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>best friend going on holiday for the week
>will have no one to talk to for a week now
>was supposed to go with him
>got guilt tripped into not going after I spent £100+ on the passport and the flight
>any mention of it just makes me really sad
>trip was supposed to make my boring life a bit less boring
>since not going I've lost pretty much all confidence and have a very hard time leaving the house
I'm visiting them in three weeks so I have that to look forward to, I guess. Is there anything I can do survive the week without doing something stupid?
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>best friend
>resorts to making you feel bad so you don't go on the trip with him
>makes you depresses
Op, hate to point out the obvious but I am pretty sure you can't call someone who guilt trips you a friend. Especially a best one.
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>>18483464
It wasn't my friend that guilt tripped me into not going with them.
Look, I know I come off as a complete mong, but I'm not that retarded.
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Who guilt tripped you then? That situation seems so weird, how does someone guilt trip you into not going.
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Floridafag, /fitlit/ high-school senior here. Was wondering whether there is a redill regarding college admissions teams' GPA smudging. After touring UF and FSU, admissions officers each informed me that every school recalculates GPA on their own weighted scale. Should I be more concerned with getting the higher SAT/ACT scores and writing killer essays, since those are the only objective judges of entrance? Advice on admissions and prep much appreciated.
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NEET right now, sitting at home and jacking off all day, dont enjoy anything aynmore. Tried to get new hobbies like working out and drawing but can never bring myself to start doing anything or stick to a routine. How do you turn these things into a habit so you can force yourself to be good at them.?
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take a break. go sign up to volunteer for an entire week straight. then make a schedule for the stuff you need to do when you get back.
if you are so awful that you refuse to volunteer, go camping without any tech, any books, or any consumable entertainment instead.
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Do not build a routine now. Wake up tomorrow and first thing is you write your routine for that day then commit. Never tell anyone what you are going to do or plan a new routine a head of time because it will give you a feeling of accomplishment that you have not earned yet.
Focus, discipline and passion are key.
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I don't know what's wrong with me and I'm scared. All my life I've struggled socially. I've never been able to properly form close connections with people. I convinced myself that I must be autistic but I'm not so sure anymore. I don't have any of those autistic obsessions so many people seem to have but I do struggle with a lot of the negative issues. I don't really have a sense of who I am. I have no real interests, my personality changes based on who i'm with. If I ever encounter 2 people from different areas of my life at the same time, I basically implode, not knowing which personality to display. I've been described as having no soul by someone once, that really made me want to die. Honestly its like I've just stopped trying now and I'm not sure if I can live the remainder of my life out like this. I've booked an appointment for therapy but the wait is around 6 months so that's cool.
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What exactly have you stopped trying?
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Since you probably already left I will say this just in case you eventually come back. You are not alone. I have different personalities when I talk to different people. You are not the only person who does this. As for you stopping trying, I'm not entirely sure what you've stopped trying to do, but if you were trying to do something, you should stop. You shouldn't have to try in social situations and if you have to, fuck whoever you're talking to. You don't need them and they don't need you. I'm gonna tell you what any shitty therapist will tell you: you will eventually find something worth living for.
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been dealing with borderline personality disorder for my whole life, but over the last two years it has gotten significantly worse. i dropped out of university, lost many friends, and isolated myself from people who actually care about me. i've been on hundreds of BPD forums and have gone to countless therapists/physiologists in the past 7-8 years, and while my therapist now is the closest thing i've gotten to help, i am still in a constant struggle. i push people away when they're trying to help and every time someone close to me hangs out with someone else i isolate myself. i know it makes me a pile of shit and i feel like garbage doing it but i have no idea how to help. anyone with BPD who has actually recovered/gotten help, or should i just kill myself\?? idk ive attempted twice (once for attention because BPD makes me shit, the other honestly wanting to die but i stupidly didnt takeenough\) and now i just am drunk every time i dont have to work lmfao.
tldr; bpd sucks, thinking about killing myself, let me know if you have recovered or if i should just do it
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Don't worry about other people at the moment. Who cares if you've pushed people away, they can fuck off for now. You need to treat yourself like you are physically sick, and until you get better everyone else can fuck off. I'm not saying push them away further but don't worry about them right now. It sounds like on top of having BPD you are obviously suffering from depression. Now fair enough, it probably seems like a rational reaction instead of a chemical imbalance or whatever but that's bullshit. Depression shifts your perception of the world and makes you only dwell on the negatives. You need to get help for the depression, and until you do don't trust your thoughts at all.
I'm sure you probably have already if you've seen therapists for 8 years but go again anyway.
I'm dealing with a lot of the same things you are but I'm undiagnosed. I have no sense of self, no interests, constant mood swings and i'm really finding it hard to deal with right now, but I've always had these struggles, and even though suicidal ideation was occasionally there, I was still able to offset the negatives by enjoying things and seeing some value to life. Right now though I'm severely depressed and I can't enjoy a thing. Focus on healing though.
Sorry if I'm not much help.
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>>18482713
stop it
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>>18482816
This actually really helped me, thank you. And I am diagnosed with BPD, depression, anxiety and an eating disorder so that makes sense. I've been seeing someone recently and they've been helping to an extent, but every time I read up on BPD it's like "just kill yourself" and that seems to be making more and more sense to me the past couple months.
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I wish
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I have an interview tomorrow for a retail job at Primark (britbong). Any advice for an autist like me? I know it isn't that important but I still really need this job.
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What do i have to do to get myself to stop thinking everybody i wanna talk too hates me, or that i'm bothering them?
Seriously, it's driving me crazy.
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I sure wish I knew. I feel this way even with close family and my SO. I know it's all in my head, but can't shake the feeling that I'm wasting their time or bothering them. Can't really speak about anything to them, let alone properly open up about important stuff. Keeping an eye on the thread.
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>>18482704
Same.
Im guessing it has to do a lot with shitty past experiences and maybe upbringing
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>>18482738
Only way is to realize that not everyone hates you, and try to make new, positive memories. You'll have to put yourself out there and survive for a while.
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Only have gay niggas cut you hair.
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>Be me
>Have a G+ account
>Have gay furry "friend"
>He has an abundance of NFSW memes on his account
>One day his parents find out about his account
>They're disgusted and force him to leave the site.
>He moves to twitter permanently after the incident
>I Make a twitter account a couple weeks later to visit his account
>MFW I saw his account
>It's littered with SJW bullshit and gay furry porn
>I try to contact him multiple times on his Twitter account"@Prefesssor_yiff"
>I get blocked
>FML
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You have to be 18+ to be here.
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Have you come to the point in a relation in whitch you hate your gf/bf? At this momment i fucking hate that bitch.
The other day; i went to his hometown for the weekend (she had a shitty brother that is a piece of redneck shit with meth and all of that) and just because i mention: i know that anon is going to change one day. She went nuts, and yell at me: YOU DON'T KNOW ABOUT HIM, YOU DON'T KNOW HIS PROBLEMS, YOU FEEL BETTER THAT HIM RIGHT???
I told her that no, i just hope the best for him. Why this bitch acted like that? it was a good wish from my part. And now she is mad at me. But i dont give a fuck because i'm more mad at her, wtf? you have a fuck up brother. I fucking hate that bitch right now
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so um... why are you still together?
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>>18482689
I'd let her know it's not OK to spazz out and yell at you.
Then give her some time to come to her senses and possibly, hopefully, apologize.
If she doesn't, dump her.
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I'm planning on going to a festival in a few weeks (2 days) and I'm thinking of dropping acid there. I've done it 4 times before, all were generally good experiences, but I've only done it in small groups with people I know. How much should I take? Most I've done before is 250 and that blew my socks off. Should I take it on the first or second day? My friend will effectively be my trip sitter and I definitely won't be the only one there tripping. Is it a good idea?
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Fuck yeah it's a good idea. I've never done acid, but I've done mushrooms and K at festivals and it was a blast.
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>>18482683
Mmmm... yeah shrooms are also great, there is a unique aspect of acid for me that I can't quite get with shrooms though (maybe jut not taking enough). Never done K, is it good?
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So I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years now. Recently though that romantic spark I had with him has been lost. I still love him but now it just kinda feels like a love for a family member, like I love him and wanna care for him but going on dates and stuff sorta feels bland, like I was going somewhere with a family member. We still have sex and stuff but for me its not really about wanting him as a person and his body but more like, I want just want sex, kinda like masturbating I guess.
Now I don't want to leave him because I do love him and I don't wanna lose him and the bond we share. However, I'm just kind of bored. I find my self getting random crushes now on people and obviously I don't act on them but the feeling is there and the idea of starting something new sounds fun. My question is though is this normal? Any advice on how to get that romantic spark back? I don't think I could leave him but truthfully I'd like to know if its just better to start over with someone else or would the same thing just happen again?
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Welcome to most relationship after the honeymoon phase ends.
1. Communicate about what you are feeling.
2. Rekindle your relationship.
>Work on intimacy - go out more, do things together, cuddle lots, talk, sit on the couch and hold each other.
>Give your relationship purpose - go on an adventure, take a weekend away, start doing sports together, get a hobby together.
>Get romantic again - flowers, surprises, dates, etc.
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>>18482574
No couple loves each other all the time.
http://thepowerofideas.ideapod.com/zen-master-explains-men-women-can-never-friends/
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>>18482574
Welcome to the human experience
This is our animal side speaking, generic variance is good yadda yadda.
I'm 9 years with my gf and I totally get what you mean. I love her like a family member by now. Except sex is awesome, beacause we do a ton of stuff, share kinks, and so on.
That and having your individuality respected are crucial imo. You two need time apart and personal projects, even if just for the sake of having something to share with the other. This keeps talking to each other fresh and interesting.
Having light crushes is normal as long as they are mild and you don't indulge in them
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AFTER 6 year it is time for me to admit fact that I will sooner go to he'll than let the birch go. The idea of us being together become so toxic and addicting that I zm ready to go all for it.
Love is the mostv saddest and destructive thing u can ever experience
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How can I make money on the internet?
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How can I make money on the internet?
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I want to make money for a new ps4 and I am halfway there but I can't get a job right now because I am volunteering 5 days a week. It would be a lot easier if I could get a few bucks online.
Where can I make some money online? Have any of you made any money online? How did you do it?
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Volunteer less and get a job?
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>that image
You have to be 18 to post on this site, Slav.
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Hey so ill give you some backstory so you can understand my situation with this person.
My gf was assigned to work on a far place. I went with her and we now live on a small city. Its been a year since we moved on.
We come from the big city, and this town seems far too small for us, as we have made few friends to the point we even hate living here.
So i met this guy on my work, he's about 4 years younger than me ( im 28) and i really liked him when i met him, he played videogames and smoke weed when also beign a nice person to talk to, ¿what else could i ask for a friend on a strange place?
Thing is the guy is a mess with money, we earn like 750$ a month and he was paying a rent of 450 $ a month . So every 10th or 11th of every month this guy would start to ask me for cigarretes or papers or buds, but the way he asked for it was just unpleasant... i mean what he did was sending me messages at 3am telling me "PLEASE SELL ME A COUPLE CIGARRETES" and shit like that. It reached a point that i talked with the guy and told him: Look, if you need money ask me for it, i consider you my friend and i can help you if you need it, but is very uncomfortable for me to recieve such messages at those hours.
He just said oky and stopped talking to me for about 2 months. i ocassionally asked him what happened in our friendship and he just told me that we were no friends, but just workmates. Since that very day i ignored him completely, and even avoided him in order to not have to talk with him
Thing is the last couple of weeks the guy has been really talkative and i see how he tries me to like him again but i dont trust him at all.
Sorry for the text of wall.
TLDR: A guy who i thought was my friend hurted me and now im ignoring him but he is trying to get my trust again. What should i do. ignore him or give him a second chance
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ignore the cunt.