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I hold a manager/boss-when-the-boss-is-not-around (which is most of the time) position at work. This new girl came in around 4 months ago and I think I've been falling in love with her. We all work in close proximity with lots of co-operation, so there's plenty of time to make small talk as we work. I've come to realize that the little moments I share with her--be it discussing how to get something done, encouraging her, teaching her, telling her off or just chit-chatting--have become the highlights of my days. I've done my best to be professional, hide it and not get too personal, and I think I've managed to keep it from everyone but her. I get the feeling she suspects it, but I might be wrong.

Anyway, I went on 2 weeks vacation on Monday and I've been feeling kinda down since. I have a pretty lonely personal life (no friends, distant family etc.) so without my work to anchor me down I'm a bit lost. I have done little more than wait for time to pass, to be honest. This girl keeps popping into my head, and I feel like the only thing I really want to do right now is spend time with her. Not necessarily in a romantic way, but just be around her. I miss her, basically.

How inappropriate would it be for me to contact her during my time off, considering I'm effectively her boss?

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I'm a 18 yo horndog that just wants to meet a nice girl. I'm not in college yet, no female co-workers and my friends haven't got anyone to introduce me. What should I do?

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I talk to myself. A lot. I talk to myself, I talk to the characters of whatever show/movie/video game I'm enjoying, I talk to the appliances in my home while I use them.
It's gotten to the point where I even talk to myself while in another conversation with a human being.

I'm not lonely. I have two room mates, I go to parties every weekend, I'm in a regular DnD group (nerd factor aside, it is social). I have an active and fulfilling social life and talk to others on a daily basis. It's just that i talk to myself every minute I'm awake.

I haven't found any reputable sources online that claim talking to yourself is unhealthy. Some sites say it might be a symptom of various illnesses, but I don't check any of the other boxes of those illnesses.

Should I worry? I'm worrying. Is it worth seeking help for something that is not (yet) impacting my quality of life, or should I get this "fixed" before it becomes a problem? Can it become a problem?
Everyone I've asked just says it's kinda weird but no real issue.

Gif unrelated.

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>first appointment of ADHD evaluation
>plan to show up 30 mins early, end up showing up 15 mins late
>psychologist isn't even mad
>mfw

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I am recently single after 3 years. My 2 best friends are away and I have little to no social life. I'm trying meetup.com but not much luck yet. I am 21 work 8-5 then class 6-10 mon-thurs. Fridays I just work. I go to the gym, I am not ugly or socially inept. However, I like to surround myself with intellectual people so bars, night clubs dont really interest me.

what do?

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Ive been stuck for 1 hour doing a urine test because i cant piss right now please help

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>30
>Healthy
>Maybe slightly depressed, more just bored because I'm stuck in limbo in my life right now and I recognize this and try to be productive and not self destructive.

So I pick up a chick from the bar with my friend and we go back to my apartment and we are drinking and smoking weed having a good time for the most part. Later in the night she and I sneak away for a bit of fun in bed. We start making out and we find each other undressing ourselves. I can't get it up and I start feeling the pressure and the shame and I'm shooting myself down yet I have her around my finger at this point. I end up just fingering her and making out. I didn't even know what to say I was so embarrassed. I just made excuses that the weed and the alcohol were to much (it might of been but chalking it up to that doesn't seem wise to me). She leaves in the morning and doesn't call me back which is a whatever at this point.

She was a little bit older but still cute so I just don't know what the issue was but I sure as fuck don't want that to happen again. Maybe I was just moving to fast and let it get to me. Didn't even remember her name in the morning fast.

Any advice from anons who have had a bad experience in bed? Should I just get some knock off viagra as a back up before I have that memory crawl back into bed with me and destroy my confidence?

HALP!

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So /adv/, I have a relationship problem. Recently I broke up with my gf for a few reasons I wasn't keen on discussing with her, I wasn't prepared for a commitment above all else and saw things in other girls I talked to that she lacked.

We're now going to meet and talk about this, my goal as it stands is to try and maintain a friendship unless something happens to change my mind. What I'm not sure about in this situation is that if I'm being selfish (I've been friend-zoning her for months) by doing this or if I'm justified.

It's a strange situation and I want to know whether it is healthy or not for me to continue being a friend or to remove myself from her life entirely.

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http://www.deedcollector.com/home.aspx

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>be shut in most of my life
>waste away behind my PC playing video games and scrolling through 4chan
>somehow finally get a gf

...So what do normal people do when they're with their significant other, but not doing anything special? I love her very much and she makes me very happy, but we don't really share that many hobbies. I'm very much into video games while she only plays the basic entry-level stuff like Nintendo party games. She's very much into reading fan fiction (I know), which I tend to stay away from.
When I ask her what she wants to do she usually just shrugs, and vice versa. I worry that if we're both just doing our own things all the time she might think I'm boring her or she might feel like she's boring me.

What do?

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Hey anons, what sort of job should I go for with an Associate's Degree in Computer Science? I've got to work for a year to build credit so I can get a student loan for my Bachelor's degree at a four-year school without a cosigner, since nobody in my family has good enough credit for me to get it started this year.
I feel like CompSci should be a pretty general degree, but where should I start?
Is there any kind of job I'd qualify for that I can do from home?

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I changed computers and lost my saves does anyone know the location of the save from the gog Stardew Vallet

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I deal with crippling anxiety almost every day. I'm bipolar and have OCD so my only treatment options are anti-psychotics, neurontin and benzos (Xanax, Ativan etc)

My psychiatrist is against benzos and refuses to put time on them. She suggests I join a support group and that's it.

This anxiety is killing me. It makes my life unbearable to live. It's not something I can just cope with. I've been in therapy for 3 years, tried exercising for 2 years straight at least 5 days a week, diet, socializing with friends, meditation, relaxing. None of it has worked as efficiently as just take a benzo would.

Should I get a new psychiatrist or is she right: that the benzos would ruin my life? My life already is extremely painful to live from the anxiety and I know that benzos relieve it because I've taken them a handful of times to great effect

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I'm dealing with a lot of stress and anxiety lately.
I'll spare the details as to what is the concrete source as it sorta stems from my mindset.

I was brought up with this "do or die" mentality by my parents (my mom is a proper tiger mom) and although it does pay off most of the time I feel like it's coming at the cost of my sanity. I'm constantly stressed and I'm too deep in this workaholic lifestyle that I can't break out without disappointing everyone.

I used to have a decent set of friends, a gf, a band, be an active member in clubs and whatnot. I don't want to be overdramatic about it but I'm pretty terrified that I'm gonna end up a failure and alone at this rate.

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so for about two years now ive had the problem where everytime i try to fap i simply lose my erection and with it the will to fap. now i havent really had a lot of time to fap anyway but its been bugging me a bit lately. should i visit a doctor?