Last night I was trying to fuck someone and I felt absolutely nothing in my dick. They were able to orgasm through me fucking them but my dick was numb the entire time and I didn't end up cumming. The same thing happened every time I had sex before, ever since I lost my virginity three years ago. I'm pretty sure I lost complete sensation from years of masturbation, in the past year I've cut down to 2-3 times per week, though before it was 4-6 times a week. Recently, I thought the issue was my "death grip" but even if I abstein from masturbation for a month it's the same story.
Has anyone here been able to regain sensation in their dick, and how?
Maybe you need to fuck somebody you love, sometimes emotion can be what gets you off
>>18471260
Your curse would be a blessing for me,you are just an idiot,what bad is to satisfy others.
It's way worse when you cum in under 5mins and she stops calling you after the 2nd time
Stupid question but does someone replying with short one worded responses like lol lmao ok etc, normally imply something bad? I always get the impression that I said something stupid or that they don't give a shit or something like that
Don't mind it. It's very probably the cheapest way for them robot say anything else and give you the weight of the conversation.
If you feel lik you have nothing to say, just don't say anything. Even if it implies leaving them in seen.
I just finished high school and got results of my finals. I scored high enough to study pretty much anything I want. My majors in high school were math and physics.
Rn I am choosing a subject for my bachelor degree ( 2,5 yrs). Any advice on what should I study???
>>18471230
women's studies
How do I get to 300kg squat
>>18471188
Firstly
>>/fit/
Secondly
>start training ten years ago
Why would anyone ever want to do that to their body?
Really, serious question. I mean, there is no way that is good for you in any way shape or form.
>>18471281
Get big enough to squat ~600 freedom units or actually loading that on your traps?
the answer to both is that it's fun
Finally going to lose my virginity by hiring an escort. Is this a good idea? Anything I need to look out for? Still have to find a suitable website.
Bumping?
What is the fastest and cheapest way to adopt a children for a couple that lives in Canada? Are there people giving away their children that they can't keep?
Soy una raya en el mar
>>18471121
steal some of those native kids, they go missing all the time and nobody looks for them
So I'm a high school student, my old friend (let's say his name is Ed) is in university, his girlfriend (let's say her name is Emily) is a suicidal criminal who is supposed to be in high school but plays Overwatch all day every day and never shows up to school. She will often cut herself to punish him whenever he's not with her. She also "nearly kills herself" often, but every time, he stops her. Because of all this, Ed has become a total recluse and his entire life is about keeping Emily from killing herself, because she certainly will if he leaves her. He is failing university and having to take summer school, his life is hell, yet he pretends he still loves her on social media, the extremely few times he ever says anything it is about loving her, but I know this isn't true. I can't really talk to him about it though, because Emily checks his phone and is usually on it, so the only way I know this is from text conversations with Emily, where she was acting like she was doing nothing wrong, and to avoid cutting off my only source of information, I pretend to agree. If I did get the chance to talk to Ed about it, I have no idea how he would react.
What should I do? I can't stand watching this happen to someone who was my best friend a year ago, but my other good friend says I shouldn't get involved so I'm really torn on this.
I can't get hard unless I fantazise about my mother. Even when I'm with real women I have to think about my mom to get and stay hard. I don't know what the fuck is wrong with me, can I fix myself?
Sup Oedipus
Fuck your mother then
Stop masturbating and looking at porn... After a week you'll be so horny anything will get your dick hard. I used to have the exact same thing and probably would have again if i resumed wanking myself into a stupour every day
Why is nofap so hard to do, i can't last longer than 3 days. I start to see every girl so much more attractive, does this faggotish feeling go away if you manage to last longer? Is it even worth it?
>>18471080
I've heard legends of the 3 day hill.
similar to quiting smoking (at least i think so)
after 3 hard days it becomes easier
so once you get past those 3 hard days , it should be better.
Anyway, just remember, don't fap and you will gain A LOT of increased courage 4 grills
nofap is a meme.
If you are in your 20s-30s, your body will want to bust a nut every 4 days or so. And it seems like your standard is 3.
Nofap is useful if you are addicted to porn and you fap 7 times a day, or if porn has desensitized you from real women. In which case noporn would be more useful anyways. because it makes it harder for you to get aroused and helps your brain to stop being accustomed to the hardcore shit you find online, but that also means you would only want to jerk off when you're genuinely horny rather than out of habit or boredom.
>>18471080
because man is designed to cum. its practically a necessity. if it wasn't then we would have gone instinct.
fapping is like eating. you need to do it, but if you want to be healthy about it there are options.
porn for instance. you dont need it.
How do I naturally get along with people? I've got heaps of hobbies and stuff and I'm decently confident but I suck at conversations and friendships generally don't go further.
How to improve? I'm living at the moment on campus so people are everywhere and I talk to people confidently, but outside of this context its a bit sucky. Also, I suck at talking to girls but I'm practicing.
>>18471074
ppl like to talk about themselves so theres that.
if it bothers you just pretend it's an act and you gotta interview ppl hard and smile all the time
Has anyone on /adv/ been to anger management or counseling? Did it work? Would you recommend it?
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How does one go about this? I live in aus so no craigslist also cbf going darkweb for weed.
I have no friends or aquaintences. Even if I knew where any dealers lived it'd be weird just showing up at their door.
>>18470999
>confront melanin enriched individual
>Ask him if he can hook you up with the devils lettuce
>Get sold smaller amounts then what you paid for or raped and killed since you don't know said individual
>walk around city
>if you look right someone might offer
>if they look right you can ask.
>or make friends
what's the point of getting outta bed in the morning? I keep doing it because of my peers And I find suicide counterproductive (spiritually). I try being a better person everyday. I lift weights, I draw cute drawings, I write stories,etc. I just cant imagine living like this for 60-70 more years. Should I try drugs? Accelerate my death? Purposely get myself killed? I'm so fucking sad and I don't even know why. I don't want to live in self pity but this self improvement shit hasn't been working. Every hobby just frustrates me and I cant pursue something without having some sort of existential dread.
please tell me I'm not alone
please
>>18470953
You aren't alone. Really.
Am i depressed? So i was never at a psychiatrist. Im scared that he calls me lazy like my parents did. And all this pain i went trough was because im lazy and no one will help me
-i have suicidal thoughts. Im not gonna do it but i think about it alot. Sometimes im like i just want this to be over and dont care what happens after that on my way to school i wait for the train and think if i should just jump on the railway.and ive written my suicide note in my head.
-trough the day i have small panic attacks or think too much about my life and i have to hold back tears because im in public/class
-I often think about my emotional and physical emotional parents and that i still live with them. I also had thoughts of killing them(id never but i imagined)not because id enjoy. no i know thats fucked up. My mother screams and insults me mostly. Im being gaslighted and it seems hopelless. I asked her if we could go to a family consultant or a mediator and she responded no i can't do that.she scared of being accused of a bad parent i think but this is about helping me not givong her the fault.she has diabetes i know shes sick but shes a narcissist and its hopeless i just wanna move out but i can't because i have no job and am to anxious for one
-I can't do simple tasks because im too anxious. I have no self esteem
Once a girl asked if we should be together all of sudden. And i immidiatley thought its a joke.like why would she say that.i mean i only know her from school and we talked alot but was i really in the friendzone. I laughed it off with a haha no. And i think she was serious. But im too much of a fuck up to have a gf
This year my father caused me 2 major breakdowns.
-I cant sleep because of these thoughts i always have in bed. Sometimes i can't catch breath and my heartbeat goes up. And i say fuck it its 4am now and if sleep now i wont be able to wake up so i play video games. But mostly i stay awake until 3 am and sleep.and miss school .
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>>18470935
Hey anon. Life can suck sometimes. I've been there too. I even tried to kill myself. Now I regret it. I think you should seek proffesional help. Your mother has to allow you to do that if she doesn't want you dead. A psychiatrist in just like a normal doctor and it's nothing embarassing to visit him.
I have got more to say. Will be back in 30 minutes.
>>18470935
No one is "just lazy". If you can't bring yourself to do things it's because of low self-esteem or fear of failure or some other mental block - and those are exactly the things a shrink can help you through. And no shrink will ever laugh at you or just call you lazy.
You quite insightfully see that you have problems and need help. You even see where to go for the help.
Go.
>>18470935
>>18470935
I'm back. Like the other anon said, the psychiaitrist will never call you lazy or something like this. Thier job is to help people like you, not make you feel bad. But going to a psychiatrist won't directly solve all your problems. I think that you have to change by yourself. The schrink can help you and put you on the right tracks, but you have to want to change yourself and really do it. In small steps, day by day.
I still have suicidal thought too. I'm trying to find something valuable in my life. Still don't have a girlfriend or a job, but I'm working on it.
I think that keeping yourself busy with something you like to do is very important. I play vdeo games, watch a lot of movies, and want to buy a gun. Find something you would like to do and do it.
I hope i helped you at least a little.