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What is she thinking? 2017-07-19 01:43:35 Post No.18534512
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I had a thread that was talking about this yesterday but I want some insight on things that were said.
Basically, I contracted oneitis but I prevented falling deep and my crush told me some questionable things after I confessed my intentions to her.
1) She lied about having a boyfriend to me to spare my feelings. She has some kind of casual thing going on with a close friend and it's kind of strange.
2) She wanted to admit he wasn't her boyfriend but was afraid I would court her again.
3) She would have told me but ended up not doing it.
What fucks me up is the fact that she would have told me and she said herself that she knew I would act a lot more nicely to her. She wanted me to get the message which does make sense but she would have known I would try to go out with her... What's up with that? She has spoken to me in a bit...
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Kill her
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>>18534560
Kill is wrong
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>>18534512
You were honest, she was honest. If she said
>2) She wanted to admit he wasn't her boyfriend but was afraid I would court her again.
Then she assumes you won't make a move now.
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Is there a age where other women will get over the fact I'm married and loosen up and hang out with me?
I thought married men were meant to be popular with women but it seems like everyone in their 20s is still in the dating or honeymoon phase, where me and my wife are in the best friends do whatever you want phase after being together so long
Don't want to have sex with anyone, just be friends
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>>18534502
>Is there a age where other women will get over the fact I'm married and loosen up and hang out with me?
What makes hou think it's your marriage what makes them uncomfortable? I don't know you, but maybe you are just obnoxious. Don't discard that possibility.
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>>18534600
When I was single girls were throwing themselves at me
If I'm obnoxious something must be making up for it
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>>18534603
>When I was single girls were throwing themselves at me
Maybe they grew up and you didn't. You are in your 20's, right? High school, college, and beyond are very different places. Don't assume being popular in one will make you popular in all of them.
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I'm bout to start 2nd year of engineering school and a NGO that I used to participate in offered me a job coordinating one of their main projects.
9-14, 5 hours a day, decent payment with an assistant to help me out. Everything legal, requires traveling within the state with paid expenses.
It's a project I love because I participated on it for 2-3 years.
Problem is school. 15-21:30 6.5 hours a day.
I thought everything was possible with a car, but my parents don't want to let me use their because my dad doesn't like it being used by anyone but him. I was told "You won't use my car, I can't solve your problem, you find a solution"
>No car
>Will have to use bus
>Probably spend on more hour than with a car
>Barely time to eat
>Less time to sleep, do homework and free time
>Spend on Ubers, $50 bucks per week and more on special trips to schools
This is a one-chance thing, I rejected it before because it was full time, but the director of the NGO offered it again with the half-time and assistant option because they "have a personal interest on me leading that project". Without my parents support it feels like a lot of pressure.
Also, is it doable without risking school performance?
Thanks
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>>18534471
Can't you just take less classes at school to free up some time?
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You can eat and do homework on a bus, wake up half an hour early so you could prep some meal, also if the pay is decent buy some kind of second hand car, prioritize what's important
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>>18534471
not sure where you live but in most of america if you check craigslist and used car lots you can get a junker that barely runs but will get you from class to work to home for under $2000
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I've got a great gf. She smokes, watches futurama, does martial arts with me, doesn't care about the noise I make playing guitar, cooks, listens to my conspiracy thoeries, works a decent job etc...
The only thing is I'm not attracted to her. At all. Do I stick with her because she's the best I'll get (highly probably) or take a chance and find a girl I actually love?
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Do you not enjoy sex? Is she fat?
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>>18534397
She's not fat, but she's not great in bed. We've talked about it before but she's only into really vanilla stuff. Id feel bad pushing any more. I'd rather just masturbate honestly
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>>18534393
Stay with her, you probably already like her seeing how you're able to list all thoses positive things from her
And it's likely you'll never find something better
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Breaking up with my girlfriend 2017-07-19 12:10:12 Post No.18534296
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Breaking up with my girlfriend
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2017-07-19 12:10:12
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I've been spineless for far too long. My girlfriend isn't mentally healthy.
TL;DR I don't want to see her again. I'm breaking up over text and blocking her. How do I best go about this without triggering a possible stalking?
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Ever since I committed to her in February, my life has been hell. At least twice a week, major drama happens. She will yell and taunt me to her best attempt. I will respond calmly.
This never works. She does not respond or understand a single thing I'm telling her.
Two months ago we had a fight, again. I told her I wanted to be alone and she left my apartment. I go for a bike ride to clear my mind. As I'm heading home, she starts blowing up my phone. Apparently she is outside my apartment door and she won't leave until I talk to her face to face. She won't leave and I have to sleep at a friends place. She finally leaves after four hours.
After this I tell her she needs to see a psychologist, if we are to stay together. She does and after two weeks we start seeing each other again.
However the drama continues.
I decide to spend my birthday, three weeks ago, at my parents house, in the countryside. This does not please her and another fight breaks out. When I get back, I'm assuming she is normal again. I visit her. She starts berating me for how I've treated her on my birthday. I want to leave, I ask her to let my bike out of the shed in the yard in front of her apartment (a dedicated shed for everyone's bikes with a lock on the door). She keeps my bike hostage until she gets her way.
Last week we went out for a walk and a fight breaks out. I left my things, including my apartment keys, at her apartment. I want to leave and I want to return to her apartment to get my things. She refuses and keeps my things hostage until she gets her way.
She is clearly fucking crazy. Last night we had another fight and she threatened to commit suicide. I had to calm her down over the phone for 2.5 hours, saying whatever she wanted to hear.
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I guess this was my wake up call and now I def. want out.
Over the past three weeks, I made sure we don't have any belongings at each others apartments. I still have the key for her apartment though, but that's it.
Today I have been ignoring her and planning how to end this relationship. I don't think she is stable enough to handle me breaking up with her face to face. I don't want to see her again.
Now my question is: How do I break up with her and minimize the risk of backlash/stalking from her?
My plan thus far:
Drop her key in her mailbox.
Go home and shop food for several days.
Text her "Hi. I don't want to be in a relationship with you anymore. Our relationship doesn't work. My decision is final and I don't want you contacting or reaching out to me in any way. I won't respond. I have left your key in your mailbox."
Then proceed to block her wherever she is able to contact me.
Now I'm thinking about checking what she has written to me on messenger, before blocking her.
I don't think this is a good idea either, I can't allow myself to be manipulated to stay together with someone who threatened suicide to command me.
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>>18534310
Just do it. You'll thank yourself later.
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I would add more of an explanation to the message. Mention how she always yells at you, and so on, just like you told us. Otherwise, sounds like a solid plan.
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Still Sobbing After Years 2017-07-19 11:57:28 Post No.18534260
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Still Sobbing After Years
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2017-07-19 11:57:28
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It's been years since I last hung out with the only person I've ever loved. He used to tell me he wouldn't add me on Facebook because he doesn't add people from the internet, and I want to scream because I just looked at his Facebook and instagram, and a bunch of girls we knew online have him added. He made me believe he cared about me and just hurt me non-stop. Years later it still has the power to make me cry for hours. And the worst part is I still want to be with him even though I know he's evil and doesn't give a single shit about me. Should I just kill myself?
Pic related: What I feel like right now.
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>>18534260
Stop being stupid and engage your logic.
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>>18534260
no. Become confident, find someone else.
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>>18534304
What do you mean?
>>18534326
But he absolutely destroyed my ego. Any confidence I show is feigned now.
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How to get over insecurities? There's this fucking fatass on my work place trying to fuck or something with my gf. She says over and over again that she won't leave me. But she answers all of his messages on the phone. I do trust her but still. Any tips bois?
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If your girlfriend had any respect for you she would stop talking to the dude obviously trying to fuck her.
Your best bet is to give her an ultimatum (you or him) but make sure you are prepared for her to either actually leave you or start hiding the fact that she is talking to him ( and maybe others).
If you do not want to do that you can just watch and observe/ wait until she goes and fucks him than break up with her.
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>>18534216
Also adding: insecurities are sometimes your gut telling you something is wrong with the situation.
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>>18534222
I know that. I may try to wait and se, or i'll give her the ultimatum.
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I'm 30 years old and have ultimately decided that I'm a racist. I try to treat everyone I might as an individual and their own personal merits but I've decided it's easier if I just skip the bullshit with this particular group of people I fucking hate niggers. And by niggers I mean black people. All of them. I've never in my life (and I've been around like thousands of these animals) met a single one of them doesn't have a least a few major negative qualities.
>theyre stupid
>ugly
>lacking in manners
>low skill sets, even at middle/late ages
>lack of natural curiousity
>lack of ambition
>literally needs to be strung along with micro treats to get them to comply with ANYTHING like fucking dogs
>they seem to have a lack of understanding how really ANYTHING works (whether its civilization, a technical skill set, how morals/laws are formed, etc)
>ass backwards priorities (literally sing and dance, sports while they literally starve) with no intent of fixing their own problems
>all style no substance
>most of their 'achievements' (if you can even attribute anything to them) is straight up copying or purely reacting to social punishment/reward. they literally don't even emerge with a greater appreciation/understanding of why humans need to busted their ass off for its own sake for certain things after the fact. they still stay mentally stuck in the 'i does good thing n shit n i get sumthin nice n shit dawg' or 'i does bad, they funna lock me up dawg!' mentality
>every localized area they population en mass goes to shit or never grew out of being a clusterfuck in the first place
>their social customs are fucking stupid and aren't compatible within anyone other races/cultures customs (as far as i perceive at least)
>need instant gratification for EVERYTHING
>same problems follow them where ever they go
>over aggressive with little or no reward
>pathetically petty
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I could go on for fucking ever about this. Now obviously there's maybe some 5-10% (based of my personal observation) that probably doesn't do many of those or only a couple of the minor subjective. The simple fact is, I've never met a black person I didn't like.
What's wrong with just hating all of them given that?
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If you've decided you want to be a bad person already then nothing, just don't try to force your views on other people
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>>18534199
>The simple fact is, I've never met a black person I didn't like
Self-fulfilling prophecy
You haven't challenged your beliefs with an open mindset, so you've only been looking through your purple crystal lens and saying 'hey, look, that's purple! I knew it, just as expected!'
Try meeting new people outside your comfort zone and deal with others with a 'tabula rasa' mindset.
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Just found out that my childhood best friend which I hadn't seen for a few years moved back to this country to my town... 2 weeks ago
Should I even bother talking to her, she had 2 weeks to give me a sign or at least a hi
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Maybe she doesn't know you still live here. You can say hi or sth.
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>>18534173
100% that she knows
her mother was the one who told me
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>>18534033
maybe she is busy? Moving can be very stressful. Don't be offended if you are not someones #1 priority if you have been estranged for so long. If you want to talk to her go for it.
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I think interracial couples are better than same race couples. They usually have better looking children with a more diverse Gene pool, larger tolerance level for different orientations of people and generally just seem more interesting. I always told myself I would be with someone outside my race for this reason, but found love with someone of my same race which is causing a conundrum. Any advice?
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>>18534009
Well which is more important?
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>>18534009
if this isn't bait, do you care more about your emotions and feelings or about pushing an agenda that your single relationship won't have much influence on anyway?
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>>18534035
My relationship is more important. I just need help in not feeling like I'm missing out by not being in a interracial relationship. All my friends and coworkers are with someone of another race and always have tons of interesting stories about their partners heritage and the joys of mixing with a new culture. I guess I just feel plain in comparison.
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Can anyone help me in figuring out what these spots are?
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This is near my genitals
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>>18533967
Can't you just go to a hospital?
Preferably a dermatologist
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Oh I've seen this before, it's pretty bad it's pretty much herpes except it kills you it will be painful so it's best to off yourself now
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Any job interview advices?
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>>18533921
Be yourself, rehearse absolutely nothing.
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>>18533931
Great adv for not getting a job. And now i have to give adv to counter your shit adv.
OP, think long and hard about what kind of an employee they want to hire, their expectations, etc,. prep being that employee mentally and you'll do fine during the interview. In short, tell them what they want to hear.
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>>18533951
How do I know what kind of an employee they want?
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Hello everyone. Sorry for my poor english.
How can I kill myself slowly. You know, like taking some pills that fuck up my body, so when something happens, everybody thinks it was natural.
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Anything that kills you slowly like that will either be painful, or will leave you a vegetable instead of actually killing you.
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>>18533912
Alcohol and tobacco?
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ricin
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I have, right now, around 30 or so marbles up my ass. Are there any health risks so far that I haven't accounted for? They can't get stuck, because they are very small and round, so they can come out easily. Even if they get lost, they can only travel so far with hitting a blockade of shit and being assimilated and moved downward. They are very clean and I've checked each of them for any cracks or scratches. This is the third time I have done this Are there any possible dangers to doing this?
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They are actually a good way to stay awake too. I can really fall asleep because of the mild pressure, and subconsciously I guess I can't sleep because I feel that they are dangerous to have within me. When I jump up and down, and I hear the muffled click of two marbles hitting one another.
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>>18533864
Dude you are shoving 30 marbles in your ass.
When you were a kid and dreamed of being a famous dude - it's now happened
You will for me for ever be know as the dude who shoved 30 marbles in his ass
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>>18533864
What the fuck OP
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Okay so my best friend just found out his gf has been cheating on him with some trashy kebab for half a year.
She's talking to him right now begging him to stay with her, although we found messages from her to kebab saying she doesn't regret cheating and that she would do it again.
But my friend has trouble letting it go and I'm afraid he'll stay with her because he's a bit too dense to see that she doesn't love him and only wants his money. (he has a good paying job and she doesn't want to work, and she wanted to move in with him in a few months)
How can I save my friend from getting cucked? I feel really sorry for him, he's a good guy and really deserves better than this skank.
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>>18533823
>kebab
>cucked
If you insist on using /pol/ lingo, maybe ask /pol/?
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>>18533823
>how can i save my friend
Introduce him to moar girls.
>>18533830
Go back to plebbit, faggot.
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>>18533823
Go out and get him laid
Go to a college party or something and fuck