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I'm married and my wife wants to have kids but I'm a weirdo who doesn't get on with other guys (or women) my age that well and still don't even have any friends other than her

Would it be better to get a divorce so she can have kids with someone better socially functioning?

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My sister introduced me to a guy because I was new at a college I was transferring to and didn't know anyone. He was a freshman when I started. At first everything was really fun and we had a few things in common. I then made the mistake of letting him drink with me. He has over time began to show a lot of emotional and maturity issues over time as I have gotten close to him. About four months in our friendship he would constantly talk about killing himself or his roommate because his roommate had a girlfriend and he didn't. I had to take a lot of time out of school to appease his emotional needs. Then he eventually dated a meth head... A few weeks later he attacked his roommate and went to jail. He ended up not getting charges pressed against him, but has to do some type of parole thing to get it wiped from his record. He has a few friends in his shitty fraternity now, but as a result he has become an alcoholic and keeps trying to "hang out" with me just so I can buy him alcohol. He can't even carry on a conversation with me without getting plastered drunk. The last time I was with him he got very violent and started vomiting everywhere because he was so drunk. I had to watch him till 4 am so he didn't choke on his vomit. After this I just see his life spiraling downward and I don't want to go down with him. He texts me frequently to hang out and I have come up with excuses to stay away from him. All he wants me for is alcohol because he is too young to get it. My biggest worry is that he knows where I live. He also knows my girlfriend and they are friends on social media. I don't want him to come to my house and try to attack me. I also don't want him to make a bunch of stuff up and try to end my relationship. He seems like the type of person to do it too. I would have never have even spoken to him if I knew he was so self destructive. How can I get him to leave me alone without having him do something drastic?

TL;DR: My friend has become a violent alcoholic.

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How does one get over being cheated on. Had a child with him, he takes off to go "make money" for a few months and ends up Fucking 2 different women a few times. How do you cope? Not a day goes by I don't think about it. I'm so frustrated and lost. Not to mention I have no ground in anything, men rule and I'm lower than dirt, a no body. My confidence is gone. I need help.

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So I’m pretty new to online dating.

>Matched with a qt on Tinder
>We start messaging each other
>Conversations are going good
>Message each other back n forth a little bit each day for about 4 days straight
>Friday night go out drinking with friends
>Don’t check my phone for a few hours
>Finally do and have a “what you doing tonight?” message from qt thats from 3 hours ago
>Respond with “Grabbing some drinks with friends, how about you?”
>”I’m in bed now, going to sleep.”
>Remember that a Chad told me “It’s always better to give out your number rather than asking for theirs.”
>Respond with “ Sorry it takes me so long to respond, heres my number where it easier to reach me.”
>Hasn’t responded since

Did I blow it?

Keep in mind that when we would message each other on the app I would be at work most of the time and I rarely check my phone at work, so I wouldn’t respond to her for a couple hours anyway.

I figured we should move onto texting rather than messaging on the app (which I don’t get notifications for) so it be easier to respond to.

Am I overthinking this or was I being a beta and she wants me to be more lewd?

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Should I kill myself now, or in three years after pumping myself full of hormones?

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How do I know if I'm mentally insane?

For the past year I've been obsessed with a goal that I have in mind, but it's so ambitious and different than everything else I've been doing so far yet I can't keep it out of my head. The problem with it is that I can't really explain it in detail because:

1. afraid someone will steal my idea
2. I have ALMOST the whole picture in my head, except the key fragment of it, which eludes me
3. it would almost certainly seem crazy

I keep thinking about what is it that I'm missing and it's driving me insane

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So my mom has recently started bleeding from the toes, tear ducts, and back. She has a lot of problems. She says it doesn't hurt, but realistically, once that kind of thing happens, you can't have long to go.

How have people here dealt with an impending death of a family member? I'm in relative disbelief.

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Long story short: A girl asked me on a few dates, they went well.Then she asked me if I wanted to try the dating thing. Now were dating, and that's cool, but I haven't dated someone in like 5 years. Can some one tell me what people do when they are in a relationship?

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I went to a restaurant to ask for a job and they hired me on the spot. No paperwork or anything. Didn't even have a food handlers card or any certificates necessary to be a waiter. How shady is this job?

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I need help deciding whether to cut the cord with this girl or not.

I've known her/been dating for just over a year now. She's a 27yr old hispanic girl, I'm a 28yr white dude.

We're a little older, and have some experience. She's a sweet girl, treats me like a king, fun in bed, amazing cook, have similar hobbies including gaming, working out and kind of nerdy.

The problem is, she's in the lower end socio-economical wise. Her family is pretty trashy, live in the "ghetto" part of time. Drink all day, broken family who mainly leeches welfare. They're nice enough people, but I honestly would prefer avoiding them.

She's a bit trashy because of it, grew up basically on her own, student debt, works as a waitress and will probably will forever be one. Sometimes has trouble getting rent. Basically a red flag in that department.

My mother/father hate her. Want me to end it immediately. They're quite conservative upper-middle class and pretty much want nothing to do with them. Say I will work hard for the rest of my life with her and may have to support members of her family when they come knocking.

So here you see my dilemma. Great combination personality wise, but I would be getting serious with someone with zero future beyond getting knocked up and making a shitty wage.

I'm getting to that age where I kind of want to find solid long-term potential. Do I keep playing the field?

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I am desirous of romantic love with a cute girl who would grab my by my cock, claim me, give me a tattoo 'brand' under her name, and live some 'happy ever after' fairytale life with her... will this desire remain unfulfilled forever?

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Or at least I think that's the case. I was incredibly lonely for the past 10 years and then I found someone online who would listen to me and care about me. At first it was nothing sexual but after a while I told him that I kinda fell in love with him. Maybe because I was worried that he would leave me at some point. To my surprise he actually was okay with that, we met up and now we're in a relationship.

I don't find men sexually attractive and to me it feels like the sex is a chore for me when I make him feel good and a chore for him when it's the other way around. I also didn't realize that I needed to do some emotional work as well, it can be tiring at times.

I don't know, I just feel like a terrible person. I feel like I'm deceiving him somehow but I also don't want to lose him. What should I do?

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Any good sites to watch movies on other than netflix? I'm mostly looking for a decent english formatted site, but if a chink or ruskie one is available I'll use that too.

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A 19 year old friend of mine (girlfriend's cousin, who introduced us and was a friend's boyfriend for a very long time before that, to the point where she's closer to me than she is to my gf) is going through a bit of a rough patch. She lost her car, lost her job, and is now drinking a lot. She got kicked out by her (abusive) parents a week ago and is now functionally homeless, although she's staying with an older sibling who is going to throw her out in a week or two.

I really want to help her, all she needs is a place to stay and then a job, but I can't provide either of those and I don't know anyone who can. I don't even know what to say when she talks about it. What do I say? What advice do I offer her? What should she do?

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I have an internet friend who consistently gets mad at me for suddenly not responding during our internet chats. He's not wrong, it's a bad habit of mine since I'll just get busy sometimes.

But the thing is, he does it to me all the time. I don't care about the leaving myself, but it pisses me off that he holds me to a standard he himself doesn't even follow. What should I do?