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I have a 2000 honda accord and I love this thing to bits. It's the perfect car for me, except that it's 17 years old and over 200k miles and just now starting to nickel and dime me.
Car searching has been the most frustrating thing ever for me, because nothing seems to have everything my lil honda gives me. (For example, what the actual fuck, it's 2017 why the hell aren't power seats standard in every car?)

So here's where I'm having a shit time. I like how small my accord is, hell even the new accord is fucking massive in comparison. I like a small car, I also however fucking love my v6 engine. Everyone keeps telling me "You'll have to compromise on a larger car if you want a v6 engine" but I'm like, if they could do it in 2000 why the fuck can't they do it in 2017? Whatever, I suppose I'll downgrade to a 4 cylinder eventually, since size is proving to be more important to me because I'm having difficulty even fitting in larger cars properly.
Tried a 2013 accord and had to pump my seat up to the maximum height, where my head was hitting the roof, and to reach the pedals had to get so close to the dash I literally had to back out my seat just to exit the vehicle, and still could not comfortably see over the hood.


>TL;DR
Looking for a unicorn, midsized cars with v6 engines, somewhere between the years of 2013-2016, or under $20k. I'm looking for a car that will last and not kill my wallet in repairs. Does this exist?

Alternatively, I test drove a 2016 Ford Focus that I actually kind of enjoyed despite being a 4 cylinder, been getting mixed reviews from people I know who owned them. Anyone know the likelyhood it will destroy my finances in about 3 years?
Also I'm considering a VW, (Jetta or Pissat) but I've been told that VW parts are ridiculously expensive. I was told that about Honda's though too, but they just never break down so it doesn't matter as much. Is that true or is it at least the same as Honda's in the sense they're reliable?

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I'm about to commit suicide and I'm extremely freighted, to the point where I might throw up.

I need advice fast on how to accept death and go through with this.

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So my girlfriend and I have been together for two years already. She is my first girlfriend. I sorta had sex before, but I couldn't cum and the girl and I stopped midway.

My girl had a boyfriend before me, and she says she wants me to have a ONS with another girl because she feels bad the only experience I had before her was meh and she wants to make things even between us.

I clearly have no problem with this, and I think it would make our relationship better because I do at times feel somewhat insecure about it. However, I'm worried that it might not be a good idea and she might feel bad afterwards or feel like I cheated. What should I do?

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GUIDELINES:
Before you post a question, check the FAQ to see if it's already been answered.
Keep questions short for more answers.
If you're not going to like honest answers, don't ask your question.
And please no derailing arguments.

FAQ:
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
>What do girls/guys think about <an insecurity including, but not limited to: looks, physical traits, personality traits, virginity or otherwise lack of dating experience>
There is no one answer. Preferences differ, but complexes are always a turn-off.

>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Get over it by practising and exposing yourself to it, little by little, step by step. There is no single magical moment that will instantly change you forever.

>I like someone. What do I do?
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out.

>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.

>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. You're overthinking it.

>XYZ happened. Interpret this for me please
We're not in their head, we don't know.

>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing.

>Someone has made it super clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
No.

>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>.

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hey /adv/ I just moved into a house. I've been living here for about a month now and I want to spice up my living room / kitchen.

I guess I just don't know what would look good together or how to even start. Any suggestions?

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My dead exes mom added me to her secret sex/kink group on FB. They all share nudes and stuff. I saw a video of her giving a blowjob. Her husband told me he wants to tease me and see me naked.

I find it a very sweet gesture but surprising.

I don't know how to handle this. I'm going to only "like" pics of her in her underwear and nothing exposed because I don't want to seem like a pervert...

I can't believe she is ok with me seeing her sexual side.

I kind of want to get sexual with her.

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I posted here yesterday about my girlfriend who I really connected with at first but who then got a tattoo, became a vegetarian, and then started aggressively expressing SJW beliefs.

I said I broke up with her yesterday because we were just incompatible.

We talked today, and I agreed to give it another chance. (I really don't know why I did this.)

She then admitted to me that she's a bisexual. This makes me extremely uncomfortable. But I can't break up with her again after we literally just got back together.

She's a complete stereotype: a tattooed, vegetarian, SJW, bisexual. And now she even says she wants to get one of those bar piercings through her ear.

I absolutely have no interest in settling down and starting a family with her. She is not at all what I want in the mother of my children. But now I feel trapped in this relationship. What do I do?

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Is it a good idea to get flown out for free to get a blowjob from a very hot girl who gives alot of them?

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I've had trouble for the past 6 years or so with this girl. Were pretty much the same person in a lot of ways which feels awesome. I can Honestly say that she is the only girl I've ever fallen in love with, nobody I've met so far even comes close to the feelings I have for her. But here's the catch...

We are very good friends, best friends, And I have no idea if she shares the same feelings towards me. Me and her are apart of this group of friends about 5 people big. And they're all my best friends as well. She doesn't know about my feelings towards her. The other 5 have no idea either. The catch grows bigger...

Shes considering going on a date with someone she recently met. I want her to be happy, but I've witnessed 90% of her relationships and it upsets me how poorly they treat her, and only feel that this one will end the same. So I'd like to prevent it before it even starts, and seal the deal. Kind of a win-win for the both of us you know?

I cannot speak to my friends about my feelings because we all belong to the same clique. There's one who I consider, and I have a sibling I trust for advice, I haven't spoken to them yet. BUT ultimately I fear of what the girl I deeply love will think of me. I fear that the friendship with her will die, the friendships with my other friends will die too. Again I have no idea if she shares the same feelings for me as I do her. Ultimately I fear losing her the most. So you tell me...

What the fuck do I do?
(Btw sorry for the fucking novel)

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I'm having trouble getting over feelings of anger and betrayal from my ex. I had emotional baggage going into it (bullied for 8 years) and that generally manifested as trust issues.

To get over that, (I loved her and she loved me) I just threw myself into it and essentially worshiped her. The problem was she also had baggage, and took it out on me. Because of my state of mind I just assumed it was my fault at the time and her saying that she didn't love me anymore (6 months go by) and using me I felt worse and worse.

Nearing the end of the relationship I was basically a willing slave, so I cut things off. On one hand I feel like I can't even be angry at her since I brought it on myself. On the other hand she knew about my trust issues, I completely trusted her anyway, and she completely betrayed that trust.

I flip flop thinking about it between despairing sadness, and betrayed resentment. I'm not sure how to get over it. I'm looking to start dating again but I don't want to shadow of this to hover over me in the my next relationship.

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After I talk to a girl and say "hey how are you doing?" what do I say next into order to keep the conversation flowing? My ultimate goal is to try to get her number or a date.

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My (LDR) boyfriend and I very recently celebrated one year. He has always told me that I am the reason he started to believe in real love, because he never once felt numb or lost interest in me. I have severe depression, and that causes me to go into very destructive states. The past two weeks I have been losing my mind over insecurities (him not loving me, him falling in love with another girl, not being enough for him, etc.), and he has been spending a lot of time away from me. Then, he started hanging out with people that I do not know, one of which is a girl that he seemed to find very cool and interesting. This did not help my insecurities at all, and I went into an episode which included me calling him a liar and cheater, as well as saying that I was worthless, and deserved to be hurt, and even saying that I wanted to die. Obviously I don't mean any of this, and when I finally calm down I apologize fervently, and promise to control myself next time. Flash forward to today, he went home and when he got off work we got on skype. I mention that I want some attention, and he says he just wants to chill and he's tired from work. I leave it alone for a minute, but eventually voice that I'm upset that he is not wanting to pay attention to me. He then tells me that I am beautiful, smart, successful, etc. BUT he thinks we need to go on a break. He needs time to consider whether he should continue this relationship or not. That brings me to my question, should I be scared of the outcome of this break?

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How do you deal with the fact you may be mentally ill? I have no reason to be sad other than the fact I'm very lonely, life consist of going to work, coming home to play pubg, then sleeping. I feel like an ungrateful shit because currently my life is great but because I have no one to cuddle at night I don't see a reason to live. I understand you can't find fulfillment in others, but I've tried everything spiritually regarding fulfillment, I think it may be better to keep chasing..

Also, there's no way I could avoid mental issues, I grew up in a violent household, both parents mentally fucked.

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I've never had any real luck with girls at all, it's not that I'm a dick or anything it's just that no matter what I do, say, think, or act I can never seem to find a girl that even shows a flicker of interest in me. I know I can be annoying at times but I've been seriously working on that and I was just hoping for some advice on how to be a more likeable person or something.

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I'm a virgin and don't see myself losing my virginity any time soon. (Not even out of highschool yet) I've masturbated a bit. To be honest, I found that masturbation isn't really all that great. When I ejaculate, it feels sort of mechanical, almost like spitting. I can say that i've felt something that I would call "orgasm" two or three times, and even then it felt incomplete. This has sort of concerned me, so I have a question to all the anons out there who have had sex before a question. Is the orgasm you experience from sex truly far better than the orgasm you experience from masturbation?