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In my younger years I wouldn't have called myself outgoing and my appearance was far from approachable, but yet I still had friends and could keep a conversation. I've gone through a messy breakup from a relationship of three years and an ex pushing and pulling me for an entire year after; needless to say I feel like an unlovable and ugly person. I understand I'm not objectively ugly but my issue roots from how hard it is to even make acquaintances anymore. When I try to converse normally the people seem repelled even if the conversation is totally normal. Yet they can turn around and talk to someone else very well. I have great grooming habits so I don't think it's that either. I do have longtime friends and coworkers who like me once they get to know me-- but you're kinda forced to get to know your coworkers.

If anything I feel like I'm unwhole and if not just a shadow of my past relationship. Is there any effective ways to get back my confidence and develop my personality again? I'd rather not fake who I am in order to be liked, but I've gotten thirsty for approval from others and I know that's bad. I just want myself back and to feel like I'm good enough for once in a long time.
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Are you supposed to feel extremely guilty about having a relationship?
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Guilt over what? Explain
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Hm... You might want to give us some context.
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>>18461900
No.

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I love the woman from School of Life. Her soft voice let's me melt away and makes me want to shove my hard cock in her tender mouth.

Any advice how I could bang her?
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that channel is cancer
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Really need some advice here, guys!
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why the fuck does the main guy insist in voicing most of the videos with his disgusting ass voice when they have this fucking treasure of a voice working there?????????????????????????????????????????????

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I need a working script or addon to mass delete facebook posts. Does anyone know of a one that works? Zuck seems to update constantly to prevent the old ones.
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>be me be a weeb
>living a life full of disgust
>gonna try medical lab technology course
>after course what will happen man
>bills are way more than my income
>no side money available
>never take loan is my motto
>its hard man income increases like a turtle and my expenses are like cheetah
>feeling doomed
>GIVE ME /ADV/ICE
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>bills are way more than my income
what kinda bills are you dealing with ?
digibro literally started out by working at Target
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>>18461877
List your average income earned per month and then list your current necessary expenses needed per month. This includes average amount of gas used per month (make a guess) if you have a vehicle.

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I am currently studying to be a math/physics teacher for middle/high school level in Europe. I just completed my second year( out of 5) and the more time I spent on this program the more I understood that teaching is not for me..Feels a bit weird saying that after 2 years but last course we had was pretty much last nail in the coffin.
I was enthusiastic when I started teacher program, I thought it would focus on math and everything else is secondary. I was wrong, math itself is on 3 rd place at best.

So now I'm thinking to switch for Computer engineering, a 3 year program. So if I start now I'll be done with it at same time as I would be with teacher degree.

I have no one to council with, I decided to be a teacher because it sounded interesting, I like math and schools and all math teachers I had. No one I know works as I teacher to tell me how it really is and I had to find out on my own. Same thing with computer engineering, no one to talk about it besides representatives from the program in uni and of course they'll only tell me good things about it just like representatives from teachers program.

I already applied for 4th semester on teacher program but I also managed to squiz in late application for engineering and I may have a chance to start it next semester.
I'm 23 in august and will be 26 when I'm done with either choices. I also booked time with computer engineering representative for council but it's one month away.

The only good thing with being a teacher is that I'll have no problem finding job, I would be choosing offers from schools that desperately need teachers. I don't know what is the job situation in computer engineering field all I know is that they make way more money and job isn't as stressing(i think).

Anyone has any advice on what I could do? Is it too late to change if I'm not sure about computer engineering? Maybe finish teachers degree and work few years to see how it is and then do engineering if its unbearable?
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Also I didn't pick computer engineering out of the blue either, I used to program when I was in high school(before uni, I'd not 100% sure how US education system is built) for fun but I only did some basic stuff so I applied for computer engineering as second priority when I applied for uni for the first time.
I also feel so fucking dumb, I could have finished 3 year program for engineering and then 2 year program for pedagogy and I would have been math/computers teacher in 5 years.
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>>18461855
Teacher here.

Teaching CAN be very rewarding, but if it's not for you, it's best you find that out now. It really has to be a kind of calling, like the priesthood, or else it's just another job.

If you don't trust professors to tell the truth about a profession, ask them for the names of some of last year's graduates and contact them to ask what work is like.

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What are your thoughts on dating women with daddy issues? I've been through a few and have seen it cause problems. The women I'm currently involved with, which is complicated for other reasons, openly says she has daddy issues but I haven't approached the subject yet. I care enough about her to deal with it and have seen some of the signs but I'm looking for other experiences with it and any suggestions in moving forward with her.
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Short version: I'm a cripple who isn't allowed to work so I'm streaming. I usually stream what I want to play but the steam sale happened and there are about 10 games I want to play.

I need input. What would you guys say would be entertaining to watch a cripple fumble his ass around in on stream?
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Is there anyway to find out about local shows or events without using Facebook events? I mean I know going outside more would probably be my best bet but I want to quit Facebook all together.
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Bump
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>>18461826
Newspaper
"What's on in [city] website
Google "[city] events" or concerts, etc
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>>18461826
craigslist
meetup.com
newspaper
talking to friends
flyers at stores or community centers

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any suggestions except movie/tv series ??
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Breaking up?
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>>18461821
Playing videogames together. Reading the same book at the same time and discussing about it - one of you can also read to the other. You can have meals together while on skype if it is possible with timezones and shit.

Most of the time my boyfriend and I just shitpost tho...
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Gaming

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I'm 23 and I haven't fucked in a couple of years. Now when i try fucking my virgin qt 3.14 I go limp when approaching. Coupled with the fact that she's tight the nervousness gets to me. I get morning erections all the time and i can hold an erection for a blowjob perfrctly.How do I overcome this. I've already changed my diet and stopped watching porn, as of today and i Deleted my porn collection. Should I give it a couple of weeks or try repeatedly. Also this used to happen to me a couple of years ago but I never really tried changing the factors that make it worse.
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>>18461793
Ran into this problem a few years ago. Get back into foreplay that isn't messing with genitals like horny highschoolers. Haven't had any major problems since I hooked up with a girl who was fun to tease and then took that approach.
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Cuddle till you make it
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>>18461793
Porn isn't the problem but sure enough being nervous is. Just try again.

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What is your experience with LSD,weed, exstasy or mushrooms?
I've become very dumb in the past few weeks, I fell in love with a girl, who wants to do these things. I want to spend more time with her.
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Go for it. Should be fun. But don't do it unless you're already fucking the girl and there's gonna be kinky shit involved. If you're just doing it for the prospect of getting with her then do whatever but not the eccys
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>>18461764
Haven't properly done molly yet (had RC molly called methylone twice, yakked it up because the drip was very foul, had shitty molly I barely felt once), but I've done the rest to varying degrees.
I'm 20 years old, been smoking weed since I was 12. In the past year I've been smoking a lot less and picking up drinking, but I've always smoked pretty heavily and pretty much every day (except when I'm broke). I don't feel smarter or more motivated when I have been smoking less or not at all. But that's just me.
I started taking acid when I was 17, took it I'd say around 14 times over the course of 3.5 months, in addition to taking 25i twice (bad bad vibes). It lost it's novelty pretty quickly. And I started having a lot of bad trips. At first it gave me insight and delight and challenged my reservations, but it started to become hollow and disappointing. After too many trips, especially after the 25i experiences (which were terrifying in an existential way and literally made me feel insane), I decided to take a break. I had started to notice I was more depressed, that my ambitions were crushed. I had stopped playing guitar. I didn't care about things in my life as much anymore. I wasn't reading the philosophy I looked forward to making a career out of. I was apathetic and lonely and felt like the abyss had stared into me. And I am not 100% sure it wasn't just an attitude thing, but I felt like I wasn't as sharp as I used to be. Idk. The spark wasn't there anymore.
Freshman year of college I just smoked weed, played xbox, slept through classes and fucked up. That summer I decided I felt somewhat better and took shrooms. Really hated how it felt, realized that serotonin trip feeling wasn't pleasant to me anymore. It was also just idk confusing and sketchy. So I decided to stay away from psychs for a long while.
That doesn't include disassociates. I enjoy ketamine, having done it a few times, and I want to get some PCP off the dark web because it sounds awesome.
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>>18461764
>>18461815
But yeah I'm 20 now, it's the summer before my junior year and I still feel kind of apathetic and dull compared to the starry-eyed, ambitious and passionate kid I was in high school. I had my eyes on the prize, had been reading far past my level and making music for hours every day for entertainment. Now I feel lost and lonely and like there is no point. It's gotten better in some ways and worse in others. But I think the moral of this story is that if you fuck with serotonin based drugs, don't do it frequently or do it in short bursts. It will fuck your head up. You don't want to be like me and have to struggle against apathy and be intellectually diminished. These drugs are helpful to a degree but they aren't the answer, just a shortcut to some answers if used right.

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So has anyone else noticed this complete fucking retard posting pic related in thread after thread? Usually only with one or two sentences and never actually giving real advice or any form of constructive criticism.
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>>18461759
Yes, just never ever reply to it.

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Sup /adv/

I was going to apply for uni, studying veterinary medicine but i don't think i can manage both work and studies.

I started working as a security guard near the uni i want to enroll (5-10min with a bus) but i have to take both day and night shift.

One of the problems is that i cant attend uni most of the time because of my work, and even if i change jobs i still cant make it work.

Another problem is that i cant just quit my job because i need the money. However the person who helped me get my job said that if i didnt study he'll send me to another location further away wich isn't ideal for me(is kind of far away)

Please keep in mind that im from eastern Europe and and one semester or academic term is about one of my paycheck however i dont want to take money from my parents or credit. Furthermore I dont really like spending alot of money on new products(smartphones,original addidas tracksuits, etc.) dont smoke and rarely drink so i should have more than enough if i work for 1-2years before enrolling.

So adv should i just apply and hope that i can make it somehow or should i work for an year or two and then apply when i have saved a few thousand bucks
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>>18461750
Just save up and then go to uni. Saves you the stress of trying to balance shift work with full time study. Even part time is hard if you're working weird hours because you have to have healthy sleep patterns in order to focus on study.
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>>18461761
Thanks for the advice, even though the choice is obvious and my problem seems kind of dumb it helped me alot since im under some pressure from my superior and family and my head is a mess.
I wish you a great and happy day/night anon
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>>18461750
Professor writing here

You're going to have to make a choice. You simply can't do both fulltime.

First of all, DO NOT think about signing up for classes you're going to have to miss for work. That's academic suicide. Whatever other choices you make, school HAS to have first priority on your schedule.

Then you have two options - fulltime school and part time (no more than 20 hours tops) work, or vice-versa.

Do school full time and you'll have to find alternative sources of money - grants, loans, family. But you'll get through and back into full time work quicker.

Do work full time and you won't have money problems, but you'll only be able to take one or two classes at a time and it will take you longer to get the degree.

Both methods work. But there is no third road.

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>be me
>be 20 m
>inside house: I am a civilized normal person
>must do outside stuff like groceries, haircut
>gets outside
>Awkward af
>Not sure if anxious, crazy, or what
>back home
>civilized normal anon again

Can't get the rest of the day outside without feeling anxious. Some days I act like a total buffoon and be too nervous.

I'm 20 now. What do I need to do to blend in with the crowd?
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Chew gum, it can help with anxiety more than you would think.
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>>18461608
Would try it out

>Thanks anon

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