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Job advice plz?
I'm looking for a job right now, hopefully a career, and I'd just like your guys' opinions on what jobs to look at. I've got a BS in theatre and right now I'm looking primarily at becoming an apprentice electrician, but I also wonder what other options there are. What kinds of jobs have y'all had? Pros/cons? I guess I just want a bunch of opinions on different fields of work, so really anything you have to say about a certain job, I'd love to hear it. Thanks!
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>>18505562
>but I also wonder what other options there are
As in other trades?
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>>18505598
Other jobs, whatever is out there. Anything from painting boats to building washing machines to proofreading comic books.
The things I value most at this point are 1. is the job at least somewhat enjoyable, 2. what's the potential for vertical movement. Of course good starting pay would be nice, but I guess I'm looking for something I can do for the next 40 years and climb the ladder in.
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why do girls take pictures like this?
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>>18505556
A Kardashian whore spell was cast on the nation
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Because it shows ass, tits and face, and hides stomach flab.
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Because humans like looking at nude bodies of what they're attracted to
Just not for marriage
I'd rather have them be upfront about who they are instead being a deceitful lying horrible person who thinks she's nothing like those girls inside
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>be me
>gf me yesterday she wouldnt go to the movies with me to watch Spiderman because he's white
>"I cant relate to spiderman unless he's Miles Morales."
>she begins her sermon on privileges
So turns out she's a huge SJW activist. Of course I have nothing against them. I love her too much to simply get frustrated over this but what are everyone else's experiences with dating SJWs? Is redpilling them viable and ideal, just to tone down her views or probably a bad idea?
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>>18505528
dating someone with differing political views is always a bad idea.
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>>18505528
>she wouldnt go to the movies with me to watch Spiderman because he's white
She is a racist.
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>>18505551
But I dont to break up simply because of that, its a petty reason. She's not like the other anon in the other thread who has piercings and dyed hair. She looks very timid and she is really kind despite her view. I'm just wondering everyone else's experience with SJWs in general.
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How do I get a gf like this?
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You are doing it all wrong OP. You should try to find a girlfriend who you like for their personality not for their looks.
If you really must insist of getting a girlfriend like that then you should look like this and talk about how life is pain and all that nonsense.
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I'm this guy >>18501437
Because I have a girl who looks like that, and it's a lot of trouble.
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You want a flat chested bitch? Or does the dark faggy look turn you on?
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Hello. First time posting here.
So I'm 19 years old and I've never had sex before. I'm not ugly or fat and I'm pretty tall. The problem is up until recently I was wicked shy and practically had social autism. The passed year I got a job at a small restaurant where everybody is pretty sociable and in turn I've come out of my shell quite a lot. I was thinking of trying out tinder just so I can no longer be a virgin. Is it a good place to try? To my understanding its an app full of sluts so would they be turned off by the fact that I'm a virgin? Im within 10 minutes of UNH (huge party college) if that gives you an idea of the kind of people I would find.
Pic unrelated
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>>18505445
Good place to practice conversational skills. Actually a lot of girls are oddly turned on by virgins but don't mention it. The first girl I had sex with didn't know I was a virgin. She honestly thought I was a fuck boy.
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>>18505445
Yeah, just swipe right often. Messaging is also an easy way to talk to someone at first. Go for it, you've got nothing to lose (expecpt your virginity hopefully) Good luck
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OP here
I dont have many recent pictures of myself though, and I obviously need more than one. What are some ideas of pictures that aren't just a bunch of douchey images of me posing in my bathroom mirror? Or is that enough to cut it on tinder
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What does it mean when a hot girl posts a picture of some food she made with the caption "somebody better wife me quick" on snapchat?
Does that mean she's desperate? please no troll responses.
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Dumb facebook teen....
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Post the food.
Either way it is a joke.
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>>18505365
>what does it mean when any girl does _____
It means she wants attention. That's all they ever want.
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I'm 22 and for about 3 years I've lived a very sedentary life with a terrible diet. My health has recently gone to absolute shit. I have aches and pains all over my body, my blood pressure is a bit high according to my doctor and I've developed panic and anxiety disorders out of all of this.
On the one hand I feel like 22 is young enough to turn it around and become healthy again, but at the same time I feel like I've done irreversible damage. I know what I have to do, I'm not gonna ask for diet or excersise advice. But has anyone on here ever done something similar? I feel like I need to have a radical lifestyle change but stress and lack of lasting motivation are holding me back
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I've started working out frequently and eating better, and it's definitely a big change from the usual lazy cunt i am, but its a good change anon, go for it
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>>18505322
Radical lifestyle changes are bullshit unless you want to completely surrender control of your life to someone else. In which case, join a branch of the military. I recommend the Marines (assuming you live in the States) if you want to spend as little time as possible off-duty back in your old life.
However, more realistically, if you want your quality of life to improve, focus on what you can accomplish each day. Even if it's to go for a simple walk once-a-day or go to the gym three times a weak.
Outside of exercise, you can always try more cerebral goals like reading more and learning a language. Point is, if you try to change your routine too much in a short time from a sudden surge of inspiration, you'll only burn yourself out faster and you'll feel like a failure for making so little progress in so short a time. So, by the same logic, if you pace yourself with your goal, taking the time to think of how you're going to go about it, you'll feel more motivated to keep going whenever you meet your goal and, when you think you're ready to take on more responsibility, update your plan.
TLDR; If you want to be more competent in a short time, join the military. If you want to feel better about yourself in the long-run, baby steps.
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Get on /fit/, start reading lots of health material and actually start.
Don't even worry about other people. Just consider what you're doing for yourself. I'm losing weight AGAIN after losing 40 lbs and then gaining a bunch if back after a bout of depression. Do I hate myself for letting that happen? Sure I do, but that's not going to make the fat covering my otherwise decent face go away.
Just start and don't be worried if you slip up. As long as you slap some sense into yourself and get back on track you'll be fine.
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>See child living with drug-addict family
>See a small, run-down "home" that's about a bit bigger than a truck
>Know everyone in that house is on meth/crack
>Feel that I should call CPS
>Don't know what's happening to that little boy
>They might be giving him drugs, abusing him, etc
>Kid's life might be down the drain in 4 years
Does anyone have experience with this?
Is it the right thing to do? I fear I don't have enough information to intervene, but I see the child on a bicycle everywhere.
I only did that as a boy when I didn't want to go home.
Does anyone here come from a crack family or have experience with things like this?
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Contact authorities. Him being in the foster system is better than that situation.
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Go ahead and call them. Crack/meth heads are not suited to raise children.
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Who knows, they might actually be good parents, and when you call to take their children away they will be given to foster parents who will probably give them healthy lives but they won't be happy because they're being raised by strangers.
Sometimes it's best not to intervene and let fate run its course
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Thinking about killing myself. At first it was extreme depression expressed through sadness, and although I'm still depressed that sadness has converted itself to rage that I have no outlet for. I want to break something or something, but I don't actually have the capacity to do so unless for self-defense (I don't even kill fucking bugs). So I have all this rage and nowhere to direct it but towards myself because I'm angry over all the shit people have done to me and get away with it Scott-free. No consequences, no guilt on their part, just victimize whoever is convenient for personal gain, and it often times happens to be me (probably my good nature).
It's not that I don't defend myself when it comes to these things -- I do, but the result always ends in only words being thrown because having extreme temper problems growing up where I did act out on anger, I had been in trouble at school and with authorities and I'm at an age and mindset where if I hurt somebody, I know I'll face prison for it. I don't want to live with these feelings in prison, making myself feel worse, and I can't reason with myself to hurt somebody, so I just want to end this race that I have by ending myself and the pain associated with it.
Childhood abuse, rape, being cheated on in major relationships, and no future prospects for a career I can see my content with couples with all the things I mentioned above make me feel like there is very little options left.
I know I want to do this when my brother comes back from deployment within the next month because I don't want him to be obligated to work overseas and grieving. I know I have some time to try and work things out but I have everything thought out, my affairs are being taken care of. I don't want to end my life but I'm tired of living with the pain and anger of everything.
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you can beat me up anytime anon
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>>18505381
A human punching bag would be great.
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>>18505249
Don't unless you just wanna be revived and life this life again but worse.
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There's this individual that I have a crush on, and they know it. The feelings used to be requited, but she said that she stopped loving me (I think). We haven't seen each other in over 4 months, and only had a couple of text conversations (and I got a 9-page letter to them via unconventional means several months ago). The last thing I texted them was something along the lines of "Do you have any new fetishes?" and they didn't respond It was rather awkward. (We've talked about sexual stuff A LOT before, but I guess things are different now?)
I deleted them awhile ago on social media, and I think this offended them. Should I try to add them again to find out more about their life, and hope that they'll contact me? Or would it make things worse since they probably know that they're my oneitis?
Any other advice is welcome as well.
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IMO give up the ship OP
I've been there, painfully so for a long time. It's not worth it. Just give her up, and get on to finding somebody new.
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>>18505252
So should I not try to add them?
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>>18505279
If anything let them add you, or maybe wait for a long time and reach out to them in a friendly way, don't have your last message be asking about fucking fetishes if she doesn't feel that way about you anymore anyway.
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Deciding Between Two Girls
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Hi all,
I'm fortunately(?) in a position where I can choose between two girls to date. I've been on a few dates with each one, and here's the general summary. They're presented in order of when I first started dating them.
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The first girl lives closer to me, which is good as she doesn't drive. She's a little weird (in speech and in mannerisms), but at the same time we have a decent set of overlapping interests (in the sense that we have a lot of common ground, not necessarily into the same things). She's fat and not in the best shape, but she does have a nice figure even so. She claims to be working on that, I'm not necessarily convinced but we'll see. We have good fun in bed together, and I enjoy being with her (she also has no interest in kids, claims to be on birth control, and seems to be in a position to get it on often, which is good for me). I don't know that she'd be a good fit in social settings. I took her out to a social event and it was okay, but I didn't see a lot of interaction beyond directly with me, so I'm not convinced she'd handle a social setting well, which if I'm going to be steady with someone I'd prefer, especially once I start bringing them to family events. We both enjoy simple things, so it's more affordable to date her, and as stated we have a lot of common ground in our interests, so it's easy to hang out with her. I more or less pay for everything though. Finally, talking with her feels pretty natural overall, like we 'get' each other.
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The second girl lives about an hour away by car, and we both can drive. She's more 'normal', and her interests are more athletic and outdoorsy overall than mine (I'm outdoors-minded but am mostly an inside person). She also has a nice figure, but is very fit, and seems to have a nice butt and chest, which I like (the first girl does too but less so). We've gone on less dates (3 vs. 2) and we've not made love but we have kissed, her kissing could use some work but that's hardly a problem. Given the distance between us and that I don't know her stance or behavior on various parts of sex, I don't know how much we'd be having. I do know that she too has no interest in kids which is good by me at this point in life. She gives me a much better impression of her ability in social settings. She seems to have more selective and complex taste, which means dates may be more expensive with her (I know I might sound funny talking about cost in dates, but it is an important factor for me as I have certain financial goals that could be hampered if I spend too much on girls). That said, she has her own means and can pay for things (on our last date, I drove to her and she paid for things as trade, I'll probably reciprocate on our next date). As for feel, I'm not certain; I don't feel quite as 'at ease' in speech with her, as in I'm not sure yet if I can be as I typically am (whereas I never felt that problem with the first girl, we basically hit it off speech-wise from the get-go).
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So overall I feel like I like both girls pretty well, so making a choice one way or the other is difficult. I think overall so far I like spending time more with the first girl, but I think the second girl has more room to grow, if that makes sense. I know I want to date her at least one more time, and I'm sure I'll see the first girl again soon-ish, so I expect to get to know them both more. I guess I'm just trying to look for advice from those who have also had to make such choices.
So if you've had to choose between multiple girls in the past, what did you do, and how did you arrive at the decision?
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I hate talking on the phone. I would rather drive or catch the bus just to talk to someone in person. For example, just the other day I caught the bus to my college campus (1 hour 30 min bus ride) just to make an appointment to see my advisor. I have really bad phone anxiety. I worked 3 years at a job where I had to occasionally answer phones and every time it happened I would panic. How do I get over this? I can't even call pizzahut.
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>>18505155
why do you hate it? if possible you could call me to practice, I guarantee there'll be no judgement.
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Do you mean talk as in actual talk? All I see is texting nowadays, nobody ever talks on the phone except for those stupid audio messages on whatsapp. I fucking hate texting.
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I feel the same way, I drive to school so I don't have to talk on the phone too. I find that it's better to have something to do while on the phone like scroll facebook or be doodling on a piece of paper so your mind doesn't freak out. I guess the more you do it, the better you'll get.
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I'm a teenage girl who has only masturbated to one person, my ex. I have no desire to think of anyone else. I think since he was my first sexual experience, I've become attached. It feels so intense when I think of him, and when I don't, it's meh. What should I do? Is it fine?
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>>18505086
why is he your ex?
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>>18505086
Its time to get laid. Do it safe and dont fuck it up. Getting into a relationship then getting laid is a good idea. Happy hunting!
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>>18505101
I wouldn't be comfortable doing that. It would simply be awkward and all around awful because I just wouldn't be into it. Also, my ex is the only guy who makes me wet. Sure lube is a thing but I'd be too tight for anything anyway.
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How to learn to fight? 2017-07-11 01:08:36 Post No.18505071
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I need to learn how to fight, i've got a punching bag, but there's literally no fighting clubs in my town. Only one really bad boxing club with mostly "pro" guys who dont take in new people.
I dont want to wrestle or do karate. Just learn how to sparr and fight.
Wat do
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guy or girl?
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>>18505071
https://drive.google.com/open?id=0B4_-2eREx5i-a2JITWpJWEhDQ3c
https://drive.google.com/open?id=0B4_-2eREx5i-NDZqa0VPZF9CM2s
Enjoy
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>>18505071
move or travel the distance it takes to find a good Muay Thai gym.
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What does it mean if you're wanting to drink alcohol, but don't want to put in the effort of buying or drinking it? It makes no sense and I've been like this for over a year. It's not like I was an alcoholic before or now. I just refuse to drink but the thought keeps coming up. Help.
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guilt
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>>18505070
what anime is that pic from?
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>>18505102
Erased. It's okay.
>>18505095
But the most I ever drank was once a week. I rarely drink.