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So, I have kind of hit a wall and can't figure out what to do. I've been talking to my ex on and off recently and found out she isn't in a happy relationship with her fiance. We broke up about 2 years ago and we have kept in contact on and off. I haven't really been able to find interest in other women and lately it's been on my mind lately if I should try to make a move or not.

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I fucked up my last relationship by being an asshole

She was super depressed all her life but I made it worse

I pressured her into sex (I was her first) I didn't mean to but I definitely did, I really cared about her but I wasn't showing it enough I guess

Like she'd tell me that she didn't want to have sex but during the date I'd make a move for it, she'd tell me no and I'd make another move. She told me she felt completely broken by me doing this to her, except she told me on the day she left me

The guilt fucking kills me
It's fucked with me so much
Is there anyway I can fix this, I never meant to hurt her and I still have feelings for her

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Tips for dealing with an escort?
I ran into some extra money recently so I'm thinking about finally giving it a shot just to experience it one time.
I found a site that seems pretty on the up and up but I was wondering if there was any general advice for how to go about this or how to act once the girl comes.

Also I'm thinking of paying my friend to use his house instead of wasting it on a hotel, weird or nah?

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How do I get my friend to eat corn, chicken, cheese?

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I ruin every friendship I have. I won't lie it's always my fault. I choked some bitch( TO CONTROL HER) after she was constantly barraging me with these heavy ass books. Just throwing it, well my peers( including my friend ) thought I was too extreme and broke any connection with me. They wouldn't speak with me at all after that. After that I only had one friend left. He would talk bad about his colleagues behind their back, but he would also spend his money on his friends(including me). One day he claimed he couldn't deal with all the annoyances so he said he would break contact. I took this as him deciding to dump me, so I decided to tell his colleagues what he really though about them. And I even went as far as to accuse his friend of being a degenerate that would spend his time cyber sexing little 12 year old boys. Probably was true though, turned out he wrote detailed porn stories and was a fanatic about Blacked.com. Turned out the friend that left was only breaking contact for a few days, and he completely went off on me for my actions. And decided to break contact permanently with me. It hurts though, because these were some of the smartest people I knew and I completely destroy any relationship I had with them by simply not being able to control myself.

This isn't a blog though, this is /adv/. So what can I do to maintain relationships better?

Pic not related and is not a video of me choking the whore.

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Posted here in the past, met a girl at work fall for her, tell her i like her, said she knew, messages me she isnt ready for another relationship and wants to stay friends.

Mfw shes been ignoring me online and at work, doesnt say a word to me let alone look at me, whats her deal boys?

Its been a couple weeks since she messaged me.

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So I have a pretty bleak future and it will not look any better anytime soon. I wish to disappear before college so I have a chance to actually get a job with my dim ass future. So I have pretty bad family issues with bad relationships for the past 5 years and I just want to get the fuck away from them. My dad is an oversensitive, uptight, ass that has no sense of my privacy that left my mother over a fucking football a guy gave to my brother while he was deployed to Afghanistan. The guy ended up being a dick anyway. He finds a Native American bimbo who he is 20 fucking years older than and she had two annoying little shits. She's a fucking gold digger that my dad takes on some expensive trips and only works 15 fucking hours a week. She left the previous husband who I know as one of nicest men I have ever met because his money began to run dry. My mother is an annoying, fatmouthed Italian who does not listen to me and gets ridiculously overprotective if she sees one fucking edgey comment or username on fucking discord or whatever out of the thousands of fucking people. my brother is a bit of a mixture of my parents. he is a snotty, spoiled, lazy little shit that I want to beat up on a daily basis who constantly antagonizes me and my parents don't do shit about it. Coupled with my Mental issues such as Insomnia, Aspergers, SMD,anxiety, bipolar, social issues, depression, and who lot of other shit makes things even better. My father recently found a channel that I used to make fun of degenerates and went fucking apeshit over it and now thinks I might have schizophrenia or some shit because of it. Have I considered suicide? Yes, many times over years I could have done it as my father took me to the range a few times and some mountain tops I could have done it and got very close most of times, Why did I not? Well that is for many reason but the number 1 reason is because it makes me look like a pussy who can't handle what life throws at him.

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making a radio station for a project for class and wonder if someone could make a fake video game commercial for a made up console

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i don't feel good. i feel like i entered a friendship with someone out of pity for them suffering from a disease that causes them to be in constant pain. what can i do? i genuinely enjoy and appreciate their friendship, but, i just feel bad about it. what can i do?

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I was hacked and stalked by a male who abused his powers from his job. I had a short affair with me and obviously upset him. I must be vague but he is ex military and currently working for the government. He hacked my phone and email and had me followed, snuck into my home, messed with my belongings, had his friends follow me to the grocery store or to the gym, messed with my mail. He invaded every aspect of my life but within the law, minuse breaking and entering my home which I cannot prove. I need anonymous to warn others. This can happen to anyone. Your mom, your sister, your friend, your girl friend, your favorite person. I believe this occurs often but the victim or target is frightened to report it. Fear of it escalating, fear of the person who is abusing their power and knowledge. Anonymous- make this known. Shed light to whatbis dark. Please help!

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I'm a guy light blond hair and light colored eyes. I'm trying to pick out some sunglasses but read that since I'm a light blond I should avoid gold tones and other light colors. I'm trying to decide between 3 pairs of sunglasses right now and am strongly leaning towards the aviators and like the blue lens ones a lot but I am worried that with the gold tone frame they will be too light for me.

I like the darker frame of the blue/green ones but wish it was just blue instead of blue green.

I'm not too sure about the transition between light and dark with the lower sunglasses but I do like them to a certain extent.

Does anyone have any suggestions for picking the color of sunglasses for a guy with really light blond hair and light eyes?

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Alright, I need help because I feel like this has gone too far. I do a lot of erotic roleplay on world of warcraft and I usually pose as a girl because I find it easier to find partners that way. One time I found someone pretty cool, we both had the same interest and stuff. The thing is that now I'm 100% sure that the guy is in love with me. I'm starting to feel incredibly guilty with all those lies and can't keep them up anymore. What can I do to stop all this mess from spiraling downwards further?

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So how do you even do laundry properly? How do you separate them so that the colors don't affect each other? How do you know what clothing items to separate them all into? Like I have a white shirt with a black pocket, where would I put that into?

If I sorted into lights, darks, and whites, and then sorted that into tees, shirts, pants, towels, and running shorts and socks then won't I have a dozen loads of laundry and won't laundry take forever?

Also how often am I supposed to wash things like towels and bed sheets? How often do you do laundry for specific items?

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How the fuck are oldfags supposed to date?

I'm 30 and my girlfriend just left me. I have no idea how I'm supposed to meet women. There are no women where I work, and the online dating sites/apps are populated by fatties that all have kids or cats.

I met my ex in college, so that method isn't going to work.

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>meet this girl at work, hot, blonde hair blue eyes
>talk a bit, connect over love of various genres of metal
>she goes on vacation for a couple weeks, we talk via text every day she's gone, pretty clear theres chemistry and mutual attraction
>meet her for drinks, end up making out in a park, fingering etc
>have a conversation with her the next day, about life goals etc, nothing really weird or outta the ordinary
>she hasnt responded to any messages since, been nearly a week, but she's been online, i've tried reaching out a couple times
>i'm stressing over it as this has been the first time in a while i've had a burgeoning relationship that i think coulda gone somewhere
tl:dr, i think i'm getting ghosted and its bad feels, what should i do? cease any attempts at contact or give it periodical shots?