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Is it better to be honest or reshape myself?
I have no real interests except literature, music (Western art music, aka "classical"), and religion. These aren't big hits in my age group (early twenties).
I'm wondering if I should keep this to myself when I go away to college. I want to make friends and get a girlfriend but I'm thinking my interests might make people think I'm gay and/or weird.
For example I don't think it would come off well if I told people I love poetry. Even though it had a rich heroic tradition, today it is considered sissy and gay.
Or do you think it'd be best to just be honest?
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>>18476629
Bump
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>>18476629
College isn't like school, people won't make fun of you for liking poetry unless you're a faggot about it. There will be a poetry club/society on campus that you can go to. Just don't act superior or scoff when people say they're interesting in things you might consider 'plebian' like top 40 music or capeshit films.
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>>18476679
>Just don't act superior or scoff
I'll definitely not scoff. But apparently I act superior, even though I really don't mean to. For example I wanted to wash my hands but a friend wanted to talk to me about something and I just said "I'll think about that and we can discuss it when I get back," not in a snooty way, just normally, and he said that was a prudish thing to say.
So that's why I'm thinking I should just say I'm into sports and stuff instead of my interests, since I'm already marred with an off putting "superior" way of acting
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I paid to have ad up for 3 months to get funds for a nose job.i have a picture up of just my nose but no one has donated. What would I have to say to make some sugardaddy want to donate?
I need answers before I fucking kill myself.
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>>18476626
>I paid money to get men to give me money for my nose
How about you try working for money instead?
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>>18476626
Kill yourself over the way your nose is shaped ?
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>>18476626
If you aren't pretty otherwise you are going to have to get a real job
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I accidentally fucked a dude in the ass. It's been three months or so, but now I have this and I fear I might have a disease.
It looks a lot like some STDs. I don't seem to have any other symptoms.
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>>18476589
how do you "accidentally" fuck a dude in the ass?
See a doctor. There's really no shame in seeking advice from a medical professional.
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>>18476602
>how do you "accidentally" fuck a dude in the ass?
I'll tell you if you give me some indication on what this is. Doctors in this country are less than good.
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>>18476589
It's probably a STD, faggots are really promiscuous.
Go to the doctor, and be honest, being an hypocrite can be a symptom of something worse.
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the last 3 out of 4 times i had sex with my girl i had to think about random chicks to get a nut off. and the last time i fucked her i didnt even cum, just told her i was tired and stopped. she is so boring and lazy, she will literally just lie on her stomach and not move. and shes gained some weight recently and acts like getting on top (so i can fuck her from underneath) is a big deal.
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>>18476587
Motivate her
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You forgot to ask for advice
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>>18476593
oh yea.. i totally just ranted like a cunt.
how do i make sex fun with my girl again?
I'm a fucking awkward weirdo and I don't know what I'm doing wrong or how to fix it. People call me creepy behind my back, and everyone is uncomfortable around me, I'm just trying to fit in.
Is it just that I'm ugly? Fuck even if I am there has to be a way to fix this, I'm so sick of being an outcast watching everyone have fun from the sidelines, yet after years and years of effort still nobody wants to be around me.
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>>18476560
>is it just that I'm ugly?
do you think we are psychic?
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>>18476563
I know I'm ugly, but I've heard countless times that "it's not creepy if the guy is hot", and I'm starting to believe it.
I'm basically asking if that's true.
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Give us an example of how you approach people and what a convo is like between you and them.
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Recently joined a new workplace and I'm getting along with my colleagues, been invited to a few meetups outside of work. On both occasions the majority of the meetup was spent shit talking the other workmates who weren't invited or who couldn't make it. Made me feel uncomfortable because those other people are genuinely nice and the shit talking was over really petty and trivial stuff. While we're at work they obviously act friendly towards these people because they share the workplace and wouldn't have the guts to say any of those things to their faces. Any tips for dealing with people like this? Do I just go along with the charade of friendliness at work and stop going to their meetups?
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This happens everywhere. Surprisingly, not everyone actually gets along with everyone.
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>>18476550
No, I keep on going to meetups but do my best to keep my mouth shut about those things. I just learn not to see them as friends, and trust them only on the working place with working stuff.
And if you're wondering: yes, they're probably speaking about you too, but that's ok.
Remember: THEY ARE NOT YOUR FRIENDS
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it's just venting.
I talk shit about petty stuff co-workers do at work when I'm talking with freind, they're not bad workers mostly but they just do stupid shit. i don't dislike them really.
i know my co-workers probably do the same shit, I do stupid shit too.
it's probably because if you're all together as co-workers, they're bound to talk about work matters and vent about it.
but some people just like talking ill or making fun of other people you both know for conversation talk
So an old online fuckbuddy from a few years ago messaged me yesterday, wanting to start up our old relationship. (i.e, sexting, nudes) She's in minnesota, I'm in kentucky. I told her i wasn't interested anymore, as I now have a gf irl, and don''t need or want a fuckbuddy anymore. She kept bugging me and bugging me and I got really annoyed but she kept insisting until finally I got mad and snapped and said some decidedly nasty things about her sex life and sexual habits. Next thing I know, she says she's called the police, screenshotted the conversation, and reported me for sexual harassment. Should I be worried? I know the legal system leans in favor of females nowadays, could I actually be in trouble if she convinces them somehow that I was harasssing her? Can the police in minnesota actually do anything as far as online "stalkers" in other states, or am I worrying for nothing? Any advice?
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>didn't block her or stop responding
>say shit that can be used against you instead
You deserve whatever happens because you're an absolute fuckwit
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>>18476561
Hence the subject. I don't deny that I deserve what happens, I'm not arguing that. I'm simply asking what CAN happen. Thank you for your reply though.
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Block her and ignore her. She is probably bluffing and throwing a tantrum.
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I got incredibly stoned with my gf last weekend and we had anal sex. We've never talked about it before and it was completely spur of the moment. I'm not sure who initiated it. We both enjoyed it but ever since I haven't felt attracted to my girlfriend at all. All I see now is some dumb, trashy cooze that takes it up the ass. I know this is hypocritical and stupid, and I still love her and think she's sweet, but the physical attraction is just gone.
What can I do, I hate this
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>still worked up about some random sex act you had a week ago
lmfao. ur a retard. dump that girl already, she doesnt deserve to waste her time with a faggot like you.
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>>18476509
More like a girl that's willing to do anything for you but it's aight you don't really seem to be ready for a real relationship anyways
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>>18476509
>cooze
what?
also I've never understood anal but I think you might be being a bit dramatic. though I've never fucked a woman up the ass so I couldn't say for sure. don't think I ever would either. like any time anal is shown in porn, or someone mentions it, or anything, all I think is, "for what purpose? there's a perfectly good vagina right there. now you have to wash your dick really well and its still likely to stink like shit. and the sheets are done for. like look at that vagina like an inch away, aaand you went for the asshole? like why?"
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This red spot appears on my foot after drinking alcohol and then peels after a few days. Anyone know what this is?
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>>18476490
AIDS cancer 2000!
JK
probably just just scraped your foot on something.
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>>18476497
Happens on other foot too, every time after heavy drinking within 2 days, been happening for years now.
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>>18476490
It could be diabetes.
How is the life on the shrine?
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Green text story time!
>Girl (let's call her Sara) text me (also a girl - I'll be anon ofc) out of the blue asking if me and guy (Jack) still talked.
>I text her back saying I know she is acting as a proxy for Jack. Regardless, I think it's super invasive and not her business to ask that question desu.
>She sends a long paragraph length text back on Snapchat saying I'm being rude and she is only asking because she asked Jack if we still talked and he said nothing.
>She basically confirmed what I had told her and she gets mad. She send another message via Snapchat saying she doesn't care about me, I'm rude, and how she is "too grown to deal with pettyness"
>I leave her message on read because I'm at work and don't care.
>She sends me another message, but via SMS of a screenshot between her and Jack and it is her saying Happy Eid.
>She sends another message telling me "u act like the world owes you everything!", "u are soooo rude", "u dont even knoe me like that" "i don't care for u much at all" but i still think u are cool and want to hang out with u and say hi to u if i see u"
>I text back with "ok" (at this point I wanted to take a nap)
>She texts me back "lol what does that even mean?"
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Background info: Jack was into. I am not into him for many reasons, mainly because he is from a Muslim-majority country and expects women to act a certain way and be subservient to men. Over the past year I had lost a ton of weight via weightlifting and Jack didn't like that at all. Jack had made many attempts to hint that he didn't approve of that at all. I ignored them.Finally one day, Jack tried to tell me that lifting is going to make me bulky like She-Hulk and therefore make his penis sad. I didn't think much about it until i noticed that he had also unfriended me on Facebook and I thought "Oh, ok whatever" A few month after that Jack texted me a week after I graduated college with a text saying congrats, but I just deleted it because of his actions and I don't really need that in my life. That is when Sara texted me.
My question is: what should I do if Sara or Jack see me? It is inevitable as I will probably run into them within the next year.
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>>18476478
>what should I do if Sara or Jack see me?
Bend them into pretzels with your incredible strength.
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>>18476506
I'd love to however, I have sworn to use my powers for good.
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How does one deal with unending emptiness? Between issues with family and shitty relationships I'm just tired of everyone's bullshit.
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>>18476470
Have you tried therapy or drugs?
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>>18476470
Your depressed because you feel overwhelmed and have no control over your life.
Take control anon.
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poser faggot you dont even know what depression looks like, let alone ever felt it.
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My girlfriend and I got drunk with two of her girlfriends and we all ended up having sex. after doing so I found that I just prefer her over having sex with other people. It wasn't bad and I don't regret it but I just prefer her. She now feels left out because she hasn't experienced second with someone other than me (me being the only person she's had sex with). I want to pay it forward because she deserves that much and I have a friend that would totally join us in sexual activity but I'm worried that if she has sex with someone else she may not want me anymore. I guess I'm just overthinking... she brought up that she wouldn't mind an open relationship but I really don't want that because I feel safer and more comfortable keeping it between us. If we did end up having an open relationship I wouldn't even use it like she would and I'd just end up getting cucked. I feel like if I don't pay it forward with my friend her feelings will just be bottled up until she does something behind my back. Idk man I just really love this girl and I could really use an outside voice.
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Never do the open relationship shit
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>>18476469
I couldn't if I tried it would just be one sided and she'd probably eventually get bored of me.
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You are over thinking this, tell her an open relationship will just ruin everything.
Had no friends decided to join a church
>One guy is so insecure at church he's mad I'm spending more time with my room mate than him
>He lives on the other side of town and declines my invites
>I've got open cuts on my body from self harm
>My situation is shit without him adding to it
>He goes on rants saying I'm using him
>Telling me I'm a cold uncaring person
What the fuck?
I want to go to church in two hours, he's going and I unfriended him because I don't want to deal with his shit
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I think you're not telling us something
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>>18476461
I'm not mean to him.
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Should I go on second dates with people who I found sort-of dull on the first go round?
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>>18476416
give them a try it isn't like a second evening is that high an investment for an average anon for the possible tradeoff of having a higher chance of finding someone you click with
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>>18476416
Yes.
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>>18476416
One shot and if they miss too bad they wasted my time. Next
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So how do I stop myself from thinking my big brother is so perfect and that I cant ever compete with him? Like I think I'm literally a failure and hes actually perfect. Only thing I have going for me is that I look good but he looks better so it just cancels it out. Help please?
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>>18476414
Start lifting
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>>18476420
I do calisthenics
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>>18476414
going to go the jodorowsky route, because its the perfect way for dealing with such cases: you want to fuck your brother. its not envy, you are obsessed with him and lust over his "perfection". but, since you cant fuck him because societal norms, youll have to find a substitute for it.
heres my psychomagic cure for your problem:
get some of his clothes and stuff them with pillows, make a dummy puppet of his actual size. print his face big, actual size, paste it in the "head" of the dummy. put a cucumber where his penis should be. make out with the dummy, go crazy with it. report results in this very thread. do it.