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I haven't saved up enough for university

I'm already 23 and most of my expenses went towards my now ex boyfriend, upgrading classes and my family who are in really rough shape right now. Right now I only have enough to pay for the damage deposit and first months rent. I got accepted into a good university and I have good marks. I don't really feel like waiting another year because of my age but I'm scared I dont have enough money for university. I'm going to get a loan but I'm scared that it won't cover everything. What should I do?

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I have a female friend that I'm close with that jokes a lot about us being in a relationship. Is she trying to tell me something? I doubt it since she's taken and she's really energetic but they seem to become more frequent and it's starting to creep me out.

Here's a few examples:
"Oh anon! I know you just
want to confess your undying love for me!"
"Silly anon, you say that like we're going to end up together!"
"Anon what will you do when I break up with my bf and I'm all alone?"
"Anon! Don't get funny ideas like thinking we're going to end up together!"

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SO, 2 days ago, I went through my bfs messages on his phone (I know, I'm a bitch, shouldn't have done that, I'm sorry) and saw he was sexting with a girl he knows from an online game he is playing.
I found out 5min before he left for a business trip, so I couldn't say anything (was kinda in shock).

I have processed everything now, I went through rivers of tears, and I feel like I am in the rage stage now. What should I do? Not as in "should I cheat" or whatever, but what is the best thing to do? I wanna leave him, but don't know how to proceed. We have been living together for 5 years, I love him more than anything but the person I fell in love with would never cheat on me and I don't feel like I can ever get over it.

Before anyone asks, no I'm not fat, I go to the gym (actually lost a lot of weight recently) I put out semi-regural and feel like he maybe did it because I got too confident, but doesn't matter really.

What should I do? If it wasn't for his buissnes trip, I would've probably be crying to him and being all pathetic. I don't wanna do that, I want him to cry now. Again, rage stage I think eh...

(ask away any questions you have for me btw?)

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She texts me after ignoring me for a month and a half. What on earth did she mean by this?

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What's the worst kind of rejection for you guys? How do you deal with it? For me it's being ignored. I've had a huge crush on a coworker for over a year now. We rarely work together. We work in different offices for the same company. On Friday we ended up working alone together all day. We had a lot of fun and got into some pretty deep conversation. It seemed like she was into me, and made it quite clear that she was single and looking. I wanted to ask her out on the spot, but didn't want to make the work day awkward. So, right after work I added her on facebook. She accepted my request immediately. Then, I sent her a message asking if she wanted to hang out sometime. She never read it though. So, the following afternoon I sent another message saying "Well, you didn't say no. So, I'll take that as a yes lol." She replied with "Sorry, I just got this. Work has been crazy." (although she had plenty of time to share memes). I said it was all good, and that I know how it goes. Later that night I said "I don't want to keep bothering you. If you're not interested, no hard feelings. I won't know if I don't at least ask though." That was my last message to her (Saturday night). It's now Tuesday evening and she hasn't even read it. I'm pretty bummed out about it. Being turned down sucks, but when I'm not even worth reading my message... That shit just makes me depressed. Maybe I'll volunteer for overtime at her office next week and ask in person, that way I'll at least get the dignity of a response. What do you think /adv/?

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Girlfriend left me a few days ago for another dude. How long until it stops hurting, /adv?

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My crush says he's a sexual sadist. I'm a virgin. I don't think I'm a masochist so if we had sex, would this be an issue?

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How do I stop worrying about ending up alone and childless, /adv/? I keep getting told the usual jus b urself bullshit and it doesn't help at all.

>Be 24, finished university and been working full time for a year and a half
>Moved to a new city last summer, because of my hobbies and job most the people I interact with are at least 30
>Pretty much all of them are single and have never had a serious relationship, and go to parties they clearly don't enjoy because they're desperate to find someone to settle down with
>A few months ago one of my friends (35 y.o.) broke down crying in front of me because he's so lonely. He has a good job, speaks 4 languages perfectly and is conversational in 2 more
>Another friend (33) has a high-paying job, is athletic and good-looking but has also had next to no luck with women in the romance department

How do I stop worrying about having a similar fate? I get no satisfaction from one-night stands but all of the women I meet seem to either be man-hating feminazis or to only be interested in partying/ fucking.

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I'm relocating from Europe to Seattle area in 3 months and I'm having hard time finding myself a flat/room.

I've been hunting flats on craigslist non fucking stop for 3 weeks and there are hardly any offers for fall and even fewer offers for flats/rooms located in a tolerable distance to my workplace. But the fucking worst thing is that I have encountered as many as ELEVEN scam attempts, varying from textbook scams to sophisticated schemes. So far, I have "met" only one person who appeared to be real, but couldn't accept my offer for the simple fact that I'm literally on the other side of the world.

There are problems with the fact that I can't go view the flats, can't do any shitty background checks and credit scores (No SSN, the fuck is even that?)

Any advice about what I should do to secure myself a flat? Do you know any trustworthy sites where I could rent a room for much more than on craigslist, but I wouldn't have to be paranoid about sending the cash to some stranger on the other side of the world?

Also, FUCK THOSE SCAMMER CUNTS, MAY NIGGERS RAPE THEM IN HELL

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Hey /adv/,

so I'm a decent looking 26 - year old german guy and there is this syrian girl I got to know 3 weeks ago.

We started dating and I was super amazed by her personality and her views on life, she has been living in germany for about 1 1/2 years know and came here as a refugee.

I just came home from our second date... it all started a little awkward, since she brought roses for me with her, she told me that it was usual to make presents to people who one likes so I accpeted that and we went to a nice place for some drinks.

Fast forward one hour, it turned out she never kissed a guy, never had sex and never has been out with a german guy before (even though she is pretty as hell).

I for myself had a couple of girlfriends etc. and she seemed totally cool with it, since it's just a different culture I'm living in.

Also no alcohol or meat from a pig.

Question:

I want to kiss her, badly, and she is such a good woman, maybe even with traits I'm missing from the general sluts here.

What the fuck should I do?

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I just had my ex over last night, we broke up nearly a year ago but we've remained close friends ever since, a big portion due to me hoping we would be come more than friends again. She's slept over a few times before, we never had sex when she'd sleep over, but a few times we slept in the same bed we ended up cuddling the whole night and she low key got upset about it after the fact, cause she claims she didn't want that to be happening even at the time she went for it. But she slept over last night, decided to sleep in different beds so the chance of cuddling would be non existent (I have 2 beds side by side in my room). She decided to lay extremely close to me, even on the other bed.. as in, [ x] <- my bed, I usually sleep half off it with my arms/legs hanging off it. She slept on the other bed, [ x. ], basically as close as she could. She had plenty of space, as it was a queen, and I was on a twin. But still slept that close. So any who, we go to bed, I wake up about an hour later, she's close enough that my hands touching her (my arm is hanging off my bed, as I'm currentry cuddling a pillow lol), then rolls over a bit and kind of grunts/moans, she'd always do that when we were dating when she wanted something. So, I said fuck it, rolled off my bed right next to her, slid my arm under her head (she lifted up her head, then set it back down so I could get my arm in) and put my hand on her boob as I always would. Laid there for about 10 minutes, realized I p4obably shouldn't be doing that, slid my arm out, and rolled back onto my bed, put on netflix and went back to bed. Woke up numerous other times for the same reason. When we both woke up this morning, she was even closer, once again so my arm hanging off was touching her again. Mind you were both conscious, awake, and she still has 3/4 of the bed on the other side she could be laying on. The last time she slept over, in different beds, she slept on the complete opposite side of the bed. Tldr girl advice pls

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did I go too far?

My brother and I always are fighting but I would never say we actually 'fought' fought. It's mostly just wrestling like typical brothers and occasionally hitting. But recently he's escalated to sucker punches usually when walking behind me or next to me and it's getting very frustrating to play along. it's getting to the point where I'm constantly tense around him because he doesn't just aim for the chest or shoulder. Gut, kidneys, spine, and I'm worried it's only a matter of time before he just starts going to the face.
So today after he hit me in the gut I got angry and lended two pretty hard hits to his back and sides and I didn't play it off cool like we normally do.
He got a little heated and was annoyed I escalated it but I'm trying to signal that I'm fucking sick of it

How should I have gone about this differently?
>inb4 just talk to him
Believe me that's the first thing I tried

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I'm in highschool, it's summer break and in literally rotting in my room. Fucked up sleeping schedule and all. I just don't want to exist anymore, I have zero friends, crazy mother and am unhealthy.
My mother has really ruined me,
She has ruined me, I'm doing bad in academics and this stress is piling, I have zero motivation and am depressed. The red pill is that being mixed race has made me look unusual, I can't integrate into society outside of school. I think it's over for me buddy boyos, it really is over for me. I can feel my self getting fatter and uglier from stress alone. The black pill has also ruined me, now I can't even delusional myself out of suffering. It's truly over.
I think I'm going to skip sleep today, so I can break this achedule.

I wish I didn't live in japan, my dad might not even pay for my university abroad as he's convinced school isn't for me as I'm underperforming.
Even if I get into university sub 5 law will still take place and I will fucking Incel because of my Subhumanity.
Making money is my only salvation but I don't think I'm high iq enough desu.
I was thinking of crypto but probably too autistic to understand it, it's over for me.
After swallowing the black pill I now understand why I never was able to make any friends, you guys make critize the black pill but it's the truth, it's simple biology, subhumans like me weren't meant to be alive, the bad runts in the litter are always tossed in the river.

Also to cope I've been jerking off 5 times a day and waking up at 3pm lol it's over for me you fucking niggers,

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What's some cute stuff to text to your gf?

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Last weekend my gambling addicted brother won £250K and offered me £25K. I've always been poor. My head is spinning. What do I do with it?