okay please help or im gonna do an hero because im starting to become absolutely mental and every single day with this mindset is suffering.
so how the fuck do i get my mind off from sluts? like i see some 18 year old girl who seems absolutely sweet and also a huge slut on the internet. and she lives in the other half of the world. and i become so fucking jealous i have no idea what to do with my feelings. or when i browse a board and there is a random tinder thread with guys getting messages like pic related. like how the fuck should i process the fact that everybody seems to be fucking around me? i feel like the problem is that even though i wasnt naive or innocent, i grew up in a pretty strict, catholic circle and when i hear that girls my age fuck 4 different guys a week i dont even know what to do. im trying to get into the best school in my country, im lifting weights but i cant focus on shit, every day i wake up and find myself browsing the internet for sluts/tinder threads/stories all day. it might sound painfully autistic and dumb but my entire life turned into a shit real fucking fast and i have no idea what to do.
send help
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>>18477717
Get a life m8
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>>18477730
im self-aware about my desperation but have no idea what to do exactly
so help me m8
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>>18477717
I get like 10 hot girls a year on average (7.5+) and I feel the same way as you Anon. What bothers me so much is that younger less mature, less attractive, and less talented, get to have this massive boost early on in life. I know women well enough to hate/look down on them more than the majority of men. I'm a poor good looking guy but I guess I'm really lucky. I salute Elliott Rogers and think that if a man will be treated as disposable than he might as well go out with a bang. I have much more to say but just wanted to send you my love.
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How do I get better at delaying immediate gratification?
I realize that all of my problems come from doing what will entertain me the most at the time instead of what will be the most productive but I don't know how to stop.
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>>18477672
You can't fight your inner nigger.
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>>18477735
I'm half-black so this cuts deep, anon.
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>>18477672
I'm in the same boat Anon. Bump.
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How do I make peace with the fact that my ex is getting closer to another guy?
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>>18477646
Without knowing any further details about your situation or your past/current relationship, my default advice would be to stop looking into your ex's love life.
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>>18477660
She broke up with me last thursday. We were in a LDR and I noticed her getting more and more distant. Anytime I'd ask her to go on Skype she'd say no. We still kept talking on Snapchat and the day we broke up, she had shown me Snaps of her Skyping with another guy (who she claimed to be nothing more than a friend, but despite of whether she was telling the truth or not, I found it incredibly disrespectful)
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>>18477671
Okay so just cut off contact. Either you're getting all worked up about something that wasn't meant to be offensive, or she's trying to manipulate you into feeling jealous for some reason after breaking up with you (which I doubt, because that seems pointless). Either way, it's a waste of your emotional energy. It sounds like you were barely actually dating this girl in the first place.
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Sorry if this is not really an advice thread.
Has anyone here just randomly decided to take dancing classes, sort of for the heck of it, even though you sucked at dancing? I'm sort of interested in swing/lindy hop, I haven't checked if they teach that anywhere here.
Either way, if you took dancing classes, how did it go? Did you join alone or did you start with someone you knew? What is it like? Can you just start at any time in the year or should you join when the classes actually begin in the year? Is it really bad if you suck at dancing?
I used to play drums so I guess I have a sense of rythm but I can't coordinate my moves or rythm when I dance, especially when I dance with someone else. I'm looking for new activities because my therapist recommended me to for ages now and I don't have depression and don't have any interest in literally anything. Except maybe this.
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>>18477590
I DO* have depression, Jesus Christ auto-correct
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You're an enormous faggot for even considering dancing as a hobby.
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>>18477610
What's "faggot" about it? The dancing, itself?
What about all the normie straight males that "dance" in nightclubs or wedding parties, to """"music"""". It's the most socially acceptable and expected thing.
No letters to exes, or anything like that.
Talk about you day, your state, your problems, and all things you here.
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>>18477581
>No letters to exes, or anything like that.
Fuck you. You can't dictate what people write in these threads. Also old thread is still up and you didn't post the right pic.
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>>18477589
That's because it's a different thing. GGIOYCs are full of other people talk. This one's supposed to be yourself only.
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>>18477589
vent is vent. its supposed to let out something to feel better afterwards. letter to exes are literal rumiating brain cancer, they dont achieve anything but deepening whatever stupid shit youre thinking.
thinks are pretty good rn in my life, so i wont vent anything now.
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Hey /adv/
I've had this idea for a startup for awhile to become an African warlord. Where do I begin? Can I just challenge an existing warlord for the throne? I feel like that would leave many loyal child army kids unhappy having their previous warlord killed? How would I start my own from scratch to bond with me? What capital would I need for machetes and assault rifles and where do I bulk order them? At what point do I start implementing schools and how hard is it to dig a well since so many of these under developed villages seem to have such a hard time of It?
tl;dr how do I become a warlord and then friendly benevolent dictator for life?
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>>18477576
You need POWER AND INFLUENCE. Start there.
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>>18477635
Ok... how? That's what I'm asking here. Where to begin?
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>>18477640
Google will guide you
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what if you have no access to girls? I'm an attractive guy and have had no problem with getting girls in the past. But i've hit a dry spell recently. I know that the world is effectively an ocean of women, so where am I supposed to go to find them? I'm 18, in between HS and uni. Parties are few and far between. Does opportunity skyrocket when you go to uni or what?
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>I'm an attractive guy
why the fuck do /adv/ posters always insist that they are attractive nowadays?
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>>18477544
to give others a rough idea of how good their chances are with the opposite sex, relative to the question?
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>>18477544
I think more or less as >>18477554
You won't give same advice to someone ugly or non-attractive, than to a good looking or attractive one.
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How can I deal with being a short quiet guy, /adv/? That's basically 2 death sentences for a guy.
Will it ever get better for me?
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Go to an asian country, most guys here are short.
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>>18477347
I'm also poor and I don't want chinks, I want a white woman since I'm white.
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>>18477366
You don't find Chinese girls hot? You clearly haven't been to Beijing. I went and I saw hot girls with great style hanging out with short meh-looking dudes.
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HELP
I got petty and was ignoring a guy's texts because he wasn't responding to mine because he was busy. I gave a serious attitude and now I think he sees that I wasn't joking about having issues. How do I diffuse the situation? I sent an apology and he's probably not awake yet so I'm waiting for a response.
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Better suck that dick right for two weeks straight you dumb ho
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>>18477249
How about apologizing and stop being so petty and a child that's a start.
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Cradle the balls and swallow
Every. Single. Time. Ever.
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My girlfriend is very energetic and outgoing. She is a drama student and easily engages in physical contact with men, dances very suggestively, everything about her screams SEX. She is very loyal and I trust her, but dancing in the club and getting male attention is a part of who she is. How do I deal with this?
When I see the guys who approach her, I immediately start feeling inadequate.
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>>18477237
You gotta decide if you enjoy getting cucked and don't mind her whorish nature then
Depending on the answer either ditch her or stay together
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>>18477239
I've been smashing pussy and laughing at cucks all my life, but with her it is as if I met my match, and now I'm the jealous clingy one in the relationship.
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>>18477237
>but dancing in the club and getting male attention is a part of who she is
>but being a whore and constantly looking to monkey brench to a better cock while I sit and watch is a part of who she is
Seriously OP, let go.
t. female knowing female nature
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>Tl;dr boyfriend said horrible things to me during a big fight, I felt horrible, also wasn’t the first big fight, and now I’m wondering whether I should stay or go
A while ago I had a really big fight with my boyfriend. He rarely wants to be intimate with me (e.g. hugging for longer than 10 seconds, or sex). He also never lets me initiate, but expects me to go along whenever he feels like cuddling or having sex.
The same thing happened last week. We were laying in bed together and I felt like cuddling and having sex, but he low-key kept me off. This made me pretty pissed. The next day he came home from work and he wanted to give me a kiss, but I still felt frustrated (and rather spiteful) and I wanted to let him know what it felt like to be rejected constantly.
He got mad and told me to go away because I didn’t want to give him a kiss, and I wouldn’t tell him what was the matter. I know it’s wrong not to talk about problems, but I rarely tell him what’s the matter because he either says I’m seeing things wrong or I’m overreacting. This leads to me being hurt and not felt like being taken seriously which makes me less willing to talk.
Anyway, he got mad and I got mad, and we went to our own places in our home to cool down. We kept giving each other nasty looks once in a while, which didn’t help me to cool down.
After a while he goes to me to pressure me into telling him what’s the matter, but I was still mad at him for telling me to piss off, so I told him to piss off back. Eventually he got even madder and starting raising his voice and said that there was something wrong with me.
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Of course, this made me even more angry as well, so I told him to get lost. He didn’t, and he then told me he could really imagine why people didn’t like me. Mind you, I’m very insecure about this and I told my boyfriend about this several times, so I wasn’t happy at all that he attacked me on this insecurity. I also retorted by saying he also didn’t have any friends of his own.
And I was pissed. Extremely so, so I decided to go home to my parents because I found it unacceptable to be treated like that. I went to pack my bags and he followed me to the bedroom, where he kept pestering me and making horrible comments. I felt horribly pressured and I ran to the bathroom, locked myself up, and starting crying.
Then he slammed the door of the bathroom, told me to die, and that I should hang myself. Fun fact: I was suicidal until only a year ago.
After I calmed down I continued packing my bags and he came back to stop me, and I told him to stay away from him (as I didn’t want him to touch me). I told him it was unacceptable for him to say such things to me, and he said he was sorry for saying these things because he was angry. I somewhat forgave him for it, but the day after I was mad at him again, and we talked about it. Still, a week later I’m mad at him again and I want to make him suffer for saying such horrible things to me and making me unhappy. I realize this is unhealthy, so I’m wondering whether I should talk to him about it and forgive him, or just leave.
It’s not that I don’t love him, but he just hurts me so badly once in a while. Could you please give me advice on this topic?
Thank you in advance.
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Ditch that loser and get with me baby
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>>18477230
Are you fat op? Why he doesn't want to have sex with you?
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So, yesterday i had sex for the first time in a long time, i had 5 beers before and i didnt had any problems getting hard but it was impossible to finish, i had a boner all the time i was with her. I jerked off before meeting the girl just in case. Today even with what happenened yesterday im not horny at all, and i was thinking, i will see this girl again soon and i dont want this to happen again, what should i do, dont drink? Dont jerk off in a few days? Dont watch any kind of porn? Thanks and sorry for the messy post.
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>I jerked off before
Idoot
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>>18477221
Why?
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>>18477287
Gotta keep the gun loaded if you want to shoot.
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So, I just went through a suicidal phase for about two weeks, during which I...well...was depressive(I still am, but that's beside the point). As a result, I didn't take any care of my body and didn't wash my hair. Before I already had really scarce hair, but now it started to fall. Really badly. Like, all this hair is the result of one stroke with my hands full of shampoo. All this fell. I'm a boy btw and this is the first time I let my hair long, it's a bit longer than the lemgth to my shoulders, so I really have no idea...can this be bc of stress, bc I didn't wash it, or both? And what can I do about it? Besides, well, washing it. I suppose I shouldn't stroke it anymore firstly...right?
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Who gives a shit
Start drinking instead
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>>18477217
I don't want to become bald...like, I'm no longer suicidal, I kinda care about my life now...and i'm worried.
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Go ask a hair stylist. Post pic of said head of hair and I could give you better advice. Also try biotin pills and coconut oil treatments?
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My girlfriend is pregnant and we're both young so I don't know what to do. Is there a way to get a secret abortion? I live in America btw(pic unrelated)
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>>18477141
Depends on where you live and how old she is.
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You need to go to college or finish some type of trade school or you will be poor forever.
Dont let anyone fool you into believing you need to work all day to support this girl and baby. That is life-long suffering vs 4 years of it.
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If by "secret" you mean your parents won't find out, the abortion clinic isn't going to do that. Just make an appt. and go. Tell everyone you're going to a diner or something for a few hours.
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I have a girlfriend for 8 months now, all is good but her ex which she broke up wih 10 months ago after a relationship of 3 years texted her.
He texted a picture of some thing she made long ago.
Now she wants to ask him how everything is going and what not, while im going super sayin 2 on the inside.
She says im childish and that i should trust her.
But in my opinion, contact with ex while you are in a relationship is never Ok, right?
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Trust her, but monitor their convo's every once in a while just for case.
Jealousy is a turn off for many girls btw.
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>>18477132
Start surveillance and get a key logging program on the computer and watch. You're about to be cucked
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>>18477132
OP this is what happens when you try to be in a relationship with a girl that just "broke up" (two months is not long enough exiting a 3 year relationship). She obviously has unresolved issues to work out with him and all you have been is a distraction. She may not have intended to use you but that is what happened. Nothing you can do, nothing you can say will convince her not to because she is not over him.