And I was still off (like a dollar 50 over)
I'm so bad at this job and I can't help but think if I can't do this job I can't do anything.. My coworker said she has never been off but I'm still consistently off and I'm lucky if I'm not it seems like.
>>18453311
When I was a cashier a few years ago, We had electronic till counters where you dumped the bills in, then the coins etc
Are you working in 1970?
take some online remedial math courses, especially on multiplication/division, and remember you'll get more familiar with money the more you handle it
How are you actually this bad with money?
how do I be emotionless, indifferent, nonreactive without pissing off my social connections?
You don't cus it sucks.
>>18453288
>without pissing off my social connections?
you literally cannot.
You can force yourself to seem like you care and are energetic but all you do is exhaust yourself.
>>18453288
Drugs. Do drugs, they do exactly what you want.
My refrigerator compressor is making a gurgling sound. Will it blow up and is it possible to fix it?
>>18453266
It will not blow up, though it may be on its last legs.
Hi folks, looking for some advice about starting out in a new city!
I'm a 23 year old Californian, who's lived alone since 17. I have a 4.0 after a year of junior college, and have some training and 6 years work experience in the medical field (mostly entry level).
I have saved up enough to put a down payment on the house, and have started to build my credit, but, as much as I love California, it just sucks to buy real estate here. It's insanely expensive, and I want to relocate to a cheaper state.
I'm looking for advice on:
>Where you recommend I go (I live in the U.S.), if you have any recommendations for a state/city that has decent climate (not hot as balls AZ or cold as dicks Maine), college options, and decent people (like Colarado)
>If you have had experiences balancing college, work, and first-time home ownership. I could swing it here in Cali, but I'd get a real shit hole for what I could get a decent middle class rig in another state.
>Or just advice on relocating in general, based off your experiences.
My family is small, and after some losses last year, my only other remaining family member is a brother who lives here in Cali, and the only person I know out of state lives in Kansas, which is just too boondocks for my taste. I'm a citytown kind of girl, like Sacramento or Phoenix, somewhere where there's not too much clutter like San Francisco though. Pic unrelated
>>18453250
>the only person I know out of state lives in Kansas, which is just too boondocks for my taste
Come to Johnson County or KCMO. It has everything you're looking for. I'd also recommend Denver.
>>18453273
I didn't get to see to much of KCMO when I was out there, I mostly went to Topeka (which was nice, but just too rustic). The housing situation would be pretty awesome over there though, Kansas City was one of the first places I looked at real-estate wise
>>18453250
on't think about buying a house until you know were you want to live, and don't think about where to live until you get a job, and don't think about a job until you get at least a little further in your education.
One year in a CC counts as essentially nothing as educational background. At the absolute least, get an AA in your field; far better, transfer to a 4 year school and get a real degree.
Everything is automatic... Give me some good verbal replies to people when I don't feel like talking. Like when people force things on me like saying "I think you should do x" or "why don't you do x" I don't give a Yes or No (positive/negative), I say "I know" so they think I'm positive but really It's like saying "I don't care".
When people ask me a question I don't wanna answer, I say "I can't say", "I don't know but [lie and fake ass smile]"
Everything seems automatic and I'm autistic and not good at socializing. I do self-enquiry
It's pretty common behavior to have automatic answers to questions you don't care about.
>>18453221
"Thank you, I'll take that into consideration".
"Thank you for your input, I appreciate it."
"That's an interesting point. I'll think about it."
"I'll look into that."
"I'll consider that."
"Thanks for your input/feedback."
There's plenty of options.
Throughout the school year I had "friends" who would berate me and insult me. They stated it was a joke. I found out recently enough that a majority of my friends have been saying nasty disgusting things behind my back. Two loyal friends highlighted it too me. I instantly ghosted the horrible ones. I have a fresh start as I'm heading to college next year. Any advice on how to deal with the situation?
>>18453220
Leave and dont talk to them.
Getting angry will ony fuel the joke to them. Just ghost them. It's not worth starting a fuss.
Join a club, talk to some qts, and be the best you that you can be.
Source: was in the same situation
>>18453253
Thanks my dude.
WTF is going on with me i not gay or anything but i cant stand the voice of girls its so annoying its just like i want to kill them just for their voice, and i just cant trust any girl because i feel like they are going to use me, cheat on me, and embarrass me.
>>18453154
Sounds more you have issues with what they talk about rather than their voice tone.
Get away from feminists, they are cancer and are killing your desire for pussy.
Wow I have the same problem as you. I mean I know some girls who have good voices but many if not most, including my mom, make me want to murder them like you say only because of their voice.
>>18453154
A woman hurt you in your past so now you're a flaming mysogynist in efforts to protect yourself. Only therapy can help my dude.
I'm this way but with men. I think almost all men are evil rapists and cheaters who only care about fucking every woman while they want to trick a good woman into loving them so she's stuck raising his kids and being a house slave while he fucks hookers and Stacy from work.
I know that guys aren't all like that but it's difficult when you've been hurt. I know that guys can feel similarly about women after getting burned. These issues become deep seated quickly so therapy is the only way that can help. Get a male therapist.
This is my beard as of now. I would like to tidy it a bit, but I'm not sure what I should do. I'm thinking goatee? Dubs decides what I do!! Will deliver!!
>>18453082
Clean shave
>>18453082
lose weight
>>18453097
Women love me as I am! Just want to "fine tune" my aesthetics.
Has anyone ever replaced an air conditioner compressor? I don't know how to do it myself, so I'm thinking of hiring a technician to come do it. But when you factor in the combined costs of parts and labor, would it be cheaper to just buy a new unit?
Pic unrelated.
>>18453001
FAR cheaper and easier to buy a new one than try to fix an old one.
>>18453001
Look it up on YouTube, padiwan.
Type in what exactly you want to do and it should give you results.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RoG2Z-5KJcU
>>18453001
Car or central for a house? Neither are very complicated but it's more difficult to get the refrigerant for a house without a license depending on your local laws. On either, disconnecting the compressor lines will vent your refrigerant
So I used to be on ADHD medication. Middle school through high school. Diagnosed by a psychiatrist.
I had a change in career and now I actually have to try to get things done instead of just coasting. So I want to get back on that train, because those symptoms are hitting me hard.
What are the chances a general practitioner will prescribe me something? The $200+/hr of a psychiatrist isn't covered by my insurance and I'm pretty broke right now.
>>18452998
If you go to a guy you have never seen before, bring some kind of evidence or if none, just tell him your medical history, he'll most likely prescribe you something right there or refer you to a psychologist to confirm you have ADHD.
I merely asked the doc if he thought I had ADD and he said "maybe, we'll try some meds to see if they help"
bingo bango. Done and done.
I see ads only on 4chan on my phone.
I cleared all web data still won't go away...
Help!
Does anyone know?
What's the question?
4chan has ads.
Get an adblocker or a proper 4chan app like Dashchan or Clover
How does one deal with really judgmental friends?
Life is decent, but I am constantly around a group of really judgmental people, and its getting to my head a bit. They criticize anything and everything, my music, my clothes. Its a cycle, one person takes a shot at me, I fire back, and then it turns into a giant roast fest with me on the receiving end, and then I'm, left feeling like a fifth wheel for the rest of the night. It happens often enough to where its starting to fuck with my head. I would get new friends, but I am going to be stuck with these people for awhile, unless I want to stay in my room and not go anywhere on the weekends.
>>18452957
Get better friends.
>>18452959
If only it were so easy. I'm in the military, I live in the barracks. Which just so happen to be far as fuck away from everything, if I wanted to hang out with other people, id have an hour drive to look forward to.
>>18452957
2 options:
1.Tell them face to face how this is making you feel uncomfortable and if they care about you they will stop and friendship will go on, if they dont, they will reject you and thus will lead you to the second option.
2.Avoid them. Find cheering people, who make your life enjoyable thats the damn point about it.
If they are important to you, you will go option 1 -> option 2.
If you feel theyre not indispensable you will go option 2.
I got invited to a party by a person who I only really know through friends and now the two of those friends who were going flaked and I'm anxious af about going. This is my first post college party so I don't have school as a crutch for conversational points and I can't get as wasted and toss myself into convos like I did then
I feel terrified and like I should stay home but I also don't want to be a coward what should I do please give tips on how to quell my autism
Went to clubs for friends birthday, ended up making out with a girl all over the dance floor without saying a word. End up leaving her to my friends, come back and shes gone.
Is this normal?
If you were drunk, then yeah.
If you weren't, than tough luck buddy.
>>18452909
>22 college student, lonely as fuck, spend my days getting high and watching tv shows
>a bro i occasionally get high with hits me up and asks me if I wanna go out clubbing and shit
>i was incredibly high at the moment but I agreed since I really needed companionship
>arrive at the club, everyone in the squad just disperses into the crowd
>i stand by the side, drink my beer feeling kinda out of place but it was nice to be among people for a change
>a random cute girl approaches me and strikes up a conversation
>immediately i think what the fuck the catch could be because my confidence is shit
>we talk for a few minutes, she seemed ok and eager to get to know me, something that doesn't happen very often
>i notice that my beer is almost gone, ask her if she wants to drink something, she says a beer would be cool
>come back with two beers
>continue the conversation for a few minutes, she introduces me to a friend which really didn't seem that into me, stared right through me
>the girl i was talking to then just suddenly disappears in the crowd
>think she maybe went to the toilet
>second girl is basically ignoring me so i decide to go and find girl #1
>see her making out with some chad
>go back to being lonely and sad
Fuck clubs, fuck women, and most of all, fuck me for being such a loser.
I love to go to clubs and drink and talk to chicks.
But booze makes me hungry next day and I get fat.
Then I lose my confidence and feel shity on the clubs.
Then I get slim and the cicle restarts
I see no fun in having Clubs without booze for the sake of more chics.
Nor clubs with booze and the no chicks.
It seems I cannot have both, and none works properly by themselves
all my passions involve both, like oktoberfest and summer in dublin
Get your metabolism up and you can do both
>>18452916
already with medication for that
I started shaking to much and lately loss the effect
also I don't remember my nights when drunk
>>18452921
Stop depending on medication for everything dude.. you can up your metabolism by doing resistance training. Teach your body to handle extreme pain gradually.