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How can I stop procrastinating and start focussing?
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>>18483794
Count to three and do it.
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>>18483794
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xp2qjshr-r4
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>>18483794
Antidepressants
Or get really drunk
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Does this constitute as a threat that I could get the police involved in? 2017-07-04 06:59:10 Post No.18483780
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Does this constitute as a threat that I could get the police involved in?
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A random person on Facebook was messing with me, and said they lynched a person. I figured it was a threat, and asked "You gonna lynch me?" where they replied "I'm coming for that ass, dog"
Is this uttering a threat, and can I get police involved? I feel like it is, but someone told me since they didn't specifically say it, and I kind of got it out of them, that it isn't
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The police aren't going to waste their time with something this frivolous.
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Why get the police involved lol. People say worse things to me playing CSGO
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>>18483786
They were harassing me for awhile and ended with that
Problem is, I'm American and this person is Canadian. How would that affect this?
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My wife passed away six months ago. I was very close to her family, so much so they bought "us" a house to live in and bought "me" some equipment to aid my company (a $6,000 label printer, steel tables, etc).
When she passed away, they became very cold towards me. They stopped talking to me almost immediately and as of last week they're demanding I leave the house they bought "us". It was joint in my wife's and her parent's name, I wasn't on any paperwork despite paying the mortgage, bills, taxes for close to nine years. They also want the equipment they bought me, claiming it was not a gift but a loan (???).
I feel like I may have put too many eggs into one basket and now sure what to do now.
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>>18483776
Lawyer up asap.
Don't you inherit your wife's part of the house? And you can say the equipment was a gift of her parents to your wife, which would also make it yours now, I assume?
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Did your wife leave a will? Even if you're not on the contract, if she was and died without a will then in most places that would mean you'd inherit her estate.
As for the office equipment, unless there was a contract they can't sue for it. However, given that they've been very good for you and are probably just grieving or some shit I'd offer to pay them for the cost + some interest if I could. That's probably worth more to them than a steel table.
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Maybe you should have thought of that before you murdered your wife.
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How do I become the man I wish to be?
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know yourself, become active and start working
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>>18483736
make a list of those traits. realize which ones are simply contradictory to your intrinsic sense of self, and remove those. then plot out how to achieve the others.
it is a lot like sculpting though. you have this perfect image in your head, and you try your best, but it never looks quite right, even if it is beautiful.
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well put anon
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Any advice to a first year college student who went to study to a big city? I miss my family my friends, even my ex gf... Did I make the right choice? I just wanna go back man... Is anyone going trough or been through this?
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There is literally not enough info to answer your question.
Everybody gets homesick, though.
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Why haven't you made friends?
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Be happy that you have friends and family to miss. And go out and make new friends
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I've never turned down sex no matter the circumstances which is why I wonder.
In TV and movies and shit sometimes the guy just stops when he's about to have sex because whatever reason, however I have this theory that there is a point of no return when a guy is so horny he just can't stop until he cums.
Two examples: In holyland the MC is about to have sex but he suddenly gets PTSD from being bullied and just stops and runs the hell away because "this isn't the kind of thing that happens to me". In 13 reasons why the MC stops when he's about to have sex because he can't get over the dead girl. In my experience when I'm about to have sex I can't even remember my full name, I can't imagine myself being stoped by anything other than an external source.
So, is there really a single man who can stop when he's about to get laid for a reason other than being gay or already having someone he doesn't want to cheat on?
I believe writers either can't write a proper relationship for shit so they instead decide to go for "can't be together" drama or they just refuse to have their characters have sex because they're assholes.
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Fuck off
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nigga you want advice on something or nah?
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>>18483727
i was just having sex with a guy and he just left me despite us being close to climax. thats why im on 4chan now instead of going to bone town
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How much money do I need to live in these cities? 2017-07-04 06:07:22 Post No.18483702
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How much money do I need to live in these cities?
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I'm in college right now and I'm looking at snagging a high school teaching job. As of right now, how much money would I need to live comfortably (alone) in one of these cities?
Austin, Raleigh, Tampa, Orlando, Jacksonville
Since I'll be living alone, I'd be fine taking a pretty small apartment but I do have a habit of eating out a lot
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http://www.bestplaces.net/cost-of-living/
Have fun
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>>18483702
Oh boy. It's another one of those millennial losers who thinks, "omg i hate the cold weather so much," so he goes down south. Kill yourself, pussy.
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>>18483724
What if I'm the opposite. I can't stand MD and want to move somewhere colder. Am I a millennial loser?
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I talk to girls online on okcupid, we talk about similar hobbies but I am not very good at taking it further from there. The only thing I have tried (unsuccessfully) is asking them out for coffee and get to know eachother. I even have trouble keeping the conversation going. Any tips?
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Post your conversations so we can know more.
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Me: What's your favorite David Howie song?
Her:Oh, that's hard. Queen Bitch, Life on Mars, it depends on the day. Right now I'm really digging Blackstar.
Me:Nice. Blackstar was my first. I started listening to him after he died. =/
Her:Really? Oh my gosh there's so much good stuff to discover! Like several decades' worth.
Me:Lol I know it. Don't worry though. I have listened to starman. Pretty damn beautiful song.
Her:It is a beautiful song. His songs have such unusual chord progressions, I love it.
What other music are you listening to these days?
Me:That's why I love it too. He's been so unique through all his career.
I've been listening to the mars Volta. Progressive rock band.
Other than David. What about you?
Her:I haven't listened to them much, but I like what I've heard. I'm really into this Australian band called Hiatus Kaiyote. and the latest A Tribe Called Quest album.
Me:Ill give those a listen when I get home. Tonight was crazy busy at work. How is being a librarian?
Also I feel this question is necessary too. Who are you in your profile picture? Lol
Me:I listened to haitus kaiyote. I like it. Only heard rap from eminem and I like the old school vibes from them.
Got the 2 names mixed up
Her:Oh, tribe? yeah they're awesome.
Me:Hey ever been to that place, "Rasputins" on Blackstone? Wondering if you wanted to go there together and share favorite bands. And maybe talk shit on least favorite music lol.
Her:Oh yeah, my favorite thing to do at Rasputin's is look through the discount record session...sometimes for music and sometimes for awesomely bad album covers.
Me: Lol, here's one of my favorite bad ones.
https://www.amazon.com/Night-at-Opera-Blind-Guardian/dp/B000062Y98
As far as cover art goes...
Her: Oh man that's intense.
https://www.pinterest.com/goldcoastsound/worst-album-covers-ever/
Me: Damn. Your cat and you looks like the hottest album.
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She seems to be moderately interested at least. Post an example of you asking a girl out?
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>live in a foreign country
>get beaten up by my parents throughout my childhood and teenage years
>also get blackmailed (they threaten not to extend my residence permit)
>threaten to tell everything to my psychologist
>they get even more violent and abusive
>eventually develop a mental illness as a result
>they stop the abuse for some time
>as I got better, they start it over: dad hits me (literally, with a fist), mom insults me in every way possible
>hit my dad back this time, because I can't and won't tolerate the abuse anymore
>I make the sound recordings of the abuse on my phone
What should I do in this shitty situation? I'm now 21 by the way, and I don't think moving out is an option in the near future because I'm disabled due to the mental issues I developed as a result of all the abuse.
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You can move out with a mental disability, you just have to find a job first.
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>>18483687
I'm too disabled for work. I take high doses of sedative medication which renders any possibility of work impossible. Plus, I'm too stressed out to even think straight half of the time.
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Call social services and share with them the recordings of your abuse and have them put you into the state's custody.
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Hey /adv/, looking for some tips on my situation.
I have a chronic illness which I developed some time around 2013 and was finally diagnosed and put on treatment mid 2015 after missing out on going to the hot place by an extremely narrow margin.
My condition can't be cured but there is treatment. Trouble is that treatment is only administered at a hospital once every two weeks. Other than that it literally does not effect my day-to-day life at all and I'm not going to drop dead on the job or anything. Lately I have been trying to get into full time work but every time I tell an interviewer about my medical needs I can see them mentally cross me off their list. I'm sure it wouldn't really be an impediment to a 40 hour work week and I believe them when they tell me things like "we could work around that," it's just that they don't HAVE to work around it and it really counts against me in the hiring process.
I am otherwise qualified and experienced, I present very professionally and intelligently and it's literally just this one thing that's holding me back.
What do I say to these people to get someone to take the risk on me?
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What industry are you trying to get work in?
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>>18483666
Don't tell them about your medical condition during your interview. If you are qualified, employers will work around your needs.
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>>18483670
Digital marketing. I have a bachelor's degree and enough relevant experience to be taken seriously. My resume is also top notch and I have received a lot of compliments on it.
Hey everyone.
So about two months ago my great gran gave me some money, $150AUD. I'm thankful and want to write a card thanking her for it and hope she enjoyed her stay in Australia before she goes back to England. She's 93. Only thing is I have no idea what to write and she's leaving tomorrow. What should I say in the card? I really need some help with this because I don't know her very well. I've only met her a couple times in my life.. Thanks :')
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Dear Great Gran/Nana/whatever you call her
It's been wonderful having you here this past X months, I've really enjoyed your company and the time we've spent together. I hope you liked it here too and will come back soon,
Love Anon.
Other than that, I don't see any point in mentioning the money. Her just knowing that you liked spending time with her will be thanks enough.
Also if that's her in the picture, she's adorable.
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>>18483653
Write some warm words from me too, she looks like a lovely lady. You are lucky to have your great gran here, love her with all your heart anon.
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>>18483653
I don't understand you westerners, just hug her, thank her for the gift and be done with it. Why write a stupid card, are a small child or something?
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How many texts does it take before it's considered obsessive?
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That's such a vague question, I have no idea what answer you're looking for.
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Depends on the relationship between the two.
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How many times would a person text you before you considered them obsessive, in a relationship. Sorry I am not sure how to phrase the question properly.
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Don't know how to DTR?!? 2017-07-04 04:47:15 Post No.18483573
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I've been seeing this guy for the past month, he lives with my friends boyfriend so we normally end up there on the weekend. We don't talk during the week or message but when it's just us it's a house on fire, sometimes we just sleep and cuddle, I normally leave pretty early in the morning to get on with my day, but now I'm in a limbo of what's actually going on?? Not sure if it's still in boot call area or something else
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>>18483573
>open mouth
>ask
If you are enough of an adult to have a fuck buddy then you are enough of an adult to ask what the relationship is and whether or not either of you want to pursue it further.
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>>18483590
Truee
I just came out of a really long relationship
So I just haven't done this before and don't want to come off as like clingy or the classic "what are we"
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>>18483573
You're just a piece of ass to the guy and not serious. You just got out of a relationship so just keep everything casual for awhile. Date other guys too.
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My gay friend keeps trying to make advances on me. I'm under the impression that he thinks he could seduce me, a straight guy, with persistence. What should I do?
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you know what to do
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Fuck him of course
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Tell him to fuck off
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untreated concussion? 2017-07-04 03:43:05 Post No.18483470
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one night when I was 12, I was playing rough with my friends and I hit my forehead hard on a wooden floor rather hard, though it did not hurt much. I remember seeing stars upon the impact, but never lost consciousness or felt weird other than the fact that I felt really sad for almost no reason for the rest of that night, almost crying myself to sleep. The impact spot on my forehead had tiny red spots all over it for the next week or so. never told anyone; it went untreated. fast forward many years, adhd symptoms gradually worsen though they were present before this happened. did I fuck my brain up?
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>>18483470
You don't have brain damage, you're just stupid.
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well thanks, i guess
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>>18483470
It's hard to say my dude, concussions are a fickle mistress. I've had quite a few in my life time, last time I had one I went about 6 hours before realizing something was wrong. I realized something was up when my manager at work asked how to spell my last name and I actually had to take a minute to even think of what my last name was.
It's hard to retroactively diagnose a concussion from just a bump to the head. It's all a matter of catching the symptoms as they are happening and recognizing something is wrong.
If you really are that concerned maybe you could talk to some kind of brain doctor to get a scan but once it's happened there's nothing you can do about it.