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How to post music on facebook where people can just click and play it without having to go to an outside link?

I honestly have no idea how facebook works but it's the only social media that my older family members use.

Anyone know if it's possible to post a song that can be played right away without having to open a new window?
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>>18485137
nah
they had it with YouTube and Soundcloud but of course Zuckerberg wants video money so he removed those

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I bought into the "you need a REAL job for money!" meme and Im fucking miserable. You basically become a corporate slave, have no free time, and just get cucked every single day. Oh, you were planning to just chill out today? Fuck you, you need to come into work today. You want to take off 5 min early because you have a doctors appointment? suck my dick faggot. I fucked something up? Oh well, shit roles down hill, I'll just throw you under the bus. Its not like the bosses above me care anyway as long as they have some head to chop off.

Do what you like, live a cheap subsistence life, and never sacrifice your freedom for more money. Its not worth it. Im at the point where Im working like shit on purpose just so I can get fired.
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>>18485102
What would you like to do anon?
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>>18485102
Walmart isn't a real job.

If a highschooler can get the same job your have it's not a real job.
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>>18485139
even if it's wallstreet, he's gonna feel the same if he doesn't want to be there

I started to fuck a girl a few days ago, i dont want her to be my gf, but not because of her, just because i dont want one. She is a little bit chubby and big, like an amazon, nice face but nothing special, im good looking but im not in shape so i guess we can say we look good together. The thing is killing me is what will my friends tell me and my family too (i live in a really small town) when they see me with her, they are really cruel when it comes to how people look even they being average and their gfs too... I cant deal with them talking about it behind my back.

Should i dont give a fuck or what?

Pic related because is what i wish i could do
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"Haha anon you fuck a chubby chick" if that is that insulting then stop but it sounds pretty retarded.

Also your "friends" seem to be really shitty people. I mean making fun of each other is cool and all but unironically being mean because you have a girl thats not a 9/10 is so fucking stupid why should you care what these kind of people think of you ?
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>>18485093
You're insecure, anon. I don't know any way to soften that down for you, because it's a hard truth. You don't look as good as you think you should ("not in shape") and you worry about what your friends and family think instead of how your girl feels or at least how good your dick feels.

You're probably overestimating how much your friends and family care about your gf's looks, but telling you that probably won't make a difference, either.

You don't seem to have the commitment or emotional attachment to this gf to get you to take a moral stand that will keep you together.

You're probably going to have to write this one off as a loss to your own insecurity. You'll fuck for a while, break up, be called "shallow" and lots of shit that you probably deserve. You don't need to work towards that "don't give a fuck" attitude but towards the "I'm good enough" attitude.
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Learn not to care about what others think of your girlfriends. They're not dating them are they?

Have your gf make you feel the best not the opinions of irrelevant people

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What's the difference between talking and flirting?
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Flirting is a particular type of talking. Main characteristic of which is the attitude between subjects.

If you're asking how to distinguish whether one's talking or flirting with you, it's nigh-impossible if subtle (which makes 99% of all flirting done).
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>>18485068
Where does playful teasing fall under?
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I feel like I can't tell the difference when I flirt or talk with someone. Im just inherently nice so everything comes out like I want to date you

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We were long distance and I can contact her via phone number Snapchat and instagram.
The pic is not her.
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>>18485047
Why the hell would you want to bring craziness back into your life? Do you know how hard it is for some guys to escape a relationship like that? You got away, and now you want to manipulate her into coming back?
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>>18485047
Don't. Run far the fuck away. Never put your penis in crazy again.

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OP has started noticing his selfish tendancies. It makes me question a lot of my past motives and rationale.

I'm left a bit hollow. As if to not be sure of myself and realised my actions in the past would have been manipulated by my selfish agendas.

When I google being selfish it mainly comes up with results as to how to avoid these people.

I want to better myself. After recently parting with my long term partner I feel I was selfish in that relationship.

It's an uncomfortable feeling discovering all these personal character flaws. I'm on my 20s now and wanting to fast track my self development.

Has anyone else come to the realisation of character flaws? How did you deal with it?

Feeling down and could use some motivation
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The first thing I would do is apologize to this partner if your actions have wronged them. After that I would try to find opportunity to commit kind selfless acts that take time or effort in order to help others. To this enough and you will start to notice change.

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I broke up if my girlfriend yesterday,we been in a 1 year relation and we ware much alike,but due the abusive way she treats me,screaming and and throwing stuff, it was hard to be if hear wen she lost her peace.
So i broke up.
But still it kills me, makes me fell like killing my self, she was 30 and im 32 and for the first time i thought i found someone to marry.
Im lost guys,heartbroken, and don't know how to deal if it.
We had plans to marry, and she was everything to me.
So pleasy guys help me out if some Advice.
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>>18484976
Why ask a bunch of children for advice?
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>>18484976
unironically this

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EJH5YEJ9iLc

theres nothing you can do but wait for it to past, but just rest assured that it will pass.
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You didn't love her and you're not exactly "heartbroken"

You feel sad because you have something called "Scarcity Mindset", you are making a big deal out of this and feeling sad because you think you won't get anyone better than her.

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Test thread
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What are we testing? Is this a hard test? How long will it take?

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Looking to get out of the retail/service industry. I groom dogs which pays decently for being only a few steps above entry level.

What are some career paths that will allow me to become an office drone who doesn't need to interact with the general public? Dealing with customers is super stressful for me and I can't handle it much longer.

I am looking into medical coding/billing. Anybody have any rec's or experience with this?
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Work at a power plant or some sort of server farm. No interaction with general populace and you're basically staring at meters, gauges and screens all day
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>>18484979
What kind of schooling does that entail?
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>>18484961
I would be concerned that it would be automated. I would recommend programming. That's coding but should provide a lucrative career.

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I am looking for a heatsink, not to expensive, does this look like a good option?

http://www.ebay.com/itm/Dual-Fan-CPU-Cooler-Heatsink-quiet-for-Intel-LGA775-1156-1155-AMD-AM2-AM2-AM3-/272723919673?roken=cUgayN&soutkn=qKvO7I
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No. Pick up a be Quiet! Slim Rock on Newegg or Amazon

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My life has so many moments of disrespect that I have lost count. No one ever respected me, even my closest relatives treat me like garbage. I got bullied in high school, got picked on in college.

People always laughed at me, I guess I look like a nerd? idk. Girls showed interest in me because they thought i could be useful for homework, but besides that they would pretend not to know me outside of class. They would look the other way or do whatever they could to avoid me.I once got room mates with a literal midget (3 ft tall), even he bullied me calling me stupid and laughing at me, whistling me to shoo off.

I do so much to improve myself, but nothing matters. Deep down I am a scared little bitch boy. I freeze up because no one ever took my side in an argument or sided with me. If something goes wrong, i am always the one at fault - its always me. All alone.

Now take a recent example. I go to a coffee place everyday and usually people take my order. Then this pretty girl who works there flirted with me, trying to sell me something. I was not interested in it so i politely declined. But since i am an autist i didn't make small talk and just politely walked away.

Then today I run into her again (she's one of the 12 people who work there). She ignores me completely, and I ofcourse get scared shitless because the thought of her showing interest in me kills me. Its like i am a frozen chicken. Anyways I walked away and she said " have a great day".

Sitting outside in my car, I just felt so beaten and tired man. I just felt like giving up on everything. I have completely and utterly lost, at everything =/. I don't know why i was even born.
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Sound like a movie where the kid's life went shit till grown up. Things bout people keep telling u like " what doesn't kill u make u stronger ". Idk man.... My life is getting shit right now. Also have a post here for advice. Now I'm not saying that someone like me who can't even deal w my life to give u advice bout urs... Just that I share the pain when u have no one around for ya.
But I know one thing. My life is shit becuz I have no door to open. I can't find a job, can't make my daily life expense. But maybe u better than me in this.
So... Swipe it down your chest. Do something for yourself. Be passionate or at least be patient. People will come around when u doing something they share the same interest. Change urself a bit. Not those gym bull****. Choose someone u look up to. Learn and try to be like them, BUT.... Make it into urs. Urs way. Good luck
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>>18484859
> No one ever respected me
Maybe you just expect too much of respect. This may just as well be respect between adults:

> I was not interested in it so i politely declined. But since i am an autist i didn't make small talk and just politely walked away.
> She ignores me completely.
You signal her you can't be arsed, she respects it as professional coffee server until you signal her you're not as bothered anymore. Doesn't seem noteworthy to me at all.

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This is a boring question but I don't know many drivers so I thought I'd ask here.
I live in London with my parents, just passed my driving test and also just graduated. Will start a job next month in the City so I'll take the tube in, can't drive in to the inner city in London.

I've got a month of insurance on my mum's car for keeping up my abilities/ practising on my own now I can do that.

But I'm trying to figure out whether to pay for insurance for the next year? It'll be £80 a month.
I don't think I'll really do a lot of driving bc London but I want to build up my no claims discount so insurance will be cheaper in a few years.
It might be helpful bc my dad doesn't know how to drive or any of my siblings, and none of my friends have licenses yet.

Any advice?
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Did I goof? A telemarketer was collecting for charity and I gave them my address and last name before coming to my senses and backing out. I'm assuming I'm going to be getting tons of their junk mail from now on but if they were scammers do they have enough info to fuck me in some way?
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>>18484789
You're going to get spammed, but that's about it. As long as you didn't give CC, bank account, or SSN, you should be fine.
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Type your name in google, chances are all that information is already available online. Or like, you know, in the phone book.

So no.
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>>18484799
This, that info is public domain. All you did was basically give them permission to spam.

so I just found out that my gf of quite some time was having an affair, I started getting suspicious a while back but wrote it off as paranoia because it was my first relationship
turned out my salary was the thing that kept her by my side
dropped her and cut contact, changed locks etc.
the fuck do I do now, even getting this far was hard, and I dont usually fall for the same shit, so im having second thoughts about even starting a new relationship
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>>18484780
Protip: If you're into her for her looks, she's into you for your money. That has been "the deal" since the dawn of civilization.

If you want a relationship rooted in trust and emotional intimacy, you have to be looking for a girl that you connect with on the level of personality & values. Someone who you can talk to easily, someone you can see as a real friend.
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Enjoy yourself anon, you just dumped a total cunt. No need to think about a new relationship yet. Just have some fun.
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>>18484814
nah, im out for good, not falling for this shit again

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I woke up around 2:30pm yesterday, I'm still awake and it's currently 9:36am where I live.

I have to wake up at 11:30am tomorrow, Thursday, and Friday for important shit that I can't miss.

What do?
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>>18484771
Go to bed at 6pm and set an alarm.

I get up at 1am every morning for work. I laugh at your late appointments.
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>>18484783
I should have clarified, my problem isn't waking up, it's staying awake and attentive that fucks me up.
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HELP

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