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Yes.
It will make you more invested in yourself and narcissistic (which isn't a bad thing sometimes), and you'll feel more confident about yourself.
It will also help you get a gf (eventually), but it shouldn't be your goal. The goal should never be a gf, because it will make your attitude unattractive.
You first. Bitches later.

Yes ,when you are happy with your own progress and hobbies..it wont matter.And when it doesnt matter that's when you will be unconsciously more attractive to potential gfs..

>>18506950
If no woman wanted me when I was a bright eyed 20 year old college student with hopes and ambitions certainly none will want me as a burned out 27 year old wagecuck. I want a hobby that I can obsess over to the point of not thinking about anything else.

Do you like DICK and MEN?

Try doing stuff with other guys, start with kissing then move onto sucking dick and fucking/getting fucked if you like the other things. If you have a gay friend that you know maybe ask him boys are really horny and if he doesn't have a boyfriend and you're fuckable he'll do it. If not just go to a gay bar and get with some boys or something worst thing that happens is you don't like it and never have to do it again and people won't find out.

Tbh you'll never know unless you try it. If you think thats the path you want to go down, do it! Do whatever makes you happy and satisfied. If it does, good! If girls do good! Like I said whatever makes you happy

convert to islam

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>>18506888

>>18506888
CONVERT INFIDEL

And he is right about the loans tho.
But on the other things - Don't allow him. Tell him "Go out when we drink. You can't force us or forbid us." Stand your ground m8

I'm going to guess it's emotionally taxing because:

1. Away from home
2. Will be problematic to any kind of relationship you have, since you're away from home

But I dunno, I'm not a military dude

>>18506874
As long as you're not in a relationship and don't mind 1. being away from friends and family 2. getting deployed to some shithole and 3. getting maimed/killed in said shithole I guess it's not too bad a choice

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>>18506874
>becoming a zogbot to die for israel in the middle east
ok bub

B U M P

Stop being a bitch over nothing.

also do corsets/waist trainers actually work?

>>18506869
Stand in front of a mirror, after a time you'll either accept your body with your flaws and actually look at yourself with a smile because it's not important to look perfect. Or you hate your body enough to move your ass and change your lifestyle to achieve the body you want.
Feeling wanted helps too, and if experience taught us one thing, it's that there is no form of the body that Man (at least one person) won't sexualize.

>>18506932
yeah idk about that first one. how do i change my lifestyle to get a smaller waist?

>meet people, some of them will be girls
>establish communication
>oh, a girl there is cool and we have some sort of chemistry
>ask her out
>go on dates and have fun
>suggest you become a couple
There you go anon. Important thing to notice, this isn't a task like in some RPG or game where you go from point 1 to point 2 to point 3 etc., what I wrote down is the ideal type situation I guess.

1. girl talk to you
2. you say "goodbye i do not care about you girl!"
3. girl love you

Send dick pic

>>18506641
Talk away, I've got a long while. Also, happy bday :)

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>>18506641
Same here, feel free to just openly vent! You should have a fun B-Day!

>>18506641
Everyone has worse days.
Mine just passed. Sometimes you just need to let it all out.

Yeah youre an autist because you think you are emotionless.
You never feel happiness, fear, jealousy, indifference, sadness, anxiety, anger, etc.
Stop lying to yourself you cunt you're wasting your own time for no reason.
If you really were emotionless you'd have no desire whatsoever to live let alone post some garbage on a website.
I dont even see the purpose of thinking this of yourself.
Were you beat? Are you supressing emotion?
There's so much wrong here

>>18506562
? after etc*

>>18506562
I think I'm an autist because that's what my Doctor and Therapist told me as a child. I was diagnosed at the age of 4, and re-diagonsed in High-School (I'm 18 btw).
I feel emotions, I defintely do. I'm just disconnected from them, so that they don't influence my actions. What I think and what I do isn't really influenced by how I feel, and so people see me as emotionless.

Binge drinking helps.

Meditation

>>18506423
What did you learn op?

Break up with him so you're both able to look for better matches than each other.

If you don't care about dignity or honor, keep him around and cheat and stuff.

>>18506404
Realize that being single is valid option you can choose.
>girls value isnt determined by her bf

Break up. Simply as that. I bet you are horny teen anyway.

>>18506404
>"I'm really proud he's with me"
Me too OP and that won't change. I want a guy that everyone wants or wants to be like but he's mine.

>>18506374
Bump

just b urself Anon

>>18506374
I just came up with this; get a headset and a mic and have your friend listen to the conversation and tell you what to say. What could possibly go wrong?

Late bloomer, perhaps?

>>18506346
Not on fourth grade.

And, for OP-
I'd suggest forcing him with positive reinforcement.
"You won't get toys or vidya until you do X and X. Once you complete them, you'll get some candy too."

>>18506335
just give him an alphabet and have like a jolly rancher on each letter and he can have them once he reads the letter

ayyy move to jersayyy baba booey

>>18506266
This, aint too crazy bout italians cuz of the sterotypical nose.

>>18506263
I hate that when americans talk about italian girls they don't really mean us but italian american.
I hate you a little bit OP. Just a tiny bit.

>>18506242
School be hard and difficult. My ex was a schizo and I had no idea until she told me to stop talking to the person to my left. It's only us in the room. Shit was crazy in her personally just snapped it was really draining. Missing you could do is support her to go visit a doc and get some meds. The meds helped but I couldn't stay any longer in the relationship. Two months with her, the first month was great and the second one was TOXIC!!!

>>18506365
Not in school. I'm working and she quit her job. She's a friend, not anything more. I want to support her. She's kind of rejecting the diagnosis, but she's taking the pills, not sure how long she's been on them.

I expect it's going to be draining and take time, but I will help her. I just need help on how.

get as far as fuck away and never look back. can't fix crazy.