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>>18511056
Yes and yes

>>18511070
Elaborate my fellow

>>18511056

tinder has the masses, but as a result there is more competition. Actually attractive women are afraid to post on craigslist because it feels more anonymous, it feels more sketchy and ANYONE can see their ad. its easier to use tinder where you can just pretend its a regular dating site and have like 3 pictures of you looking cute and not seeming desperate.

CL is dead for straights.

Gets boring really fast but you don't have to work with other people usually.

>>18511076
Residential painting? I just get somewhere between daydreaming and Karate Kid mindfulness, and I enjoy it. I am not a professional, though. I've only painted a few times.

My stepdad was a union painter, Local 19, and he loved residential. He did entire walls with a brush because he loved residential so much, and liked the brushed look better.

>>18511037
Yes painting is very repetitive. Dunk Dunk the roller - roll roll it on the screen. Then onto the wall up down over a little up down Dunk Dunk repeat.

>>18511024
Stronger? Absolutely not.

Able to cause more harm, certainly.

All about inertia. Think of a paper ball vs a baseball thrown at you 50mph. More mass means the baseball will have a higher inertia thus a greater force when it hits you compared to the paper one

In general because the fat person moves more weight for a punch, then inertia will be higher thus the force will be greater on whatever it hits (assuming he can punch)

>>18511024
No, being fat does not make you stronger. The reason he made that guy keel over is because of the strength of the punches which comes from his height and weight. It's the reason why boxers have weight classes.

>>18511024
Fat literally acts as cushion when you get hit by something in a padded area. That's its only benefit in a fighting situation. As the prior anon has stated, however, it doesn't really make you stronger. You'll get slightly stronger, as much as is required to require your additional bodyweight and no more, it isn't significant enough to benefit you. Your brother most likely got likely and hit his opponent in a weak area: The diaphragm, the kidneys, or anywhere his unique connective tissue dictates there's tension. I have a bizarre muscular and skeletal system as a result of a congenital defect. It's a hindrance overall, but I have no pressure points and no muscular weaknesses. You could crush the inside surface of my elbow and I wouldn't feel it, whereas other people would experience intense pain.

Stats said, at one time, that one in four people have it. If your feelings are real, it won't make one bit of difference.

>>18511022
If (when) she leaves you, you will be left with HSV2.

It can cause birth complications for your future children, you will spread it to any future partners, and you can never get rid of it, bitch.

>>18511045
Don't listen to the anons who have it
It's not normal to have it unless you got it by mistake not by having sex


Stay clean baby

Oh and before I forget, I would not date a man with a disease like that, not out of ignorance but out of self respect (yeah, I'm a girl) so if you break up and catch it amyway, say goodbye to decent girls

I know you like this girl but the sea is big and you should let the junkies be with junkies.

Do you think she only knows now she has it?. that's innocent of you Op
She can say "but it must have been dormant it's not my fault"!

People should be adults and check themselves constantly, she shows 0 signs of being a responsible person because of that


She knew all the time, she was just waiting for you to catch the feels so she can infect you know

That way you will say "fuck it, I'm in"


Oh but op, you never had the choice to begin with

>>18511006
Before we can give you any advice we need to see some of your work.

>>18511007
I'm out at the moment but I can post a timestamp for proof later

Say you're a online tutor on creglosts/chegg or whatever. Even if money goes direct to you and has someone's info you can make it look like you are teaching someone. If you are getting money through venmo PayPal or the likes it's even harder for you parents to prove it and you can make up whatever you want. Unless you get money from chadurbate or pornhub/ etc then it's a little harder to cover it up. If you don't have your own bank account by now then get one, of you don't know your own legal info then lie and say it's for a scholarship

>>18510997
Depends what you call a "good" job
It pays well if that's what you want

>>18510997
depends.
would you see yourself in that position after years of education? is it worth the time, effort, and money for you? and most important of all, would you enjoy doing your job once you're hired?

>>18510999
Yes, yes, and yes.

Teachers complain about him heavily. He's pretty much a bully.

We're confused, because he's never really been in a bad environment for him to turn out like this.

>>18510971
Take him to therapy, a counseler or psychologist.

Youre mother is fooling herself if she thinks she can do it all on her own. Whether it is parenting style on your mother's part, general family dysfunction or related to his own personal nature your mother can not help hom without outside help.

Children who act out in these ways usually have underlying issues. Take him to a therapist. Just because the environment he was raised in wasn't "bad" per say, doesn't mean it was the correct environment. Children who bully are often victims of bullying themselves, whether it be at home or at school. Was your moms parenting type more permissive or authoritarian? Maybe authoritative? Kids mimick what they see, I swear their brains are like sponges! A good way to deal with this is to teach empathy and sympathy, and also to find a way to get those emotions and energy out (i.e.; sports, art, etc)
Also, he could just be a little shit. Some kids are just fucking assholes, I work with 60+ of them, and the autistic kids during the summer.

>>18510960
wtf is this
anon
look at me
What do u really want
PussY?

>>18510960
god you're fucking paranoid and insecure

friends get to know one another you dumb bitch

it's not "prying" ??? how are you going to be there for one another if you don't even know who the other is?

i doubt she said she has ulterior motives. maybe she wanted to expand on a topic but wanted to do it in person since online there's that weird communication barrier or some things are better irl.

Yeah, seems to be going okay. They're both huge gamers so I'm sure the common interest helps but regardless they seem to be doing just fine.

Yes, many times.

I dunno man as someone who fell for the thicc meme. My dick was honestly too short because her thighs/ass had like 5+ inches of fat between that my dick had to go through

>>18510931
It's easy, get hot, and be great in bed.

>>18510931
But why would he even hook up with her ?

Is she wealthy ?

I'm just asking because this guy looks like he can get almost any woman he wants.

Maybe she's just one of his relatives/friends ?

>>18510973

She is his wife. He is the quicksilver guy from avengers

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I'm even driving past her home town this weekend
I could just arrive with flowers, and apologise

Is it worth it? Did I ruin this relationship beyond fixing, adv?

An hero isn't an option, I still have an aviation career to live for

I'm gonna give you a very balanced opinion, from a distance, here. Sometimes that's best to get through something intense and emotional like a heartache.

I'm not a guru, and my life doesn't reflect any sort of advanced skill at navigating difficult relationships, *but* this is my take on strained relationships

A strained relationship is often still positive *if* it is not monogamous. A strained business partnership, a strained friendship, a strained family relationship...Even though the relationship is hard at times, if it's ultimately positive, then there's nothing to lose. You can have more than one friend, more than one business partner, and more than only family member.

In something monogamous like romance, there is a lot to lose feeling like your *one* maybe doesn't want you.

Still, I would
-not confuse fact with feeling
-try to consider how she feels
-not necessarily throw the relationship away or do anything harsh

DO NOT DO ANY MORE OF THIS PUSH/PULL STUFF. ONLY BE POSITIVE TO HER. If she can't reciprocate, then that is not your problem to take on or deal with. Do you understand? I would like a reply to know you understand this part.

Hopefully you don't see my feedback as trying to guide you in any way, because that would be silly of me, and I can't tell what path is the best for you (especially not over 4chan).

And about her cutting herself

I have to admit that it's a big red flag, even if I don't want to. No matter how nice a person is, them inflicting self-harm to deal with emotions by cutting themselves open and maybe scarring themselves is not okay with me.

I (and you most likely) judge people based on what the say, what they do etc. It's statistically proven for instance that someone having had too many sex partners and/or relationships in the past is less likely to have a successful marriage. So I (and probably you) use these facts about people to signal whether it's a good idea to emotionally invest in them or not.

People turn a blind eye to the cutting thing because they feel bad. Regardless, it's a gigantic red flag.

It probably looks like I'm trying to guide you away from this person at this point, but that is not the case. You have already invested a lot in this person, and you are probably impossible to dissuade (not that I'm trying to), so I'm not trying to dissuade you. I understand how you feel, having had severe problems and having fallen in love with someone who had severe problems.

I've seen really beautiful documentaries about GOOD people who were completely self-loathing and crazy, stories about how a husband was suffering from borderline personality disorder and would cut himself really badly, think about suicide every day.

As troubling as it was for his wife, he kept himself afloat at the same time as he supported his family very well, and I got the impression that he was much better to his wife than average.

So every individual case is different. I'm just trying to shed some light as an unbiased party here.

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>>18510921
Scared of failing? You're already failing, dipshit. Go get a mcjob, literally any retard can do it so it's probly perfect for you

>>18510932
but right now I am just failing myself, which isnt a big deal. Im scared of failing for others, in front of others

Get a pizza delivery job or a dishwashing job at a restaurant. Both jobs were not fun, but I was desperate for money at the time. Pizza Hut is always looking for drivers and your hours won't be cut because you will be needed. Don't worry about failing, I was a pretty shitty driver who had problems finding the correct houses. They tolerated me during my learning process and I got better with delivering and multi-tasking in the kitchen. Dealing with shitty co-workers (the ones who screws up your orders) and shit managers is another story though.
It feels good to have financial freedom.

>>18510889

depends. is there any downfall to the contract its self? if an actor is in breach of contract he loses money. if this was just a temp job it would be fine but contract work has the word 'contract' for a reason. if a guy does a contract for say, fixing someones plumbing then just stops half way through, hes probably in breach of contract.

>>18510898
data entry for a bank. I haven't seen the terms yet cause the interview is on Friday. I am confident that I'll get the job though.

They didn't say it was contracted in the job posting so I thought it was okay to apply, but they gave the news on their first phone call.

>>18510904

at the end of the day what we say doesn't matter. what the contract says does.

>>18510838
as simple as it sounds, its just as efficient:

take it slow

seriously, slowly get to know her before you fall for her, figure out is she a reasonable human being with problems, a nutjob or anything in between that may or not be worth your respect and love

>>18510838
If you really like her you might aswell go with it right?

I think self harm is usually just a cry for attention. BUT, it can also be that you are in so much psychological pain and don't know what to do. You don't want to off yourself because ur not a coward. I tried when I was younger(once, someplace noone can see it). The day after I realized how stupid it was and people will just think more funny stuff about me if I keep doing it.

Sorry for hijacking your thread talking about myself.

Go for it, maybe she's the one and she'll never self harm again. Or maybe you break up and she returns to her misery, but it will never be your fault if she does these things(unless you do something you shouldn't).

Good luck

CHeers lads two totally different ideas but I'll consider each and make a decision

What do you want to do with it?

>>18510825
Get rid of illegal squatters

>>18510831
I take for granted you have already tried contacting your local authorities and all that stuff, right?