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>>18458906
try some coldplay cation
Hello, this is my first post on /adv/.
I've been considering which major i should take for a while, considering that this will affect my style of life for about ~10 years, i've come to 4 majors/paths that i feel are good options for me and are quite fun/resonate with my hobbies/interests:
1) Take an English major and just be an English teacher somewhere (Pay is decent, 3 months vacation) or be a kekfuck translator somehow (I know 2 languages, and i'm in the process of learning a 3rd)
2) Go to Med School. I always liked medicine and the like but i don't want to be responsible for the lives of other people.
3) Choose some Liberal Arts meme degree and just live like a poor DeviantArt furfag
4) Hop into the CS bandwagon
What is more viable, in both a psychological and financial sense? I don't really want to get burned out for the entirety of my life on a single boring job that doesn't resonate with my interests or hobbies, but i don't want to have a job for 1 month either.
>>18458900
you can teach with choice 4 if development is too stressful and you always have an option to make more cash than liberal arts. choice 2 has lower responsibilty jobs like opthamologists or pcp, but med school is very competitive.
This is my first time renting property and don't know how to handle my exit inspection tomorrow.
I have cleaned the apartment thoroughly and will be leaving the place in arguably better condition than I found it. However, I had a moment of stupidity last month when i knocked a lit candle onto the wood floor and spilling the wax everywhere. I then proceeded to aggressively scrape it off. I marked the floor in doing so and the scratches, though faint, are noticeable.
I do not believe the landlord will attempt to fix or replace the floor considering it's condition was already sub-par prior to my tenancy and the damage i have done isn't as bad as some of the other marks already on the floor.
I want to be honest and let him know what I did but I'm worried that despite our good rapport, he'll use this to keep my deposit.
Don't mention it to him at all; it's possible he won't notice it, or will think it was already there.
You never know with landlords. They can be nice and pleasant all year long, but when it comes to the deposit they can quickly turn into stingy dickheads.
>live in a state where online gambling is illegal
>post on poker forum about online poker
>get PM about a guy saying his buddies do online poker sessions through PayPal for .5/1 no limit holdem
Should I trust him? Could be a cop? Could be someone trying to hack my PayPal? Could be a genuine guy who is looking for more friends to play poker with?
>>18458850
Man don't trust that. Play with some real friends.
>>18458850
>Should I trust him?
You shouldn't trust any strangers online.
>Could be a cop?
Maybe.
>Could be someone trying to hack my PayPal?
Maybe.
>Could be a genuine guy who is looking for more friends to play poker with?
It's possible, but are you that fucking thirsty to play online poker? Jesus Christ man listen to yourself.
>>18458866
>>18458869
You're right. Thanks guys. Gonna delete his message and not take him up on his offer.
My by was caught lying. He left his Skype logged in on my tablet but there were only 2 messages that were left. I asked him about it . He said they just talked until she sent him a picture of her tits then he stopped but he deleted it all. He's slept with this girl in the past... so I don't believe him. Anyone know how to retrieve deleted messages? We have a kid together... and we're engaged. I need to find out somehow if he's telling the truth or not to decide what I need to do :/
If you have access to his computer then you can install a keylogger on it. A keylogger is a program that secretly stores everything written on the keyboard. It is used to steal passwords. You could use this method to potentially steal his passwords and fish for more information on the situation.
That is the technical advice. You ask and I give. Personally I don't think you are in a situation where you should use a keylogger. You say that he was caught cheating and then you only say that you don't believe him. That is not catching someone lying. That is just your feelings.
I'm also curious why your bf would admit that he received a picture of her tits and then deleted it. It would have been easier for him to not say anything. That is what a liar/cheater would have done.
Thank you for the information. I don't think I would do the keylogger since he gave me his information because of all of this. He's one of those guys who would rather tell something more believable then lie completely. I know this from past experiences with him. He told me he talked to her because he thought we were ending.... and that the conversation escalated and that she sent a picture of her tits and felt uncomfortable and stopped messaging her. But it didn't make sense since he was still friends with her and they said hello the next day.... it may be my feelings but I'm usually right about certain things.. at least to a certain extent. He deleted their conversation but still had really old convos and the next day hellos... in the past.. He had a conversation with some female insinuating sex and she felt bad and sent it to me.... so. I'm a fool already but our kid is here now and i don't want her to be raised in a family that shows half ass relationships... It's been a cycle I was raised in.
>>18458773
Leave hm r get cucked
How many dabs a week is too many before I just WRECK my THC tolerance?
>trying to avoid that a second time
>>18458768
Just stop dabbing when you stop feeling normal weed
>be me, almost 30, no relationships or dating for a good chunk of my 20's
>somewhat attractive, decent job, still live with the parents though
>quiet, shy, sperg out with women
>try my luck at dating websites, no luck for a year
>find this qt pie that is into all the nerdy shit I like
>message her with no expectations
>she actually fucking responded. wants to meet up and smoke
>have another sperg episode and panic, but decided to man the fuck up and meet her
>pick her up at a shady location
>lets me know that she is just looking for friends, completely Platonic, since she is new to the city
>tells me to bring some weed cause she's out
>go to the park at night, kinda sketchy with hobos and crackheads walking around
>smoke and walk around, feel completely comfortable around her just listening to her talk
>drive her around with a bad stomachache due to having an actual beautiful girl in my passenger seat
>look like a complete doofus not knowing my way around town nor my way with words
>she gives her spiel on her living situation, her recent break up, and whatnot
>drop her off where I picked her up; she doesn't tell me where she lives
SO WHAT DO? On one hand, I want to help her settle into the city because I empathize with her. I want to
build a relationship with her. On the other hand, the whole situation seemed fucking weird. That was the first woman
EVER who wanted to meet up with me, and we meet under these conditions. Seriously, FUCK TIMING
Nothing, she used you for free weed, some company as she is lonley, and for tampon for her emotional break up shit, once she settles down and meet new people, shell never think about you again
I'm 19 and still living with my parents while going to College. My Dad is the sole provider for four (including me), and may possibly lose his job. I want to be able to help in any way possible, but don't know how. Working a single job while going to College is only going to bring home probably $200 every other week, but dropping out of College and working two or more seems like that may be the only option. Am I over thinking? I don't want to bring it up with them directly because it would be embarrassing and possibly crushing towards him, relying on his children to support himself.
It's not confirmed, but out of all the past possibilities, this is the one he's worried about the most.
>>18458697
Its best to be direct, if your mom doesn't know ask him in person when you're alone.
Can't you suspend your studies if worse case comes to pass?
>>18458824
If it came to that, I would. I just don't want to end up homeless.
I don't have any work to do guys. I sit at a desk for 8 hours a day with 3 stagnant projects because my boss hasn't been providing me with materials and I don't have government computer access for the past 5 weeks.. so I just sit here now.
I've talked about it with her and she says she'll handle it but it just never happens
I'm 18 , i have a girlfriend and a problem
Whenever her and i are about to have sex, I'm hard throughout all the foreplay but i lose my erection so quickly right before it comes to putting it in and its been happening a lot recently. I think its because anxiety and since its happened before so of course I'm worried but i have no idea how to get a handle on this
From what I've read online, all i need to do is not focus on myself. Just put all my emotions and thoughts into her but that's so hard to do with this always happening and when it comes to putting on a condom, i would have to focus on myself
What the fuck am i supposed too do
Tldr; i lose my boner before i put it in
>>18458644
how much porn do you watch, how often do you jerk off, how tight do you grip it when you do?
>>18458647
I haven't jerked off in about 4 days because i thought that could be the reason. I don't grip it too tight
>like a girl (or be in a relationship with her)
>get anxious every time she talks to another guy
>always worried she'll leave
>overthink what i say to her and act like a bitch nigga
this always happens every time i develop feelings for a girl. it's pretty annoying because i know it's irrational and doesn't help me, but logical reasoning doesn't necessarily translate into my feelings.
>>18458617
well, if she is your only option it is normal for your brain to try to hold her as close as possible and negate all possible dudes that might take her away. Now, the fucked up thing is that she'll feel it too, and that will position her abouve you in that "powerplay", which will make her less attracted to you. You need to be comfortable with yousself, be social, have female acquaintances and talk to other chicks, so your mind does not link everything girl related to one person, and one person only
>>18458629
the thing is, when i talk to other chicks i feel really bad, especially if im in a relationship with the other girl and she's the insecure type. in fact when i like someone it's very hard for me to think of other girls in a sexual/romantic light
Hey /adv/,
just started another non smoking and non drinking month, but this time it's really really hard, I'm dying for a drink and a smoke and it's only day two, wat do?
Pic unrelated, but that's my body if I keep binge drinking and binge eating.
>>18458602
you address why.
>>18458602
start somekind of activity to keep your mind off things.
If you are desperate enough and break, especially with alcohol go to therapy.
Smoking is not an tragic habit to have if you limit it every time and avoid it. I smoke once or twice a day with coffee.
>>18458614
Well, mainly because it's a mean to distract myself from life.
I've lost a ton of ambition and am just not moving horizontally in life as much as I'd like. I have no idea how to advance myself at work and I see no room for promotion in the next few years, because everybody is just happy with the way things are and for the most part everything is working as it should.
Perhaps I'd need a career change in general, it's not that what I'm doing is making me miserable, I do enjoy it to a certain degree, but I'd always wanted to try something else, I just don't know what, or I'm not sure enough to act upon my instincts and go for it. The next problem being, I have no idea how to get to where I'd like to be in the new career options.
I'm mainly focusing on my career, because my love life is either a disaster or non existent, so I'm a bit jaded and cynical on that front and don't expect it to magically change soon.
Social life is ok, I have friends and we talk sometimes, but eh, how do you come out and say, hey I drink a six pack a day on my own, does that make me an alcy?
Family is fine, but everybody's busy with their kids and what not, and the last thing I care about is kids, don't want anything to do with them, so we have a silent agreement, they don't bug me, I don't bug them, I show up for family events, other than that, no talky talky. Don't care if your kid had a recital and a cold, if you don't care that my show just had the best ratings yet.
So the why can probably be summed up in feeling stagnant in life, since I've got no family and besides the occasional hike and watching a race no meaningful hobbies to propel me forward, neither a career or anything of the like. I can't find anything that would interest me enough to rid me of my cyncism and shed new light on things and I've no idea what to do but to wait out day in, day out for either something to give me a clue or something to happen, or to just suddenly have enough time pass where I'm dead
>talking to a coworker
>telling me a story about his boyfriend
>didnt know he was gay until this very conversation
Am I supposed to say something like "love wins" or do I just say nothing and carry on?
I'm not homophobic or anything. I just don't know if there's some unwritten code, like saying "bless you" when someone sneezes.
>>18458553
It's just an anecdote, you don't have to react any way other than you normally would.
I would say you have to just act normal and pretend they didn't say anything out of the ordinary unless the subject actually does turn into being about homophobia in which case you can say something about it. When people talk about their couple, gay or not, I just say uh huh and cool.
>>18458553
ignore the queer.
he wants your boipucci.
they're awkward like that.
How do you guys remind yourselves that everything is going to be alright when the anxiety starts to well back up
If I bring a small bottle of Meldonium (an uncontrolled substance in the US) on a flight in the US will I be arrested?
I'm not planning on selling it, I just use the drug for cardio training. I'd transport it in a generic acne medication bottle.
Anyone know if this is illegal?
>>18458522
The more you try to hide it, the more suspicious they'll be.