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Hello guys,
So I've been living in my friends family basement for a bit. I am 26 years old , these guys have been family to me for over 10 years. I have a gf and we are saving up to buy a house and so I can move out. All sounds good but its not of course. My roommate not sure what he has but he is very emotional. He flipped out over a piece of paper that landed on his side and almost kicked his dog. The second time we got into a small argument and his mom caused him to flip out. Then he banged his head against the glass and almost got a concussion .
He always threatens to kill me one day and etc, even though I think he is slightly serious. plus it doesnt help that someone died outside my door when my friend was a kid. So everyone thinks the house is haunted. I continuously wake up easily in his house. Sometimes from scary dreams or from sensitive noise, both times usually sweating(typically with the heater on though).
I always have two options, either a) go stay at a relatives house on the couch , or B) Sleep at home and maybe have a scary night.
I live in Cali so the rent is kinda high but with my company doing good I could afford it but waiting a year would be better so I can buy a place. Should I just move out ? Or wait until I get enough money to buy a house and get out then ?
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>23, no gf & I that
This girl asked me out a few years back and I said no. She was super unfit and I didn't find her attractive at all.

She found a boyfriend a few weeks later but broke up with him a fortnight ago. Now we've been great friends for years but it's been a bit rocky. She often disappears for days on end and has cancelled more times than not on plans. There's a lot of personality differences which make me not want to date her but suddenly she is 100% more attractive and I really want to see her?
I know I'm still shallow af but there's something about knowing her being single now that's just got me going. I'd love a FwB thing and it's not something I'd usually think about.
Am I dick for thinking this? Has anyone else ended up sleeping with a best friend?
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I've been in a relationship for roughly three years. I got into an argument with my girlfriend just now (she's traveling, so over Skype) and we had this agreement to lay off certain topics because I tend to need a longer time to reflect on things. She broke that agreement, and kept pushing it, without even apologizing. Is it warranted that I ignore her until she apologizes?

Pic unrelated.
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She's incredibly immature. Dump her and find someone better.
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>>18480523
No. Stop acting like a child. Explain to her that she broke the deal and you are upset about that. She may not view it as a big deal but you do. If she's not apologetic or remorseful after that, you need to think about the type of person she is and if you're ok with that type of person or if you need to move on.
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Why is she traveling without you? When women go on holiday without their men, it's to fuck around.

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Why do chicks always lie about their moral values, what they like, what they want in a relationship etc. on the first fucking dates to match you better? It just ends up biting both people in the ass. It steals a lot of time and makes an emotional connecting with a person you are NOT compatible with. UGH... fucking frustrating. It starts off with them trying to kiss-up to me with all their lying and bullshit and then when we actually know one another they do a full 180 and go full bitch mode on you over things you said you didn't like in the first place and they fucking lied, saying that they didn't as well.


Any tips on how to avoid that shit? Keeps happening to me all the time and I'm in my mid 20's. Dating women of the same age... ADULTS! Do I need to date older women or some shit? ...
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Ask multiple overlapping questions to check if she answers in an internally consistent manner. Psychologists do this all the time.
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Don't bother with older woman, from my experience they are much more prone to this sort of garbage behavior.

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Is The deck stacked against happy people
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No. Life is hard and everyone has reasons to be sad, being happy means you're equipped to deal with life.
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>>18480368
I mean is it harder to succeed in life if you focus your energy on being happy instead of financial stability
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>>18480361
What? No, the deck is stack against unhappy ugly people.

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>be me, level 23 aspie programmer, no gf
>want to move out of shitty city
>just dropped out of college
>own $1/2MM through crypto gains
>no social or job obligations at all
>freedom.png
>wat do
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>find a goal
>pursue said goal
>"but idk what to do!"
>boohoo.jpg
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>>18480369
>good stuff, however
>have traveled a lot
>got to know tons of people and occupations
>nothing seems worthwhile
>relativity of meaning
>inevitability of death
>confused by human condition
>nihilism.exe
>meaning? into the trash it goes
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everything is a fucking meme

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How do I write a decent, personal/heartfelt birthday card thingo which isnt the generic as fuck "Dear bobby
Happy birthday
From anon"
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Honestly, if the person means as much to you as you want to say they do, they'll know it.
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Write what you feel about them. Tell them what you really wish for them.

If they've been a good friend to you write that. If they helped you a lot mention that. If you care about them a lot tell them. If you wish to be close to them in the future say it. You know, be honest and mean what you say.

No matter what you write it will still sound somewhat generic, because there's only so many positive things you can feel or write and all of them have been repeated over and over. But what's important is that it's your real thoughts and feelings, not just a quote you copied from somewhere and the person you're giving it to should be able to realize and appreciate it.
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>>18480367
Thanks

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Hey,

I've been to a doctor about this already, the symptom I described was when I cover up any eye, the other one starts to develop a black curtain somewhere in my field of view within 10 seconds. Both eyes do this, but only happens when one of them is covered. The doctor looked behind my eyes I suppose to check for any degeneration clues, but apparently didn't find anything wrong. This was a year or so ago. Maybe even less, can't remember.

This morning I woke up in a very brightly lit room due to the sun, and the first thing I noticed looking at the pure white sunny ceiling is that I've got BLACK floaters, and a concerning number of them.
An hour later they're still floating and I can see them. Looked around the internet for a bit, and found that they can supposedly be a sign of MACULAR DENENERATION, they're dead blood cells or something.

That's 2 strikes for macular degeneration, and I can't go to an ophthalmologist right now because I don't have medical insurance due to moving countries and trouble regarding getting one.
Should I be fearing the worst? 20, male, spend most of my days in front of a pc like a lot of my peers.
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>>18480316
Get off computer. You should spend less than 25% of your day staring at lightbulbs. Go find something else to do. If you are in a certain stage of macular degenration some suppliments might be able to help you keep your vision for longer... Obvious solution is to get insured. Get on that insurance boi. And get off the computer.
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>>18480316
This is your eyesight, idiot. Go without drinks/smokes/lunch or whatever to pay for an opthalmologist.

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I like this girl and shes not interested. she liked me at a point, but now i want to get together and i thinking of asking her out but shes really quiet and stays inside alot. and i love staying on the pc but she like wont leave unless i get her. should i go after her or what. i do have real feelings for her but i'm scared were too different or that she doesn't like me
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>>18480274
Be up front with her if she declines drop her.

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I am 21
I have small yellow dots inside my beneath my foreskin. They smell like rotting fish I'm getting laid in a week help
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Sorry for the typo inside my is ommited
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>>18480253
get circumcised
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Wash your dick regularly and take your time look if it comes off
Some spots in the skin are normal but the smell is all on you
If all fails consider a Dr. we don't bite maybe the money is a factor depending on where you live
>>18480268
>failing for the memes

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I live in Texas, why did USPS send my package all the way to L.A.? What the fuck...
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psy-op nerve gas laced into the package to turn you into a future shooter
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>>18480246
why are you people like this, give me a serious answer you fucking dicks
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>>18480249
I can tell why they chose you, you're a very hostile person, the nerve agent will be more effective

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Hi /adv/.
I've been a neet leech living off my grandparents charity for 7 months and I feel like jumping off a bridge so I can stop being a waste of space and money for my family.
I've been looking for a job but I'm scared of people and ended up throwing up and crying in the last two interviews I had (the jobs weren't even that intimidaing, just call center agent and restaurant burger flipper).
Right now my only source of income, which is minimal, comes from tutoring two kids with math and Chemistry which seems I can do just fine.

I'm really desperate right now, I've been penniless for a long time nowr and I know my family's generosity won't be eternal.

Is there any job someone with lack of communication skills and a strong social phobia can do?
Any word of advice is welcome.
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I've heard security guards and warehouse workers don't have to talk much, but I'm almost 20 and I've never had a job so what do I know?
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>>18480243
I'd pick up tutoring more if I were you. Ads, incentives to your current clients, etc.

But if you're desperate, go for any job, not just jobs that cater to your particular insecurities. I had to take a social job or not make rent. It's fascinating how much we overcome when our livelihoods are at stake that we were fully convinced we were incapable of dealing with previously.
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>>18480243
Do you live in the US and have a smartphone + computer?
http://raterlabs.com
If you're not in the US
http://leapforceathome.com

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Im in a point where i dont know what to do with my life, im 24 and trust me, ive seen things, done things, been there etc. and i stillhave alot to learn, been living alonesince i was 16.....
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what's a good price and build for a laptop and/or desktop for games, drawing, and college work?
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Dell underpants with Windows cum is pretty good I use that all the time.
Post a fucking related picture faggot
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Build your own, it's cheaper and a good experience. Don't be intimidated, it's as easy as LEGOs. Use http://www.logicalincrements.com/ as a reference (but not end and be all), and shoot for whatever function/performance/price range you're looking for.
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>>18480235
what about prebuilts?

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I'm currently making a spoken word youtube series and I don't know how to promote it.
https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLfDEnr6vhnbprlAO-m6uoLwrcWaptezLt
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