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my external hard drive used solely for hoarding media isnt displaying any files when i open it up but shows that ~900gb is in use.

chkdsk has been running for 30 hours but i still havent gotten past stage 1. not optimistic for its finish

i have a spare 1tb drive and am hoping i can somehow move all the bad data over before the drive completely dies and try to salvage what i can, but not sure if its possible?

pls advise
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>>>/g/

I'm sure they will know how to help you. Either that or just tell you to install Ubuntu.
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Try to read after the damaged area, skip ahead 10% and see if it works.

Try to copy the entire disk from bad disk to new disk. No chkdsk. Use dcfldd to copy it. If it gets stuck at that same 6% mark copy the later stuff first. Do copy it to the corresponding location on the new disk. (skip both input and output the same amount. Should take about seven hours to read the data.

You can try to put the drive in the freezer to keep it cool, (while it runs and reads, it is a hassle but might be worth it).

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At the time I am in a very complicated relationship. We have been together for almost 3 years. He is 2 years younger than me. Somehow we are really happy. He can be caring an funny and I really like him but then he can get really angry and he is in full rage mode and then he is cussing and calling me names and telling me how useless I am... and those words can hurt so much. And sometimes it even gets physical. He slapped me more than once, sometimes he grabbes me really hard or pushes me away.
But that only happens once a month or so. I don't consider it that harmful it only is.... I wish he would learn to control his anger and I asked him a thousand times to go to thearpy, he already knows that he has problems, but he has no time for a therapy and clearly doesn't want to work on himself.
But after each fight we get things together again and everythings fine. We kiss each other and he apologizes deeply but often doesn't even realize how much he hurt me (physically but mostly verbally)

I really don't know how to cope with this situation. We are engaged now and he wants to marry soon and somehow I have everything in him that I need but that anger problem.
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>>18470900
You're in an abusive relationship. GET OUT.
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well you clearly are mentally challanged so by all means marry him

>I don't consider it that harmful it only is

:D

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Any UK anons know what happens if you submit qualifications to UCAS that you don't have? The deadline is today and I can't confirm which awarding organisations gave me my GCSEs. Trying to decide whether I should bother just guessing the awarding organisations.

The courses I'm applying for have basically no requirements other than that you can speak English anyway, but I figured any qualifications probably help with the application. I just don't want to guess the details wrong and have them throw it out based on the assumption that I lied.
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>>18470878
You didn't know your GCSE exam board? You're kidding me, right?

Just ask your GCSE teachers, or look up the past papers you did for each subject.

If you want the actual paper certificates then you can pick them up from your secondary school.
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>>18470878
Hmm chances are your school still uses the same boards so just ring them up and talk through which subjects you did.
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>>18470878
Pretty sure they don't even bother checking GCSEs, as long as you put down you have a C in both maths and english they will just check the box and move on.
Probably will be OCR or AQA if in england.

Like the two anons above said
>check any past papers
>call school to ask teachers/get certificates
I had to harass my school but that's cos I did an A-level in secondary school and the fuckbags never gave me anything regarding it. Call up asap, school HR can be really shit, nobody knew where the fuck my results were so you may need to push a bit.

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How do I fix my sleep schedule while fighting the urge sleep? I was playing a game on tuesday and happen to have lost a track of time. It was 4am, and I had to go to work at 8:30 so I slept for a little bit. Now since that day I've been having difficulty sleeping at night. I usually fall asleep at four am or longer. And it's just difficult to be awake at work all day. Yesterday one of my co-workers had to wake me up because I was alseep on my desk for like 15 minutes.
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Guys i need help. So the last 6 months were horrible depression. Panic attacks and some breakdowns. Abusive n-parents. Allright i really fucked up in school often i didnt attempt. Now i want to repeat a class and this time i want to get help from psychiatrist and the welfare.I have to write to my school to request to repeat that year amd explain my situation. I dont know how i should write that email what i should say im bad at articulating i was always so i often end up never saying the right thing.if i dont repeat that class shits gonna go down with my parents. Im gonna have to call the police but im too anxious to do that .should ijust write my school that im a depressed fuck and please let me repeat that year or my father is gonna go berserk? I have 2 weeks ok. My teacher said its best if i get some proof from a psychologist. I never diagnosed it. I dont know what held me back .im scared that they think im faking it just to get meds.and theres not enough time to get an appointment now. And the welfare. Im 19. the welfare cant do much for me i was there when i was 16 telling them about my father i dont think they take me seriousy father and mother denied any abuse .since then my father beat me less bjt its still happens and it will happen. Like i said im bad articulating(explaining myself). Im scared that my school just doesn't care about cases like me.
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I think rignt now I should find a psychiatrist. But ill need something next week. I should have talked to my teacher earlier like a few moths ago. But i was too scared to ask for consulation. Im overwhelmed by simple tasks
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So how should i write that email?
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I can't offer any advice because IDK what to do. But I hope things work out man. I'm sorry for the shitty situation.

Maybe mention the abusive homelife to the school in an email or ask the visit the school's counsellor/therapist and talk about it with them.

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Anyway, I love my anal beads but they come out sticky. Am I doing it right?
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Some time ago I met this guy at a dating site and we immediately hit it off. He began working in another city before we could actually meet, and he didn't want me to visit him because he lived with family.
As time goes by, we keep on getting more and more intimate. He's now working in yet another city (further away) and I'm unemployed. In this new city, he has a housing of his own and told me to go visit him.
Would it be a good idea? I mean, I don't know anyone else in that city and there's a chance it goes bad.
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>>18470801
Make sure to tell others. If possible have someone drop You off and stay in the area. I would suggest meeting in a public place before You go into His home.
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>>18470801
>we keep on getting more and more intimate
>never met in rl

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How do I deal with the inevitable sadness that comes from having a good time? For example--having a great time with friends and coming back from a trip only to wake up alone the next day. It puts me in a state of unbearable loneliness. I dislike that my brain is wired this way because it makes seeking "fun" frightening--I'm always looking towards the end before it even comes.
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>>18470787
Stay positive. Keep Yourself busy and always smile. Keep pushing that feeling away and talk with Your friends the day after.
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>>18470787
Immediately start planning the next one.

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>hangout with friends yesterday
>Swimming, soccer, vall ball, those shits for normies. You name it
>wake up today and feels pain from every muscle in my body
>Feels like staying on bed all day while playing Stein's Gate 0
>Dad comes and says we have a family reunion shit
>basically, what happened yesterday is gonna happen today again
>Parents don't take no as an answer
>Beat and can barely move
>In a fucking bad mood
>mom comes and says look son we don't force to do anything
>mom screams at me for not organising my clothes in my bag cuz that is not forcing me to organise them
>Beat as fuck
>Will have to spend the whole day with my normie uncles and cousins whom China thick tall is between us
> Hates his life

I Just wanna spend the whole day in my bed. Is that too much to ask for?
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>>18470753
Tough it out and enjoy your family, good luck.
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>>18470771
!_!
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>>18470773
I believe in You

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>not a single IRL friend
>been making online friends for the past 10 years or so instead
>every time I manage to form a group of friends, they always eventually stop talking to me or stop inviting me to play games with them
>not sure if I'm just not social enough for them or if they actually come to hate me once they realize I'm an extremely depressed shut in loser

Does anyone else have this problem? I constantly see other people forming lasting friendships with the people they meet online, and sometimes even meeting in real life, but no matter what I do it never happens for me. They always stop being interested in hanging out with me for whatever reason, like they've forgotten about me.

Is it that hard to find people that genuinely care about me and want to be around me?
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>>18470742
Follow your heart and start some real life hobbies/sports
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I feel your pain anon, only difference is when I leave to take a break from online, my online friend's aren't waiting for me. They're either gone or just under new names and I can't be able to find them.
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>>18470827
Usually what I do OP is make new friends, and try to be more active. Like taking part in calls, talking in group chats more often, and try to invest time for them and me.

Think being more active could help, and heck if they don't invite then just ask to join. Which i usually do anon, or unless you're like me and have social anxiety, just take a shot and hope for the best.

I think I may have an undiagnosed disorder (apserger's, NLVD, etc). Is it a good or bad idea to get diagnosed?

How would I get diagnosed?
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>>18470724
Go see a doctor
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you go to a psychologist who is speciallised on asperger/ autism. You can ask ASD-groups about doctors doing it for cheap.

But be awayre, that thinking you might have it does not mean you must have it, like 50% of everyone who goes to a specialist is going out of the door without a diagnosis, I did aswell.

If you come on your own and are half way through with gettting along with your life, you will have it difficult, to get a diagnosis. I was able to tell her a story for every aspect she asked me about, but she told me, that real aspergers would not on their own have any need to reach out to others, even though I only got around trying to work through my past when I was 25 and never had any real impulse beforehand.
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If you go and don't get a diagnosis, would you be upset about living a lie?

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Hi /adv/. I have a group of friends that I talk to and play games with at night, we've been friends for around 10 years now. We generally have a great time, laughing and shooting the shit with one another. We come from various walks of life; some I am very close with, others are friends of friends that I've never met in real life.

There's one person in the group however. Every time he joins, without fail, he is either intoxicated or on his way to being there. Every time he joins it's like the air is sucked out of the room. He says inappropriate things. He throws games because he was going to get another beer or because he momentarily fell asleep or because he was too drunk to know what was going on. He's currently unemployed and he spends the entire day drinking instead of looking for jobs.

My problem is this: I've never met the guy in person; he's a friend of a friend. I recognize that he has a problem, but every time I bring up the fact that we should do something to my friends their response is either "Ya it's a problem, but I don't really know him either" or "So-and-so is trying currently"(though not really).

Basically the group is afraid of conflict and confrontation but I recognize that the kid needs help and I want to be the person to lead the group to getting him the help he needs. I've never dealt with alcoholism before so I don't really know what the best way to approach this is. For those that have dealt with it before, what would be the best way to go about it? What would you do in my position? Thanks.
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>>18470702
Get some professional help
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As you don't see him IRL at all it's very difficult for you to help him.
Who is the one in the group closes to him/invited him; he should be the one to talk with him about his problem.
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>>18470766
That's the problem. The ones that know him are afraid of conflict and have only been passively hinting at it, if at all.

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I'm meeting a friend in person for the first time in a couple days. I've known her for years online, and it's nothing romantic or anything like that (she's already married with kids), but for whatever reason, I still feel nervous as fuck. Like I'm going to say or do something stupid. What should I do?
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>>18470661
are you a dude?

this is fucking weird mang
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>>18470661
Oh man, I just did this exact thing last weekend. Was the first time meeting an online friend for me.

1) You're going to be fine. You will feel uncomfortable and awkward and then you will have a good time.
2) Tell her. Say something along the lines of "I'm nervous about meeting in person, I feel like I'm going to be awkward / embarrass myself / [insert whatever you're feeling here]". If you share that, then if it does end up that way, it's easier to shrug it off, laugh about it, etc. Assuming this person is not an asshole, they will understand.
3) Have any activities planned? Sometimes it helps to have an idea of what you're going to do together, so you have a mental out if just sitting and talking is a strain.

Have fun!
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>>18470661
you don't LOVE her right
She most likely doesn't love you so
why worry, it won't really Go anywhere y'know

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Well i like this girl ive know for about 3 years. i dated her once for 2 months and i was happy, she wasnt that affactionet? sorry. its been 6 months and we still hangout alot and i realize shes amazing and we have similar hobbies and wonder should i go after her. i think about her all the time and shes single.
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>>18470573
follow your heart
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>>18470573
>affactionet
is this the pregeranterant?

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Hey /adv/, loser virgin looking for a straight answer. me and my gf of a few weeks have agreed to have sex tomorrow, and im gonna use a condom, but one simple question. do I still pull out with a condom on, not only as extra protection, but as a courtesy thing? Maybe im overthinking this, but idk. pic unrelated
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>>18470552
>Hey /adv/, loser virgin looking for a straight answer. me and my gf of a few weeks have agreed to have sex tomorrow, and im gonna use a condom, but one simple question. do I still pull out with a condom on, not only as extra protection, but as a courtesy thing? Maybe im overthinking this, but idk. pic unrelated

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