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Has anyone here ever thought about taking their own life, only to change their mind after thinking of someone they loved? I wanna hear your stories, as well as any advice you might have for someone else contemplating suicide.
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Permanent solution to temporary problem. I just don't see anything past death being real. So I try to enjoy what i have. Having loved ones helps a lot.
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Yes, there is. Not long ago was a period in my life when I wanted to kill myself realy bad. I tried to cut myself with knife. But it was too much pain and I can't handle pain :D. So I thought about jumping of a building. My friend has said that in apartment where she lived you could go on a roof and the view ant night was great but it's looked now. At that time I would went there and killed myself 100% But then I thought about my mother. We don't get along very well but I thought about the pain she would feel. And it chaged my mind to this day
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I use be suicidal, but I dunno I just got over it as time passed, my skin just got tougher with age.
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crippling awkwardness 2017-07-01 07:33:58 Post No.18473539
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So I'm pretty socially awkward. I usually take time to mentally prepare myself before I initiate any conversation. Unsolicited conversations are usually just stressful and sometimes even terrifying. So I project my awkwardness onto other people, and just assume that everyone is put off by any unsolicited interaction. This blends nicely with my weak self confidence to make me paranoid that every time I interact with someone that didn't ask for it, I always comes off as creepy. To that end, I'm freaking terrified to talk to anyone that doesn't talk to me first. It doesn't help that I've got a dothraki build that makes me look like I could crush anyone in my path.
I don't know, maybe this is more just a post for validation of my own self deprecation. But I am curious if anyone else feels this way? I read dating guides online, and no one really touches on this subject.
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I usually only speak when spoken to, unless there's something I need from someone or it's some sort of service interaction.
It's gotten really bad at work since people just stopped talking to me at all and think I'm being arrogant.
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Why not quite the same as I'm a weak looking lanklet I was in a similar predicament.
Do you know for a fact people at work think you're arrogant? Irrelevant either way, just curious.
You're going to need to stop preparing yourself for conversations, spooky but necessary. You're also going to need to make yourself participate in conversations every chance you get. The end goal is hopefully you'll be able to handle the stress that you face and in turn make you less stressed. Depending on your will, confidence or balls you'll have to start either small or go all out to begin with, I recommend small as going big if you're not prepared can do more harm than good.
Make conversations with the checkout chick, even just say "hi" and then when you're comfortable say "how are you". Do this multiple times a day so buy cheap stuff like fruit at different stores or something similar. Expose yourself continuously until the stress is tolerable in the sense that you can do it with little to no hesitation. Make sure to take note of how the other person reacts to you, and evaluate after each situation how they might have felt. Keep doing things like this and make them more and more challenging. Some examples I can think of some challenging things; making convo with people in elevators, cab drivers, people at bars.
Another good thing to do is to expose yourself to your feared outcome. What I gathered from your post is that you don't want people to think you're creepy, or arrogant. Correct me if I'm wrong.
What you want to do is something that will make you come across as those things, this will expose you to the feared outcome and eventually you'll learn to tolerate it and not see it as much of an issue, eventually making it less scary.
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>cont
tldr exposure therapy
Some say it doesn't work but I believe it's because they aren't committed. It's like getting fit, you have to put a lot of effort in and sometimes spend long amounts of time to see considerable improvements. I used this method to get over my social anxiety, 1 year ago I feared leaving my house, now I go out multiple times a week. I'm not psychologist or professional so I may have explained it poorly so please ask any questions. The book I posted originally is a good read and has some good scenarios to place yourself in. Just remember this isn't an overnight thing, and it's hard but it does work.
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I don't really know how to start this off because it's my first post so I'm just going to keep it short. My brother has, over the past few years, turned into a completely arrogant and self absorbed asshole. Now he wasn't always this way but I first started noticing this change as soon as he became one of the "popular kids" in school. So I'm here asking for help im creating my revenge and I know I might just get told to fuck off cause I'm a "new fag" or whatever but I'm here and seriously asking for help. I want my old brother back and I need you guys to help me do it. I can provide information on personal interests and whatever you could use to help me get back this arrogant asshole who mocks me every chance he gets. Pic not related
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You sound underage, get over it.
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If you want revenge, go to /b/
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>t. envy little loser sister
Get over yourself, kiddo. YOur brother isn't an asshole. He's probably just succesfull and has gotten a life while you need to post on /adv/ for revenge. Mocking is a healthy way to show losers what they have to change. Change.
Also:
You have to be 18 years or older to post here.
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help please
>pic somewhat related
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I don't need a DNA test to confirm you are not the father of that dog.
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I give up. Are you?
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The answer is yes
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This girl, who I've known for a long time is having a pool part for her 21st and she invited me. She's gorgeous, and we actually "talked" for a while in HS. Anyway, she is this bombshell now and I'm still all lanky and just look like shit.
I don't want to show of my body whatsoever, I don't even wanna wear shorts bc of my chicken legs
What do
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Go
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fpbp
Also, hit the gym.
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Generic relationship thread 2017-07-01 06:57:36 Post No.18473497
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I've know this thicc ™ girl for almost a year, we have been really good friends and started to hangout frequently, one day we were chilling at her place, she sundely jumped on my back, i falsely fall and pretended to be suffocating just to mock her, we laughed a lot and when i turned my face she kissed me, things scaleted, we ended up having sex, but i've never felt attraction for fat girls before and in highschool I was one of those jerks who used to make fun at fat people, now I have this girl who is awesome friend and gf material and has been hinting a lot that wants a relationship after the sex episode.
I do not know how to proceed, we used to be platonical few days ago and now I can not stop thinking about her, how should I proceed in this situation? It has been a long time since my last relationship and i am scared of hurting this girl or ruining what we have if i do not make the right move, she asked to hangout tomorrow and probably will want to second round, should i make things clear as soon as possible? Ask what she wants from me or whatever? Sorry for the long ass text and autism guys.
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Little bump before taking a nap, help me guys.
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Do you like her or not?
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I think i do, i think things happened way too suddenly and i don't know how to proceed from there, i was not looking for anything romantic and before i give her the D i used to see her as a good friend.
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I had this weirdest coincidence, almost unreal, with this girl that I have a deep crush on from high school(we graduated)
Anyways so my coincidence with this girl started with a vivid day dream about her, and In my day dream I was going to see her at this specific spot and have a romantic conversation and soon ask her out. Well fast forward about 4 hours from that day dream, I literally see this girl at the exact place where my day dream was, I felt very weird when this happened, but I was going to ask her out anyways until a couple of friends of mine, who I were with, told me that she had a boyfriend and that it would be a mistake to ask her out...
Anyways should I take this coincidence lightly or actually srsly do something about it?
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She doesn't know you know that. What the hell go for it.
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im prob sure I won't see her ever again unless some type of other coincidence like this one happens again which would be crazy
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Have any of you had Torticollis before? Suffering from it right now, how did you treat it?
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Chiropractor here. I adjust it, send them home and tell them 20 minutes of ice, 40 minutes off, repeat 4-5 times per day, see you in 2 days. On average they are 70-80% improvedwhen they come back in. Then repeat
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Going on a trip up north 2017-07-01 06:33:02 Post No.18473459
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Hello
Im going to visit my friend at a Nor Cal UC. I've never been to a proper university campus. I have no experience talking to people who go to a UC since I go to a local community college. Everybody from my school comes to class and immediately goes home.
I'm looking to meet new people and maybe a cute girl to hangout with. Any tips? I'm a pretty shy person so I want to practice meeting people in a new place as I'll have to once I transfer.
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i'm sure this has been posted before 2017-07-01 06:27:31 Post No.18473454
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i'm sure this has been posted before
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i'm 19, and my gf of two years broke up with me. she was my first, my only, my everything.
she's 18 and we met in my sophomore year of hs, and her freshman. we instantly clicked and after about a year started dating
we thought we were going to spend the rest of our lives together, and she surely wanted to.
i have anxiety problems and that made it so i couldn't cum when we had sex, just the fact that there were people at the house and later a fucking cockatoo in the room with me when we had to, really distracts me. so that made her unhappy
i'm also at risk of becoming a neet, and she didn't want to be with oen.
she just felt unwanted and she thinks i'm going to hurt msyelf if she leaves me, but she couldn't take it anylonger she said
how do i get out of this slump of wanting to end it and how to i get the motivation to get better to get her back becuse i'm a jealous fuck and i hate thinking of her with other ppl
shes going to college this fall and i havent even applied for community college yet
how do i win her back because she wants to its just i'm too much of a loser rn
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If she doesn't want to be with you she doesn't want to be with you.
You can't let ONE girl destroy you like this. You're a man.
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You need to stop with the poor me attitude and start to overcome your issues for yourself. If you don't your going to be one miserable person. It's only going to get worse not better. You are finishing hs and becoming an adult. You will be on your own soon and you'll need to support yourself and be an adult. There are ppl out there with way worse problems. I had anxiety problems as well. I finally woke up one day after being alone and miserable on my own at 22 and said I've had enough. I forced myself to be more social, forced myself to make new friends and forced myself to start dating and try new things. I eventually found a girl that clicked, we fell in love and got married. So, stop your goddamn whining and crying and go make something of yourself. It's not easy because nothing worth having is.
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apply to fucking college you retard
Do I have IBS? For a while now whenever I take a shit especially at night I get some back pain. I don't really feel it until I get up from the toilet.
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Also I've seen my stool,it's not really narrow since it can easily clog the toilet if I don't go at least once a day. It's still pretty long though
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probably kidney stones or a gallblader problem.
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>kidney stones
Damn I guess I have completely cut pop out of my diet then,I tried cutting back but it might not be enough. Also I thought kidney stones were supposed to come out of my urethra,why does it hurt my back?
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Love, if ever bittersweet 2017-07-01 06:12:57 Post No.18473433
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Love, if ever bittersweet
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Guys, I need some serious help and I don't know where I should turn
It's been over two years and I just can't get over this girl.
you know when you meet the perfect person but then life happens and shit gets in between you? yeah, well basically that happened. Or more precisely, her mother happened.
Now, two years later we are still in touch, she keeps sending me mixed messages.
I know that this is what everyone would call the friendzone and that she is just basically having a deathgrip around my balls, but I don't think I would have it any other way.
One day she basically refuses to aknowledge my existence and the next she is the one lighting up my phone.
Is there any way to salvage this at this point or should I just really finally realize that she is the one that got away and move on with my life.
I really don't want to break contact with her again.
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Guys i need your help, this shit happened in less than two weeks, like at first i didn't care cause i would go after a few days and get it fixed, but now it started to hurt when i eat and i'm scared that i will have to pull it out, and you know how much dental implanta cost, is this still fixable?
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Youre fucked. When was the last time you had check up? If you dont have insurance, its all bad. I dropped 3 bills on a normal cleaning. Dental shit is stupid expensive op. It looks fixable, but most likely its a rootcanal.
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Jesus Christ, OP. I'm sorry man, I know how much dental shit like that can hurt. I'm guessing it'll have to be pulled, but only a dentist would know. I hope you get through this as little pain as possible friend.
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You're fine. Gonna need a root canal and a bit of ceramic and you'll be dabdy,
But damn man the one next to it is gonna need some work too... and the one next to that one.
Do you even brush your teeth?
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How can I not seem like a bore when friends want to hang out? 2017-07-01 05:51:05 Post No.18473409
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I'm starting to realize theres not a lot i want to talk about with a lot of people...or theres not much they have to say that interests me.
If it were up to me, i'd just play on my phone/bring a puzzle book/people watch until someone said something i'd want to talk about.
That isn't very easy because i'm usually the one making jokes, starting new conversations, etc...I'm tired of leading conversations and dont want anything to do with people i find boring at this point.
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how to learn basic social skills? 2017-07-01 05:45:55 Post No.18473399
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how to learn basic social skills?
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been trying to un-neet myself. trying to find a job but social skills are terrible, cant even get through interview. went to one today, interviewer said nice meeting you and thanks for coming after 2 questions. my personality sucks and idk how to fake it. pls help.
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meetup.com, skype calls with strangers from 4chan or other places on the internet, talking to people in video games, discords, teamspeaks, calling businesses and just asking simple questions about their hours or what they do.