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I was feeling so confident at the beginning of the year. I was out talking to people, flirting with somen, making moves it really felt like I was growing into myself.. I even managed to have seduce my crush in pretty short order. I caught oneitis bad and fucked it up just as fast and have been feeling like microwaved shit ever since. I went into a deep depression for a bit and I think I'm on the other side of it but I still deal with feelings of loneliness, longing and inadequacy. My "confidence" was proven to be glass and shattered and I can barely look a woman in the eye now. I've completely lost whatever it was that I and I had at the beginning and I feel worse off than I was before I got with her. I don't despair of life or anything but I just feel as if I'm not good enough to love. I'm sure it sounds ridiculous to people with real problems but how do I get past this?
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Where there is progress there is regress.
Where there is regress there is progress.
Ideally we want to keep progressing always, but mistakes stop us.
It sounds like you have a self esteem problem. You don't think your good enough, why would a complete stranger do?
Confidence is a farce. It's entirely fake it until you make it or you wear some mask of ignorance to be confident.
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everyones confidence is glass
confident ppl get confident because of positive feedback and having useful abilities that ppl will want to use
you will get past it with time, and a girl who makes your willy tingle
its ok
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>>18526703
This is quite normal. When you have, or believe you have, a romantic attachment with someone, you begin regulating your 'self'-value and emotions in relation to that person. You are psychologically connected to them (they represent the possibilities of being in the world you want) and physiologically with your hormones (you share chemicals with them).
It is natural to feel lacklustre; but if this causing you prolonged distress, and is making you have difficulty attaching with others and/or self-soothing, you may need therapy to learn these techniques.
Your turn of the phrase 'not good enough for love' makes me believe you may have a deeper issue with intimacy and abandonment in your past as it is unlikely one sour romantic endeavour would overturn your self-worth so easily.
Have there been previous issues in relation to abandonment? How old are you OP?
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Just started dating my boyfriend a month ago he's very sweet but also damaged. He's been in the mental hospital twice for attempted suicide. He's bisexual and into things like trap porn, bdsm, hentai and pegging and has even asked me to pee in his mouth. I really like him but i feel like this going to somehow end badly seeing how much of a red flag in he is in pretty much all aspects and he's my first and i've never done anything sexual with anyone before him.
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I heard a cliche once
DONT DATE CRAZY
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>>18526660
This usually applies to women.
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>>18526673
Yes, but only because they're usually the crazy ones.
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Should I skip work?
I work in a Big 4. Today starts a mandatory seminary that lasts 2 weeks. I had to do some mandatory online courses before.
Long story short, I didn't do them, something irrelevant happened, the point is I didn't do them. Today I could finish them.
Should I call in sick and finish them today, and go tomorrow to the course?
Should I go today to the seminary, even if I didn't do the mandatory courses and face humiliation?
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Yep
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>>18526614
Yep what, could you be more elaborate?
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>>18526615
I would call in sick and then get started asap on that work you neglected.
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Been together for about 8 months with this incredible girl.
She's lived a very adventureous lifestyle for the past 10 years or so, living and working all over the world.
I might not live in my hometown anymore either but it's not compareable at all.
Anyways, when I met her, "I'm home now too stay" was the idea atleast, but she's had some problems finding a job here: her skills just aren't usefull here.
So she contacted one of her ex-employers in Spain
>"just to see if I could maybe get some freelance work (most of her work can be done from home)
Well, she was instantly offered her old position back over there.
At first she was gonna decline, "I wanted to settle down at home now" but now after 2 weeks of thinking about it this has turned into a discussion of: "what if I accept the offer? You can come with and we can live there for a year or something just to try it out?"
Well, I am open towards doing it, but on the other hand, we're only 8 months deep and our relationship hasn't been truly tested yet, and this feels like a pretty hard test to begin with.
I really don't want to loose her but I worry that this is a bad idea.
What do?
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>>18526557
Dump her ass. Or let her go, keep the relationship. Don't go exclusive (she sure won't) and when she returns, maybe it will work.
Are you fucking crazy? Never move for a girl. Think about it. If you had a job offer elsewhere you know what she'd do.
Don't be a pussy.
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Give it a shot, if you're renting, and you can on sell your lease, then you lose nothing.
If you own a house, you can rent it out to pay for part of the mortgage and reduce your financial costs.
Only issue is if you have a decent career, this will be a black mark on your resume if you leave a decent position for a year abroad.
If you work a dead end job, why the fuck not?
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>>18526739
I own an apt, won't be a problem to lease it out.
I have a job that I am in the planning stage of changing anyways, so if I do something like this the timing isn't fucked wrong.
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How the hell do you do it?
In short:
>I think I want to move to downtown Seattle
>I only have a high school education
>Average part-time minimum wage worker in Seattle makes $1,265.584/month
>Rent is insane (it's, at best, $700/mo)
>I also have a 70 lbs. dog so no micro apartments, I can't slave away too much because she needs 2 hours of exercise a day, I spend an additional $80 to $100 on her a month for food, toys, and medical savings, and my psychiatric team and I are discussing getting her licensed as an emotional support animal to get through the no-dog policies (and she really does function as one) but there are no guarantees
>I really don't want to live in a dangerous neighborhood (meaning I'll need to shell out more money for such a luxury) or do anything potentially dangerous for a living. I'm 5'1" and 105 lbs. and due to my history of suicide ideation, I shouldn't own a gun
How can I make it work?
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>>18526553
>Average part-time minimum wage worker in Seattle makes $1,265.584/month
Sorry about that. The .004 cents shouldn't be there. Also:
>inb4 manlet memes
I'm a womanlet.
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>>18526553
Living in downtown Seattle is for rich people. Kent/Tukwila/Auburn/Federal Way is where you belong, dumb millennial scum.
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>downtown
>min wage
>with any dog let alone large dog
>nowhere dangerous
Get real senpai. Try Bothell.
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How do I win the heart of the girl who shows no interest in my whatsoever?
I've been obsessed over this girl for a while and we've been texting back and forth (nothing further than a good morning and good night though). We have lots of things in common, like we both love vintage clothing and literature. I just sent her the copy of my latest novel, and she seems to like it, but she is never the one who starts a conversation. I exercise, read and write daily, and I'm running a start-up plus doing a Youtube channel too so how do I make her acknowledge my accomplishments without flat-out lying?
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>>18526543
>lying
*bragging, sorry.
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Sharing you accomplishments is a good talking point. Serves your purpose, and makes for a good talking point.
Don't make her like you, you will feel of desperation. Go in with the intent of getting to know her as deeply as you can.
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>>18526543
Can't force it dude.
Accept it may never happen
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A friend of mine who put me in the friend zone told me her ex beat her, swore at her, cheated on her, even raped her several times. Despite all those aggressions she told me she still like him. How could this be possible? I'm not implying she should be with me because i'm a nice and decent guy. I can deal with her rejection. But how can you like someone who hurt you? It's not the first time a woman tell me something like that. Are women attracted by those rollercoaster of emotions?
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>hes rich
>hes handsome
>he got a big dick and able to use it well
>shes mentally ill
>her life is boring, idiot is spicing it up
it can be anything, women dont like or love like you do, the "abusive" boyfriend is useful to her, so shes staying, when the arrangement stopes being useful, shes going to cut it
to put it into perspective, you probably feel sorry for her and want give her a decent time
wrong, dont, she wants to be raped harder, her pussy ruined, face slapped and maaaaaybe a bit of kindness afterwards
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>>18526522
ignore this retard, sounds like a nice guy who didn't get enough sex even though he's a fedora-tipping gentleman
in most cases it's emotional abuse as well, making the abused think that they deserve this kind of treatment because of something they did, they don't deserve someone better or that they won't find someone better and this is still preferable to being alone.
it is also often that they feel lije the wonderful guy they met couldn't have changed so drastically, so it must be possible to change him back
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>>18526506
More than likely and my best guess is that he took her virginity.
Was this the case? I need to know. It'll only back up my claim more.
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What is the people interested in?
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My name is alonso, I'm 20 and I'm from Mexico and I have a YouTube channel of animation since 5 years ago.
I spend from 3 months, 6 months and reciently 3 years in making a single video for YouTube, I've reached just 209 suscribers in this 5 years. Meanwhile other people in internet just upload a video that took them rather less than me and instantly they get millions of views. Some people close to my say that I deserve more views or subscribers than most of the popular youtubers because my effort and my original content. Not just in YouTube but in internet in general, people just find important or funny, silly things or topics, memes or something like that, and they make them trendy, instead putting atention in people that really got talent and I'm not just talking about me, maybe there's people outside in the worldv that got more talent than me and they are not recognized, we just ask for an opportunity, I'm not making this YouTube thing for money or fame, if that were the case I would have just give up on my videos many years ago, like i said, i spended reciently 3 years in a video that only have more than 200 views, so it's not about get something in change but an opportunity and maybe a laugh from you. Unfortunately the videos are all in Spanish, if you know the language a little bit you may understand them. I'm not thinking in quit, in fact, I'm beginning another project that will take me several months, but I still want to know what should I do to reach more audience?, obviously not all the people will love my videos, Whether they like or not, their comments or opinions will help me to improve. Thank you for reading this, here is my channel if you want to see my work: www.youtube.com/sugarbraincda here is a picture of my digital artwork
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My channel> http://www.youtube.com/user/sugarbraincda
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>>18526464
Make it English most viewers in my opinion are the Americans that are probably young so seeing that your's is Spanish YouTube in what I'm seeing stays with its language that's why pewdiepie someone who's not from America gets such mainstream views
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>>18526464
its a LOT harder to grow a spanish speaking audience than an english speaking one. more people speak english around the world than any other language, its strange hwo you can go to the most uncivilized corners and stil lfind someone who knows english just from being on the internet, because thats where all the good resources are and they have to learn.
as for your animation, it looks like it could be funny enough, but the thing that makes youtube animation sell is the following three things
>outrageousness
>quality
>shareability
outrageousness isnt just in the script, its in the animation. look at a lot of the big animations and you'll notice that in every shot they look a lot different. its like in anime when something funny happens so the characters head becomes HUGE and other people become small, and the style changes from shot to shot to convey whats happening in an outrageous and funny way.
>quality
quality, either in art or story telling can REALLY change it all. if your movie had opened with that digital art pic of a sun rising and stars fading over the barn, and then revealed its self to be about a little girl on a farm who has no friends because no one else lives around her, so she befriends a ghost, and then the audience begins to realize that being alone on a farm with parents who don't listen is a parallel for being a ghost, you'd probably have SOME views. not an outrageously high number of views, but legit any decent quality artsy animated short has at least a couple thousand views, if not a hundred thousand. they aren't AS shareable as funny videos so dont often break a million unless they are exceptional, but they certainly pull their weight.
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Can people see who you add or follow on Snapchat?
I've been matching with a lot of girls on Tinder lately and they want me to add and chat with them though there, but I'm worried about my friends seeing...
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>>18526441
The fuck is the point of Snapchat instead of something like Signal or Wire?
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>>18526514
It's picture and video based, which is nice for sharing what's going on in your life. Much more interesting to get a picture of someone doing something. For chatting it's pretty useless though.
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Yes, they can. Don't use tinder
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GUIDELINES:
Before you post a question, check the FAQ to see if it's already been answered.
Keep questions short for more answers.
If you're not going to like honest answers, don't ask your question.
And please no derailing arguments.
FAQ:
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
>What do girls/guys think about <an insecurity including, but not limited to: looks, physical traits, personality traits, virginity or otherwise lack of dating experience>
There is no one answer. Preferences differ, but complexes are always a turn-off.
>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Get over it by practising and exposing yourself to it, little by little, step by step. There is no single magical moment that will instantly change you forever.
>I like someone. What do I do?
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out.
>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.
>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. You're overthinking it.
>XYZ happened. Interpret this for me please
We're not in their head, we don't know.
>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing.
>Someone has made it super clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
No.
>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>.
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How many femanons genuinely want marriage and kids?
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>be at work a couple weeks ago
>woman from work that i never talk to approaches me cause she needs to make me aware of something
>needs to send me pic of something so asks me for my number so she can text it to me
>give it to her, she tells me saves going to save my number
>okay
>today at work she calls me
>says she has jack in the box that she doesn't want and offers it to me
>say no cause im not hungry, have my own food, and hate jack in the box (i really do hate jack in the box though)
does she want dick?
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>>18526425
Is it difficult for a woman to reach orgasm or is this just a mem
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They told me to move my post from /b/.
I'm suffering because of a girl. My life is not in good shape either. I'm emotionally broken.
Can anyone give me some advice?
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>>18526417
Since you can only give generalizations about your problems, I can only give you generalities about the solutions.
Move on from the chick (there's billions of women on this planet - she is not unique) and fix your life.
If you want to get more specific, then I can give better advice.
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>>18526436
This here man. Girl of 7 years ran off with some dude and yea it still hurts, but honestly dude, when everyone says "hit the gym bro" do it. I've noticed a lot more girls looking at me. Some of my co workers are even being more flirty, some even show me the fucking thongs they wear. You'll get over her, promise
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>>18526417
I'm suffering because of a guy, and I'm a guy. I kinda fell in love with my friend who I always do things with. We're probably suffering from love withdrawal. It gets better. Keep your mind busy.
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Where in the vagina do big dicks bottom out? 2017-07-17 08:16:15 Post No.18526383
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Where in the vagina do big dicks bottom out?
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im a little dicked dude with a question about pornstars and women in general being able to take 8+ inch dicks balls deep.
where does it all fit? the vagina when aroused is about 5 tinches deep. i know it can stretch more to accomodate a bigger dick but where do big dick guys aim specifically to bottom out girls with their big dicks? i just watched a 5ft2 pornstar take a 9 inch dick all the way in balls deep. where does it?
the posterior fornix? anterior fornix? what does it feel like bottoming out?
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asking the important questions...
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>>18526397
i have mental issues depressed and anxious about my small dick and i can't calm down unless i find out the answer.
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The vagina is designed to birth a human child, it is a cavity that can stretch and expand in size if pressured enough
No one cares about your dick size as much as you do,
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'sup /adv/
I'm currently 25, Australian, and still in the uni trap. Autism and a learning disorder means that I'm a fucking moron and had to work my way up the chain before I got to the institution I wanted. I consider myself above-average when it comes to information retention, but other smart people still run circles around me.
However, I've been fucking tanking my units since I got there. My GPA is going to fucking suck by the time I leave - consistent failing two units a semester, three with the most recent results. My relevant work experience is too old to put references on my resume for which basically nullifies their existence. I don't want to be studying past 30, but I feel like I'm wasting my time.
What do? Should I cut my losses and just rejoin the daily grind? Or should I persevere with help from the uni, and finish the course in about 2-3 years?
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Talk to your advisor about it t.bh
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Depending on the degree.... Just cheat desu.
If you're not there for science law math and are instead there for something like business then honesty just pay someone to do your assignments.
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Don't waste your effort. Finish the course and get a job in your field.
Even if it's just to hang the certificate on your wall....
Stay strong.
I'm studying my bachelor of audio. And I have Asperger's and it's hard to focus and listen and organise my life.
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Yes, another suicide thread. 2017-07-17 07:51:53 Post No.18526336
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Yes, another suicide thread.
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Very close to killing myself. I did something that broke my own moral code, hurt other people around me and ruined my reputation. I can't bear the overwhelming guilt, shame and total hatred of myself anymore. Why shouldn't I kill myself? After all, one less horrible person on this planet makes for a better world right?
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you wont do it, faggot
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>>18526336
Because you killing yourself doesn't make shit right. You may as well say that you're moving out of town.
Own the consequences of your actions, and make shit right.
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>>18526336
Kill yourself (you won't)
Fucking pussy
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I lost both of my parents and my gf in a single year, and left my home due to work. I moved to a new place and lived alone for the first time. Next door to me lived a coworker. The most perfect girl I ever met. We got really close. Its not just the sex,it was this amazing connection where we could literally stare at each other all night.
She had told me that she didnt want a relationship because she just had broken up and we should stop seeing each other because it wouldnt lead to anything. I didnt care at first because we still had sex. Sometime after some months that stopped.she told me we have to end this and that she met some guy and was gonna go out with him. I raged like a motherfucker.all these months of not being ready with me that we had shared evetything together,but some random guy is a ok?
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>>18526328
The rebound rarely becomes the boyfriend. You were always nothing more than a utility to her, like a back scratcher.
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We didnt talk for a while after this. One day she called me to ask me sth unrelated and I pretty much shut her down.next day we went together with some friends somewhere and in the car I told her that I feel she used me and even if I thought she was the most amazing woman in the world she is like all others. She called me ti her house after this and we spend the night cuddling, after she screamed because she was pissed about what I said
.I talked to her and explained that im in love with her, and I cant see her any other way. I told her that I just dont wanna see her ever again if we cant be together.I was heartbroken wheb saying this and she was constantly saying that im an amazing persob and she wants me around her life, she just wants to be "free to live her life" and not be in one relationship to another. I told her again,if you wont be with me I want nothing else to do with you, and I hope that if I meet a person that feels for me what I feel for you I wont push him away like you do.
After this I dropped her at her house, deleted her facebook and phone number and here I am now.
She also told me she didnt go out with anyone and just said that to end this. I said it doesnt matter, eventually you will be with someone and that wont be me.
Tldr, meet liteal
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>>18526344
Ok. So what do you need advice in?