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I'm looking for books about communication/social skills/self improvement. I need a book that will change my view and give me new insight.
Any recommendations?
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THEY DON'T WORK!!!
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I guess that depends on what view you're looking to change. View on what?
Self-improvement wise, I've ended up with A LOT of books, so pick 3 areas you want to improve first and work on those. I started with Fitness, Life Skills (basic shit like cooking and keeping on top of household shit), and one Hobby.
Just about all books on communication/social skills are just like, the authors opinion, man. That doesn't mean they aren't useful, just don't take them as gospel in every situation. You can't ever be fully prepared for a social situation, so unless you're so fucking autistic you can't learn from real social experiences, you'll be better served actually going out and socializing than by reading about it. What works for Author A might not work for you. You'll have to find your own style. I work sales now and am not entirely uncharismatic, but nothing fucked me up socially more than spending a few years socializing more on the Internet than irl. Had a lot of catching up to do.
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Im about to get laid with a girl from seoul
Are korean grill different from euro's ones when it comes to sex ?
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much tighter pussy,so if you are big take it easy and make sure she is wet. they are into serving their man, so enjoy it and tell them what you like. Like japanes ones they have this thing of keeping their legs bent most of the times. they love finger playing. evertything else is preatty much the same in my experience.
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I moved away from my hometown to be with my boyfriend and I am really struggling to make new friends here.
I was a huge tomboy since I was a child - my mom is pretty tomboyish herself, I have 2 brothers, all my parents' friends have male children. I basically never learnt to socialise with girls.
I have 3 female friends back home and I love them a lot, but they're not exactly "standard" girls.
My interests are male dominated, my work field is male dominated.
When I talk to girls I always feel out of place or bored as fuck.
A lot of boys take my friendliness as flirting so it gets awkward with them too.
What should I do? How do I make friends as a 25 year old sperg who cannot talk to girls?
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Keep hanging out with the girl - force yourself to stay, and you'll eventually adapt with them. I think it doesn't matter if you cannot connect with them at first due to different interests/orientations, as time goes, maybe you could bring something new to the new group of girls you're with. Patience is the key.
Also, of course it's always best to keep it in a group of same-sex friends unless you swing on different way since it could raise an unwanted sexual tension like what you've described. That's how I see it.
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What's the best way to get some of the finest cancer into this discord
https://discord.gg/6h8hev6
I really haven't got a clue
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What are some good methods to soothe anxiety I feel before my work shift? Additionally, methods to de-stress after a day of work?
I recently got a promotion at my job and it's all taking a toll on me.
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De-stress:
Fap
GF
Vidya & TV & books
Massage
Friends
To soothe anxiety-
Enjoy the job
Make friends at the workplace
Good luck with the promotion anon
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To be honest I kinda envy those guys who never have to work because they're certified crazy or whatever
How do I get a peice of that?
How do I become one of these people who dosen't leave their room for two decades?
It sounds nice
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Fake it til you make it.
I've seen so many people fake disabilities it's sickening.
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>left shitty corporate company with great coworkers for a new job with a significantly better offer
>new corporate company is even shittier with even shittier people, office politics and backstabbings
Currently looking for a new job but is it even worth considering begging for my old job back
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Move forward instead of back, you left that company for a reason.
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Alright so I'm not very in the know when it comes to internet or routers and shit of the like. This is my parent's internet and they think that it's fine but when downloading or updating games on my pc, i get about 2.2 MBps at the fastest. Also it will drop every once in a while, but speed is the main problem. I know this can be improved but I don't know how. Can you guys help?
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Get a new router and if that doesn't help a new internet provider and modem.
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ethernet helps a little but >>18448591
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There's a girl I like pretty much. It happens to me all the time. Sometimes it works and we fuck but never more. And this one is cool.
But I don't think she wants me. She's pretty and she knows that so she can do whatever she wants to guys. I don't want to be one of these.
She went to England for work and gonna stay there for 2 months. She talks to me sometimes but I don't answer cause I don't want to miss her more than I use to miss her even if she's right next to me. Knowing that I'll never have her for myself is unberable.
This night she send me a snap (~11h45pm for me so 10 for her) telling me "I miss U" with a "sad puppy"'s face.
Didn't answer. Thinking she might have send that to many people.
I have her in my mind (and many others girls too..) all the time, I feel tired.
Should I continue ignoring her ? Seems the best idea I think.
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Bipolar: Dating and Break up 2017-06-23 01:33:08 Post No.18448511
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Bipolar: Dating and Break up
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So i dated this girl with bipolar+aspergers for 3 weeks and one day on a date she sperged out had a awkward goodbye and now she doesn't talk to me and i dont know what i did too cause this, i encountered here a week later 3 times in the gym we first met and she flat out ignored me as if i didnt excisted, now shes working her 6 week contract (3 weeks in) and soon to be back at the that at the gym
And now 3 weeks in im getting fucking pissed impatient and wanting to fix this shit as soon as possible personally i told myself to be patient and confront her when shes back at the usual gym but i can't the more i read on her conditions the more i want to just make up and tell that i understand her better now but i doubt doing that over social media is appropriate and hell with all that information i dont even know if she really liked me to begin with or just wanted sex in a manic series
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Did undergrad biology degree (hons) totally unemployed for a year now. I have around 35k to pay off any methods I can reduce the amount I need to pay?
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So me and a group of friends have been talking about trying edibles for quite a while, and we might have an opportunity to do it in a few days. We'll probably do it in an apartment which I am borrowing for a short while. My question is, will you be able to tell that we did it? Will the smell remain in the oven? Think the owners will come back within 2-3 days after we do it. Would be fucked if anyone found out.
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My solution: when baking, put in the oven 2-3 caps (NOT CUPS) of a vanilla scent or extract in a heat-proof container next to the edibles' one. It should mask any smell of weed you'll have there, which shouldn't be that much, btw.
Or just put 2 cups, they'll never get rid of the sweet vanilin stench.
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Can't forget her or forgive me 2017-06-23 12:24:57 Post No.18448371
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Can't forget her or forgive me
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i fucked shit up with a girl and cant forget
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So there's this girl i knew who i wronged early last year. I think i've been forgiven by my family and friends and her's but ill never truly know. My family moved because of my mistake end of last year. I Can't forget her or what i've done and it depresses me all the time
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So tomorrow i will be at social event all day surrounded by fcking normies with which i have absoutly no common interest so there are two ways to approach this. I start drinking and transform myself to socially acceptiable human being and have a hangover (i get pretty hard ones) or i dont and just see how it goes without it (i guess it will be criengy). i whoud 100% do the first one but in two days time i have a test that will decide whenever i go to collage or not..so advice whould be nice
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I spontaneously messaged an old classmate of mine and now have no idea how to move the conversation forward. I ask questions and she answers them some time later (doesn't feel like she is disinterested). How to move the chat forward to get to know more about her
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Start talking about something you're interested/know/have done and she will relate and talk about her. Conversations ser all about talking and hearing
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Ask her out
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Text her that you are gonna call her, and then call her. You'll feel much better after.