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>Be me at age 5
>parents divorce, like anyone else
>mom spends the years telling me that my dad left, ran away from his problems, etc. etc.
>Says he has a new family now, even though he's on a traveling gig, and that's why he doesn't visit.
>get pissed, tell him at 10 to never talk to me again
>over the years, grow up, but stop thinking about it so much
>whole family turns on my mom, without warning
>talk with them, get redpilled.
>my mom has problems that nobody can help her with, because she refuses to acknowledge them
>says she's the reason the family is so busted
>ff to now
>19, just turned 20, joined the militiary
>go to see my dad before i leave
>he tells me about everything, how she's fucking crazy and he had to leave
>this lines up with everything, and i realize that no matter how painful, it has to be true
>takes me to a baseball game later, for my birthday when i get leave
>realize i missed out on a whole 12-13 years of my dad because of lies
>in basic, leave all of my life insurance payouts to him
>don't tell my mom, it isn't her fucking business
>quickly losing ties with mom, obviously
>love my dad more than i ever have
>will still never make up lost time, and now i'm in the militiary.
>he tells me he's so proud of me, no matter what.
>I missed out on the better parent.

How do i cope with this? I'll never make up for lost time, but all i want is to make up for my guilt. what do?

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Wife keeps trying to fuck me and make me look weak in front of her friends. What do?

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I can't seem to have sex or even get hard when with girls almost at all.
I know it's weird, but the only thing that turns me on is butts. As in, looking at them, jacking off to them or having my face sat on. It's not I'm not attracted to the girls I'm with, since I manage to get it going with pretty girls somewhat often, but the only way I ejaculated recently while being with a girl is when she sits on my face and I masturbate. How do I fix this? What the hell is wrong with me?

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I developed feelings for a close friend and telling her was the biggest mistake I think I've ever made. She was always a cheerful and positive person but her one flaw is her self-righteousness.

She becomes extremely hard-headed to the point she will argue with me to the point where I have sat for hours, trying to explain to her what she has done wrong. (It's happened a grand total of five times, most never exceed past 20 minutes.)

I've spent time and I've also wasted time with her. She was cool before all of this. She was actually nice and didn't have to make herself the arbiter of truth and justice.

It was like she suddenly realized that me taking none of her bullshit made her want to try and keep me in her life. I haven't spoken to her in a few days, after a particularly atrocious discussion where she absolutely HAD to "clarify" that we are only friends and I lost hope in our friendship being anything but her scolding me. I just don't get it.

I want my cool friend back. I want that girl I fell for to come back. I'm mad and I'm sad.

Anything helps.

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Where can I find a guaranteed loan?

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There are tiny spiders in webs. They were in the basement, I didn't destroy them like people do, I removed the food source of the ants as much as I could. Now the spiders moved up, almost 1 spider web per corner. I don't want them moving up to my room.
much love to you all

xoxoxo <3

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When someone talks crap about you in the work place, how do you handle it?

I have an issue. I work a government job and there's a union. I work very well at my job and I am frequently asked to put in more hours (supposed to be given in order of seniority). Bosses will secretly give jobs to people who deserve them (because people with high seniority honestly are not always the best), but if someone tips off the union or feels they are treated unfairly, the less seniored people get booted, and the higher people get put in. I've only been here 5 years, vs people who have been here like 10-20 years more. I was picked for a job because it is very physical, very laborious, and I guess they wanted a younger, able-bodied person for it.

Basically, there's this older woman at my work. She's absolutely terrible. She refrains from all physical activity, does nothing but chat (or ignore you if she hates you) then collect her paycheck.

Unfortunately, she's been working here for like 15 years. She found out I got extra hours. And started talking shit to my sup that I am a terrible employee. She isn't one to talk and everyone knows it.

However, I am terrified that she is going to call the union (she will) and I am going to be booted and I desperately need these hours. Is it worth putting up a fight? I don't know what to say to defend myself. Should I just not speak at all, and keep doing my best?

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How can I cope with other people, coworkers specifically? I've always hated being around them.

For the last year or so I've been working at this factory for $7.75 an hour, but I liked it because I got to work more or less alone. All of a sudden though the boss offered me a position in another area (it pays $12 starting, but that isn't important) and like an idiot I just said "Yes" and "Thank You" to everything he said, like I always do for everyone.

I hate that area and the people over there, I've briefly had to work over there before and I felt like killing someone after the first few days. That I'll be working there from now on didn't really hit me until I saw it on the schedule today and I'm not fucking ready. It's too late to back out now though, I don't think I'll last a month over there but I doubt I can find another job that I won't hate just as much.

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hi, guys. I'm not sure if this is the proper place to ask this or if it's against the rules.
I was born and currently live in a developing country, I'm was in a good college but I had to withdraw. Now I'm on my way to follow my studies at another university, but I have 2 options. The first one is a great and prestigious university, the second one is not that great, it can be classified as regular. I want to finish my undergraduate stuides as soon as possible and to work at the UE, that is, to make equivalent my degree through an exam or something like that. Is it possible to do what I want to? Is it important to have a degree of a recognised university to make my degree equivalent at the UE?
I know some of this info can be useless for the purposes of this question..

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So, the Internet is telling me that cervical orgasms are possible when your dick bumps a spot just above her cervix (anterior fornix), but it's difficult (and painful for her) to thrust your dick through the cervix. Is this true?

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So, for a while, I've been able to feel the joint of say, my knee while it's moving, and it makes plenty of noise. Lately, both started making noise and the one that has already been making noise is getting louder.
Noises can be heard here:
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What would be causing that? I'm not overweight, not athletic, and haven't got into any injuries recently.
As of right now, the noises are louder than my footsteps for reference as to how loud they are. Easily audible from across a somewhat quiet room.
And what should I do about them? It's been like this for months and aren't showing signs of getting better. They also feel a little grindy. I don't have the money to be going to the doctor/paying for meds or treatments thanks to living in burgerland and being a student with a shite job in between.

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1st time selling a PS4 on eBay. Buyer currently lives in Florida and wants it by Saturday. Whats the best shipping service should I use?

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19 in college last relationship was freshman year of hs, lasted a month, so I have no clue what a serious relationship is. Start hanging out with girl from my hs, we go to different schools, but I pass it on the way to my class. We hang out a bunch, go out one night, walk campus and we kiss hold hands etc. We hang out again, she takes a nap while I study in her room when she woke up, she starts making out with me. No clue what to do, never done it before, but do my best and apologize afterward she seems cool with it. Boy was I wrong. Fast forward a few hours of us hanging out with some other friends, and she starts to become more distant. No clue what’s going on try to talk to her and she said nothing. I take her and friend’s home, and I text my friend who was with us to get his opinion. Turns out she didn't feel anything from the kiss/make out and feels like she destroyed our friendship. I was so confused and to be honest angry, because I don’t think I did anything wrong. I called her later that night and we talked for a bit, but again I got a whole load of shit and at the end she said the infamous “I think for now we should just be friends”. This was a week ago and I have no clue what to do, I haven’t talked to her since, to give her space. I need some advice; I want to salvage a relationship with her, even just a friendship.

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I hate myself. I hate my financial situation, I hate my body, I hate the way I look and think. Normally I can ignore it, but situations that really bring it out and cause me to shut down mentally and physically are shopping and socializing. As soon as i get in a situation like this, I start feeling an intense self-loathing and I can barely function. Most people have told me about how good I look, how well i'm doing financially, etc. but I don't know how to see what they see. How can I get over this self-hatred?

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So recently my breathing got weird, sometimes I feel my nose as the air goes in, sometimes my body just pushes my lower rib out and it feels weird. The problem is that my mind seems to be focused on breathing all the time and i feel like im going insane.