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How do I get over a woman who gets paid more than me? I've worked longer and harder than she has here. My boss never comes by so he never sees who is doing better. I feel as if he prefers her because she always answers the phone and flirts with everyone. Help.
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Ask for a raise if you been there long enough
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I've asked for one a couple months ago. I was planning on waiting til February to ask.
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There is really nothing to do about it except for asking for a raise again. You can't complain about her, you'll seem petty.
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I have to take a drug test for a job in about 2 to 2.5 weeks and I last smoked a small bowl on Saturday 6/24/17. Recently before that I smoked maybe 2x a week max with my friends like a bowl or a blunt or a J and I've been exercising and drinking plenty of water. I also have a high metabolism and weight 158lbs and Im 5'10. If I dont smoke and keep exercising and drinking water I should be fine right? I used an in home test kit and it said Im negative for THC. Thanks
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Tl;Dr - i want to date a long time friend, we've hooked up already but i want to make it last and not awkward.
Did i do the right thing? There's a girl that i really like, i want to date her and i know she likes me too. The problem is that we've been friends for a long time and it's been a little weird trying to start a relationship from this almost 4 year friend ship.
Weve had sex and made out over the course of the past week and weve hung out a few times with just the two of us to talk things over but we never quite know what the right way to take this is. We both feel like we skipped a bunch of the normal steps to date someone so we're lost.
She continues to talk to me every single day and still agrees to meet up and hang out so i know that she still is interested in me, but there's some times where things are just a little awkward between us. That's mostly my fault because i think I'm worrying too much about putting a label on this and not focusing on just having a good time.
We talked last night and i told her we should just have fun, do whatever comes to mind and take it day by day since we've already went against the "regular way" to date. She seemed to take that very well.
Any advice on that? Any tips on how to keep things fun? I know i sound like a dumbass but i really want this to work out.
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Sup adv,
I resigned from my current job at tech company to work at new tech company.
On my last day some female coworkers were being assertive:
- One qt I never talked to explicitly came up to me after my farewell speech to introduce herself and talk. She wanted to come to farewell drinks after work but didn't make
- Another qt i work closely with was very very flirty with me in the hallway and said some shit like 'i like your code (looks down at my dick)'. She also didn't make it to after-work drinks, but more because her colleagues weren't keen.
- Last qt not only came to and hung out at farewell drinks but was very touchy-feely with me and even brought my old boss to the event.
Now, I have all these grills on LinkedIn, but only LinkedIn.
Is it not appropriate for me to message them via LI and ask them on a date? Should I hunt them out on facebook first and message them there?
28/m/australia if it matters. We all work in the tech industry.
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Jealousy Issues and How to Deal With Them 2017-06-30 02:56:14 Post No.18471416
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Okay soo, my ex and I were dating for about 4 years and we broke up because of my family(more specifically my father) soo 3 months later, something happened and I had to move back to his place.
Now, we're not technically together but we do sleep together. We've agreed that we both still love and care for each other but he just really wants to fix his shit so he can be a better man in the future..
Tbh, I just wanna get back together but I'll respect his decision.. but now I keep having PTSD dreams because of daddy issues and I can't fathom the idea of him being with someone new..
I really love him. What can I do to get over the jealousy and be mature about the possibility of him fucking someone else?
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how to not be socially retarded?
a few weeks ago a girl told me she was drunk around midnight and wanted me to come over. long story short she wanted to fuck and i was too stupid to realize it.
how do i get pussy?
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You should never get into a situation like that anyway. A drunk bitch calling you in the middle of the night is a bad plan. Never worth the pussy. She's a slag.
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>>18471414
that's probably the only way i could obtain pussy tho.
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>>18471414
This. Either she's a sloot and can give you stds, and/or overall it's not worth risking her claiming she was taken advantage of.
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Let's talk about the worst school teachers. 2017-06-30 02:44:48 Post No.18471394
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I'll talk to you. Our gym teacher is really bad. In front of the students, they openly abused the disabled, such as autism. I even hit the students in front of them.
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I have a really flat and monotone voice. Ever since I was a kid, I just talked like that and I had a teacher once think that I was making a "silly voice" to mock her and she berated me in front of class for talking like that and tried to send me to dentension but my mom heard about it and told her the fuck off and she ended up getting fired.
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I am currently being mentored by a couple who plan on retiring by the end of the year. They have been doing something in network marketing for about a year and a half and will fully retire at the end of the year, but im not here to talk about that.
I am currently struggling to change my spending habits and trying to be more open and approach people.
I am introverted when meeting new people, how can I grow and reach this couples level as a single guy?
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I have serious problems controlling emotion spurs,be it anger or sadness.
When it starts all I want to do is destroy myself,destroy someone,destroy something,or a mix of these 3.
I'm aware when it's happenning but it's so intense I cant really control my emotions,to such an extent that I broke my hand months ago and had surgery,thanks to that, deep inside I'm scared of going further with my self-destruction because I know next time will be much worse and my life will be over because it will only lead me to more self abuse.While i'm in that state I dont care about what happens to me and I could easily kill myself or seriously injure myself if it wasnt for my broken hand experience and the thought of my parents.
I also feel like an animal when someone looks at me in the street and I instantly feels anxious and angry.I usually resist any impulse to ask them what the fuck they are looking and or starting fights but sometimes I cant even do that.I also have constant thought of harming others,but to this day I havent gone that far because when i'm calm I know they havent done anything bad to me,but if this keeps going I dont know what will happen.
My existence is miserable I cant function like a normal person and it hurts my soul thinking about what I must be doing to my loved ones with my behaviour,but I cant help myself.
I blowed up on them twice,I would never hurt them but its still not ok and I know it,the irony is that if it wasnt for them I would be gone.
I'm really grateful to anyone that have read this far,and I will appreciate any post,thanks again.
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Hello,
What you need to do is not interact with anyone, cut off all ties and live the life of a hermit.
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That made me laugh,thanks
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Looking for a new way in life, bored of people in Slovenia. I'm 18 years old just graduated high school and want to move on with my life. Where should my next destination be?
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Ljubljana is so pretty.
What do you want to do? What skills do you have?
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just go to the uk or something, and never look back
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I don't really know how to phrase my questions so forgive me if this sounds weird, but-
How do I give off more of a 'sexual vibe' to women (without being creepy of course)?
Apparently when I talk to women I come off as a 'nice guy', I don't think I'm necessarily ugly, just boring as hell, even when it's women I'd want to have sex with.
Obviously I'm working on my physical appearance as much as I can, but it's the personality part that I just can't figure out. Should I watch some pick up videos on youtube? I'm not quite sure what to even look for.
Thanks.
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maybe watch RSD Tyler
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perhaps try being yourself
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You could start with... uh... being flirty with the woman you aim to have sex with?
Being careless and open about sex also helps.
>Should I watch some pick up videos
No.
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My ex-girlfriend is a sociopath and I have to live with her for one year and five others. What do.
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Take this as a lesson never to sign more than two people on a lease.
My relationship ended two days ago. We had a long distance relationship since my partner is from the UK and i was in california at the time. We met while he was in california visiting and a year after I met him we decided to give it a try. We visited each other a few times, so it wasnt as bad. The thing is, the break up was extremely simple and i havent gotten a sense of closure. I told him I didnt feel I was getting the love and support I needed and I think I wanted to break up. He said I was right and wished me a good life. Part of me was expecting he would want to make it work, but that wasnt the case. Anyways, im aware im a heavily dependent person and I usually get my happiness from others, which Im in the process of fixing. Any thoughts or advice on how to make that process easier? What can I do to stop being such a needy partner in the future?
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>The thing is, the break up was extremely simple and i havent gotten a sense of closure
Anon please please please don't go searching for that closure. You've already received it. It just isn't the closure you wanted but searching for the closure you want will not give it to you, only send you into further peril about how things have gone / went. First thing you need to do here is accept it for what it is. This is very important and still very hard. You know the situation. It is what it is. Learn to live with it otherwise there is no starting the next step.
>I told him I didnt feel I was getting the love and support I needed and I think I wanted to break up.
The bluff failed. Overlook it as valid reasons as to why it did.
>I usually get my happiness from others
Time you change this. The value you placed into this person now place into yourself. Invest your time, thoughts and emotions into your own self. Look to find a hobby. Even if it's the worse hobby ever the only important thing is you enjoy it and expand yourself into bettering it. You'll only find your passions through trialing.
>Any thoughts or advice on how to make that process easier
There is no quick fix to this one. The best steps don't make the process easier. Just makes the final product better / healthier.
>What can I do to stop being such a needy partner in the future?
My girlfriend outside of our relationship she's a very strong minded independent person but inside our relationship she is extremely needy and to be honest I absolutely love it. I'm just honest when I'm too busy to satisfy her neediness and she lives fine with that too. Don't get hung up on needing to fix something about yourself. Don't get hung up on needing to fix something that isn't broke.
This guy just wasn't the one for you. It is what it is. You've been rejected by person A, possibly will be by person B, C, D & E or alternatively you'll reject them and it'll all suck but it is what it is.
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Thank you, this helped a lot. I will give it some time, and im sure i will be fine again, Its been a long time since I was happy last, and this relationship ending might be a new opportunity to find a sense of purpose. Im starting college this fall so I have that to look forward to.
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It's the best way to look at it and pleased I could help.
One thing you need to realize though is that you're going to be very much on a roller coaster with this. You're going to go down and up in how you feel. When you're feeling rough you need to remember it's just part of the "ride" and reassure yourself that you'll hit the up again and so forth until you're off of the ride altogether.
Just remember to apply logic where you can and don't be frustrated when emotions to wish to comply with it as emotions are often unreasonable.
Anyway best of luck anon and hopefully you'll look back on all of this as a good learning experience.
You will get through this. It just takes time. Sometimes a lot of time but don't forget to make the most of the time given to you to learn as much as possible. Apply optimism rather than pessimism even if you're naturally inclined to be pessimistic.
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Postgraduate Degree advice 2017-06-30 01:56:58 Post No.18471309
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Hi /adv/,
I think I found a postgraduate degree that will offer me good career change potential, but it's difficult to find out online as it's a little niche. My friends don't enjoy discussing careers and my parents both left school at 15, so they have confessed that they don't understand the benefits of Master degrees.. So I'd really appreciate your opinions guys :/
Current situation:
Business Studies and Japanese language graduate, 5 years marketing work experience in Panasonic Corp. I wanted a career in Operations Management but fresh graduates can't be choosers these days. 0% chance of career progression.
Master degree I've chosen:
Maritime Policy and Shipping Management at a Russel Group university.
I'm really nervous about making the wrong decision and losing a year of pay chasing a non forthcoming career, especially because nobody in my family has even been to university before, so I'm under a lot of pressure.
With that Msc I was thinking I could work in logistics with shipping firms, or potentially go into Maritime law if I feel I have the aptitude.
Any thoughts guys?
tl;dr: does an Msc in Maritime Policy and Shipping Management offer good career potential?
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If I have to say, go for it. It'll only benefit you, assuming you can afford it then any Master degree will net you a better resume and career prospect.
As example at one company I was working with, they only wanted a guy with a master degree (any degree) OR 10 years of experiences on the company/filed for their managers and higher.
As for career prospect the maritime I think it is a niche that'll not go away in near foreseeable future, but you've to remember that working at maritime environment is a whole lot different world than in Panasonic corp marketing, it might be not a suitable place for you for one of other reason.
If you could, ask the one who already got that degree and find out what they're doing now for living, see if it suits you.
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I need some advice guys. Long story short, my gf can't have sex for more than like 5 minutes at a time because of health conditions that make it very painful for her. She likes sex, and even says she cums when we do it, but I have to stop just when I'm getting started because she starts hurting, and it's making both of us feel really uncomfortable because I can't cum. It makes her feel bad and I don't get to climax. She apparently got used to a premature ejaculator in the past and so sex in a couple of minutes is just normal for her.
She thinks having sex for more than 5 minutes is a long time because of the pain she gets, when I've been basically trained my whole life to last as long as possible. I'll have sex for 20 minutes and rest for a few and I can do that almost nonstop for hours before I cum, and my past gfs have loved it and it always wore them out.
So suddenly, I have to nut like a premature ejaculator. In addition to wanting to have a normal sex with her to completion, she and I want her to get pregnant, and want to do it naturally through normal loving sex, but what can I do? is there something I can take that will make me want to nut faster? I thought of masturbating right before sex so I'm about to cum, but that would hurt her feelings.
Any ideas, anyone??
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dont jerk off or edge yourself a few days before you sex
or just edge before
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Kinda obvious but make the actual act the last act of your sex. Lots of foreplay beforehand until you're just about ready and then jam it into her full-tilt and baste her.
Seriously, I'm kinda surprised you need the 4chans for this. It seems like this should be really obviousl. Kudos to you for being with a fellow cripple. We can fuck like demons if you know how to handle us.
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And this medical condition is what exactly?