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Hey, I need help with something and I can't Google it. Im really fucking paranoid
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>>18492800
if you can't google it, habeeb it
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What is the right chemicals to create sulphuric acid to aid in disposal of a body
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>>18492800
well we cant help you if you dont tell us what it is
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How can I feel less horrible?
>Girlfriend cheated on me but say she wants an open relationship now
>Have to move across country in 2 months to study
>Might not even be able to find a place to live so I'll have to be a homeless student for a month or two
>No drivers license
>Almost no money in the bank
>Going to be kicked out of the place I currently live in 2 months
I've started going into fetal position and crying for around 25 minutes, I can't keep any food down (If I finally get a little bit of food down, like 1/4th of a portion, I get nauseous and feel like throwing up), I also start crying and hulking while doing things but I just do my best to power through it.
I've become obsessed with cleaning and I've had intrusive negative thought that I can't control.
Whenever I try to sleep all my problems just swarm my mind, if I even manage to get sleep Its a nightmare and I wake up 1-2 hours later.
What the fuck do I do
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Adding on top: I've been spending 8 months just being a depressed sack of shit and done nothing at all, Ive wasted almost an entire year of my life.
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>>18492708
Don't you have any family or friends who can guide you out of this situation?
Also, open relationships are a scam, don't fall for it.
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1) get rid of her. Seriously, dump the ho.
2) do you reaaaaally have to move? If you do, don't even worry about losing your current place.
3) no license? No problem ! There's public transportation, and you can take the driving test whenever you want.
4) no money? Try tutoring in English to kids in China. They'll pay your ticket and rent, plus a salary. All you need to do is being a native English speaker! Even if you have no degree, countries will pay you to teach English in several places.
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Hello /adv/
I've had a rough couple of months, and my relationship has been really rocky. Need to get this out of my system.
I have been in a relationship with this girl for about 2 1/2 years. Everything was fine and dandy until the semester rolled around again. I fell into a real deep depression. I had no friends, lived in a single, and hated my classes. I never ate with anyone. Every single day I would walk into the food hall and eat alone. Every single fucking day. I thought about suicide a lot, and sometimes still do. I knew I needed help at the time so I reached out to my parents, couple discord buddies, a counselor, and my girlfriend. This is the part where the shit show happens.
I was told over and over again, my classes weren't for me. Asked myself every day, why the fuck am I paying for this? I broke down multiple times, usually alone, and then my girlfriend basically said let's break up for a couple months. It's not like I could have done anything, because relationships aren't one sided. I was always there for her, and I mean, I would do anything for her. I felt abandoned, depressed, and emotional as hell. I've never cried that much or intense in my life. I can remember still waking up in the dorm every day, thinking about just opening the window and falling out.
I did everything you probably shouldn't do. I mean fucking everything. I had her media up when I was bored, messaged her mom and asked for help through it, and even apologized for being such a burden. A couple heart wrenching things stay in the back of my mind, but that's a bit too personal. Eventually, I did stop doing those things, and I saw a counselor, went to the gym, etc. It was just a depressing ride I never want admission into again.
Anyways, things had not been good. I barely made it through finals. I wrote what I thought down on a blog no one would see. However, she could see it too, and broke down after reading trying to apologize to me.
cont.
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>>18492685
Why did you fall into depression OP? Sounds like you are having a rough time, couldn't be just a random thing.
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>>18492685
You need to put Jesus Christ first in your life. When was the last time your mind had a Holy Spirit bath? Get in the Spirit and Seek God. You may be alone, but you will never be lonely. God Bless.
I have spoken these things to you while I am still with you. But the Counselor, the Holy Spirit, whom the Father will send in My name, will teach you everything and remind you of all that I told you. Peace I leave with you. My peace I give to you. Not as the world gives do I give to you. Let not your heart be troubled, neither let it be afraid. (John 14:25-27)
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Cont.
Ever since we got back from university, she's been distant and not affectionate at all. I took her with my family on vacation because I wanted to cheer her up. We slept in the same bed for a week. I found out the hard way she doesn't want to be touched. She told me that she just couldn't handle anyone right now. Okay.jpeg I gave her space, but also became a shoulder if she needed it. Never really took it.
Yesterday, I had a long talk with her. The past week every day I thought to myself we should just break up. I am constantly in conflict with myself because I'm extremely hung up on this girl. I know for sure that I love her down to the bottom of my fucking heart, but I'm also broke as hell and barely standing. This is some that I want in my life, and I wish we had it figured out. I told her everything I thought. I learned that she failed two classes and got D's in the other two. It's not like her, because I know she is extremely intelligent. I don't know if it's selfish to want to stay together, however, if everything is such a burden, I have to lighten her load. Sometime today, I'm going over there to discuss whether or not we should stay together. This is one of the biggest life decisions I've ever fucking made.
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ex-gf just posted videos of her party on her snapchat story. She broke up two weeks ago, and I thought I was fine, but just seeing this now got me super anxious, and, sad.
This is especially weird, because she usually never posts on her snapchat story (we were together for a year and she posted on it ONCE), and now, just two weeks after we break up, she's all "HEY LOOK AT MY PARTY LOOK AT MY FRIENDS". Like is she trying to make me mad or something ? We broke up on good terms, so if that's the case I really don't get it. I think she knows that I didn't take the breakup too bad and that I'm doing good right now, so maybe that hurt her ego and now she wants to prove she's doing fine too or something ?
I shouldn't even be mad with something so trivial, I've been partying too since we broke up, but it still makes me feel bad. How do I get over that ? I don't want to get back with her, I just want to get over her.
I have a party tonight, I feel like I could do the same and post videos of it for shit and giggles, but i'd just look bitter as fuck and I don't want to play that game, so I don't know
Help me i'm losing my shit kek
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>>18492664
Jesus delete her from your Snapchat. Problem solved.
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Why do you even have her on Snapchat after the break-up?
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I broke up with my ldr "gf" that I've known for 2 years around a few months ago. We ended in terms like we'd still stay friends, and it was her idea, but I'm the one who deleted her off snapchat for months because seeing her gave me anxiety.
I added her back a few weeks ago because I'm finally over her and I'm just curious what she's up to, it doesn't bother me anymore.
TL;dr: Delete her, at least for a while.
Male. 22. I really hate my current situation right now. Life is suffering and stagnant. Have ADHD can't pay attention at uni, still passing, but I suffer alot on my own trying to study and get stuff turned in on time. I have a slight eating disorder where it's difficult to eat in the mornings due to stress. Everyday issue for as long as I can remember. No job, can't hold one, can't interact with people well. Still live with parents. Everyone is always yelling at me and bringing problems to me. Can't afford to move out because parents pay for everything, even college: I plan on finishing, but they are my only financial option. School is 8k a semester. No friends. I'm gay to top it off. No sex because I don't like random sex and "The One" doesn't exist. Still have 4 more years of this bullshit to graduate and get a job finally. I have no adolescence life. To save money, I don't go out just stay home and play video games. I get mood swings. I can't love my mother. I'm a slave to my parents because they pay for everything. No feeling of independence. I have an apartment in the college town I go to thats one hour away for a few days. Roommates are disgusting. I get there, I have to clean to use the place. Go home with parents on the weekends, I have to clean because mother can't homekeep for shit and apparently its my job to clean, mow lawn, do laundry, feed animals and livestock daily for the next for years. Again, my whole family yells at me and blames me for everything. It feels like we have more of a slave relationships than a family one, in fact its felt like that my whole life. Parents stole my bedroom they made for me a few years ago, they give me their old moldy mildew pit after-sex smelling room. It bothers me because of the smell, i feel like i dont have a home, well i never did in the first place. Considering getting in contact with ex-bf. Need place to stay, because I can't take this.
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I know if I move in with him, I won't be capable of working because of school, my parents will still pay for it, but I just don't have the capacity to juggle anything on top of school. I feel like i'll be out of the frying pan and into the fire with this solution. Like i will move from cleaning and maintaining my parents house, to cleaning and maintaining my bfs house.
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Sometimes things seem tough, and that's when it's good to have some perspective. You anon, are afforded a great opportunity in life, and must act responsibly in it.
That's the best advice I can give. Get help in sorting out the complexity in your life.
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My dude it sounds like you're overreacting quite a bit. You're JUST 22 years old. Chill out.
Seems like your mind is running wild. If you can't control it, it almost definitely means your current lifestyle is very unhealthy for you. Ideally you sleep more, eat healthy, interact with close friends, and exercise.
If you can't do all those it's totally fine. Important thing is you realize it doesn't take much to turn your life around. It took me only a couple years to go from a useless leech to a super productive, fit, social, and active member of the society.
If you have immediate difficulty controlling your thoughts and can't get yourself to live healthier, I suggest talking to a therapist. I tried it and it helped in getting me back on track.
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Is 6'9" too tall for most women or am I stuck trying to pursue tall women?
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cut yourself shorter from the legs desu
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>>18492487
surprisingly women aren't super crazy about dudes that tall, but whats wrong with tall girls?
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>>18492487
6'11" here. We should probably hook up and leave the non-freaks out of our misery.
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>25 years old
>graduated 3 years ago
>lost all contact with friends
>hadn't had a girlfriend in 4 years
I pretty much work all week and then on the weekends I play video games. I have no friends and I don't use social media at all. I've been going to the gym recently, but I just started last month. I just want friends. I wouldn't really call the people at my job friends. I only talk with them at work and even then I would say that I am the most anti-social person there. What should I do?
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>>18492438
Find meetups for hobbies you're interested in. Try online dating as well. Social media makes it easy for anyone to find peers and potential partners these days.
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>>18492438
I have a very similar situation, OP.
Stupid nagging feeling that at some age, you are supposed to have a set in stone group of friends that will never change won't leave me alone, and I think I missed that.
How do you even into group of friends when in your mid-20's? I have sometimes even seriously considered going back to some kind of school not for the education but solely for networking purposes, but unfortunately I am already paying a student loan by working full-time and can't financially afford to go back to school.
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>>18492448
Nah, most of those people who are old friends get replaced by new acquaintances every few years for most people. It seems like they have the same circle on fb, but reality is they find new people who are more convenient or more like them as they grow older and change. So really you're no further behind than the average person you just need the connections in place to meet new people and its never too late to start on that.
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Developing Feelings for My Straight Roommate 2017-07-07 04:47:07 Post No.18492344
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Developing Feelings for My Straight Roommate
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>22 male
>gay
>virgin
I'm currently a college senior living in student housing with a 19 year old sophomore. We were a random match but we hit it off immediately and by three months in, he became one of my best friends.
I helped him get over a really bad breakup and he helped me come to terms with my sexuality.
I'd always had a hard time opening up to people but the guy knows me more than anyone else. I've told him things I've never fathomed telling another living being and meeting him has been nothing but a blessing. He's genuinely one of the best people I know and I value our friendship above anything.
But the problem is that I think I'm starting to develop feelings for him. I suppose it's expected; to fall for the first people who genuinely cares for you. But he's straight, my best friend and young.
It could never happen. Believe me, I know this. And I value our friendship too much to try anything. But he just recently developed a LDR with a girl back home and I find myself growing increasingly jealous as the relationship progresses. I've been getting emotional and distant from him because of it all and it just disgusts me of how low I've become. This isn't like me and it's incredibly depressing.
How can I deal with these feelings? I don't want to lose my best friend but this is killing both me and our friendship.
In a few weeks, he's going back home to see her and his family for almost a month. I'm kind of ready of him to go home so I can be myself again. But the idea of him spending his nights with her (if you catch my drift) kills me.
Please help. I'm going crazy.
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Do you have any other relationships or love interests?
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You could tell him you like him.
I developed a crush on a guy I've been friends with for years but I suspect he might be bi.
There's also >>>/lgbt/ and they have gay threads. It's a lot better than this board if you avoid all the trans bullshit.
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>>18492344
Unrequited love is simply the worst. If you guys really are best of friends then maybe you should explain your feelings and acknowledge that nothing will ever happen. As a straight man myself i would definetly be uncomfortable at first. However a bi friend of mine actually told me something similar and after a while i came to respect his honesty. Our friendship was never the same but its better then trying to keep that shit bottled up.
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Anyone have any good advice for managing a polyamorous relationship? Specifically, my wife and I are in a MMFF quad with another couple. Males are hetero, girls are bi. We all live together. No kids. Ages are 33(me), 30(my wife), 43(him), 31(his wife).
Everything is good, just wondering what has worked or what hasn't for other poly folks out there.
Feel free to call me a cuck or whatever. I'm actually kind of interested in how other people feel about that. I don't consider myself one. I just think there are things you can't do with only two people in bed, and my wife and I want to do them too frequently not to get our like-minded friends involved.
Anyway, share what you got!
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I almost had a mff poly, but the girl lives 500km away from us and and kinda bailed out/friendzoned us out of getting "too attached"
That's the closes I've been to it, me and gf spending a weekend over her home. Shit was cash, to the point of watching disney movies cuddling, cooking toghether and such. Damn I want a family like that now...
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>>18492307
>Ex told me she fucked and sucked another guy an let him finish on her tits while I was plowing her missionary
>also he was small and nowhere near as good as me
In a relationship it would have been devastating to me, but right then it made me bang her even more vigorous. I don't think that counts as cuck since we weren't together any longer, but I can see what's hot about fucking other people occasionally.
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Never works out well. It always leads to drama, especially with the kind of people that promote it.
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>Might have an IQ of 120-130
>Have never kissed a girl, and I'm 20 years old
>Also a shut-in
I'm worried my high IQ gains may be invalidated by my computer-addicted life style.
Does anyone have any experience on this?
Did anybody ever look at the statistical data on this while they were a virgin and genuinely believe they're too intelligent like me?
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>>18492283
you're detached from society and maybe delusional (most people become delusional when they're isolated). having a high top 15% IQ doesn't mean you're some kind of rain man. stop talking about IQ and go the fuck outside.
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>>18492283
>Might have an IQ of 120-130
There's no "might" about it. Either you've been tested and you do or you're delusional and you don't. Being that you're a shutin posting on 4chan though, let's assume it's the latter.
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nobody gives a shit about your iq in the real world
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Ugh, so, i'm having a sex-affair with a girl who is obese. We are fwb.
We use condom, but recently i gave up and let her suck my dick. It just feels too good to reject it. The thing is: i dont want to lick her pussy. Its just too horrible and i cannot even find my way there. Usually i love giving oral.
how do i say to her that i dont want to lick her?
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>>18492254
God, I would hate to be your spouse in the future knowing you have such low standards, that you would willingly fuck a grotesque mass calling itself an obese woman. Degenerate scum.
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>>18492285
for me important is to have a nice person, its evenmore important than a great body. I know its cliche but its actually true. However, licking her pussy is too much.........
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>>18492285
you're probably some incel, but want to potentially pass as a woman by using the gender neutral "spouse"
not OP but I have some advice
accept your descent into lowliness with grace. stop trying to grasp for superiority like a cartoon character reaching for roots as he's falling off the side of a cliff.
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> Girlfriend likes it when I pound her pussy as fast as humanly possible at all times
> Last less than a min
> Can pump forever if not pumping that fast
How do I not cum in an instant from power fucking this cumslut? Don't tell me kegels.
I think it might be psychological when I hear her moans I just nut.
Pic related. It's me when i'm trying not to cum.
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wear a thicker condom
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Easy shit my dude.
Jerk off so much that you develop death grip syndrome
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>>18492220
nooooo
>>18492204
make sure you're on your second go and she's on her first. it won't be as pleasurable for you, but you'll be harder and have more "endurance"
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Hi /adv/, how do I learn to live as an objectively ugly woman.
It's eating me away and I can't get shit done in life.
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>>18492189
What makes you ugly?
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>>18492192
People treat me poorly
No one ever asks me out
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>>18492196
Maybe you just have a shit personality
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I had a good friend of over 10 years who I used to see regularly before he went overseas to live with his girlfriend. I was the one who saw them off at the airport a few years ago.
We had some political differences last year, and when they came back unannounced to visit (for like a month) last winter, neither of them ever contacted me and I never saw them while they were here. We haven't talked since.
I knew about them being back from social media, and pictures with mutual friends. I know there was mutual responsibility for it since neither of us ever contacted the other, but I whenever I think about getting back in touch, I still feel pissed off and basically discarded, and it stops me.
Should I bring up my grievance and see if we can get over it, or just let it go? Am I right to feel slighted?
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Did you have these "political differences" while they were overseas or before you took them to the airport?
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>>18492154
Are you alt-right or alt-left? If so, you probably earned what you got, and should consider why your political views are "alternative" in the first place.
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>>18492154
because alt-right is for white supremacist dumbasses, and alt-left is for pseudo-intellectual university students
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Hey /adv/ so I've decided I want to kill myself asap but I don't want to make my parents go through all that.
What do?
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>>18492151
Ask for help from someone who can provide it, in person, not 4chan. Do this immediately, instead of wasting more time on the internet.
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Im guessing youre a white male between the ages of 18-30, born in the United States.
Do you know the odds of that happening? You could have been born in some 3rd world, malaria infested shithole nation, where every day is a constant struggle to eat. You have everything going for you dummy.
What are your reasons for wanting to kill yourself?
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>>18492160
Like who? A fucking psychiatrist?
>>18492162
Just tell me what to do please. You don't need to know any of that bullshit.