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Keep copies and document everything. This could be taken to court if cops do nothing.

Block the guy whoever he contacts should block. Same way I treat spam bots. As for the police make sure you get a case #

>>18489657
You smile with your eyes more than your mouth. The sides of your temples and your eyebrows raise... you can smile without moving your lips much at all if you focus on smiling with your eyes

>>18489666
Holy fuck I have been doing it wrong this whole time

Is that picture supposed to be a before/after of a bimax advancement?

Just tell him r9k called and wants their ultimate gentleman back

>>18489668
huh, I didn't think anyone on this site was actually autistic. I thought it was just a meme

>>18489656
Anger and caustic aggression usually spikes norepenephrine which will cause him to avoid change.
Effective change comes in supportive communication. Also, it's likely not gonna happen while he's playing vidya - he'll use the "next game's starting" to get out of the conversation

Another odd method is disappointment. If he's truly empathetic, you can try a fatherly disapproval... See if that touches his psyche

If all else fails, jump ship asap
I've had shitty roommates and they suck - just make sure your shit is handled and fuck em if you tried

Kill yourself

tell them it was a joke?

say you have a gf- i can be your gf i got you anon

>>18489618
cite all the historical marriages that were 1st cousins.

>>18489621
I need a way to sweep this under the RUG

>>18489618
How closely related?

>hey 4chan, where did I put my car keys?

I doubt anyone wants to steal your keys although I do know a few people who collect them. I doubt the walmart people will do a deep sweep because people who get paid minimum wage would problably rather do other things.

If your car keys do get found it is likely they will be returned. I don't think many people have a use for them and even if they found your car it is unlikely they would steal it, most people don't want to go to jail.

no it's a nice idea, not so sure about bringing her to your place of work as your colleagues may give you the second-degree either there and then, or afterwards, depends on how you get along with them.

maybe choose another bar instead and keep your romances discrete?

also, loud events are a good occasion to lean in closer to talk in hear ears and stuff, casually put your hand on the small of her back as you do so, and see what kind of reaction you get. could be promising.

>>18489500
That's sound totally fine don't doubt yourself too much

>>18489522
Thanks for the advice, maybe I'll reconsider where we go for food. Physical interaction is something I struggle with, even though I've had girlfriends before, and have been on a decent amount of dates. Are there any queues I should look for when I go to "break the physical barrier," as I call it. Should I just keep it simple and go for the small interactions like a hand on the back, or shoulder? Also, if I receive good signs from getting personal should I go for a kiss at the end of the date, or is it more acceptable to wait, regardless of the signs given.

>>18489567
Thanks for the reassurance. I'll just go in confident, and not worry about fucking up too much.

>>18489498
Recently I got her a job working at the same place I do. And, well, it's been great. She's worked really well and is super appreciative of the opportunity to get ahead after numerous set backs (she's a single mother, dads a loser who's no longer around). Working in such close proximity has awakened many feelings in both of us and I'm now at the point where I know that I'm cheating myself out of something if I deny it any longer. I'm pretty damn sure I love her /adv/, but I owe my partner more than that so I don't know what to do.

Do I leave and pursue happiness, or do I stay and be unfulfilled to not ruin my daughter and wife's lives?

>>18489508
Worth also noting that I have no other close friends to talk to about this so I can only talk to bestie mentioned above which makes it super difficult to get any perspective... fwiw, she's indicated that she feels the same way I do.

>>18489498
Good husbands don't put themselves in compromising situations with women who have a romantic interest in them. Start building a wall with the girlfriend, and start spicing up life with your wife (for your sake, your wife's sake, and your daughter's sake).

Yes, I would take it as coming on to me and would assume you want more. I would at least expect to kiss at the end of the dat.

>>18489442
you sound young.
If you are not okay with kissing or sex on the first date, tell them outright. Otherwise, abd even then, some will try depending on who you date.
And why do you equate kissing to sex? They are very different!

>>18489609
I meant holding hands or kissing on the cheek might be okay for me but kissing on the lips led me to things I didn't expect before. After the kiss he always offered to go partying and I realized no matter how much I like them, DO NOT KISS OR FUCK ON THE FIRST DATE

I'm 24. So not that young, not old though.

>>18489416
Fyi, I'm not some chainsmoking, porn addicted fat person. I feel guilty for indulging in these habits at all now, period. Also, drinking seems stupid to me.

>>18489416
>>18489424
Guilt is a normal feeling.
It's saying that you're acting out of societal norms.
And that's good.

Try going to the gym on the reg. It's a place where you can burn away guilt. Come back and you can do anything without feeling bad

>>18489436
Right. What do you mean by that last sentence?

>>18489345

The problem with right of center is that based on tradition their political, social and economic goals are often achieved by denying other people theirs. Its the general set up of capitalism that requires there be a winner and a loser. The problem with left of center is that they've spent so much time fighting injustice that they often ignore the parts of their ideals that create injustice. Both sides are inherently hypocritical and the all mighty "middle ground" is often loss due to an inability of other persuasion to admit that the other side has legitimate grievances. A dire lack of empathy is what plagues this country. Lefts can't empathize with poor, disenfranchised blue collar workers and traditionalists and the right can't empathize with poor, historically oppressed minorities and outspoken young communities who don't feel at home in their own country.

It doesn't matter what direction you slightly lean in, so long as the citizens of the United States insists on politicize their genuine urge to do the right and protect their families and their futures we will constantly live in a society that views any kind of unhysterical political persuasions as abnormal.

We live in a time where its all or nothing, us vs. them. Its a really shitty era we live in.

>>18489368
Do people spout that kind of textbook Democrat spiel in public? Boo hoo democracy is dead we need to work to get all of the votes and not just most of them.

I would rather move to a midwestern "fly-over" state to get away from all the lefties.
Grass is truly always greener apparently

I just submitted a complaint to the Internet Crime Complaint Center. Anything else I should do?

bump, this is serious I need help. He is planning on visiting me. Whether he is for real, I don't know.

Better be safe than sorry and report it to the police. If he really threatened you,what do you have to lose?

>>18489313
I understand liking bigger girls better. Do you really want to meet them through dating sites or apps, though?

>>18489339
I don't know if you've ever heard of job corps but it's a free government funded trade school. There aren't many girls here to begin with and the ones that there are everyone fights over. There really isn't any transportation off center unless you find it from an outside source. And even then, its only allowed on the weekends.

I'd try to meet girls here but I'm not trying to deal with the other dudes here. I just moved to Utah from the center in PA, I don't want to come all this way to have something stupid fuck it up. I'd rather meet people outside of here.

I'm sorry, I shouldve explained that before.

>>18489353
I hadn't heard of Job Corps before. It sounds like a cross between prison and the army. I can see now how difficult it would be for you to meet women through more traditional means.

Utah... are the women all Mormon out there?

Bump. I'm gonna fucking do it /adv/ and the blood will be on your hands.

You kept in touch with your ex and she gwent out with someone else and you want to keep yourself ? If you want to kill yourself because she didn't get stuck in the past like you did then do it.
Did you even liked her in the first place if you can't handle her being happy?

>>18489407
Don't kill yourself over a woman. You'll be over this in a few months, you'll meet someone new, and life will go on. Relationships come and go, it feels bad sometimes but don't end your life over it.

Smoke some weed, get some junk food, and wallow in your depression for a week or two. Then get your ass out the door and get on with it. You'll be OK.

>>18489305
Maybe move a fucking villa somewhere where vehicle usage is kept to a minimum? Fuck man, there are hundreds of places with technology and a minimal amount of vehicles. You don't even need to go Amish to find that kind of shit. Google that shit man.

So move to some village somewhere out in the country.

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But look at her...she's so beautiful, she can take you anywhere as you both listen to your favourite music, you'll always be in control, she is a lot stronger than any girl on this planet could ever be, and there's always a chance that you'll die together..Don't you love her?