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I am tired of being pale and I am going to sign up to go tanning. I plan on going once a week. I just don't have the time due to work to sit out and get some sun. I have a little color from working outside on the weekends, but I want to get darker. Any advice on how long I should sit in there for?
I am also a guy so I am a bit self-conscious going to go tanning.
I don't want to get burnt the first time going.
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>>18474719
Don't. Pale skin is amazing and it looks great.
Tan is cheap as hell, we're not in the 80s anymore.
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>>18474719
what a fucking cop-out, if you have time to sit in a tanning booth you could sit outside without your shirt off.
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Go to the pool or do some lawn work without a shirt on. Either way, it's bad for you
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I have no talent.
I'm not good at anything.
How do I find what I'm good at?
>just practice OP
I played the violin daily for seven years when I was in school and I'm still not good at it. I want to find my natural talents.
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>>18474710
Csgo
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>>18474738
yeeeeee
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>>18474710
nobody is "good" at something, you find what you enjoy and you practice. just because you 'played' the violin for 7 years doesn't mean you enjoyed it and strived to improve.
Is there a type of government land where I'm allowed to camp indefinately for free?
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Define "camp"
Are we putting up a tent or are we setting up a small village
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Putting up a single, rather large, tent. I'd be willing topay >$200 monthly for toilets, showers, etc but can't find that in my state.
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>>18474661
Why would you want to camp forever?
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Posted this earlier but didn't get as much advice as I wanted
Ive been speaking to this girl who i like for around 2 months now and we've been on dates and stuff like that and I told her how I felt the other day at the end of the date.
(She's never had a serious relationship before if that's important)
She said that she didn't feel the same way at the moment because she doesn't feel like she knows me well enough but wants to keep seeing me and Seeing what happens.
Should I just give up on this and move on or should I pursue it just to see if anything does happen? I just don't want to waste my time chasing her if she isn't interested.
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How old are you? If the answer is below 30 quit looking for an actual relationship, young hoes are going to hoe until they know their looks are going.
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>>18474608
Do you like her enough to keep pursuing it? If so, try for a bit longer and if it still doesn't go anywhere move on.
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>>18474616
I do, ill see her again in just over a weeks time. Do you think it's a good idea to ask whether she sees us going anywhere and make it clear that I don't want to keep pursuing something that isn't going to happen.
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ITT: What to do next
Matches with a really cute girl one Tinder. We're really similar in tastes/interests etc. and she initiates messaging.
Fast forward a few days, she texts me about hanging out. We talk and talk and right after the confirm text (I.e "art gallery at 7 then?") she stops replying
She was sending me like paragraphs and was planning it then just stopped replying. She hasn't used Tinder in the last 5 days, nor posted on instagram. But she has used it to like a post (saw it on my feed). She hasn't blocked me on instagram or anything.
Really confused what to make of this/do from here. Again, everything was going well. We were talking a lot and she texted ME asking to hang out (even though she said she was feeling a bit ill)
Last weird thing is her instagram had a bunch of videos of her kissing her presumably ex bf which she deleted like right after she followed me on instagram
TL;DR match with Tinder qt, everything goes well then last minute doesn't reply to a text. Not sure what to do next
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>>18474598
Learn game. Don't chase after one skirt. There's no such thing as the one. You're too worried about this one girl. Talking a lot with a girl is already a bad sign. You're signaling to her that you're an orbiter, a beta loser who she can friendzone.
Next her and go find another girl.
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>>18474598
Also, the fact that she planned everything is another huge bad sign. It shows that you're a pussy and she doesn't consider you a potential mate. A real man would have done the planing himself.
You need to change your attitude.
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I'll take the "don't chase one skirt advice"
I misspoke though. By talking a lot I mean she would just send me paragraphs of shit unprompted, I'm just trying to emphasize she seemed interested.
I also planned what to do (drinks and the art gallery) but she texted me the day of to remind me and all that. Again, just trying to emphasize that she seemed interested. In between matching and us supposing to hang out was like a two day gap. I just get the number and try to move it along
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Is my wife stupid or just does not realize what she does?
>Never wants to do anything
>Okay lets go do something anyway
>Go to pool
>Mad face the whole time
>Go to site seeing
>Pissed for no reason
>Try to see friends who also have wive's
>She's mad as hell don't know why
>Just now
>Drive 3 hours to go to Comic con
>Get there and change son
>Walk around holding my son while she's behind mad as fuck for some reason
>We are there for 10 minutes
>"Okay fuck this let's go home I'm tired of your shit"
>Starts crying asks why I'm doing thia
>"Because you always ruin anything we do"
>Cries harder
>"Starts backing out car
>Begs to stay
>Fine let's stay
>Walk to the door again
>"How come you didn't bring the Camera?"
>My side hurts
>She has a history of ovarian cysts and walking a lot causes pain
>"so why the fuck didn't you say anything"
>because I'm scared of you anon
I'm fucking tired of her and her stupidity /adv/, fucking done we have no friends because none of my co-workers want to hang out because they think she's mad at them all the time. Fuck this life
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>>18474585
She wants to fuck someone else
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Try couples counseling? If a third objective party that holds power will tell her the truth, she might finally accept the fact she's a bitch.
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Hey /adv/, I need help quitting a job. I recently got hired as an independent contractor and since starting have lost more money than I've earned. I've been MIA for 2 days and I'm pretty sure they're trying to get a hold of me and idk what to do. There isn't an HR department to notify, and the managers I sort of work under don't technically have any responsibility for me. I also don't have the email of the person I work for and I signed a contract with the company. I didn't fully read the contract, so I don't know if there's anything legally in there about resignation.
I'm basically a NEET with an "education" so this whole thing has me feeling anxious and I want to just walk away and hope they get the idea. Obviously that's a bad idea which is why I'm asking you guys for help. What should I do /adv/?
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Read your contract. That's the only thing that can answer questions you have because it's variable based on that contract.
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>>18474577
How are you losing money? what is the job? what are your costs?
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>>18474607
It's in the manager's office and I'm too awkward to just bust in there and ask to see it. Plus I really would prefer to not go back if I don't have to
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I had to buy appropriate attire, and they also have me pay for samples to offer people in hopes that they'll buy more than I'm spending. I'm not a good salesman, which I didn't realize was a big part of the job when I was hired on
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How do I (4w5) make her (1w9) fall in love with me through text (we have seen eachother once, now she is 350km from me). She is a weeb, I just like a couple of animes
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You need to give her the d.
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>>18474551
what is 4w5, 1w9?
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>>18474551
That's my boyfriend and I.
He was smart and funny. Set healthy boundaries - he wasn't overbearing, but he was pretty assertive. He was kind and vulnerable. He made me feel like I had to deserve his attention and I shouldn't take him for granted.
I was his bitch after 2 days we were talking.
Does it recognize freelance work in addition to working for a company, or just the latter?
Kinda gay if the only way I can get "experience" is by working for some faggot studio.
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>>18474535
h1b visas are linked to a job, you can't freelance while on one.
Furthermore its not like getting sponsorship for a h1b is easy to accomplish so you might want to overthink your plans.
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You have to go back
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>>18474535
h1b can be long and hard to procure, and it's linked to a given position or job to be fulfilled. Companies can do it if you're worth it, but freelance is unlikely.
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I hate life but have no reason to 2017-07-01 04:08:26 Post No.18474449
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I hate life but have no reason to
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I am a teenage girl with depression and anxiety. I was prescribed medication, but I stopped taking it. My friends can be amazing, but only one of them doesn't suffer from some kind of mental issue. I mean, they're great, I love them, but I feel like I can't talk to them because they all have their own problems.
My parents don't exactly help; my father hits me (it's not very often, but it does happen) and my mother ignores me. All I have at home is my dog. And all I have otherwise are my friends.
What's wrong with me? Why do I want to die so much? What should I do?
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>>18474449
>my father hits me
get a clue
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>>18474449
Start taking your meds again
NEVER stop taking your meds unless a doctor tells you to
Tell your mother you want to see a therapist, and never back down until she agrees to it
Your friends can certainly try to help, but this is a job best suited to a professional.
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>>18474449
Talk to your friends anyway. Tell them your problems, and listen to theirs. I'm guessing they can relate.
The suicide hotline is right there on the top of the screen if you're really in a bad place.
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Hey guys, is my head too big? I've been self conscious about this for yeas and I could do with some honest opinions, thanks in advance guys
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no
post feet
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Nah, you're good.
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is it possible to recover from being a 7 year shut-in? 2017-07-01 03:51:50 Post No.18474405
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is it possible to recover from being a 7 year shut-in?
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I have been a shut-in for 7 years now and my mind and body have deteriorated to the point that I can barely remember or focus on anything anymore and I'm the fattest I've ever been with multiple diet-related health problems.
I've tried to deal with the mental health problems that are keeping me in this place but the mental health services in my area are terrible and they failed me immensely.
I'm wondering if there's any way out of this mess or if I should just keep deteriorating until the health problems kill me. I've tried suicide a few times but I've fucked it up and frankly I think anything is better than nothing provided it isn't constant agony.
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Do you have interests?
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>>18474405
did you finish highschool? if not get yourself on https://www.khanacademy.org/ and start at first grade math and work your way up to 12th and then schedule your GED test.
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>>18474405
Death can't take you until you've given up, and that's never the answer. It's going to take changing the structure of your brain to do this, and if that sounds difficult it's because it is. You're going to have to constantly battle against every urge that you've been feeding, as we all do. Your impulse control is atrocious, and that's because idle hands do the devil's work, or so the story goes. You need something to do that occupies 75% of your time so that the other 25% you spend sleeping and eating HEALTHY food. Start with vitamins, since you likely have a nutrient deficiency which will contribute to your overall stupor, and slowly develop better impulse control and you'll boumce back.
In shorter terms, quit being such a damn baby. Get off your ass and do it.
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My girlfriend left me. I feel cold and empty. What do?
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Abuse her
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>>18474279
Need more info, why did she leave you? However, it's normal to feel cold and empty. It's a loss like many other losses. With time you'll get through it and it'll become easier to live with. To help you, you need to focus your attention on other things. Doesn't really matter what it is as long as it takes your mind off of the fact that she's not there. Just make sure it's not something stupid or harmful. Millions of people have been through this millions of times. Welcome to life.
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>>18474279
you psyche has been through shock, everysthing your mind associated with that person instantly shook, knowing it will not be attainable to you know more. So you kinda overburnt, and brain numbed it self to make it easier for itself.
Don't worry, in a couple days it will start hurting, and in a couple weeks/ months, you'll get better
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Tinder without Facebook? 2017-07-01 02:20:58 Post No.18474208
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I've been wanting to try out Tinder for a while now but I don't have a Facebook account nor do I want one.
If I make a fake account will Tinder suspect I'm a bot?
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I too would like to know this
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I have a fake account with 2 friends, Tinder liked it. Spent 100 bux on Tinder plus and fucked about 7 chicks with it a month
Tinder used to require the facebook acout to have at least 50 friends, now theres phone verification so any dummy account can be used.
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>>18474296
>Spent 100 bux on Tinder plus and fucked about 7 chicks with it a month
This is sad
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How do you not let your depression control you?
I feel whenever I try and improve I end up failing, like one step forward and two steps back.
>be having a normal day
>have a few negative thoughts
>hmm ok
>thoughts get worse and more intense
>snowballs
>now suicidal
>have to call out from work
>sleep and cry all day, trying to suppress thoughts
>have to call out the next day
Just like the rain. Starts off small but gets heavier and heavier until it's a downpour. So fucking dumb. Was trying to get a promotion but that isn't happening now. I thought a new job and some money in my bank account would keep my mind focused on work
How can I do anything in life if I'm in a good mood for one week while suicidal the next?
I'm embarrassed to even tell anyone how little control I have.
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>>18474139
Get therapy. If you want to overcome depression you have to know where it came from. Probably from your mom or dad.
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Stop being a pussy and letting imaginary things get you down.
Depression and Anxiety are pussy afflictions.
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>>18474139
This is my life. Here's some things that I've found help:
- Accomplish something every day, even if it's really minor. Like reading a chapter in a book, or getting some exercise.
- Find things to be positive about. Even on the worst of days you can still find little things to appreciate.
- Keep some sort of a routine. Ideally not too strict as you want to have time to try new things.