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Suggest things I can do when bored to stop being bored.

Meditate
Read book
Browse internet
Go for walk
Go to pub
Have cigarette
Juggle
Draw picture

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I recently read some old psychological evaluation documents of myself from when I was a little kid. I've always asked my mom if anything was wrong with me, and she always insisted I was just weird. Literally, she just used the word "weird" and she said the doctor just said, "I'm an outlier"

Well, I read the document and it turns out I had a motor delay, and he was concerned by attention issues could be due to early psychosis. Needless to say, I feel really pissed and really betrayed this was kept from me for all these years and honestly, I don't know what to do.

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So my ex-girlfriend broke my heart it was really fucked but hey look it's not like I was a saint and it's not like I didn't think I'd be fine - and so she fucked a bunch of guys, that hurt. And anyway we came together after 6 months and it was a reunion of sorts before she left to follow her dreams, sure I said, I'm following mine, I can follow mine anywhere and right here is just fine but she's coming back and while she's been gone she's been saying how much she loves me.

I told her I would hold to no code while she was gone I said look it hurt that you fucked that many guys and frankly I kinda didn't I had this thing with this one girl and we fucked a bunch of times but there it ends for me.

So anyway I just fucked my ex-girlfriends long time friend or old friend you might say, they haven't spoken in years and I really liked it and as strange as this girl is, definitely strange, she was enthusiastic you know and very engaged with me and I actually want to text her again I'm trying not to right now and actually I won't but 2 things:

I feel guilty and I think I should, would you?
I wanna fuck this girl again and I actually think like oh fuck I might like her and I don't wanna text her because I think it's pretty clear she's not into that so I guess really it's either text her or not but I think if I don't that like nothing will happen ever again and I don't want that...

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I was catfished for 7 months by someone online. I have a severe, chronic health condition and am bedridden. This person kept claiming they were going to come visit me, promised money to help with medical costs and get me out of my abusive household etc. You will probably call me stupid, but if you are desperate, you will grasp at any straw -- and I thought I was in love with this 'girl'. He sent photos that I reverse-searched and they were always legit, but I finally caught him when one yielded other results. I know we should have Skyped, but he kept assuring he was coming and I figured I would deal with it closer to the date (because I am really shy, and the health problems also leave me quite weak often).

I have an address which is legit (sent him something), and a US cellphone number that's also legit, but can't find a real name.

Just curious how others would get revenge on someone like this?

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I have a 5K with my gf today that I was really excited for, and as I woke up, my eyes were stuck together as if I had pink eye. So, I probably have pink eye.

It's not a free 5K either. It cost me $32 I barely even had to spend in the first place, and comes with a BBQ and "free" beer/chicken. And even if I get out of it, gf and I wouldn't get to do this together anymore.

Is there any way I can still go to this 5K while still having pink eye and not getting everyone contagious? What's weird is that my eyes aren't terribly pink at all, so I still need to see my doctor and see if it's even that.

Anyways, what can I do to limit the spread of disease during my run other than not touch my eyes?

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uncut here, so I've never really considered it cause.I have a foreskin but is my Bellend meant to be so sensitive? i was washing my member in the shower and it occurred to me that it is very sensitive to the touch almost like pain, is this just because it isn't exposed like a cut person or is something wrong? can't really adk anyone else

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Been with my girlfriend about 3 months and she's amazing. But when I brought up doing anal with her in the future she kinda immediately responded in a accepting mannor, so I asked if she had and I found out her ex and her did it like twice. I'm not so much bothered by that but I'm paranoid she won't let me in the future and I'll feel like second best, even tho she has said things like "I never said I wouldn't? I said the opposite I jus can't feel pressured to" so please folks help ease my brain. Why am I tripping so hard?

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A few years ago I used to be aggressive, egotistical and brutally honest with people. No particular event that I can recall humbled me or humiliated me or anything like that. How come now after all this time, I have this awful fear of standing up for myself or being different? When it comes to anything at all, at work, amongst my friends, around my girlfriend, just in every day life. I've become so concerned about what other people think of me, and whenever something bothers me no matter what it is, in any situation or with any circumstances, I just cannot speak up for myself or say what I'm really feeling. I feel that if I say how something or somebody really makes me feel, they will get mad and walk out of my life, and I decide that I'd rather just let them win to avoid that possibility no matter how Irrational it seems. What's happened to me? I don't wanna become a pushover anymore. Any ideas?

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Please help me, I don't know what's got into my head, we're 18 and already living together 3 months because my family has issues and his mother was so inviting.
we're inseperable and I love it, we have good communication but there is one problem I can't talk to him about becuase it makes him feel bad because when I bring it up he felt he couldn't do anything about it. since my family cut contacts with me cause they don't approve of this relationship.
altough he always says we're equal in the relationship I'm expected by everyone to work hard and finance myself because my family situation.
but it hurts me that I'll have to take two jobs to get even close to what he has (tooth treatments, driving tutoring and gym membership) while he doesn't have to worry about anything while I will have to damage our relationship by working my ass off so we'll be equal, should I just talk to him about the way I feel, that I feel disposable but mostly jelous and say that if we're truly equal then we deserve the same things?

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Im 17 headed to my senior year and ever since my freshmen year ive always asked myself what is wrong with me. Im not gonna lie my life has been good for the past couple of months, but no matter how good i am doing when i am left alone or i am feeling down i find reasons to make myself sad. I either start thinking about my exes or i picture certain things that would make me fucking sad man and it sucks. Ive even pictured my own girlfriend cheating on me. I've talked to her about and she say that shit is not healthy i mean yeah obviously. I dont know what to do and it feels like moments like those are only getting worse. What is wrong with me?

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>Try to move on from ex from last year
>Go out with one girl, but when we went out it was abruptly short, and we were both busy with classes
>Try to talk to one guy online, but I haven't dirty talked in a while and it was just weird and awkward for two hours
>Thought I found right girl after realizing she swiped right on me in tinder and was in my class. Went out with her, thought everything was fine, but afterwards things seemed off and she was too busy as well. Everyone I knew kept telling me she might have been a lesbian, and I think they might've been right.
>Start having a crush on a guy, but overhear from a party that everyone thinks he's gay when he's not, and that he's had to convince people multiple times he's not gay
>Tried getting back onto tinder, but the girls around me aren't that great and want to be in a relationship right away

I've been getting back into working out again since last year, but I've just been getting burned out emotionally. I'm too mch of an awkward and too emotionally/hopeless romantic faggot to just go straight into friends with benefits mode, and I don't want to turn people away on accident without realizing. I've gotten back into working out again since last year just so I can lose some weight, so I'm hoping that'll help things out.

Getting back into the dating game sucks, and I wish things didn't go horribly wrong between me and my ex, and it's like everytime I try to move on or think I'm on the right path, I'm back to square one somehow. Doesn't help out that I'm bi either.

I guess I'm just venting all of this out, and I know this will sound like a broken record, but how do you handle relationships and dating?

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Related https://youtu.be/UzaG_F8hjlI

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i'm gonna meet up with some online friends and be staying at one of their apartments for a few days but they see me as a meme and want to film me/take pics of me for our autistic and somewhat large internet circle

i've already asked them not to but one of them loves to bait and doesn't care that i'm not comfortable with it

the other guy has already done this when i met up with him a couple months ago which is how i know they'll follow through, and i didn't like it then either

never really been in a situation like this before

bitching about it will just make one of them want to do it more, pretending i don't care won't get me anywhere, it would be autistic as fuck to break their phones or something over it, and once the camera's rolling if you act like a super serious autist then you're just giving them even more embarrassing footage

i don't know how to prevent this without being a raging neanderthal retard or a little bitch

any advice?

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Ive been on second dates before but over the past couple years, they were all kind of forgettable. Mostly because I was 50/50 on going on the date and hoping there would be a connection and or get laid.

This is my first second date in awhile that I am kind of vested in. Im 26 and shes 23. It was one of the better first dates Ive had in ages (a lot of interest between us, kissing and a lot of fun), so I dont want to mess this up.

I have no issues with the discussions and such for a second date. I just have the worries of finding the right places and what to do.

She said she's open to w/e, but we can only meet at night on Saturday. Movies, dinner, bowling, etc. I was thinking of possibly dinner and bowling since we are a bit of competitive types. She lives about 7-9 miles away but near the area where i went to school and work, so its not a bad drive at all. Should I pick her up and organize these dates near her area?

Thanks for any tips or guidance.