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I feel like I'm in a weird place sexually. I'm your typical "straight but fap to traps" kind of guy, but I understand how that would technically mean I'm bisexual. But if I'm to be completely honest with myself, I'd much rather just stick to girls than to fool around with guys for the novelty of it. But this makes it hard for me to know what I should identify as since I have this possible gayness within that I have no interest in exploring. What do you guys think?
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>>18470917
You are bisexual. Go to bed.
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Don't oveerhink it. I have no interest in dating men but if a trap or a feminine dude with no body hair wants to take my dick, hey, life's for the living. Honestly I think I'm straight but the taboo gets me hard. Like all my friends are straight but bitches like Bailey Jay don't count as dudes. NO homo is implied.
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>>18470917
If traps can call themselves women then you can call yourself straight. Don't worry about it.

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So theres this girl that im close friends with and for some weird reason shes the only girl in my life that actually turns me on and have sex with her.
I have met alot of girls even really hot ones like the one that was in one of my classes everyone wanted to fuck her but not me well im not gay or anything but why is it so?
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You suffer from a condition where you are attracted to people for their personality and not their looks. This puts you at higher risk of ending up with someone you love and being happy for the rest of your life.

Sadly there is no cure
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Stop talking to her for like a minute . People create comfort zones. Spent too much time in college thinking that bitches from my high school were the only fish in the sea. Idolized them. Made them perfect in my head. Only hung out with them. Stop it. If your friend is great, date them, but don't kid yourself into thinking they are the one.
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>>18470937
But should i go for her?
I mean im the guy that dont really like to have sex with a buch of different women.

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So I have a friend who is pretty much the most important person in my life right now (she doesn't know this) and recently we where talking and she told me she did pot a little while ago. Now logically I know this is not a big deal but I have issues with it. It was part of why my parents got divorced and I have had friends who I watched go from never having done it to being worthless stoners who do nothing but sit around smoke it every day and talk about it constantly.

At first this made me kinda depressed and constantly gnawed at my thoughts but after a couple days I thought I was over it but then I was watching tv a couple hours ago and the characters took out a bong and started smoking and that fucked my shit up.

Now I am having some kind of breakdown with moodswings between deep sadness and anger. Literally crying into a pillow one minute and then screaming and punching my leg over and over again the next minute. I don't know. I guess I am scared this shit is going to take her from me or something.

I know this is my problem and not hers but what do I do?
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Don't knock it till you try it for yourself.
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>>18470899
>dont condemn something that will fuck you up somehow until you fuck yourself up with such thing

degenerate kys
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>>18470894
>but what do I do?

I see it's time for this again...

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7nqcgUDoV_M

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>Ruin the life of someone who wronged me when I was 14
It felt so good to see it all come together. Do I weaponize my autism more?? I didn't do anything illegal so I won't ever get arrested.
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How did you go about ruining the life of someone?
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Well, obviously you're going to tell us a detailed story about what happened
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>>18470865
I found an old yearbook, looked up his name on facebook, and then infiltrated his friend group and then started a bunch of drama. There was alot more to it but that's basically the jest of it.

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Yesterday during a drunk talk I admitted to an old time female friend that I had the most stupid, childish crush on her, and if the feeling aren't mutual than we need a break from seeing each other.

I don't know if this was right, but I distanced one of the only people I truly love and actually opened to.

I fucking feel like shit, and life feels meaningless at this point.

What the fuck do I do with myself?
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op btfo
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>>18470854
If you want a romantic relationship with someone, why aren't you choosing to try to meet other women?

I think distancing yourself from someone you have unrequited feelings for is a good decision. It can help you think about what it is that you actually want and then pursue that without the distraction of a dead end.

If getting drunk is something you do on a regular basis, stop. It's not helping you get what you want.
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>>18470863
>why aren't you choosing to try to meet other women?

I'll try, but meeting someone new is quite hard because of what I do in life, I'm home 4-6 days a month, add the fact I'm a 20y/o virgin that never dated anyone and it's a pretty fucking pathetic proposition.
Not to degrade myself, I know my worth, but it won't be easy.

>If getting drunk on a regular basis
I do drink basically each one of the upper mentioned 4-6 days, but that's that.

Anyway, thanks for the help pal.

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Thus chubby chicks been tryna get with me. We've been talking, it's definitely clear.

Im a virgin, 19. Just graduated. Had one relationship that ended after 2 weeks junior year. From what I can tell I'm average looking.

Shed be hot if she wasn't so chubby. I'm mostly worried about the stigma. Also, i would wanna remain friends. I can handle remaining a virgin, but jd rather not.

What should I do? Is it worth it to go for her? From your experience, can I avoid a relationship And stay friends if we do fuck if she does like me? I don't want drama.
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>>18470826
Well if you want to 'remain friends' then tell her BEFOREHAND that's what you want, she might not wanna do it with you after that but it's a good way to avoid any drama
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>>18470826
Tell Her You just want to be friends, pushing the situation could cause You problems.
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you sound like an idiot because you care more about what people may think than about what you really want. don't get close to her

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I was eating / loading heaps thinking the more I put in the more fuel energy I'll nourish my body... ended up with diabetes. how do I go about being at optimal health? are altheles going to be the longest living creatures with their low blood pressure? Should I train like a athlete to live the longest I can?
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>>18470816
It would be a good idea
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Eat less
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>>18470816
High carb raw vegan. Moderate cardio a few times per month or week if you can. Sun light 30 mins per day. Avoid chems and fluorides especially. Eat strictly organic.

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Today, everyone at my company has to do a 5 minutes long presentation about themselves. I have to share with them one professional superpower. The thing is, I barely spent six months in this profession with no formal education regarding the field, and so I don't really have anything that could be considered "professional superpower". Please help me get out of this awkward situation somehow!
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>>18470815
You're good to have to evaluate yourself as a person and employee. You'll be fine.
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>>18470829
But I barely know anything about myself. Also, even if I had things I could be proud of, how do I present it without coming off as a self-confident, cocky prick?
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Superpower: that you are quick to adapt to change. Reference the fact that you've only been involved in the industry for 6 months as proof.

Alternatively, get a factory job or learn a trade where you won't have to deal with women playing stupid and meaningless games in HR.

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>Be me 24F living with my roommate
>Both of us asocial and have very few friends
>Lectures on uni soon to be over
>Professional procrastinators by nature so we left ourselves with 8+ exams for next to weeks
>Starting at my new job in few days also
>Colleague from uni calls
>Says she's coming to stay over at our place
>Doesn't ask if she can
>Too autistic to say anything
>Really don't want her here
>Saying no would mean losing great percentage of people who we're in contact with
>Enter panic mode
>Put phone on airplane mode
>Trying to figure out some decent explanation for why we can't host her
Anyone has some good idea how avoid her?
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>>18470808
You have to tell Her the truth. You have a lot of exams to do. Or let Her come over to study.
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>>18470811
Tough. We go full ritalin mode when studying. She's goes full Jesus Christ your savior mode when she see it. Annoying as hell. Says she's gonna be quiet. Doesnt understand shit she reads. Asks something every minute
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>>18470817
You still have two weeks. Study everyday and You will be fine. Just don't make anymore excuses.

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Girl Playing the hot and cold game

Went on a date with a girl last weekend and it was great, had a good laugh and chemistry building and all that shit, everything just went well and said she wanted to see me again, smashing.

But ever since she's just being hot and cold. One day she wants to stay up talking all night and said she wants to go out again. Then the next I ask her about it and she's off the idea, or just ignores me all together.

I don't know if I'm just being tested or what.
What do
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ye its a shit-test :P dont fall for it.
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>>18470798
Yeah that's was my guess man, any ideas on how to pass it or just break the cycle of bullshit, or even better, somehow use it to my advantage?
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>>18470813
Your best bet is to just back off and see if she contacts you. Don't push it.

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I feel I should have children. Should I get it out of my head?
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>>18470795
Consider Your current situation and how children would impact it. If all is fine and Your partner and You truly desire it, then do it.
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why do you feel that way? if you do, do it because you want them, not to please society or someone else.
I'm pretty open about not wanting kids and I know that's not what society expects from me, overall because I'm a woman, but I don't care.
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You should have children, but make sure you have some sort of financial security. One of the biggest regrets people have when they die is not having children. Just by you posting this I know you would be one of those people.

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Hi /adv/,
I recently graduated with a bachelor's degree in social work (please, no comments about my major), which, while I am extremely happy to have it, I don't feel like I should. During my senior year, I was required to undertake an internship (aka practicum) to gain some hands-on experience. Well, I should also mention I'm socially retarded and said internship went awry - I wasn't able to do what I should have (I know this is vague, but it's the only way I can really phrase it), and what I did do didn't pertain to my field of study. So shitty was my performance that I had several meetings with university faculty about it and at one point almost thought I was going to be terminated from my program short of graduating (which was stressful and disheartening enough while going through other classes). In the final meeting I had with her to reflect on my progress throughout the year, my intern boss flat out said she didn't think I was ready to be a social worker and refused to give me a passing grade. Despite this, I still somehow received my diploma but now I feel like I'm fucked. I can't put this internship as experience on a CV, and the only job I've ever had is completely unrelated to my degree. I haven't yet tried, but I'm worried as fuck that I'm unemployable given my lack of credentials outside of a piece of paper which I don't feel worthy of possessing in the first place. I would just like some general guidance on what I can do from here. Maybe one of you guys have been in a similar situation? I realise I've made some dumb choices in choosing a major I wasn't suited for, but honest to God I didn't know what I wanted to be or do, but I knew I wanted to help people some way, somehow (inb4 naive).

tl;dr I have a degree but no experience or skills related to it, can I still make use of it? Where do I go from here?

I can elaborate on any of the aforementioned material if need be. Thanks for reading.
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See if you can find an internship that doesn't require you to be a student, or just start pursuing your MSW and do another internship in that program.
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>>18470729
Follow Your heart and seek academic help, not help from 4chan.
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>>18470740
What an absolutely worthless post, why the fuck are you even on this board?

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I need help getting over a girl. Can anyone help me? A female's point of view would be preferred but not necessary.
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>>18470668
Follow your heart
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>>18470668
go after someone else
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>>18470668
Overdose on horse tranquilisers

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Looking for real advice and comments - I appreciate all the jokers but I could get your real opinion, that would be great.

So it has always been something of a dream of mine to do psychedelics (shrooms, LSD, etc) but have only ever smoked weed. Recently, however, I found a guy who was able to sell me 6 grams of shrooms. I pretty much just shoved them all in my mouth on an empty stomach and had a hellish trip. I didn't mind too much though, as I was happy to just have that experience.

Now, though, I've been noticing a lot of changes. Whenever - I mean everytime - I smoke weed, I get visuals, which never happened before my trip. I've always been noticing those kinds of visuals outside of being high as well - just driving to work or in the middle of the day, I'll see purple spirals shoot around and stuff. Couple that with wayyy more general anxiety about things.

I'm getting afraid that what I am experiencing is related to my trip and I may have triggered something that won't go away. Am I being paranoid or what? fwi mushroom trip was two weeks ago.
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>>18470629
See a doctor
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ive heard sometime with stuff like shrooms and acid you could get flashbacks and stuff
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You've had a pretty colorful experience with drugs huh?

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Is sex over age 21 any different than sex as a teenager?
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>>18470583
Ask the judge
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>>18470583
Usually, as you get older, sex gets better.
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In my experience, the sex you had as a teen will have been the next sex you will ever have in your life. enjoy it while you can.

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