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You shouldn't plan on moving out if you have this "relying on others" mentality, like when you talk about your 40k savings, neet bux and your mom giving you money. Earn enough money yourself otherwise you won't make it. There are a whole lot more responsibilities that you will have to face besides money and if you move out with this mindset you will definitely crack and move back to your mom's place.

>>18493563
why not just go to college?

>>18493563

you will die in your own filth

>>18493517
Grow a beard/stubble. Have longer hair (short hair makes guys look young). Avoid wearing hoodies I think, wear more brown or greyish colors maybe.

>>18493517
When you get older you're going be fucking delighted have those genes

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Fastest way is to spend more time in the sun. It leathers the shit out of your skin and ages you fast. Pic related is from a guy who's been driving as a job for years and you can easily tell where the sun hits him. I wouldn't recommend this though as the increased risk for skin cancer is high.

Like someone else pointed out, looking older for the 10 years of your twenties vs. looking young well into your old age is easy to tell the clear winner. Don't go for the short term happiness. Think long term.

You're too young to worry about wasted time.

>>18493500
mosty people at my uni are 19 when they start their bachelor

I will start at 22. About 9 years are wasted. My sadness is very big.

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>>18493495
Networks

>>18493496
>he thinks the rules matter on /sci/
Reminder that >>9015795 has been up almost 2 days now.

21st of september is my birthday and I completely failed academic! You should draw pictures and symbols that remind you of each sentence in a chapter and refresh yourself after each session or something. That way you might be able to recognise what the content was without actually having to rmember the entire chapter

Work with the text. Don't just read it over and over, but understand what it about and re-phrase it in your own words. Write down key words that will remind you of whole passages. Think, think, think. Connect it with what you know already. Memory is about building bridges in your mind, not about just cramming everything inside. It's perfectly doable if you choose the right approach.

t. someone who memorized 250 pages in two days using this method

Set a schedule every day of two hours or so when you're going to read. You have more than two months which is enough time, don't squander it.

>>18493478
Understandable. I always joked to my ex i wanted a threesome and she would jokingly bring up that i wouldn't like it if a guy joined in. Also told her i'd never do that. Just cope with it. Leave bitches be bitches and tell her you won't need that threesome and get yourself a side-bitch that lives close by

>>18493478
It's understandable. You're not obliged to be into mmf just because you're into mff. But as a guy who heard this from his gf and now has mff's exclusively every once in a while, make sure she didn't say that just as an excuse not to do it with a gil.

>>18493478
>long distance
Enjoy being cucked. Your not man enough to get a gf near your location?

>>18493435
They are extremely unlikely to kill you and extremely likely to cause you a lot of physical pain

Any other recommendation?

>>18493435
Best way to off yourself is with a gas that is carbon based. A helium tank is 30 bucks, and would do the trick. you just need a normal breathing mask to go with. You can one in a snoring kit.

>>18493411
I pretty much left my country for a remote secluded area to work in construction (living's cheap and pay was really good). I went from having everything to almost nothing and honestly it does feel lonely but that can be a very liberating feeling. It depends if you're the sort of person who finds a total change of environment exciting really.

>>18493411
When i compare jobs in germany vs czechia, in germany i would make roughtly 3 times more amd cost of living is roughtly the same.

And i still dont move because i am lazy, i hate german language (not really, just lazy to learn 3rd language) and i own house here where i live.

If you are unhappy, move. If you are comfortable, consider if it is worth it. Having more money is always good, but being rich wont make you any happier than you are now.

It all depends on the language barrier and on how bad it is for you at your home land.

I was always really attached to my family, hometown and friends, until recently I noticed that everyone has their priorities and staying anywhere in benefit of this social network is usually below a good job opportunity or chance at full independency

So don't get too attached to those things. Don't put staying for anyone above your own benefits, chances are they'd probably move and leave you behind in your place.

>>18493378
Stop going outside and focus on doing things you enjoy
Videogames are a bad idea because once you finish a videogame that's it and you haven't learned anything and there is nothing you improved on
Drawing is a great idea, people who can work clay, wood and metal are cool as fuck and I'm forever jelly of the things they make
It doesn't have to be artistic or music, you could also train your voice and learn how to act or learn how to cook
Once you see the amazing things you can do you will feel good about yourself
I repeat don't go outside, don't seek validation outside or help from other people
Outside is hell nothing good will ever come from there

>>18493395

Are you sure cocoon mode isn't just a meme that will make me even more autistic?

>>18493378
Make video recordings or vlogs about daily life, politics, reviews, news, documentaries or some shit. Might be cringy in the beginning but after a while you get comfortable and need to stsrt loving your face/voice.

Honestly, bro get a good idea of what your gonna do with that money once you get it and save up
this might be weird to say but don't get a partner yet because it's gonna be harder find a talent and maybe even try and start a company when things start really picking up do stuff you enjoy I hope everything goes well for you man

I use 4chan for this all the time too. I've even forgotten I posted a thread at times. regardless here's my thoughts

Overall I don't think it's a bad idea, but I think you may be looking at this through rose tinted glasses. it's going to be really hard to move to a totally new place where you don't know anybody or have any connections. It might get lonely at times, and you might fail in making yourself a genuinely happy home.

Brother, we have one life. We regret the shots we don't take more than the ones we do. If you truly feel you'll be a happier individual in timbuktu, then by all means save your cash and earn your way down there, and by all means come back or go elsewhere if it doesn't pan out.

>>18493363
I've basically done this twice now in really different locations, and all I can say is that you take the weather with you where you go; even if that means partial judgement from other people you still can never be completely away from how the opinions of others make you feel. I'm pretty much at the point where I want to delete all forms of social media/data trail of who I am, throw my phone away and basically fucking change my name and who I am. Am I insane, narcissistic!?

>>18493337

>I've been too soft on her and may lose her attention

Can you explain? How have you been too soft?

>>18493337
wtf are you going on about? If it takes this much effort what is the point?

Sounds like you don't want to go and don't want her to go either without you. In the end I hope she ask some other guy or meets someone there that won't mind fuck her.

>beta millennial trying to learn how to act alpha from the internet

You either have it or you don't. You don't.

>>18493323
a well-lubed hand

>>18493323
Lube will become your new best friend anon

>>18493313
eventually her car breaks down and runs out of insurance and now just sits in the backyard undriven for the last two and a half years going to shit. Living with me and never does anything. Have dated for about nine months thinking about breaking up and we find ourselves in a situation where im partially to blame for her breaking her ankle. She takes a long time to heal and gets into a bad mental state, does nothing but plays video games and screams at people online all day everyday. It's now been two years and seven months and I just don't want to be in the relationship anymore. I really feel taken for granted and have really thought about engaging her in a talk about breaking up but she's been known to have suicidal thoughts and stuff and I don't want her to hurt herself or kill herself because I broke up with her. she has no family or friends in town and the town I live in is heavily known for drugs and rapes and has a bit of a homeless problem. Iv been homeless before and doesnt seem to matter on gender all the shelters just suck shit. I dont know what to do without feeling some sort of horrific consequence, i spend all my time providing and jumping around to places just to get by because I don't have a job myself and really want to go to college myself but I cant do anything when Im taking care of her.
What Do I do to have to get her to leave without kicking myself in the balls

>>18493313
>smoking pot
I don't give advice to degenerates

>>18493319
I smoke because I have trauma and memory issues saving my ex from a car speeding through a crosswalk, i switched places with her and got hit myself.

Shared my Medical Marijuana with her because she is missing a kidney and has chronic kidney disease.

I'm not immoral, can't you tell by my over filling sense of consideration?

just t realized how rapey this sounds
she nor none of the other people in this group deleted me or anything plus there was someone else in the car so I feel like I probably just bolted from the car at some point because I couldn't desk with the awkwardness of what I did

>>18493310
drunkards remorse so just give it a few more days and your head will clear. no one likes to make a fool out of themselves in public

>>18493415
this happened in the middle of May though

I gave myself a three strike rule and fucked up

>>18493305
So what's your issue? That people are lying about who they really are? How is it lying if people have flexible personalities?

>>18493305
I was thinking about that earlier today.
I'm not sure if I want to be in a relationship because I feel lonely ever since the last girl, or if I actually believe that there's "the one" out there somewhere.

Nothing lasts forever tho, my parents are together 20+ years and I feel they might divorce soon, comes to show that what you think might last forever will end somewhere down the line anyway so is it really worth it?
If you're with a girl, you're with her for a reason and yet its very likely you might get cheated on or dumped for a better guy. Or if you're with a girl that you click with so well, and she doesn't get to stay in your life for whatever reason. Are relationships really worth it then? Am I stupid for chasing the perfect girl and get married some day if I know she's the one? does it ever work out for anyone or is it a meme

They're not, what is a meme is that everyone needs one, or will find one that's meaningful. The reason that so many people say true love is bullshit is because it's so rare that few people get to experience it. All most people have are the cheap imitations/charades you talk about.