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So theres this panhandler whos cute that I fucked a month ago, havent seen her since, also was only 40 bucks.
Didnt see her today was feelin horny as fuck, so I went to the backpage and found an escort, she couldnt see me til a few hours later, so made it only 50.
Then on my way home I saw the girl with her cardboard sign.
I know I have a problem, cause panhandler chick wouldve been in my car, I need to stop seeing both whores or trying to bang panhandlers, any advice on what I should do? I guess I shoulda jerked off, but damn it felt good, also Im moving out in august so it would be dumb to waste money on this (usually escorts are alot more).
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>>18466300
>Fucking 50 dollar escorts
How to get syphilis 101
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I used a condom and didnt kiss her on the mouth.
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Maybe you can set up a long-term deal with the panhandler?
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>Come home from uni
>Start computer
>Eat cereals
>Browse the net till 2AM
>Go to sleep
>Rinse and repeat
I have these stuff i'd "like" to do, like learning to play the guitar, or start a drawing, but i never do it
i've been like this for so long... I know the only cure is to start doing stuff, but i can't.
I think there are lots of fears involved. For example, when i was younger, i just did stuff without asking myself questions, so i was enjoying it. Now, I can't help but have negative thougts when i engage in something. Like, i'm drawing stuff, and i'm worrying about stuff like "it's not good enough, i should draw more" etc etc, thus resulting into me being more and more absorbed in negative fantasies, imagining myself failing, and stuff like this.
So i just avoid doing stuff to avoid confronting all this negativity, and i numb myself on the internet with constant entertainement.
How can i make things fun again ? How can i surpass all this insecurity, how can i believe in myself again ? The answer is to probably just do it, but i cant, even though it's the irrational choice... The more i avoid things, the harder it is to do them... Fucking vicious circle, if only i was disciplined
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Make a to do list (realistically planned) and stick to it. It's baby steps.
Also your problem sounds like a light depression, but you can break out of it. After Uni, go take a walk in the Park. No cellphone, no laptop, no distractions. Take a Paper and Pen with you and write down what you truly want from this gift that Life is. Where do you want to be next year? Where in 5 years?
Then break down the smallest steps towards it.
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>>18466294
Getting a part-time job helped me with these exact problems. I get paid, interact with people for a few hours every day, and now that I have a schedule to stick to I use my free time more wisely
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i got the same problem as OP except instead of uni i have a part time job and it hasnt helped any. the infrequent schedule, working weekends, and nearly full time hours for not enough pay if anything makes it worse
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I was basically completely socially isolated after I moved here around half a year ago. As in besides going to work or grocery shopping I didn't leave the house.
So I was in need of friends but besides that I wanted to smoke some weed again, so over online methods I met a guy in my area that invited me to come over.
We had a pretty chill night and also did some coke and smoked some. When I was around 18 I have been trying some drugs occasionally so it's not completely new to me (took Ecstasy and handful of times, and once LSD but else pretty tame). But I have stopped completely even with weed around 1.5 years ago. I'm 22 now to put this in relation.
Now last weekend we met up again and he and his friend circle are super welcoming and genuinely nice people. But they're a bit of Junkies. As in, they deal with drugs, have some trouble with police and pretty much overdo it every weekend. Of course they don't push anything for me, but it's easily available and I just need to ask and I could get stuff for free even. This weekend we were hanging out and I did 200mg MDMA, snorted a bunch of Speed and Coke, later even some shrooms and had a blast. But I would have had a blast even when sober, because all I deeply and truly want are friends. The next morning I felt like wanting to die and was kinda regretting it. But for them it seems to be a normal experience, and no big deal. Now this weekend they will go out again to some outdoor festival and I don't know what to do.
I'm so starved for human interaction. And I could talk to them nicely and normally when we start out and are sober. And when they start taking stuff, I hesitate at first. But when they're all fucked up and I just sit around there I kind of want to join too. I also want to trip out because the lava lamp looks so cool, and stuff like this.
I don't know what to do, because this is the closest I have been to friends and I genuinely don't know how else I should get to know people I feel understood with.
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Make some friends who aren't junkies? Junkies are easy to befriend because a huge chunk of society won't give them the time of day.
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As I said, I have tried really. I went to an extremely awkward meetup for people that are new in the area, I tried talking to coworkers, I just went out to events like a fair and such things. Nothing has worked and I was feeling I was getting insane if I keep isolated for any time longer. I'm painfully introverted and when I do want to bother with people I seek nothing but honesty and truth. I don't want small talk, I want talks about deep feelings and the Universe. And I have no idea how else to achieve that.
I don't know is there any future to keep being friends and able to control my urges to join in and totally overdo it aswell? Or is a small amount of taking drugs when younger perhaps even normal?
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>>18466373
>I have tried.
Damn. Well just smoke crack then. Definitely give up.
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I like a girl on steam, but we only really have one game that we both play... Pay day 2, I have posted a thread on here before and got some advice, but not as much as I would have liked.
At this point its hard to get her to play it with me and I think she might delete it for other games during the steam sale.
what do I do?
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Ask her for her number
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restart the drill and prepare for another police assault
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>>18466177
play different games together
find her on other social media
ask for her number faggot
what's the big deal here? you can still talk to her on steam right? a relationship based off of simply payday 2 will go nowhere, trust me I've had the exact same thing. just calm down and say something like "hey you should give me your number so we can talk to each other" or something along those lines. it's really that easy, and a huge boost to your confidence weather she says yes or not
Friend is 16 and in high school and needs a job. He's pretty good at writing and is seeking some sort of part time minimum wage job online but doesn't know where to go to find such jobs.
What does he do?
(He would hate to work at fucking McDonalds)
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>>18466111
>He would hate to work at fucking McDonalds
Tough shit, because that's all he's qualified to do. Experienced writers have a hard enough time making money, what makes you think a 16 year old can make money doing it?
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>>18466116
What is there to learn from McDonalds?
Nothing. There are no job skills that such a job gives you. You won't learn anything
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>>18466124
Typical 16 year old mentality.
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What level of drinking do you have to reach to become an alcoholic? I usually have no more than 10 drinks per week unless it's a special occasion, and there are at least 3 days where I don't drink at all. I really enjoy the taste of alcohol, and I don't want to have to quit (19 been drinking 3 years European)and I don't ever get withdrawal symptoms apart from feeling like having a beer but it's easy to ignore. Interested in other people's drinking habits or if anyone has had problems with it.
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alcoholism takes two forms: Binging on alcohol frequently and drinking small amounts throughout the day to always have a little alcohol in the system.
You're probably borderline, but it's hard to say online. Does it affect your life? Do your friends think it's a problem? Do you spend tons of money on alcohol to the point of neglecting to pay for things you need?
Try quitting for two or more weeks, preferably over a month, just to see if you can. If you can't, you know you have a problem.
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>>18466071
Nobody remarks about it ever, I probably drink less than a lot of people I know desu. I don't spend much money at all since I don't drink much. I drink even less when I'm in college (US) because booze is harder to get, but I smoke lots of weed. I'm happy not to drink if I have more important things to do, and it's against my culture to do it too often. Is it ok just to enjoy a few beers a couple times a week?
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>>18466092
Depends on your definition of "a few". Is "A few" two, or four, or six per day?
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Basically, I've spent my whole summer so far taking a summer class to skip a semester, and it ends next week. I don't have the money to really travel anywhere, which is what I did last summer. I still want to do <i>something<\i> though, you know? What are some cool, adrenaline based activities that aren't too expensive that I can do for the next month or so?
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Weed. The answer is weed, if you're into that
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>>18465934
I've tried it, but I don't think it'll scratch the itch I have.
I want to study CS but I'm realizing I'm fucking garbanzo at math, failed the math section of the TSI the first time with 342, then kind of studied the second time but still failed with a 347, am I fucking retarded or what
p.s. TSI is some dumb test for Texans
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>>18465889
Discrete math is probably going to make you stumble. Have you taken CS classes in HS? How'd that go?
I knew idiots (like straight up idiots) that still managed to get a CS degree, so you probably won't be the only person with math difficulties
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>>18465906
Yeah I took a CS class in HS but that was a joke desu the guy that taught us probably shouldn't be certified for teaching. I did pass that class though.
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isn't garbanzo a fucking bean
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How do I stop hating black people? 2017-06-28 09:01:43 Post No.18465864
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How do I stop hating black people?
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I will be moving to a very multicultural area soon (that is to say, less than 15% of the population is white in a country that is more than 75% white).
There are all sorts of ethnic groups there that I don't have a problem with - Asians of all sorts, Arabs, Latin Americans. But there is also a large black population, and I can't help but feel an intense, irrational hatred any time I see them. My thoughts immediately start shouting "this nigger is inferior to everybody else here"; regardless of whether or not that statement is true for that particular person.
I don't want to be a racist loser; but in order to not be one, I need to figure out how to not act like an angry slave owner every time I see a black person.
Thoughts? Suggestions?
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First realize there is a difference between niggers and black people.
Second try hanging out with the more chill black people out there. For every ghetto thot out there, there is always a chill black dude that wants to be your friend
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>>18465864
Also stop browsing /pol/
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>>18465874
Also realize that the first sentence of this post is still incredibly offensive to black people, and be mindful to never say it or anything like it within earshot of them
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Turning a guy down without being rude
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I went out with a guy for 3 weeks last year, he was very nice and attractive but he ultimately wasn't the kind of guy I'd date long term.
He still texts me every couple of months, "to catch up". If we talk about his love life I try to encourage him to talk to other girls, but he keeps telling me that he still has feelings for me and such things.
He just sent me a message begging me for a second chance. I am not interested in him and am seeing someone else.
How do I reject him nicely?
Do I have to block him everywhere?
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Tell him "please stop contacting me" then you don't need to block him everywhere unless he doesn't stop, in which case you have total justification for it.
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I don't think there's an easy way of rejecting.
Just be honest, say you're not interested and if he persists, I'd suggest telling him you're seeing someone else, that should usually be the final blow.
He's gonna feel hurt no matter what you say but that isn't really your responsibility. If he keeps on asking for your attention in some way I would suggest to just ignore him.
You have no obligation to keep talking to him if he doesn't get the message.
That's something I've never understood with women tho. Like I had female friends who, instead of just telling them to fuck off, kept talking and being polite to guys who were following her home in the middle of the night
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Just say "I'm not looking for a boyfriend/relationship right now" If he's normal he should get the hint. If he's an autist just block him.
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Asked a girl out on a second date. Her response:
>I'll see if I can, but my sister just came into town so we've been doing a lot of family stuff together
Do you think this suggests she's lost interest? I'm unsure how to respond. Probably just being autistic.
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Additional context: first date went very well. We got to third base and she suggested meeting again several times.
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It certainly does seem that way.
I would say, "Okay, no problem"
Then wait a week or so, ask her on another date somewhere.
If she blows you off that time, I would just drop it.
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>>18465747
Have you asked her only one? Then wait a bit and try again.
If she doesn't make any effort to make it happen next time, too, then yeah, drop it.
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So...I used to train at this boxing club. They had a mat space in the corner for people that like to wrestle and grapple.
One night me and my friend decided to grapple after the class. The coach said.
>when you guys are done clean the mats.
>ok
10 minutes go by and he says
>hurry up guys i want to go home.
>ok.
>grab mop and we start sanitizing the mats.
>10 minutes later we are walking out.
There is this hallway. Its all dark. It appears the coach already left and locked the front door. The front soor is key only. There is no deadbolt. So we are locked in. Here is a bigger problem. There is another door in hallway and we happened to lock it behind us thinking the front door was open. So now we are stuck in a nearly pitch black hallway. We called him atleast 10 times. Called other club members. After an hour we got upset and think he did it on purpose.
We found a screw driver and broke/popped door in centre of hallway back open. We went back upstairs into gym and exited through the barn doors.
We never went back. We were so mad.
Was rhat a bad move?
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totally understandable from my view
fucker locked you in and didn't bother to answer phone. I would have done the same
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What the fuck else could you have done? Spend the night in the hallway? Fuck that
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Well...the main reason i ask is because the coach would give us the evil stare when we drove by his gym.
Secondly...he had a 'star' pupil. This kid happens to be crazy. He is a pro MMA fighter and amateur boxer. I used to do well against him but he is the type of guy that is REALLY LOUD and will call you out. Well...apparantly he goes to my NEW club every blue moon...im concerned if he sees me he is going to start a big shit storm. Its actually got me worried. Im not too concerned about him putting his hands on me i just dont want him yo ruin my reputation.
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Hi /adv/. I've fucked up and i'm out of money. Yes, it's all my fault but i don't have anything to eat anymore for 12 days till my pay. Already tried asking a few people for spare cash but they just looked at me funny and left without a word or told me to fuck off. How can i get some cash and what's the cheapest food that will get me full? Friends and family are not an option sadly.
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>>18465727
Isn't there are free food place where you live? You could also dumpster dive, as long as the stuff is rapped and you clean it you should be fine.
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>>18465774
No free food place here in poland that i know of. Also i really don't wanna get low, i know i'll be fine in 2 weeks. But it looks like i might have to do it.
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>>18465727
What city do you live in?
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For you, anon. Here's the thread, now go ahead and talk about your struggles.
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>>18465714
>and talk about your struggles.
I'm fat as fuck please assist into not fat.
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Playing FFXII and currently struggling at henne mines entrance because I'm underleveled. Best place to grind?
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Asian-anon here again. Just going to copy and paste this in case you missed it.
>Drink lots of water (at least 2 liters a day)
>Do not buy junk food nor put them in your pantry, period
>Learn the difference between hunger and eating out of boredom
>Chew slowly
>Do NOT go on any insane diets, because you will just yo-yo back to your original weight again, plus interest
>Learn when to say no if people are offering sweets, calorie-dense foods, etc.
Also, what's your goal weight and how much do you weigh now? How tall are you?
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I want to ask this girl to be my gf but I'm not entirely sure how to do it.
I've been seeing this girl for around 2-3 months now and we've been on dates and that kind of stuff. We text regularly and I really like her. I'm seeing her in a few days and I'm planning in asking her when I drop her back to her house at the end.
I was wondering exactly how to go about it because I don't want to put too much pressure on her. I'm fairly confident she likes me but I don't want to deliver it badly and ruin it
Advice on related issues is also appreciated
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>>18465699
Did you kiss her or something?
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>>18465703
Not yet, to be honest I've been too nervous and pathetic to try anything in fear of rejection. ive gotten signs that she wanted to ive just been too much of a pussy. Planning on changing that next time I see her though
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>>18465699
>Not yet
dude just fucking do it already, if she will stay this long with you being this weak she is some 10/10 material