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>doing social work
>got decent marks in first semester
>was going to todo business or social science
>career counselor (who referred me to social work) could not explain what I could do with it nor could the lecturers
>someone said to get STEM'd otherwise university is useless

what about teaching, law, business? they don't fall into the STEM category nor are they useless

so are non-stem degrees really useless? also does anyone know wtf I do actually do with social work?
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>>18501356
>what about teaching, law, business? they don't fall into the STEM category nor are they useless
OH, they are
>teaching
You max out at 60k a year to be a high school teacher, less for lower grades and most state college positions with a doctorate
>law
It's so fucked it isn't funny. You will never pay back your half million dollar loans.
>business
Enjoy middle management or even better, a job pushing papers that will be replaced by a couple scripts in the next few years.

If you get your MSW, you will do anything from social work to campaign planning to administration in the non-profit and for-profit sectors.
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>>18501356

Didn't you post this this morning?

Teaching isn't going to make you a lot of money unless you teach in college and get tenure. Law is a better choice, but you're going to be sidled with a lot of loans, and people end up unhappy in law school in a lot of cases.

Business is certainly adequate. You can even get your MBA and make a ton of money.

Don't go into STEM if you aren't good at it, or passionate about it. Every day will be a chore, and the money won't make up for the fact that you're wasting away your life doing something you hate.

If you're really good at something, you'll find a way to make money doing it.
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>>18501368
>MSW
well im doing honors if that is any better?

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Anyone here sell shit on ebay?

Some guy wants to buy a shiton of my items but the shipping adds up to alot. So i told him ill shit it in one box at a reduced price but i cant seemto find a way to reduce the shipping price or combine it atleast
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it's not possible from what i know
try to contact ebay support.. but don't get your hopes up, be prepared to tell that person that it's impossible after all
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from where to where?
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>shit in a box

That's a sad frog m8

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I've just started to get into the dating scene, I'm a 27/m did 10 years in the Army and now have nice civ job.

Would apps/sites like tinder etc help me find a real soulmate or is it just for casual hookups ?
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A lot of girls on dating sites are looking for losers to inflate their ego ,wallet or closet. You can make relationships with these girls though its just how you handle yourself so they ultimately think "this guy isnt like all the other clowns I meet who pester me for sex,get intensely sappy, or kneel when I say kneel"
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>>18501116
That sounds alright, I'm not one of those pushover guys and can handle myself pretty well. hopefully I find a girl with similar interests and start from there.
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>>18501057

>Tinder
Mainly hookups
>POF
Somewhere in the middle
>OKC
More relationshippy
>Bumble
Fuckin' beats me

They're all a little different in my experience.

Trying to prove a point.

Is concealing the truth from someone and hoping they don't ask about it or find out, but admitting to it when they ask still being dishonest?

If the person was to have never admitted the truth unless asked, and to have kept it to themselves in order to avoid the other person finding out.

That is the same is it not?
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It doesn't matter what you do, cheating makes you a shitty person.
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>>18500995

Yeah, it's still dishonest.

But it depends on the severity of the thing, too. Sometimes a white lie is a lot better than telling the outright truth and causing needless stress in a person's life.
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>>18500995
It depends on the circumstances. If it's something that's none of your business and no laws are violated and no good will come from it, then keeping it to yourself is fine. However, that approach is not ok in other situations. You may have an obligation to tell the other person if not telling them puts them in danger.

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I do I learn to like myself?
I don't believe I'm particularly smart (despite being told otherwise.). I know for a fact I'm not that attractive (6/10 at best, 5/10 at worst). I have mood swings, anxiety and depression.
(The mood swings being between depression and... "ok").
And I work out, write, draw, movie connoisseur and watch anime & tv shows. I'm an "all around' kind of guy, but I can't seem to find something specific to latch on.

I know I'm an OK guy. Yet, I can't seem to like myself, or think of myself positively. It staggers me in many ways.
I'm thinking that by trying to latch on to one hobby and being great at it might help me, yet I really doubt it.

Any advice? (>inb4 "meditation" crap, it doesn't work.)
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How do I learn to like myself?*
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>>18500736
Don't compare yourself to others
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>>18500859
I don't, yet I still dislike myself.

So my girlfriend recently got into a fight with another guy. I asked her if she wanted to be left alone and she said she did. Later, I talked to her again asking whats wrong AGAIN and she said she was fine. She's been giving me the cold shoulder and we haven't spoken since. I'm worried that I fucked up I'm not sure what to do.
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I always think the worst but I would honestly wonder what kind of relationship she has with this guy that her behavior is practically like she just had an argument with her man.
Turn into a detective my dude, don't accuse because true or not she'll deny it. Also don't turn into a pussy and keep begging for contact.
She sounds like an insensitive cunt and you sound very loving
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Don't play their games. If she says she fine she's fine. Don't try to pry and work out what IS wrong. Just leave it and eventually she'll either learn that you aren't another woman that fucks around with mind games and other bullshit or she'll leave because she can't deal with someone who's actually genuine.
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>>18500969
Thanks for advice, i broke it off

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What can I do with my free time?
Left school, going into the military at the end of the year.

I've now got lots of free time and don't know what to do with it.
I haven't got any video games consoles either so I'm even more clueless.

Lifting and running only takes up a couple hours...

Laying in bed all day is driving me crazy.
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>>18500659
Thanks for the bump
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Pls halp
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>>18500650
Buy the army field manual and study up. It's only $8 bucks on amazon. Maybe go to the rage and learn to shoot. Get off the street when you jog. Run or hike on trails. Thanks for joining up!

NON JEWS: I want to create an "I am Jewish ask me anything" youtube channel. I feel like it is a super old religion where most Jewish people only mingle within groups of each other for fear of antisemitic attacks. I know there are reasonable people out there who are just uneducated and I want to create something lasting more than just a thread. What do you guys think? What questions do you have that you would like answers to?


( I expect trolls)
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>>18505147

How much is Israel paying you for this PR?
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>>18505150
I just want to shed light on some religious customs and things that might seem weird to gentiles.
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If people really cared enough to ask I am sure they would just head over to their local synagogue or use google.

Your youtube channel will literally only be trolls.

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All my boyfriend wants to do is look at porn. I just caught him about to jack off in our apartment parking lot. What's the point in even staying with him?
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>>18504946
Well. I guess he has an adiction. Jerk him off to divert his attention from it. Or help him by taking him to see a therapist.
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>>18504946
his dick that gets you so good.
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Have more sex with him. Wear lewd clothing. Tell him how much you adore him.

The problem is you.

Gayanon here, my boyfriend keeps putting hot sauce on his dick as a joke when we have sex and my ass feels like it's on fire after. I've asked him to stop and he tells me I need to man up. What should I do? I don't want to leave him but this prank isn't funny any more.
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>>18504595
Is his dick made of lead? How is this not affecting him? Just refuse sex.
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>>18504595
Cook his pecker on the skillet like a sausage.
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Put some kind of irritant in the sauce bottle.

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How the FUCK does anyome ever move out of their parent's house in LA? Does any LA anon have any tips on finding a place for under $1200 that is neither a closet, nor in the ghetto? How the fuck do people live out here?
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>>18504498

i could let you rent my spare room in hollywood for 1150 starting in september if you like.
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>>18504498
I wish I knew man. I'm going on 27 and I'm fucking fed up to death living here under my parents roof, but I'd be homeless if I were on my own.
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>>18504521
1150 for a room is a huge ripoff. The most I'd pay to be a guest in someone else's house is 750.

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im in love with a girl that has a boyfriend
should i confess my love to her?
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>>18504447
no you beta fuck
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>>18504450
why not?
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Depends.

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Alright here's the deal
>have gf for 8 months
>have two best friends (both girls)
>best friends have never met gf
>best friends have never met eachother
>went full autist and asked everyone to hang out this Friday

I am the common denominator.
What should we do Friday night so that it's not totally awkward
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Just go out and get drinks or something. You don't need to do anything elaborate
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>>18504432
OP this is going to be awkward as hell. You probably manage each of your relationships with these women very differently, and for each of them to see you acting differently when in the presence of the other women will do Nad on their emotions. You didn't think this through OP. Call it off for God's sake
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>>18504439
This was my go-to, but still, I feel like the first hour will be so painful.

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What are the upsides/downsides of living in Canada?
Nice people? Cold climate? Long winters?
I'm seriously considering emigrating and I've already saved up money to do it.
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>>18504399
Emigration is long painful expensive process where you leave everything and everybody behind you.

Andbif you havent noticed, canada is huge as fuck country. Same as usa. So unless you say concrete towns or at least states, we cant tell you anything except
>>>/int/ memes like
>a fucking leaf

Why do you want to move states?
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>>18504399

>Why do you want to move states?

I'm moving countries not states. I live in Europe currently. The main reason for it is money/opportunity and to start a life on my own. I can't name concrete places, all I know is I'd like to avoid the predominantly French ones and to go for the best climate.
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>>18504511
>the best climate.
>in canada
moron

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Anyone else just fucking cripplingly depressed from working 40 plus hours a week?

The more I think about it the more bullshit it seems to me. Honestly I could handle 40 hours a week the way it was originally intended.

When it was made it was during a time where a man working 40 hours a week could support his family while his wife was at home making sure everything was good. Chores were done and food was made, when you got home your time was yours.

Now these days you and your significant other need to work 8 hours a day(if you are lucky, I've been pulling 10's and 12's lately) and then you have to commute 30 plus minutes there and back. Then you get home and have to clean and cook and pack food for the next day. Throw in shopping, appointments and god forbid if you want to stay healthy working out every once in a while.

I feel like I don't even live anymore I just work and sleep then get one saturday a week to sorta enjoy myself.

I would far rather work 30 hours a week and live modestly only that's not even a possibility because any job that pays over minimum wage requires you to work 40 plus hours a week. So your only options are living a minimum wage poverty life or having money but no life to live.

And before people call me a lazy slob or whatever I'm 27 and working as a millwright making 80K a year(mostly due to OT).

I don't know what to do anymore but all I know is I'm not happy and I feel like my life is just slipping away.

What about you guys?
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Honestly I wish my company would adopt 4 10 hour shifts as a thing. But they like 5 8's because then they can pressure us to stay for 12's more often.

I just wish companies would be flexible with hours. "Hey don't want to work 40? Well ok, work 25, work 30, we'll just hire a few more people." But no can't do that because then they'd have to pay more in benefits. Only the mill I work for is racking in record profits and billions of dollars, somehow I think they could afford it.

I could handle working 30 a week and living off 50k I don't need 80k plus if I don't get to actually live.
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what you're saying can't really be argued with i guess, that is how things are here in america. i feel exactly the same way you do, but not much can really be done about it. not for the majority of us at least.
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>>18504361
dont the netherlands have like record suicides?

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