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Okay, so I'm in love with a Mormon girl. She herself isn't *that* devout, but her family is extremely. Her parents are intensely overbearing and are basically constantly trying to keep us separated. She's constantly depressed because of the historical revisionist nonsense that's been crammed into her head, and is constantly filled with guilt and anxiety, largely in part due to her parents. What should I do, /adv/?

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So, I'm faced with the realization that I don't enjoy sex.

I'm male, in my mid 20s, circumcised, I've been having sex for about 10 years. I watch porn, but apparently not to the degree that constitutes 'a problem'. I've cut down, anyway.

I've slept with enough women to have forgotten how many women I've slept with, so it's not for lack of variety. The physical aspect of sex just feels completely unremarkable, my cock is about as sensitive as any other part of my body. I hadn't bothered trying to get laid at all this last year, and when I did hook up with someone recently, I didn't even bother to finish.

Thing is, I still feel attraction. Very strongly. I'm quite confident I'm not gay, or asexual, or whatever. I /love/ women. But, this doesn't seem like something that will just 'go away'.

So I guess I'm looking for advice from anyone who might feel similarly. I'm not sure what I should do about companionship. I don't think I am responsible enough for a dog.

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>4 years ago
>21 year old
>dating a 19 year old asian
>we date for a year
>she's kind of crazy but likes me a lot
>still has a really nasty temper
>like super nasty temper
>also on anti-depressants
>also bitches at me constantly for not being in college
>she goes away to college
>want to break up with her but everytime I try she freaks the fuck out
>she finally meets somebody
>breaks up with me
>don't even give a fuck
>she keeps texting me even though she has a new boyfriend
>keeps wanting to see me
>we eventually have a huge argument accusing each other of cheating on the other while dating (I never cheated on her)
>unfriend her on all social media accounts
>4 years later I have graduated college, have a job, have performed music around the world
>receive friend request from her

What do? She was kind of nice while we were dating, but also bitched at me a ton about not being finished with college at the age of 21. Now I am 25 and I am finished, and she's trying to contact me again.

Accept facebook request or not?

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Gf of 5 years cheated on me for months and continued to suck out my money and resources.
I have to bring her dad some stuff, if he asks me what happened what the hell am i sopposed to do? Tell what happened or just leave it be?

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when I cum I hate my girlfriend

shes cute and a good girlfriend but when I cum I look at her like I would look at another man. The positive features (being short, dumb, docile etc) become negatives. like I basically feel like im with a garbage human leech thats entire survival is because of chemicals in my body that force me to desire to protect this thing that I would pound into the mud if the universe gave her a Y chromosome

shes actually great though

what do?

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I can't separate myself from my best friend who is lesbian. I am crazily in love with her, she's the only thing on my mind everyday and it lasts for more than a year now. The more time we spend together the happier we are and the more it hurts me. We spent this whole past weekend together and it was the best time I ever had in my life. She just makes me happy so much and the thought of us not spending our whole life together just tears my heart up. I'm in college and I'm friends with lot of people but no relationship comes even near to what I have with this girl. You may say oneitis but she's seriously everything that I ever looked for in a girl. We sleep together sometimes I cuddle up to her, but even her laying her hand around me is a rare occasion.

I know that we never will be together, I realize that, but it's just fucking hard. She doesn't talk much, is intelligent and the cutest girl you ever has seen. We are both kinda introverted and both can just spend time next to each other not saying a word just enjoying each others presence. She loves me. As a friend. Told me that she never believed that she could love anyone just like that, unconditionally.

She's the only thing in the entire world that makes me happy. I know that the more time I spend with her the more it will hurt when she'll find someone but I just can't help myself. I don't even care about other girls. I'm blindfolded. Fuck this fucking life.

Tried giving this girl a kiss once we were sleeping together. We were heads to heads, both kinda drunk. I took her upper lip into my mouth and it was like kissing a cold stone. There really isn't any future in this relationship for both of us. But it feels so wrong to abandon a best friend just because she doesn't feel exactly what I do about her.

You know.

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How to be a bad girl? Advice please.
I'm tired of being a good girl that no opinionated or always follows people just to not make them hurt or sad.

I wanna be a girl who talk and do things that she wants without being embarrassed or scared of people laughing at her.
Help please. I'm depressed because of this.
Is there anyway I can change?

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>Be me
>Going through rough stretch with gf of 2 and a half years (long-distance but we saw each other monthly/every other month)
>She's being distant as fuck lately and I don't know how to react
>We get in an argument over this and break up
>After about a week, she comes back and tells me that she wants to try again
>I accept, and she goes almost invisible again
>I confront her about this
>Another argument ensues
>Break up again
>A few days later, we have a little talk
>She tells me she found another guy
>Feel like shitting my heart out
>She goes on about it's all my fault and that she has absolutely nothing to hold herself accountable for regarding the end of our relationship
>Convo ends there. Sadness slowly turns into rage
What do?Keep in mind that I'm currently visiting some family in the middle of buttfuck nowhere until the end of the month.

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My best friend is mad at me because he got into an argument with his daughter and she said she loved me more than him and I was a 'way better father than him'. For context, I'm pretty close to his family. His wife was one of my best friends in school and I introduced them and I'm like the cool uncle figure to his daughter. He works to late hours so when he's not around, his wife usually calls me up for things and I end spending a lot of time with his daughter so we're very close.

This has noticeably bruised his ego so he ended up lashing out at me. He spent like an hour trying to downplay me and saying things like "You don't have to deal with her all the time." and "She only likes you because you spoil her." I didn't want to be an asshole and tell him not to take it so seriously so I agreed with him. I told him he's a great father and it's not even a comparison between us, she's just too young to appreciate him. Eventually he cleared his head a little and we made up, all his fine.

July 4th comes and he invites me to his house for a party. He and his daughter are still fighting, she's been pretty noticeably distant towards him. I come over and his daughter lights the fuck up. She hugs me and said she missed me. She was very clingy towards me. It was a little over the top. My friend was in a bad mood at this point. Over the course of the day, she continually snubbed him and would be super nice to me. It was very obvious to me that she was trying to piss him off and he took the bait.

It got very bad when we sat down to eat food and she refused to sit next to him and sat next to me. It ended up in them and arguing and her saying she wished I was her father. My best friend was infuriated, mainly at me. He ended up kicking me off their property. It was a big scene.

His wife has apologized to me but he himself is still pissed off at me and doesn't want to talk to me. How do I fix this situation? I don't really know what to do since I didn't do anything personally.

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My gf said she would post nudes to see if anyone else likes her body because she thinks I don't but I genuinely do and I've told her this like a million times

She says I'm lying because I'm with her.

How am I supposed to help her? Or what should I do... I don't want her to believe that bullshit. It's wrong.

Also, I don't want anyone else to see her naked...

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What's the best way to ask out an Asian Buffet Waitress when there is the extreme language barrier?

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Over one month ago I sprained my ankle while climbing.
To be sure it wasn't broken/chipped, I got it x-rayed.

Since the i have periodically cooled it and applied cremes and other basic ointments. I wasn't able to keep it as still as I probably should have and didn't wear braces.

Although it is a lot better now, it is still slightly swollen. And twisting it or putting specific pressure on the mid-foot hurts or sends a shock through the foot.

>Is it normal that so long (5 weeks) after the accident I still feel the pain?
>Should I consider going to the doctor again?
>Is there any way to speed up the healing process?

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GUIDELINES:
Before you post a question, check the FAQ to see if it's already been answered.
Keep questions short for more answers.
If you're not going to like honest answers, don't ask your question.
And please no derailing arguments.

FAQ:
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
>What do girls/guys think about <an insecurity including, but not limited to: looks, physical traits, personality traits, virginity or otherwise lack of dating experience>
There is no one answer. Preferences differ, but complexes are always a turn-off.

>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Get over it by practising and exposing yourself to it, little by little, step by step. There is no single magical moment that will instantly change you forever.

>I like someone. What do I do?
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out.

>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.

>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. You're overthinking it.

>XYZ happened. Interpret this for me please
We're not in their head, we don't know.

>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing.

>Someone has made it super clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
No.

>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>.

>I don't see this thread?/There is one but it hit the bump limit
Then start your own! Pick a gender symbols image that makes it instantly recognizable, copy paste this text and start the thread.

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I'm 24

Is it weird that no guy has developed feelings for me? There are men that want to have sex with me but nothing more, in my experience they stop talking to you once they have had sex with you

I have had feelings for guys but they were not interested in me because I have an ugly face and I'm usually fat (although I have also been thin during certain periods but that didn't increase my luck in this department) I'm also quite boring although I try not to be (and my friends tell me I'm very interesting)

So, is it weird?

I daydream about romance all the time, but it's never happened for me and that makes me quite depressed and envious, in fact I can't remember a day where I haven't cried because of the loneliness

Should I just get a cat?

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How do I balance my love for humanity with my hatred of it? On one hand, I want the best for everybody, and I want to live a virtuous life. On the other hand, I think that most people are wrong in what they believe and are too stubborn to be helped.

Can you see how these two opinions don't contradict each other, but pull at each other? I spend too much time in ambivalence, trying to figure out whether getting emotionally involved with humanity is worth it.