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>>18531766
Op sory to be the bearer of bad news, but unless the girl previously likes you for something other than your personality (like being a musician or famous) the man is going to be the one doing most of the grunt work attracting and seducing the girl. Its just how it is, if you were a girl and went to the club and sit down you'd get aproached all night. If you do the same as a guy, probably no one will come talk to you.

>>18531766
>I start to feel guilty about using the power of my will to make someone act in a way that I want them to

That's not seducing. Seducing is convincing them that you are fun, cool and sexy. What they do with that information is up to them.

You are not making anyone do anything unless you jump into rapist territory.

>>18531791
Yes that's been my experience too for the most part (not entirely, I've had a few experiences a bit like this, but they never led to anything). I don't know what I should do though - I'm still very attracted to women, but don't meet any who have the right sort of personality. Do I just learn to be the one who makes all the moves, even though it doesn't turn me on? It's a difficult one.

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>>18531719
Look up the videos by either Coach Shane or Rachel's English on youtube, I think both have explained this pronounciation and they are cool teachers.
I personally put my tongue touching my top teeth, and my lower lip right under my tongue, touching the toungue.

>>18531736
Do you have an underbite? I'm trying it out and it feels kind of hard

>>18531860
I do but that's not the point lmao. It's all about touching the upper teeth with your tongue. Then try to make air go between the teeth and tongue, even if they are touching. The rest of the mouth doesn't matter, only the top teeth and your tongue.

It's not illegal, go seduce him

>>18531676
You clearly have daddy issues. It's understandable because your real father is shit.
It's not healthy and you know it, just repress this feeling or you'll fuck up everything you have now

>>18531676
Waaaait a minute. This is a bait, troll thread. You are just describing the plot from the movie Stoker or something. Nice try though.

>>18531517
I should mention I only picked up the phone because I thought I buttdialed her. But literally a few seconds later she calls me- I can't even explain these coincidences...
Oh and she's literally the most beautiful girl I ever saw naked. Maybe ever will actually.

Shes playing games with you.

Just drop her. People like this are the worst type of partners, do yourself a favour and cut contact.

I know it's going to be horrible trying to forget her (i've been there) but it's something you need to do. She seems toxic.

Keep her number but ONLY for the sake of sex or a fwb thing.

>>18531662
>Keep her number but ONLY for the sake of sex or a fwb thing.
That's the thing: i scrapped the idea of having a real relationship with her. At first she implied she's cool with me being her lover. Should I just overpower her the next time? It's not rape if she wants it...r-right?

>cut contact
I did and I gradually felt better. But when she calls I'm not sure I'm able to resist just because of the thought of finally being inside her and seeing her naked again. Not gonna lie: she's that beautiful.

Sorry but this is stupid. Why do you want to adopt a fake accent? I think asian accent can be pretty cool.

Watch American TV and imitate?

>>18531460

Read up on English phonetics and learn the differences between different phonemes. There are good guides online on where your tongue/lips should be when pronouncing each. Once you know what you're doing, practice. Read out loud, listen to speech and repeat what they're saying. Record yourself and try to figure out where you're going wrong. The speech patterns and the intonation are harder to learn, but once you improve, you'll start to pick up where people stress words/syllables or raise/lower intonation. It's all up to practice and exposure.

Depends,is your friend an asshole, could he be a good influence on her and what is the parents stance?

I think you would be a really bad friend, actually not a friend at all, if you call the police. I mean seriously, how does this affect YOU? 16 is legal in most places, the whole "taking advantage" thing is usually bullshit when they are 16 and up. Your friend deserves to have a good time, I mean if he's going for a 16 year old he probably has some stuff going on. You should be supportive of his possible issues and warn him about the dangers. If you snitch on him you are a bad person IMHO. Isn't 16 legal where you live anyway? And what do you mean by "taking advantage" exactly? If it's not legal just warn him about the dangers so that he knows that keeping this lifestyle will backfire. Otherwise let him be. The girl won't be "scarred for life" or anything like that, she's probably having fun too.

>>18531396
Is having sex with a 16 year old illegal in your state/country? It might be perfectly legal. Fucked up, but legal.

Your imagination, stay as far away from porn as possible.

>>18531370
but dont use TV, books or stuff like that as imagination otherwise you might end up a lonely fetishisht

>>18531367
Try my ex bf's method by fapping to your girl friends' pictures in facebook.

>believing in the existence of "souls"

You sound childish and stupid. Kys.

>>18531345
*Tips*

Not that I think your strong feelings are really rooted in rational conviction, but for the record, your argument only really works when other people have no issue perceiving your soul and treating you accordingly. Blaming transpeople for wanting to look like the gender they want to be approached as is kind of like blaming older women in Hollywood for getting plastic surgery, instead of the culture that places an inane importance on youth and flawless looks. Your reasoning is highly idealistic and presupposed an entirely different world than the one people live in now.

Either way, I think a first step would be to consider that the existence of people who want to transition does not impact let alone hurt your life and to create some sort of distance between your opinion on it and your feelings. I'm sure there's lots of things worldwide you disagree with.

Also given how you propose the trapfapping and that it would be normal yourself that kind of makes me think that you have some lingering discomfort with whatever feelings of your own. Like disagreeing with the concept of transsexuality but feeling attracted to transwomen which intensified the negative emotions.

>>18531340
Wrong question. You dont need what others do or want to do, you need to figure out what YOU want.

Google online career test and do like 10 of them.

Ornithologist (birds)

>>18531346
I wanted to know what it is! For iphone..

Cant you call your bank and ask?

>>18531337
I did and they were unsure where it came from as well.

Just cash out asap dummie

>>18531155
you've just answered your own question:
>develop better people skills.

Worry about your own progress instead of others, it's all not that relative anyway.

When you're in charge everyone comes to you about their problems with everything, including each other. If you don't have people skills you won't be able to resolve things. And then if you work with clients or customers, you'll be sent all the worst ones to deal with.

If you admit you have no people skills, then maybe you don't know more than your coworkers who are getting promoted. It's a literal skill that you need to have. Humble yourself, learn from the people who got promoted, and do better next time.

>>18531148
If You don't want virgins help then why come here

>>18531148
Don't try to help. Don't try to solve the problem.

She doesn't want solutions. She wants a hug

Hug her

>>18531156
Because the people who aren't angry virgins on this board actually give good advice.

>>/g/

>>18531142
How old is it. After some age, a battery just won't take a charge anymore

>>18531158
>g/ is NOT your personal tech support team
>>18531172
Less than a year, maybe between 7 or 8 months old.

>>18531139
do you feel you can keep not fucking other girls?
if no, break up, it's fairer than you staying with her but cheating all the time

>>18531139
be realistic with yourself and don't be a twat to your GF

the most important thing is that you should try to learn where the urges come from otherwise you'll have this problem for the rest of your life
the second most important thing is that you should know is to learn if a (the friend is not guarenteed) new gf is gonna be worth it (the risk of allways wanting more, the fact that this one might be a one time oppertunity and the efford and drama of dating)
the third most important thing is that you don't make it a big, sudden drop, have some manners and slowly make her stop feeling the spark instead of selfishly breaking her heart

Make clear to other girls its just one time thing and try not to get caught

>>18531091
It's great as long as you question nothing and never ever plan on leaving.

>>18531091
GFs mom is mormon
Dont join that sect, seriously.
Also have fun being outted if you do something the church doesnt like.

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>>18531279
>Also have fun being outted if you do something the church doesnt like.

What does that mean? "Being outted"? What are you saying, specifically? outted to who? And what would be outted?

>>18531272
>It's great as long as you question nothing and never ever plan on leaving.

Ok, so what happens if you question something or leave? How bad could it possibly be?