So I have this super weird thing where my feet are ALWAYS super cold all the time in room temperature.
The second I take my shoes and socks off I feel them getting cold. I had them together right now getting warm and just after I moved them I felt the cold.
Any tips and/or advices? Thanks
Bumping cause I also have this problem.
I've been told it's poor circulation/ not enough exersize/ whatever (not by a medical professional though)
>>18519503
It's nothing to worry about. It really just is poor circulation. Only time my bare feet aren't either cold, sweaty, or both is when I'm in bed.
>be me
>cozy temperature, slightly warm
>back of the neck sweats like crazy, sleep shirtless
>feet are cold as an iceberg, wear two pairs of socks
I'm almost 1,9m high tho, probaby my heart can't pump it to my feet properly
I've resolved that the only way I can understand how women work thus how to get them in bed without fucking one once or twice.
Is this the time for coaxing pity sex from the several older friends and colleagues I have who honestly do owe me such favors, or is there a mantra I can chant that will keep from neglecting to approach women who unknown to me was to be the performer tonight and the exchange after which would have given the opportunity for a date, for reasons not quite defined but seem to revolve around conversations with such unlikely goals are a waste of time for both parties?
I'm going to a thing tomorrow where none of the women I would see would be performing thus exterminating any machismo I might have had with an astounding voice, so the only thing stopping me from sweating the sheets with a chubby goth with nipple piercings would be myself.
Pic not related but I would like to do the H with her before she becomes physically unable and I inevitably kill myself.
Without might be able to be replaced with 'is by', but hell if I know.
No one owes you pity sex, and if you ask, you will RUIN the friendship.
A lot of your post doesn't make sense. I recommend hiring an escort. That's what I did and it gave me a lot of confidence, let me know what sex was like so I could pursue someone I was actually interested in.
>>18519456
What
Straight up, no bullshit: Why do women move on from heartbreak faster than men?
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/sciencetech/article-3187416/Breakups-hurt-women-short-term-men-NEVER-recover-researchers-claim.html
Take me for example.
I was dumped last summer.
Since then, I've partied, fucked, dated, and had fun with a variety of women - more attractive than my ex, too.
But still, I do wonder how she's doing.
There'll be times where a song will come on the radio and I'll get sad.
There'll be times where I'll get mad and think "I can't believe that birch ruined what we had..." etc
>>18519257
>Why do women move on from heartbreak faster than men?
Because they mourn the end of the relationship while they're still in it. By the time you get to the point of a break-up they have already moved on mentally.
>>18519257
Pro Tip: we don't. You need to get out more.
I've been in two relationships that lasted about five years each that took about 3-4 years just to really get over.
>>18519257
Dailymall is not and should never be trusted as a legitimate acintific source. Click bait articles (like the one you postes) are no more real or truthful then an onion article or a tabloid, plain and simple.
Youre suffering from confirmation bias.
It is normal for feelings to linger. But you should focus on yourself, talking out those feelings with friends. Focus on getting hobbies, passions and working on yourself. As time passes the feelings will become weaker and weaker.
But displacing your feelings on some factless article merely distracts you from what you ought to really be concerned about, you, yourself only.
Hey, Quick story.
>Be me, Beta 25 year old.
>I sucked with girls forever.
>Recently graduated university, looking for a mate.
>Start looking online hard
>Someone mentions I should go to vegas and try and pick up girls for a few weeks.
>Think it's a great Idea.
>Go to clubs, pick up about 4 girls, bring them home and have sex with no condom
>Feels great man
>Fly home, Chill, go back to regular life, looking for a job
>Meet a girl on online dating. She's smart, fun, Loyal, Pretty, lots of sex.
>a few weeks pass by (4-5 to be exact)
> Start noticing bumps on the bottom side of my dick.
>Never been there before.
>Few days later there is a few more of these bumps.
>Planning on going to the Sex clinic on monday
I am unsure what it is exactly...Best bet is that it looks like genital warts. It isn't painful or anything, just look so subtly weird.
Haven't aid anything to girl. Decided not to have sex till it's checked out.
I have no idea what to do. I'm so fucked. I'm so sad. This is on top of a few other things that have recently happened. This is the end of my sex life. and I only fucked 5 girls in my life.
You knew the risks yet you will fully ignored them. This is the consequence of that.
Serves you well for being a mindless degenerate
>>18519220
>>18519215
I just wanted to get better with girls
I'm a guy. I fell in love with my guy friend. He's straight(seen his "links collection") but is a virgin. He always rejects women, basically psychological issues stemming from family problems, specifically parental conflict since he was a kid.
Anyway, we go to the same college, eat together, play vidya together, basically shit that bros do. Being the loner that I am, everything kinda developed on me. The fact that we sometimes joke saying we love each other doesn't help. He's probably straight so I wouldn't want to creep him out with my intensifying feelings.
My problem is, I want this feeling to end. I want him to be just my friend. I always enjoy being with him and I don't want to lose him because of these emotions. I need help.
Read the bible and don't listen to the memes that go, "pray the gay away!" There are real reasons as to why homosexuality is bad. Pls don't give me flak guys, I'm just giving advice. If you have any questions I'll try to answer.
Become a trap and tell him you aren't like the other girls?
>>18519203
get him drunk and suck him off
A friend wants me to go in on buying 40 acres in Northern California to grow pot.
We'd need $8k down and almost $800.00/month on the for sale by owner land.
No utilities. To install them the gov requires a structure so at least a mobile home on a foundation then a 100 foot well then solar panels..
If I sold my home I might end up with $40,000 .
How much would we need to get all this and a crop in the ground worth enough to make it profitable?
Its probably within range of day jobs for a few months but no way do I want to jeopardize my money.
Will the California legal weed market sustain new grower ops?
>>18519190
you are looking at 150-200k, bare minimum, if you are doing greenhouses and if you want to do it right (which you should if you want to be competitive in the cali market). you really need to know your shit as far as growing goes. you need to enjoy the work, and you need to love the plants themselves. it can be done, but it will require dedication and a considerable amount of time. you will not have time for another job, the farm will be the majority of your life for the first couple years.i would recommend against it unless you are prepared to devote yourself to it.
source: experience
Where exactly are you moving?
The price has gone down a lot in the last year, and continues to fall.
>>18519190
What is your budget for weapons, razor wire and dobermans? Grow-rips are a thing...
I have a huge problem, I might kill myself if it doesn't fix itself. How do I explain why I'm denying everything social? Example: even my parents, I tell them I can't go to several vacations or even see friends or family anymore because I really can't deal with it, I have a rare problem I can't tell anyone - all I can do is wait for it to be over or kill myself if it fails. That's why I've been NEET for so long. What is an excuse so they accept my weird behavior?
>>18519170
What's the problem?
>What is an excuse so they accept my weird behavior?
this is all wrong. no one can accept that even yourself that's why you think about kill yourself
you must CHANGE it now
here try read this
>>18512804
video game can't full fill your void alone
our happiness come from many various type of things combine include people around you .
>>18519394
Not OP.
So becoming sexually attached to fictional characters leads to depression?
I wish someone had told 14 yo me.
What job can I get certified for in a year or less that makes me 16 dollars an hour? I'm willing to work at it 12 hours a day so even if it normally takes longer than a year to get certified I might be able to finish it faster.
Why do you have to be certified in a year
>>18519202
Because I feel so pathetic living at my mom's house at age 23 and I just want to move on with life as soon as possible. I'm just throwing the 1 year limit out there to see what people say back. Obviously if it could be done sooner that would be great, but I suspect that that's unrealistic. Perhaps a year is unrealistic as well but you never know. The idea of staying here longer than a year sounds unbearable, I'll say that much.
Take a peek at a local community college in your city.
Look at a few programs that pique your interest.
Don't do something just because it pays well, you will hate life more than you do now. It's easy for you to say you'll tough it out but very few people can tough it out.
See how many of those programs have transferable credits. Can you take a 2 year practical nursing course, make $25 an hour, and then after a few years, bridge into a registered nursing program and make $40 an hour? Etc
Hi, what are some mind tricks I can use to make my boyfriend think we are kindred souls and be his oneitis etc?
Try taking shots of bleach.
>>18519150
https://www.simplypsychology.org/operant-conditioning.html
>>18519173
Can I have examples of this theory?
I need some help. Please.
I was basically fired today, seriously, and I feel like killing myself. Technically I've been only a full-time intern, paid by hour with overtime, for 8 months, but was told repeatedly by the boss that as soon as I proved myself I could be moved on permanently. I'm only 22 but I have a job as an actuary. I thought I had been doing a great job. Yesterday the boss scheduled a meeting to see me today so I genuinely thought I was going to be moved to full time or given a project or something. He told me that he had decided to terminate my employment in 4 weeks. He said basically that the project I had been putting all my time into was not really helping the company that much and that there basically weren't going to be any other projects for a few months possibly, so it wouldn't make sense to keep me there and it "didn't feel like a great fit" for me. I was devastated and told him about how I would work harder and get myself on board with whatever projects there are and how my wife and I had just started settling into the area and this was a huge change and big deal to me. He said frankly that I just wasn't as efficient as I needed to be yet. I almost cried but said that it meant a lot to me to be there and asked for another chance. So he said ok, I could try again for another chance, but there really wouldn't be much work to do or much of an opportunity so he wasn't sure if it would work out at all. He said ok, he wouldn't make his decision final quite yet, but that after 4 weeks he would decide finally.
I'm feeling so suicidal right now. I told my wife, who was just getting settled in this area with me and she was just starting to make friends here. All our stuff is here and my pay was good.
I really want to kill myself with pills or a knife right now.
If anyone here could give me any advice, I'd sincerely appreciate it.
I've been crying so much since I got home I can hardly move.
Hey man, don't end a temporary problem with a permenant solution like that.
You're 22 and your career hasn't started yet. Even if you lose this job, I'm sure you'll find other employment opportunities. Think about your wife. She can't lose you to suicide. That would be incredibly selfish of you.
Wrangle up your support system, any people in your life who can point you in the right direction. Jobs are not worth dying over- I'm a construction worker, trust me.
Also toughen up. You can handle this without crying anymore. You need to be strong now. There is always tomorrow anon.
>22
That marriage won't last long and she'll just take your money down the road job or not
>>18519130
This. Does your wife have black male friends?
>older bro has always been the cool dudebro type that was good with girls, active social life, dude every body liked.
>I was a the complete opposite typical geek type, socially awkward, never could relate to my brother's friends.
>one time get super drunk
>started apologizing to him that I was a loser and a failed brother and how I never ended up being cool like James (a friend of ours who was my age who he used to go play basketball with and do cool people stuff with because like AJ Soprano, that just wasn't in my nature) and how he was probably the brother he wished he always had.
>My brother reacts similarly saying how he never thought of it like that and it was good that I wasn't like him who always made dumbass decisions growing up and how I was responsible and shit
it was kind of gay and awkward for a few weeks after that where he kept reminding me that he loved me and shit.
Did he really mean it when during his wedding speech he told me he wouldn't have wanted me any other way and that he was proud that I was his brother and that he couldn't have wished for a better brother?
or does he secretly wished I was more like James and was just saying all those things because of how pathetic I looked when I was drunk?
fuck I'm tearing up typing this.
>>18519076
Also do you think he chose me as his best man because he genuinely wanted me to be or because he pitied me since it would be my only chance as I have no friends.
He has been a best man himself at least 3 times
My little brother is my best friend.
Your brother is proud of you, Anon. He doesn't need you to be bigger, or stronger, or better, or cooler. He just wants you to be you, and for you be happy with that.
I'm jealous of my little brother. He's smarter, more handsome, and crazy talented. He's pretty much better than me in every way.
But it's impossible to leave your younger sibling without complexes, I've found. I'm strong, while he's skinny. We're both good with girls, but I seem to have a higher success rate. I was also forced to make my way in the world a lot earlier than him, and I think he's self conscious about that.
Point is, I don't want my brother to be anyone but exactly who he is, and I couldn't be more proud. Your brother loves you, Anon.
>>18519076
Dude in all honesty do you really even want to know, or are you find with how things are now?
How do you recover after going through an incredibly humiliating and ego-shattering experience that will follow you for the rest of your life?
>>18518987
Depends on what it is.
Move away. I've moved for less and don't regret it.
>>18518987
More infos needed
How bad is if a person has stage 4 colon cancer (spread at least to liver) and slowly progressing (CLL) leukemia?
Hard mode: the person I'm talking about is 65 years old.
How likely is it he'll see 2025 with the best treatment there is?
Asking for a friend. Seriously, he's my dad and I'm not entirely OK about the news.
Everyone dies you should be prepared for this outcome positive side is he lived a long life now he can relax and live the rest of it in peace
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Sorry, Anon.
I'm a biochemist involved in researching cancer cures. The prognosis is very poor. Compounded with leukemia, he has about a 3% chance of survival. There are some things you can do. Meditation involving visualizing the mass disappearing has been shown to help. Our brains are more powerful than we know. You also need to get him on a Ph lowering diet and supplementing baking soda. In addition to chemo and radiation he needs to be doing hyperbaric treatment therapy. Cancer is hallmarked by poor perfusion (bloodflow) to the tumor and high acidity near it. It's hypothesized by many people to be a variety of fungus, which would explain why baking soda is effective in killing it off. Hyperbaric chamber treatments increase bloodflow in the entire body and the area around the tumor, effectively lowering the Ph of the surrounding areas. Eliminating red meat consumption, committing to exercising every single day even if he's puking from chemo, are both very important for survival. There's some evidence to suggest that patients who don't quite know how bad it is will hold on longer and have a higher chance of full recovery.
I just found out my gf has depression, anxiety, and an eating disorder. After she told me, she's been showing the symptoms more often. She's also told me she's on an SSRI medication. Should this be a dealbreaker. She's fine for ass, but I don't know if I'd ever want to start a family with someone with mental problems. What do?
>>18518794
Dude you sound like you and your girl have been together for less than a year and you are thinking of marriage?
I understand dealing with these issues can be emotionally draining but gl if you wanna find someone with no shitty problems in their life. It takes an investment in somebody and it sounds like you dont love your six month gf that much. Do a favor and take her to the doc and dump her there. Least she can cry to the therapist then, you asshole. Nothing wrong in how you feel cuz it is how u feel but understand you are an asshole.
just walk away
>>18518820
this
I will admit, I am a relatively bitter dude because I can't experience what many have been experiencing forever. A relationship.
Now here are my questions, I think I am so bitter because I am ignorant to the lives of women?
1. Just how many beta orbiters do you have at your beck and call? In my head, I feel like women don't really care about guys that much because there are SO many dudes after them. Like why care about one dude when you can just call another one if the guy you are dating starts acting shitty? I feel like women have a plethora of options and switching them is easy.
I am mostly bitter over the fact that in the past I have cared deeply for some women and they just aren't happy with me. Which is fine I guess but I just don't know how to change or make it better.
I need to hear it from a woman I guess. Just how many dudes are after you and just how easy is it for you to just forget about dudes? I dated a woman 4 years ago and I still think about her. didn't make it very far with her but she was like the only woman to give me the time of day. I miss her dearly. I don't think women ever really think about dudes like that because they have access to so many.
>>18518747
>Just how many beta orbiters do you have at your beck and call?
None, I don't have any friends. I'm a NEET homebody.
>>18518785
You are an outlier then. Most women in their 20's have maybe 4-8 dudes at the FUCKING READY to replace another dude.
>>18518814
Most attractive women, really. The only reason I'm a loner is that I'm shit on the inside AND the outside.