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fucking help anons

>>18520980
>>18521040
1. Cut all contact with him. Don't respond to texts, don't open the door for him, nothing. He's not the same sweet guy anymore if he's obsessed with you.
2. Do you know his friends? Talk to them. Tell them what's going on. See if they'll try to talk sense into him
3. If all else fails, restraining order

>>18520980
you are a dumb whore

>>18520923
Stop being self conscious and just write dude.

Write by hand into some book, the absence of undo will make more precise in thinking about your ideas. Additionally, it's nice to have it all compressed and organized in one "thing".
But definitely do >>18520953

>>18520969
>>18520953

and don't forget: drafts and planning
every storry will be shit if you stay on the first draft and don't plan a general structure

>>18520920
she is trying to make another baby dumbass
give her one and stop overthinking
>Should she just masturbate
nevermind, youre hopeless

yeah it's weird since the female orgasm isn't necessary for conception. you two are dealing with loss and she suddenly shows new and unusual behaviour, so yes, i'd say she can't go wrong with talking to a professional about this or it might turn into something worse with time. stuff like that should be dealth with propperly and immediately.

I think it's just her body's reaction to the miscarriage. She wants to have a baby ASAP.

>>18520910
no, it is not

>>18520910
Of course it is, that's what every guy has to do when they are getting a girl. Girls don't love them immediately. They work for it. However, you can't really, as a woman, make a man love you, or make him attracted to you, or make him want to be with him. You can probably get him to fuck you though.

>>18520954
Idk... women play some strong mind games.

I can't even "soft smile" anymore, my face will spasm horribly. All expressions are either 0 or 100, any attempt to smile gently causes a full on violent twitch into a creepy "Here's Johnny!" esque grin. Can't squint to look through a scope... Can't even fucking smile while coughing. My mouth VIOLENTLY shakes and refuses to move in ways it always did. This happened a month ago basically over night. One day, things were fine, the next, I went to sleep, and over the next 2 weeks discovered all of this unpleasant shit.

Apologies for the massive post I guess?
But all I've been able to dig up are people describing the same problem I have, and getting told it's in their head or to go to a doctor.
When they go to a doctor the doctor always fucking says there's fine.
When they get blood tested, everything's fine.

No one has any fucking idea. But that can't be, right?
I'm not trying to sound like a bitch either. It seriously impacts life when people think you're angry at them because you have to contort your face in such a way to either speak, or not look like you're having a seizure.

I've found myself trying my hardest to have no expression at all just so my own attention isn't ruined from my face doing shit it SHOULDN'T.

I'm not alone either as people in those links have mentioned their social lives getting far worse because of how stoic they look. I'm not even a social person, but HOLY FUCK THIS IS A SERIOUS PROBLEM TRYING TO LOOK THROUGH A SCOPE.

Any hunters with the same issue? Just an example so you guys can get how this can interfere with life beyond cosmetics.

I LITERALLY can't squint to get a good view through a scope because the violent spasming effecting my open eye. Too soft or too hard of a squint and I get the same issue.

It's... really fucking annoying.
The lack of anything I can find on it makes it really worrying too.

Like. There are scopes you can't use with both eyes dude. A whole part of my life has essentially been locked off overnight due to a change with my body that, I can't figure out why happened, or how to fix, because there's no fucking information besides people like me complaining about it.

Now it's not like my face is permanently contorted into a 100 year old hag's scowl, but it's not in my head and it's really making some shit difficult.

Having to avoid the stuff that makes the issue pop up, also effects my life. And I can't just... ignore the issue and do those things because it directly fucks with it. The scope example is the most common and understandable thing I can think of that's real, but what forum posters in the OP link mention, about having to squint or avoid smiling in social situations so their mouth doesn't start violently shaking is very true.

I have to actively over-express, as in make exagerrated expressions just so my lips seal and form words properly lest they start fucking twitching.


Very long posts, sorry guys. But uhh please fucking help.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q2BKOApkz-w
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Yes and no
His complaint is valid but his manner of dealing with it is immature at best

>>18520810
So what should I do?

>>18520817
fuck him more, dummy.

or let him have sex with other women.

or get a new one that is as asexual as you.

> A week ago he says we need to talk.
> Says he is sorry but we can't be friends anymore.
> Says he has developed feelings, he is in love with me.
> Didn't realize it until a few months ago, has been trying to figure out best course of action.
> Decided since he knows I don't want him, that rather than wasting time, energy, and developing negative feelings, we should just break things off.
> Try to convince him otherwise. He's having none of it.
> Ask him for a day.
> "What? "
> One last day where we go out and have fun. One last day together.
> Tell him if he gives me that I'll let him go and never contact him again.
> Yesterday was that day. It was amazing.
> He took me to the planetarium, and then paintballing. We ate some fast food before going on a hike to a waterfall in the middle of nowhere he found once.
> We drink and swim and enjoy nature.
> Then we go out for real food, drinks, and live music.

> I start noticing time slip by and eventually he tells me it's time to take me home.
> We get to my house. He tells me he really enjoyed the day, tells me he loves me deeply.
> Ask him if it has to be this way. Ask him if I let him sleep with me once would it change things.
> He's confused.
> I've had similar situations with guy friends in the past. Sometimes they can live with the idea that they can't have the relationship they want, but can't live with watching a girl they want go on with life, date, get fucked, ect, while she's being dangled in front of him out of reach.
> Ask if he had me once, would that offset the negative feelings? ( I admit I was drunk when I thought of this. )
> Tells me it's time.
> He won't budge.
> Get out of car, watch him leave, cry in my driveway uncontrollably for an hour.
> drink myself to sleep.
> Wake up, call out of work sick, start drinking.

I don't fucking get it. I've had guy friends develop feelings before. Never had they responded like this. It's not like my friend was holding a torch for me this whole time. He's had several girlfriends over the years. One of them was a 3 year long relationship. I was the one that helped him grieve when it ended.

But usually when a dude develops feelings he tries. It's messy, there's drama, they try to find any way to make a relationship happen, much how I tried any way to make the friendship last, even if it means offering or sacrificing things they don't want to.

He was like my older brother. I want him back. I don't understand why there isn't a way to work around this. He's one of the most reasonable people I know. Why can't we find a way to make our friendship work? Why isn't he open to at least -trying- to make things work?

I mean, can he even say he loves me or that we were best friends if he can just cut me out of his life like a tumor?

Don't waste your resources on her, honestly. She's probably just gonna end up cucking you in the end.
Stay friends and go out and meet her when you have the spare time and money, but don't go out of your way to do it.

>>18520915
>>18520915
Thanks for the reply anon I really wanted to do it several times already, yet something unknown to me pulls me back from that choice, idk.

Each time we talk i feel she is lesser standable.
t. she's 9/10 girl which might be why i didnt leave her yet

>>18520989
She sounds like a dick desu. I might be wrong but you seem to want to meet her way more than she wants to meet you (like it's an inconvenience to her).

>>18520759
well if youre never going to leave that bar anyways then you have absolutely nothing to lose by talking to her so just do that

>>18520785
Thread closed that is literally the correct answer!

>>18520785

I mean I could easily leave the bar forever. It's across town, and the only reasons I go is because it's my roommate's favorite bar and I have a crush on this girl.

I know I have nothing to lose, but I end up freezing up anyways.

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>finally get home
>sweetrelief.jpg
>figure that she'll text me at some point and apologize
>three days pass
>check up on her snapchat story
>she posted some snaps of her hanging out with this guy
>probably the same friend she ditched me for
>too pissed to say anything about it
>another three days pass
>she still hasn't said anything about the issue
>I basically have to fucking confront her about it
>we talk it out and she apologizes and things are okay again

>finally hang out with her yesterday
>she starts talking about her crush
>I ask her some questions about him
>turns out, it's the same fucking dude that she was getting a ride with to ax (and probably riding)
>mfw I spent $60 to get cucked
>mfw my crush is already interested in someone else

I'm pretty fucking tired of being pulled by my dick and I'm definitely sick of being single. I've never had a real relationship and I've never been on an official date.
The furthest I've ever gone with a girl is hand holding. All of the girls that I find interesting and fun to be around, I'm too scared to ask them out because I don't want to lose our friendship. And even when a girl is interested in me, I'm too scared to say that I like them.
The last girl that liked me was 14. I don't swing that way.

So I guess I need advice on how to stop being a beta virgin.

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>help me /adv/ I fell for a cosplayer girl
>I interacted with a cosplayer girl

>>18520753
If you can save up 20k in a year without having to live on water and bread, why go to school at all?

>>18520760
I'll only be able to make 12k and I will have to live on Ramen and shit

>>18520760
Because I'm living with my parents

I see that a lot with fat girls who exclusively fuck black guys

Sounds like AIDS to me

>>18520707
Wash your ass more. Sounds like all of the oil is from your torso is culminating around your butt and causing pore blockage.

Do you spend a lot of time sitting? Like at work or school? And then again when you get home?

Wow you're just like everyone else!

Except a little bitch about it

>>18520674
Wow you can't give advice

This is what women truly want.

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>>18520668
You are to carry on the supreme gentleman legacy, it's your calling.

>>18520668
>more intellectually better
>more better
>intellectual

Also I honestly can't tell if you're male or female in that picture.

>>18520678
Fuck that guy is handsome

same shit as that, anon. a friend got the operation done a year ago but I don't know whether that positively affected the other stuff you mention, I must find out.

>>18520739
please do

>>18520619
yes it could play some role in how you're feeling. my surgeon recommended breathe right strips.

getting it corrected surgically will help too, but it might not be a perfect surgery. sometimes after surgery it just deviates again, but I guess it's still worth getting one or two.