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Due to my inexperience in relationships (second girl I fuck, I lost my virginity last year with another girl), two/three times before I sent a message to her like an ultimatum: or you improve in this or we break up.
The first time was cause of her complaints about me smoking cigarettes and gaming, I endured that for like 3 months, then I sent the message to talk to her, and when we met up and talked she said she would improve, I agreed and stayed together.
The second time was cause my cousin made a joke, while we were climbing a mountain saying I had a facebook profile in front of her (my only facebook profile I’ve is only for playing poker and my cousin and her know that), she got mad at me and for the next 3 hours she was pissed thinking I used this other facebook profile my cousin made up. She was thinking I was cheating/cheated on her (I never cheated on her even when in the first months we were in an open relationship). So, I got really mad at her for not trusting me, and a few days later I sent her a message saying we needed to talk, but she knew I wanted to break up with her and she came to my house and we kept our relationship, she asked for pardon.

I know I was dumb for waiting so long to say something I don’t like that she does. Also, she brings up these talks that she maybe thinks were bluffs.
Today she sent me a message saying she was sorry for the joke yesterday, I said it’s okay. But now I don’t know how to deal with this. How can I trust her again?
Even if she said the truth how can I be sure that in the future she might stop taking the pill without telling me?

>oohh baby I did something terrible and stupid
>just kidding I wanted to see what you would do
Fuck bitches with their shit tests.

>>18529444
She said she said that cause I asked for the third time. Like she didn't even like the first time I asked her. How the fuck can I know if she was taking the pill?

How do 18 year olds have their own place and own car?
Either way, a friend of mine scored with a girl that looks a lot like the one in the photo, and he had no job and lived with his parents. He was 23 and she was 20. They met when he was 18 though and she probably fell in love with him back then.
I still think love and attraction is all random.

>>18529378
>>Don't be a nice guy.
stop being a fucking faggot like the beta cucks at /r9k/
You can be a nice guy and still get a girl. The problem you have is that you're not confident at all.
You don't do sexually attractive things, you don't show how useful you could be as a partner or how interesting you are. Why should a girl date a man who is boring as shit?

I bought her a ten dollar dinner and she said it was just a snack

I bought her a brand new house and she it was just a shack

I gave you 5 children, and now you want them back!

How blue can you get baby?

kys

>>18529310
Ouch

melatonin and benadryl

go easy on the dosage

also waking up on time

>>18529253
>Our relationship has been pretty godawful lately
let me guess, last 3 months?

>>18529253
First of all you can't help a person if they don't want help.

Second of all she has been visiting her FWB for around 3 months? Nigga dump her.

I know it is your first time with a gf but fuck her man. She gotta go. You learn as you get older. You even said your relationship is godawful. Why hang out with her anymore? Lots of stress will go away when you get her out of your life. You wanted to help her with whatever and she refuses. Cut ties.

PS: Idkwtf you want to help her. Seems this relationship was a nice experiment for you to learn.

>>18529268
this. we all learn this sort of thing the hard way.

i stayed with my first gf for four years, before i admitted to myself i couldn't fucking stand her

a month after i broke up my dad even told me i was always a dick when i was dating my gf, and now, a month free i'm becoming my cheerful self again

>>18529210
how long have you guys been broken up?
honestly it isnt a big deal. you two arent together anymore, it really shouldnt matter who she dates.

Money Over Bitches
Bros Before Hos

Dont get upset that the guy is talking to your EX. She is yo EX nigga

Are they dating, or just hanging out? Your first line implies one thing, then your second implies another.

Slapped her ass and occasionally tits but never like punched her. Why?

usually slap my gfs face during sex, after chocking her

it starts with a gentle little slap then goes stronger, its hot that i can do anything to her and a good way to get frustration out the way when she does/says something retarded before

>>18529170
yes, spanking, spanking during doggy, slapping her face when receiving a blowjob (light hits).

There was a girl here yesterday who wanted to wait until marriage.

>>18529111
>I'm looking for a relationship that would ideally put off sex until marriage
I'll ask you the very first question they'll ask: why?

>>18529115
yup,
>>>18524625

Get a minifridge and keep it in your room.

>>18529102
Ask him to stop

>>18529102
Let some milk go sour and put it in a fresh container.

>>18529048

Because you're both young and she's probably happy because she's in another relationship already and stopped caring about being mad at you.

You're both young, there's time to get over her, it's barely been a few months. You'll live.

>>18529048

>What do you see here?

I see a lot of unimportant nonsense. I think her feelings and motivations became a complete non-issue the day you broke up and your continued willingness to entertain her inconsistently moody bullshit is a big reason you haven't gotten over her.

>>18529056
She is alone, i know that

What do you think now?

Also i was her first bf.

You are very aware but you should have a moral duty.

Something that benefits mankind or others in some way. I remember I was child first taking the bus, and I lost my token. I was scrambling for one so I could leave the bus but an old lady came up to me and gave us a token.

Small things like that makes a person's day and it was such a blessing to have.

Don't listen to that other poster, he's a faggot. Just stop thinking you're so important and don't overthink things in general. Life is simple, do things you enjoy doing, remind yourself that other people are just like you and try to not be an asshole and people will like you.

The problem is i can't, i just dont find it important or satisfying in any way

>>18529028
Fuck her raw, tbqh.

>>18529035

I'm being serious. It's gotten to the point where it's gone from a harmless quirk to legit annoying. I want to go to her supervisor, but it's a small office and she sucks up to her bosses on a regular basis, so I don't know how me doing that will help me. I was at the office before her by a few months if that makes any difference.

She is being rude. It's socially acceptable to be pissed off about this.

Age? Gender? Weight?

>>18529094
Female, 19, 135-ish for good measure.

>>18529112
Do you take any medications?

>>18529001
He is probably just another standard guy, and the only you've love is because he's just there.
I can bet - without a doubt - that if you had prolonged conversation with a tolerable anyone you will love them.

I never fall for guys so easily. Him and grew close and I've never had that connection with anyone in the past.

>>18529026
How old are you now?
What does it mean to have a special connection with someone?

>>18528949
Weigh it and find out.

Alternatively, don't do coke. It's not worth the money.

Lmao bruh first of all don't short people and don't cut. Your gonna get yourself killed by some motherfucker that wants his coke.

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>>18528949
>>18528999
I just bought it fuckwitt, what makes you think that I'm selling it?

Got 2g for 40 bucks, don't know if I got ripped off because I don't usually buy coke but I fucking loved it.

>>18528905
>This has made me feel hopeless, never excited about tomorrow.
that's what most people who
>go to work 5 days a week
feel

you're fine.
well, not fine, it's soul-crushing hell, but not a good enough reason to see a psychiatrist

Classic signs of depression. See a doc and a therapist. Depression is not justt 'i want to die' but there is also 'apathetic hopeless depression' which you sound like you have a textbook version

>>18528914
how do I get myself to feel happier than. Should i find a new job or pull an Into the Wild kinda deal?

>>18528918
cuz this guy says otherwise. I need so I'm at a 1 to 1 tally right now