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By getting laid yourself and realizing it's nothing special.

>>18496658
masturbate a lot and it should go away. Try masturbating some time you don't feel like masturbating. Then you will think about masturbating even when you don't want to and you will be able to think "yeah I don't care about sex right now". This might temporarily (or permanently?) kill your libido though so watch out.

You don't. It's the one normal thing to be obsessed with. Everyone is obsessed with sex. It's biological.

you need discipline in your life. Structure and schedules. That will help you get out of your deppression and will find you meaning in your life.

>>18496659
>find your meaning in your life.
Listen to this anon OP. You can't be depressed when you find something that doesn't exist.

>>18496707
ofcourse you can dude. people find meaning in different things, you just need to find your passion. don't be so negative m8

>>18496565
Reality check: The absolute worst that has happened is that you have wasted a couple of years and maybe some money in going down a fruitless path.

Big deal. At this point in your life the one thing you have more of than anything else is Time. Go back to school, switch courses, make some practical choices about internships and the like, and you'll end up a few years behind others your age.

That is NOT cause for suicide.

What type of jobs are looking at? Like your story is too vague. Retail doesn't require experience (even the ones that say they do don't, old navy hired me when I was younger and had no experience).

Is it a professional job? Like programming or accounting idk. At that point, from my understanding, you gotta bust your balls to find an internship. And I mean bust your balls. Had a friend who would literally show up at mom and pop shops and ask if they needed an IT for free.

Decade later he makes double what I make the bastard. Also, get out of your comfort zone. No one has zero contacts. Force yourself to go yo events and network. It's painful but doing nothing is worse. Work on your LinkedIn profile and take your resume to a free school counselor. They specialize in helping kids with no experience land jobs.

If any of this is too difficult, consider suicide. It's a permanent solution to a temporary problem but it's the closest thing we have to population control besides abortions and war

>>18496585
Honestly, when I found out I failed, I was more happy than sad but now I feel like it's near impossible to get onto the things I want. Being in more debt to the government and not having enough opportunities are some of the bigger problems.

>>18496642
I've been looking at retail/waitering whatever seems like they'll take beginners but literally everything wants experience, EVEN retail despite what you say, maybe it's different in the UK but literally every company wants minimum 1 year, minimum 2 year sales experience tc.

I'm not good enough for professional jobs, I have no skills or talents, just imagination and ideas.

Yup, suicide is my best option if all else fails but my dreams of doing the things I want and eventually helping better othrs lives etc. will crumble at that point.

I've been searching non-stop for the past year, everyone else has luck except me.

that was pretty difficult to read through

see r9k

i think a cat person would be clingy
also tumbleristas
and typical white women

Don't talk to her about what you are or could be. Invite her to do things. Ignore her otherwise.

When you're together, treat her like the person you want her to be. If she goes with it, make your move. If she doesn't, enjoy your day.

>>18496555
>31 dating a 21 chick

Welcome to midlife crisis.

>>18496620
Is it so common?
I mean, I have always dated either older or younger ladies. The only one I dated who was about my age got always mad at me as if she expected something I could never figure out. She was extremely sex-hungry though... But you couldn't really date her without pissing her off by the end of the night.

So what would be the crisis about? Btw it's not that I had all those chicks back in the days. I made out for the first time at 25 and lost my virginity at 26.

I have *always* been in a crisis of some sort. Whatever you call a crisis, is an average day for me.

>>18496517
You can try growing up, anon

I mean: if you don't like the way you live, why don't you try and change it?

>>18496524
i never said that i hate being a neet anon

as for changing my lifestyle
i was enthusiatic about everything back then but when everyone around you especially your close families and relatives tries to bring you down/treats you like a good for nothing piece of shit everytime you'll eventually get tired of trying and just sit back and be the piece of shit they're telling you that you are

>>18496536
It doesn't sound like you enjoy your life. It sounds more like "too afraid to try, so I won't because that's the best way not to fail"

>>18496501

Hemoroid

Stop straining too much when shitting, don't sit on the toilet for more than 3-5 minutes just shit and go, try to live more actively, and avoid heavy lifts if you can for a while.

Are you lucky, it will go away of itself

But you can also get an ointment from the pharmacy (need to talk to your doctor first), and there are several medical procedures as well (that are very very very unpleasant, trust me)

>>18496512

If I have a hemorrhoid, did I rupture it? Is that why it bled?

Will it heal on its own? How long will it take?

help

Degrees alone aren't enough. You need at least a handful of: work experience (related or otherwise), internships volunteering, involvement in school life, hobbies and interests. And a genuine passion in the field you want to work in.

>>18496481

Understood and agreed. With that in mind, anon, what field has the best long term potential? Engineering, finance, business, bio, etc.

Also, which field specifically, upon initially breaking into, has the fastest/largest income potential?

>>18496471
Who could have guessed that extroverted girl which is closing on the "wall" with her biological clocks ticking wants to meet new boyfriend as soon as possible?

She is completely normal. Girls love social networks. The attention it gives them. Also it is none of your bussiness.

>>18496493
Live and let live, I admitted. But this craving for attention is still not good, and I'm hoping for a better understanding.
Besides, it kind of is my business, as it has an impact of her life, and on her family, including my wife, who is worried about her sex escapades. Individualism can only go so far, and I believe in collective responsibilities.

Besides, I don't see any social network here. No time with friends, no hobby, no activity. Just this.
It also doesn't explain the extremely flirty behavior with a hundred guys per month.
I believe in common sense. Flirting is fine, sexing up to 3 different guys per week seems like a recipe for trouble. Same for nudes. Self-respect means you're not displaying your body as merchandise. Not to mention getting used to all this attention is not going to build steadiness in the future.

Ah well...

>>18496677
> Same for nudes. Self-respect means you're not displaying your body as merchandise.
This is your prude Christfag or Islamfag or whatever fantasy.

It has no actual truth. Yep, you can put your beauty on display and get sex or affection in return, and all is perfectly fine with your internal self that likes sex and affection.

It's a plantar wart. Freeze that baby off with some medical freezing spray (the real shit, not the crappy kits they sell in the pharmacy)

>>18496462
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Plantar_wart

The most reliable way how to cure it is to cut it out (dont be afraid to go deep).

It is hpv virus embedded in your skin cells. Dont touch it, it can spread all over your body (penis, eye) without proper washing hands afterwards.

To cure it all you need is to KILL all infected cells. Since it is only in your skin, you can almost painlesly cut it out. Go deep enough, use dezinfection and tape the hole afterwards.

The sooner you cut it out, the better. It grows both in size and deeper into skin if left alone enough. Dont wait with treatment.

>>18496464
so it is worth going to a doctor and asking them to prescribe me with some?
>>18496499
the problem is I don't have a scalpel or anything like that, I'd be scared of getting it infected or just not getting it all out

>Maybe if I sleep with her regularly I won't feel this possessive and she'll lose her magic to me?
Lol no. Like that your feelings will take even longer to fade. Date someone else.

>>18496688
>Date someone else.
I tried to date someone but as we made out I still kept thinking of the other girl :(
What do? At this point I just wanna get cut loose ...

>>18496750
>I tried to date someone but as we made out I still kept thinking of the other girl :(
Yes, I know that feeling and you have to keep dating until you find someone better. Plus you have to wait anyway for the feelings to fade, but dating definitely accelerates the process.

>>18496381
Are you serious?
Fucken hell mate..

Damn that sucks senpai

But fuck her, she's probably a roastie now. It was middle school.

Get your shit straight and become Chad, so if you ever see her you can taste her tears

>>18496404
This, except w/o the dick personality of chad.

>>18496373
Theeroticreview + $200-$400.

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>>18496373
Just be a girls orbiter and friend, she'll eventually see your good side and how much better she'd be with you than chad

If the girl isn't your exclusive girlfriend, yes

>>18496305
Only if you initiate.

>>18496305
Sweet baby Jesus, that's awesome. Where could I get one.

>>18496293
What type?

As someone who has dealt with bipolar and borderline, just keep being there for them.

>>18496293
My moms bipolar. I turned out ok.

Giver her loves and make a baby, just like me :D