, idk how to respond, I just freeze up and either laugh it off or ignore it.

First you should get a degree if you don't have one.

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>>18461156
>What kinds of behaviors/habits would make me more appealing?

So instead of pursuing knowledge and skills to feed an insatiable curiosity to learn, you want to be appealing to women?
Would you still have the same motivations if you were trying to attract men? no, not sexually but as a means to be admired and respected?


I don't intend to be snide, but you aren't gonna get far my dude.


The closet man I know who fits the description of 'Renaissance Man' is my mechanic.

Even though he speaks in laymen terms and his descriptions are often unsophisticated, he's passionately curious about anything mechanical, which then led him towards electronics, hydraulics he learned to be competent at college level mathematics to understand further concepts, the dude can competently fly airplanes and helicopters, para-gliders, gyro-copters. Last I heard he was offered a bridging program/scholarship to by a university. He knows his machines and his love for them led him to do things that you wouldn't imagine a mechanic doing.


My point is, people who you describe tend to remain unseen. Its a shame, I know, but that's just the way they are.
They don't care about fame or fortune or attention, just another venture and avenue to pursue.


But anyways, I wish you all the best in your pursuits.

Oh, and obligatory.
> Money
> be urself XD
> Face,frame, height
etc etc

>>18461223
Fpbp

Rapist scumbag. Turn yourself in to the police NOW.

>>18461155

>how do i find osmeone to have sex with?

as a general rule, you don't, not specifically I mean. you talk to girls you find attractive who are reciprocating and you just make a go for it. you don't go in specifically looking for girls who have some secret bat signal of sex. it doesn't work that way.

its also your first party so dont get your hopes up

You are a kid. Just practice and don't expect to succeed. The odds of you losing your virginity are very low. How do I know? Because you ask such a question.

Whatever happens use it as a learning experience.